My boyfriend hurts me, but I enjoy it? oh gosh..
Q. [Moderator's Note: Original Poster's own title] My boyfriend and I were having intense, crazy sex the other night. and It hurt, but kinda felt good. I was moaning and screaming, louder then ever. and he had to stick his hand in my mouth and everythi...
A. 6 August 2010: You should never have vaginal sex with a tampon in. Your vagina is only but so deep. don't listen to some boy about that how that. hell does he know?
this is one great example about how young girls should really wait til they're grown to have ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hurts me, but I enjoy it? oh gosh..
Q. [Moderator's Note: Original Poster's own title] My boyfriend and I were having intense, crazy sex the other night. and It hurt, but kinda felt good. I was moaning and screaming, louder then ever. and he had to stick his hand in my mouth and everythi...
A. 5 August 2010: well did you forget to take out your tampon? i'm really still confused. use your common sense. if that's the case then of course it hurt.... (read in full...)
Should I cut off all contact with my boyfriend?
Q. "OP Own Title" I have had this bf for almost 2 years and we recently broke up because he has a very bad temper and likes to verbally abuse me when we argue. I am sweet and tend to be too forgiving but I tried giving him another chance and he came ...
A. 5 August 2010: cut him off completely... no question about it.... (read in full...)
Are my breasts too big?
Q. hi everyone! I'm a 15 year old girl and I have a small problem with my breasts A LOT of guys my age think they are too big, while other guys that are a bit older think they are fine... why's that? I don't want to go out with an old perv just ca...
A. 5 August 2010: As a young woman with large breast you have to carry yourself a little differently. more men will be after you because of them and you can't afford to be naive. just be more selective about boy. and if something feels wrong then it probably is. time ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him even though he wont wear condoms and I'm not on birth control?
Q. i've been with my bf for 1year. hes my first love and im his he's two years older than me.. we are both vigins.. and homecoming night b4 his big game.. i well lets just say i wanna have sex with him.. he gave me i ring and we are getting married ...
A. 5 August 2010: first of all you aren't ready for marriage and definately aren't ready for motherhood. guarantee that you will get pregant if you have unprotected sex or even an STD. Wearing a condom isn't just his choice.
DO NOT have sex with him without ... (read in full...)
Should we share a college apartment?
Q. me(16) and my boyfriend(almost 17) have talked about getting an apartment close to the collage we both will be going to after we graduate. it'll be a few years for me cause I'm a year behind but since he only has one year I figured he should start ...
A. 5 August 2010: you may want to stay seperate for the college years... if in fact you 2 are still together. college is the time where you wanna find yourself and explore new and different things.
Plus living with someone is a huge step. it's all cute at first bu... (read in full...)
How long will the pain of a break-up last for?
Q. The man I have been with dumped me this morning after three years of dating . He stated he is depressed and blamed me. Said he needs to find himself . What want to know is how long does it take to mend a broken heart . I was /am. In love with this ...
A. 5 August 2010: It will only hurt as long as you let it. find other things to do to get your mind off of it. ... (read in full...)
The guy I liked got excited when he found out I was a virgin, is that a good or bad thing?
Q. Hey..well there was a guy I liked and he went to school with my sister's bf soo he would ask questions about me soo one day he ask my sister's bf am I a virgin and my sister bf said yes and then the boy got excited and said he was goin to jack me ...
A. 5 August 2010: it's a terrible thing. ... (read in full...)
My ex is pregnant with my baby but in a relationship with another man, how do I get her back?
Q. my ex i was going to get married to is pregnant with my baby and with another man now, and we both still are in love but she will not come back to me because she is afraid of hurting me again. how do i get her back and keep her so we can have our ...
A. 5 August 2010: does the other man think it's his baby? ... (read in full...)
Do I scare my boyfriends away or do I just pick the wrong type of man?
Q. ive recently just split up with my boyfriend and ever since ive been really upset not just because he left me but also because i get the feeling i scare my boyfriends away. My parents are very strict so im limited to certain things, a few of my ex's ...
A. 5 August 2010: yes you might scare them away. if your parents are that strict just wait until you're older. and a lot of younger girls have a real commitment clamp that does scare guys away. so just chill out.... (read in full...)
Lies about her past........
Q. me and my girlfriend were talking about her past early in our relationship and she said she had anly slept with 2 other people only 7 times and only had oral once... i read her diary and it said she had slept with 3 guys and one guy was 7 times and ...
A. 5 August 2010: you can't DO anything. you're wrong for reading her diary. so what if she slept with 3 guys like 10 years ago... what do want us to say? go ahead and get a divorce?
most women stretch the truth about the amount of men that she's slept with to ... (read in full...)
I suspect my partner is having an affair but he says I am being silly! What should I do?
