Why do I get so mad when he wants to hang with the guys instead of me?
Q. My boyfriend and I spend tine together all the time and we always have fun. We know that we cant be around each other 24/7 because we tend to get annoyed with each other and argue. Last week we spend time Sunday- Thursday after work going out to ...
A. 2 August 2010: It's healthy to have time apart in a relationship. you need to find a really good hobby. You can't be with him every second of the day so get over it or you'll drive him away.
Besides a man CAN NOT be your whole life. he has to complime... (read in full...)
I don't feel I should have to prove myself to him!
Q. i'm 27 years old and my boyfriend has been in prison since june 8 2007 and every single day i wait on him in every way. When i dont talk to him i feel so sick and my life feels empty.Here lately he has been thinking there is someone else in the ...
A. 2 August 2010: now why are you letting somebody in prison control your life? this samething happened to one of my friends. her man was in jail for 5 years and she was right there by his side visiting and putting money on the books. then when he got out... he left ... (read in full...)
I found a message on her cell phone from a guy getting straight to the point...cheating!
Q. I am a father of a one year old, and I think my girlfriend, the mother of my child, is cheating on me. Why? Because I found a text message on her phone, from some guy I've never met, that went as follows: "Do you want to f*ck?". Seems pretty ...
A. 2 August 2010: talk to her about it anyways because this is serious. if she dances around it and never answers the question then forget patching it up because she's steppin out on you. and if that's the case how do you know if your child is yours? what did she say ... (read in full...)
Married, fell for someone else and haven't heard from him. What should I do?
Q. I am a married woman and I fell in love with someone else. I haven't heard from him in awhile but i know he cared for me too... Im confused as should i presue him or not??? I miss him so much it hurts i cant think straight,,...
A. 2 August 2010: get a divorce and let your husband find somebody that's not gonna step out on him.... then you can go find the mystery guy.... (read in full...)
Do I respond to an email from a 14 year old when I'm 30?
Q. I got to work this morning to find an email that I don't know what to do with, so I'm looking for some help here. It's from a girl who I'm pretty sure has a crush on me. I'll give you a little backstory. I work for a local bank. I used to manag...
A. 2 August 2010: I wouldn't respond at all. it just sounds really weird to me that a child wants to keep in contact with some grown man that isn't related to her. and SHE isn't a customer... her PARENT is, so you aren't obligated to talk to her at all. leave this ... (read in full...)
Straight BF seeks M2M
Q. My bf of 3 yrs who is 6 years younger than me recently posted an ad on Craigs List seeking for a m2m encounter. He claims he was curious to see what the difference if any was between receiving head from a man than a women. I believe this is the ...
A. 2 August 2010: Sounds like your man is on the DL (down low). He probably really is curious which means that he is gay. I've never met a straight man who wants to get head from another guy.
You may want to split up and tell him that it safe to explore his curi... (read in full...)
Addicted to masturbation and exhibitionist. Am I normal? What can I do?
Q. Ok, I'm a 18 year old guy and I've been wanking about 3x daily since I was 14. It used to be just when I was bored or in my room, but lately I have been feeling horney all the time. I've tried wanking more often (in school even) but that did not...
A. 2 August 2010: I dont think that there is anything wierd or strange about you. so what if you wack off a bunch. and people watch porn all the time. I don't know why the posters are acting like you're going in the middle of a crowded subway and waxin it. if people ... (read in full...)
What to do. I'm in a two and a half year relationship and I'm falling out of love.
Q. I've been in a two and a half year relation ship. I care about her so much but i'm falling out of love. I just haven't been happy the past few month. the fights over the littlest things. comments always in a nasty tone. talking about what we co...
A. 2 August 2010: Relationships always go in cycles... just like everything else in the world. You got to stick through the good and the bad. so since you both know what the issues are it's time for some corrective behavior. since she obviously wants to work thi... (read in full...)
Do I leave my family and my life to go be with my cousin?
Q. I've always felt attracted to my cousin she's 18 now and I'm 20 but ever science we were little we've always hung out together and I always had to fight the urge to reach out and kiss get. But that changed when she was 16 and we where at a party ...
A. 2 August 2010: nope not a good idea at all.... (read in full...)
3 times I've asked him to go out but he always cancels!
Q. I met this guy on my birthday at the resort we were staying at (he works there) well that night we kinda hit it off and we talked for hours well then he went home but we stayed up til 3 a.m. texting. The next day we hung out and had a lot of fun! ...
