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16, pregnant, BF wants me to go in for an abortion...

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Question - (15 April 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 April 2011)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im 16 and im pregnant i told my boyfriend about it and he told me to go for an abortion but i dont want to because just thinking about it maker me sad but i want him to be happy but yet i dont want to disapoint my parents plz help me what should i do?

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A female reader, seniorfreshy14 United States +, writes (20 April 2011):

i'm younger then you but i know a lot about young pregnancy. talk to your bf and ask him why abortion? then if you don't think that keeping the baby is an option then think about adoption. it will give your baby a good life and you can even have oppurtunities to get pictures and visits! its not going to be easy, but just hang in there and think of every option!

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A female reader, DanceInTheDark Canada +, writes (16 April 2011):

DanceInTheDark agony auntDon't get an abortion if YOU don't want to. It's YOUR body, so it's YOUR choice.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011):

I wouldn't do the abortion because once you get older and wiser you will regret that for the rest of your life and you wont be able to go back and undo it. I wouldn't do that to please him.

I'm sure once your parents find out about it they will be very disappointed but they will get over it once the little pretty baby is here but you will never get over having an abortion. I would put it up for an adoption before i do that and on the other hand I would do every thing I can to stay in school and get a part time job to take care of my baby and the daddy is going to have to stay in school and get a job also, its going to be his responsibility to help you with this child.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011):

I hate abortions but a child is a big responsibility, your young a baby that doesn't need to be taking care of one, think about school .

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