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writes:I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago for a stupid reason. We were together almost a year and a half and I love him more than anything and I know he loves me too. The problem is he says that I hurt him really bad and he just needs time to deal with it. Now he won't talk to me and im worried that its over for good. My heart is broken and I just want to make things better between us and be together, but I just don't know how to go about getting him back, I need help?
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reader, gracious  +, writes (19 February 2008):
hie dear. i know how it feels. I broke up with my 9 months boyfriend, I know its hard to let go but i have learnt to cope with it. Give him time and also set time for yourself as well. And its in this period that you will evaluate whether that relationship is worth or not. gal take heart and be optimistic that the relationship can end or you can rekindle it to greater heights.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): Hie dear. I know how it feels. I have been through the same. We broke up 3 weeks with my boyfriend. Ask yourself my dear. Do you love this man, and i would advice you to be optimistic. Its has been hard for me to let go but finally am in the process of moving on. Its painful but i think its nice you give him time. If love was meant to be between the two of you it will be. But be open and accept to move on in case he decides to break the relationship. Again take your time also and evaluate the relationship you had with him. Was it worth, was it leading somewhere, and make your decision to move on. sorry i know how it feels.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 February 2008):
 If he loves you , he will come back for you .
If you love him , you will have to let him go.
If he does not come back, then he is somebody's.
If he comes back , then he belongs to you.
Wait till the tempest blows over and when the weather is calm , he will come back to you and you will receive him with open arms.
Learn from your mistakes and do keep issues in the proper perspectives. Whenever you do argue , do not get personal.
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reader, Devilish Angel +, writes (19 February 2008):
 What did you do? Sometimes, no matter how much we want something, it wasn't meant to be. Sometimes, letting go and moving on is all we can do. If it really is love, if it is really meant to be, he will heal and come back to you. Just don't want him back because you've been together for a long time. Ask yourself if you really love him or do you love the stability of your relationship or what he would do for you?
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (19 February 2008):
 Hi,
It all depends how you "hurt him really bad". If you were unfaithful to him chances are he won't want you back and you will just have to learn your lesson and move on.
But if it was simply a case of things you said to break up with him - my suggestion is to give him a little bit more time first - at least another week or two.
Then write him a letter - not a text message with abbreviated words which have no heartfelt meaning at all - a hand written heartfelt letter. Explain how much you valued your time together, how the good times outweighed the bad times, how much you love him and you think he loves you, that you can work over your problems like any other couple. But most importantly how sorry you are.
Good luck.
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reader, ifsa  +, writes (19 February 2008):
 go up to him and apologise for what u have said to him and if he needs time then give him time to think good luck
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