A. 2 August 2010: still be friends with him just let HIM initiate taking YOU out. if he doesn't than he just wants to be friends.... (read in full...)
How do you kick an mastibation habit?
Q. I m 19 yrs guy..i started masturbating since 15 yrs of age..at tht time it was jst a fun for me,but now it had become my habit..now i masturbate once in 2 days..i have become lean and skinny..i cant control this habit..i want to get rid of this ...
A. 2 August 2010: I don't think that once every 2 days is too much. some people do it a couple times a day. self pleasure isn't something to be ashamed of. do it whenever you feel the urgue. ... (read in full...)
How do I get out of this situation? I am married and have fallen for my online lover, and neither man knows the truth about me!
Q. I am 40 years old marrried with 2 children. I am in a stressful job and living with my family and mother. My husband never proposed to me and we were basically led into marriage. Lately, I have been regretting my current life and wishing for ...
A. 2 August 2010: You really don't have a relationship with the online guy. and he doesn't have feels for or want to see you... he want to see the person you pretended to be. just stop talking to him all together.
And the other post is right. talk to your husband ... (read in full...)
I feel unloved and useless ever since we have moved in together
Q. I have recently moved in with my boyfriend of 2 years, we have always argued due to my insecurites, his ex, work mates and the amount of time he spends with his family rather than with me but since we have moved in i feel that i have become more ...
A. 2 August 2010: sounds like you 2 didn't really think about what actually happens when you move in with someone else. they don't change at all.. in fact you get to see the REAL them. and if this is really him then you need to move out and try it from a distance so ... (read in full...)
Is my fetish normal?
Q. I'm an 18 year old boy and I have a fetish. I love dressing up in girls underwear and making my partner (female) dress up in mine. We then switch roles in the bedroom. My gf thinks ita hot but she is bi and wants to invite another bi girl ...
A. 2 August 2010: No such thing as normal when it comes to sex. if this other chick is cool then she'll understand and all of you can have a great time.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says I have to plan every minute of our time together otherwise he has the right to play World Of Warcraft all day!
Q. I need some outside perspective here.. My boyfriend plays world of warcraft and he is obsessed. he plays every day for hours. The only time we see each other is the weekend and when i get there he will constantly play. He told me last time i was ...
A. 2 August 2010: Not it's not fair... Dump him! If he can't get off the computer and actually want to be with you then you need to find someone who will.... (read in full...)
How long should a guy last in bed?
Q. To the ladies what's the least a guy should last in bed?...
A. 30 July 2010: Well I start to chafe(sp) after about 15 mins. my bf has lasted for about an hour before and i told him that all that time is a little painful. so about 15 is good for me.... (read in full...)
I have warts, and can't touch myself, how can I release sexual tension?
Q. Why am I so horny ALL the time? Is there any way to release my sexual tension without sex or masturbation(I have warts on my fingers so I don't like it)...
A. 30 July 2010: buy a vibrator and stimulate your clit. TADAAA!! no touching and no sex.... (read in full...)
I'm very insecure about my penis size.
Q. lookin for advice from any ladies,iam a decent lookin guy, but my penis is 6 inches long and only 4.5 inches around.iam very insecure of it,any advice?...
A. 30 July 2010: first of all you have really good size. but i've discovered that a lot of guys think they're small when they arent like my bf who is like 8 inches keeps talking about he's small. You guys keep looking at those pornos thinking that every woman likes ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend gags when she tries to give me head! Is there anything I can do to help her?
Q. Hello all I need your advise my girlfriend says she can't give blowjobs as she gags on my penis his 6 and a half inches and was wondering if there's owt could do to stop her gagging on him as she won't do them know more because of it Is it me am I ...
A. 30 July 2010: maid Marian vetbabe is absolutely right. just let her suck the head and do the little circle thing wit her hands on the shaft. if she really wants to try taking it all just let her do it to you... but maybe she can't turn off that gag reflex.... (read in full...)
What's so good about big penises?
Q. Granted I myself am not very well equipped, unless you consider 5 inches long and 4 inches in girth as well equipped, I don't understand what's so great about big penises and why girls seem so attracted to them. Do big penises actually feel be...
A. 30 July 2010: hey big dicks are pretty great but i can appriciate a smaller one too, it can be more comfy than a big ol' huge one. but for me if you're under 5 inches you'd better find out how to give great oral sex. lol... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I had sex with someone else during the break?
Q. I have been dating the same guy for 2 years. One time when we broke up he had sex with one of his good friends and I didn't find out till 6 months later. we broke up for about 3 weeks because i said i couldnt handle it but during those 3 weeks i had ...
