The guy I like is flirting with my friend!

A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi I usually don't do things like this but I truly just want someone's help. You see I REALLY like this guy in my school. He's one of my bestfriends and I am positive I don't want to let this go, I want to somehow be with him. The problem is for a while I could almost garantee he liked me. This went on for almost a month. Then my friend, Mallory, and I hung out with him and his friends. This became a usual thing and she started to flirt with him. She told me she liked someone else but she just continuously flirts with the guy I like, when she knows I like him. I've always had troubles with her flirting with guys I like but I got over it and don't care. It doesn't bother me most of the time, but the guy I like flirts back with her now. I could always make her stop but I don't because if he does like her I don't want to be controlling and even if he doesn't I don't want to get freaked out. But it really bugs me and I don't know how to approach this. I keep thinking I missed my chance and he is moving on,to her, but then I think positively and say I'm jumping to conclusions. I honestly have no idea, he's hard to understand completly, and I help on a way to figure this all out.

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