A. 30 July 2010: don't tell him if he doen't ask. no point in giving up the info if he doesn't even wanna know. plus you guys were broken up anyways. just move on forward ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my boyfriend going into the military?
Q. I'm currently in a relationship with my 23year old 2nd cousin and he is going into the military and I don't know how to react to that. we have had sex many times and that makes it even worse because I won't get to see him yet I want him more and ...
A. 30 July 2010: did anybody catch the part where she says that this is her 2nd cousin??? I mean eww... (read in full...)
Who gave me this STD? Was it my cheating ex or my 1st love?
Q. I was with this guy for little over a yr. We met in dec and by the end of Feb we were having sex. He cheated on me with his ex in apr. She stated she was pregnant and he didnt deny it. I was hurt so i left. He kept calling and sending me ...
A. 30 July 2010: Tell them both to get checked and be more careful next time.... (read in full...)
Do I tell him that I love him? Or do I hide it seen as he has a girlfriend and is going to a different college?
Q. I recently connected with a guy. We talk everyday and all night. I knew he had a girl friend and i respected that. I even kept my distance. The other day he insisted that we meet up before we both leave for college so i did. It was amazing. We went ...
A. 30 July 2010: wow everybody said it already. he can't be that good if he's cheating on his girl. plus you're going off to college anyways so meet a cool guy there and leave this one alone.... (read in full...)
Who should I be with?
Q. I have been going out with this guy and we dont really get to see each other as much. We have never been intimate with eachother. I thought when we first start talking that I was so lucky to be having a chance to go out with him. But now that ...
A. 30 July 2010: Ask oldsister is correct. just erase em both and start over. your bf isn't much of one and this other guy is far far away sooooo... yeah start over... (read in full...)
Do you women think this could have happened?
Q. Hello, i'm older male that is wanting to know about something that happened yrs ago. I recently caught my wife in a terrible lie! When my naive gf went upstairs with a guy at a party to talk she told me that they made out, he touched her bare ...
A. 30 July 2010: amazingly enough women do have the ability to have a penis right "there" and say no. i've personally had that happen before... i mean yeah it happens. but like the last post said you've guy have been married for years. just forget about it and move ... (read in full...)
Un motivated boyfriend.
Q. Okay so i am almost 16 years old with a 19 and a half boyfriend. We have been going out for a year and a half. Last year he enrolled in a college thirty minutes from the town we live in and he lived in a dorm. His parents have insisted on paying his ...
A. 30 July 2010: sounds like your bf is lazy and it's probably won't get any better anytime soon. he needs a wake up call and you need a younger guy to be with.
i know it's cool to be with an older guy and you "love" him and all of that but you deserve better. i do... (read in full...)
Is he only interested in having a sex buddy?
Q. Hi i really need a second opinion on this! I've met this guy thru a cousin of mine they work together. He's a really nice guy, clever and funny and we get on great for most part!at first i wasn't sure about him beacause he's not really my type b...
A. 30 July 2010: yeah sound like you nee to just talk to him. if you want more and he's not feeling it then you need to find somebody who is.... (read in full...)
My fiance just feels like an excellent roommate, nothing else
Q. My fiance and I have been together for 2 yrs, and 7 months. And, We keep arguing, like, coming back to the same argument, over and over again. He expects me to change my whole personality for him. Because, I am a quiet person, but he wants me to be ...
A. 30 July 2010: You need to go on ahead and bow out of this relationship. he's a complete jerk. If you think that the resentment of his son will change then you're fooling yourself and yes it is because you're 19 i'm sorry to say. You feel like you should be the ... (read in full...)
I had an abortion over 2 months ago and its killing me!!!
Q. Hey, i made the silly mistake of having unprotected sex with my boyfriend and as a result became pregnant. I never found out i was pregnant until i was over 7 weeks gone like the feeling sick and tiredness etc. I had missed my period so decided to ...
A. 30 July 2010: I've gone through the same thing and you never really get over it but it does get better over time. try writing all your feelings down in a journal and see if that helps. if not then find a support group.... (read in full...)
Are soulmates always destined to be together?
Q. *OP's Original Title* Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl, and about 4 months ago I've met a guy one year younger than I am. Initially it started as friendship, but soon enough we developed a very strong bond, and we started hanging out more and more unt...
A. 30 July 2010: Sometimes people do find their soul mates very young and are separated for one reason or another. Sometimes it's fo the best because people nee time to grow and find out who they want to be. Later on in life they meet back up again when they're more ... (read in full...)
One of my breasts is much larger than the other.
Q. I have a lot of problems and don't know where to begin but I guess I'll just start. I have one breast that is much larger than the other one. In school kids called me quasimodo. I have to be specially fitted for bras. I have never had sex. I am ...
A. 30 July 2010: I have the exact same problem with my breast. One is a C cup and one is a DD cup and it's very noticable so i know what you're going through.
Have the reduction like YOU want. You probably wont be with him forever cuz he sounds like a real jer... (read in full...)
Help!!! I don't know where I stand with him. Should I text him back?
Q. I was texting this man for 2 months, he used to text me every day and we had met up a couple of times but not lately, so last week I asked him in text where we stood and he replied "not too sure I find its best not to worry about it and go with the ...
A. 30 July 2010: First of all texting isn't dating so please believe that after 2 months of texting that you dont "stand" anywhere. just calm down and text to him like normal.... no harm in that. but get out there and find somebody who actually wants to SEE you.... (read in full...)
He says he can't love before sex!
Q. My boyfriend has this thing, where he feels like he can not love me until we have had sex. He says, that it's not like he doesn't want to he just can't, and he thinks it's the only thing holding him back. I want to know if any one else feels this ...
A. 30 July 2010: He's feeding you a bunch of bull. either that or he hasn't really learned how to love somebody. don't have sex with him just because you want him to love you.... (read in full...)
Why does my ex feel like he must rub his life in my face?
Q. Well me and my ex broke up beginning of the year, he dumped saying that he didnt have feelings for me anymore. I accepted it and just ignored him and went on with my life. Then about 2 or so weeks after that he started trying to get me to talk to ...
A. 29 July 2010: He is clearly jealous. just continue to ignore him and move on.... (read in full...)
I want more than that but not sure show to play it?
Q. I met this guy on a dating site about 3 months ago. We have met about 8 times and get on really well. After the first date he said that although he fancied me he would prefer to become good friends and see what happened. I was fine with that but we ...
A. 29 July 2010: Sounds like he only wants to see you casually and he's probably seeing other people. So if you are looking for something more and he clearly is not then move on. The worst kind of relationship is one that is forced. And FYI don't be fooled by the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's mood seems to be dependent on our finances! What should I do?
Q. I've been living with my boyfriend for over 4 years. We have had our problems in the past, but we've both discussed them and moved past. Some days, he'll tell me he loves me, he wants to have children with me, and he wants to marry me and spend the ...
A. 29 July 2010: Let him figure it out. men usually equate his man hood with how successful he is. and it really is hard to be happy when you can't provide for your woman. so it's probably nothing against you just an ego thing i think.... (read in full...)
Should I give this guy a chance even though he could be a momma's boy who cant support himself?
Q. A guy who lives about an hour away from me is coming to see me this weekend; this will be our first time meeting. That said, I just found out he still lives with his parents, and this worries me a bit. I'm 18 and in college, and he's 19 and a hs...
A. 29 July 2010: Just give the guy a chance. I could see if he was just sitting at home not trying to do anything with himself. Maybe his parents need him there to help with the bills or something. You just never know until you give it a chance. but the minute you ... (read in full...)
I cant trust my sister and my boyfriend to be alone together anymore, what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me with my older sister, but then I took him back. He somehow convinced me that it will never happen again and that I should work on my trust. I was really convinced that he would never hurt me again. But, then I found out my ...
A. 28 July 2010: Sounds like you can't trust either of them. He already proves that he's not trust worthy and with somone in your family... what more proof do you want? Leave him alone and let your sister have him. You deserve better.... (read in full...)
Why does he keep playing with my emotions?
Q. My husband left 2 months ago ... We just had a baby who is now 6 months. He moved out got his own place... And since the day he left he hasent stopped calling atleast everyother day and kissing me... He's said he is sorry but hasent really ...
A. 27 July 2010: you need to cut him off from all the emotional an sexually stuff (ie spending the night together) until he can figure out what it is that he wants.
right now with your actions you are telling him that it is okay to ignore the baby and have sex... (read in full...)
Can a leopard really change its spots?
Q. My girlfriend and I have a very honest relationship. She is several years younger than I, she is 38. She was married for 10 years, cheated on her hubby and they divorced. She carried on with her lover for 7 years until his divorce was final, t...
A. 27 July 2010: wow it just seems like you got a freak on your hands. i am a strong believer that you really shouln't tell everything in your past for this very reason. too much information will make you crazy. if you can put her past out of your mind then I say ... (read in full...)
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