Q. i am a 45 year old woman. i have been with my 48 year old partner for 24 years. we are both tattooists and have our own business. last dec my partner started acting strangely ie he started going out every fri and sat night (and one night midweek) ...
A. 5 August 2010: Well I really can't tell you what to do because it's your life. but I do suggest that you have an honest convesation with him about where your relationship stands.
It is possible that he is still in love with you but he, as a man, needs sex. you... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my time? We just started dating again....
Q. I'm confused and frustrated. My guy and I got back together 8 months ago after being apart six months. I am wanting more of a commitment from him . All he says when I press the issue is I want that to just not yet . When I say you knew what I wanted ...
A. 5 August 2010: maybe that was the best thing for you. time to go find someone who's stable. and please don't get back with him again.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hurts me, but I enjoy it? oh gosh..
Q. [Moderator's Note: Original Poster's own title] My boyfriend and I were having intense, crazy sex the other night. and It hurt, but kinda felt good. I was moaning and screaming, louder then ever. and he had to stick his hand in my mouth and everythi...
A. 5 August 2010: well you need to have a talk with him and tell him the things that you don't like. it's very simple. there's no reason for you to not enjoy having sex when the other person is.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hurts me, but I enjoy it? oh gosh..
Q. [Moderator's Note: Original Poster's own title] My boyfriend and I were having intense, crazy sex the other night. and It hurt, but kinda felt good. I was moaning and screaming, louder then ever. and he had to stick his hand in my mouth and everythi...
A. 4 August 2010: sounds like you don't know your body. how can you say "it hurt, but kinda felt good" then say.... "I didn't feel any pleasure at all" i'm confused... did you or didn't you like it?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has double standards about oral sex!
Q. Dear all my girlfriends says that me tasting her cum is ok and should be a pleasure but her tasting my is disgusting and degrading to women Help please...
A. 4 August 2010: wow she does have a huge double standard. sounds like you need to find someone more sexually compatible with you. nothin worse than a girlfriend who thinks giving head is degrading. ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me after our first ever drama as a couple! I am really hurt and disappointed right now....
Q. My ex boyfriend lost feelings for me after we had our first drama as a couple. He thought I wanted to break up with him but it wasn't like that. He blames it on that. I don't think it was such a big deal. I expect all couples to fight and then ...
A. 4 August 2010: I see that this relationship might not work you because his problem solving skills are terrible. it's only been couple of months so there isn't much invested in this relationship. No point in trying to "work it out" because it only get harder as ... (read in full...)
Stuck in a LDR. Is it ok to look for a FWB?
Q. i am a 23 year old lady who is in a stable relationship.however my boyfriend and i are miles away we see each other once in a while like once a month or once in two weeks.when we see each other we make love and we both get contented however the rest ...
A. 4 August 2010: dirtball is on point. no way you're in a "stable" relationship if you wanna have sex with someone else. if you really need somebody else.. forget about you guy and get with someone closer... (read in full...)
I suspect my partner is having an affair but he says I am being silly! What should I do?
Q. i am a 45 year old woman. i have been with my 48 year old partner for 24 years. we are both tattooists and have our own business. last dec my partner started acting strangely ie he started going out every fri and sat night (and one night midweek) ...
A. 4 August 2010: No it's not conclusive but the odds are not in your favor. if he can still get it up please believe that he's getting his release somewhere. 10 YEARS!! and i really think it's odd that instead of denying it he just tells you you're acting silly. You ... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my time? We just started dating again....
Q. I'm confused and frustrated. My guy and I got back together 8 months ago after being apart six months. I am wanting more of a commitment from him . All he says when I press the issue is I want that to just not yet . When I say you knew what I wanted ...
A. 3 August 2010: Let him figure out what wrong by himself. you need to keep it moving. He's already told you what he doesn't want and he's showing that too. You don't want the same thing so find someone who does.... (read in full...)
Slowly going crazy with guilt!!!
Q. *OP Title* This is a bit of a mess. I recently married my boyfriend (now husband) of 8 years. We are so happy and I love him so much and I know he loves me too. Ever since we got engaged I have been thinking about a mistake I made in the first 3 w...
A. 3 August 2010: I think if you tell him now it may make your relationship a bit messy. It happened so long ago... as long as it hasn't happened since.. take it to the grave.... (read in full...)
If he doesn't want her anymore, why is he going back?
Q. Me and my ex had been together 12yrs, i was 16 and he was 27.... im now 28 and hes 39, we have 4 children together but in feb we boke up, it was ment to be just a break, to clear our heads... but i found out he was seeing an old flame from when he ...
A. 3 August 2010: I can't relate but this situation sounds like something that could happen. He want to spend some time with his buddy that just so happens to be his ex's brother. yeah it's a little complicated but it sounds like you guys can work it out.... (read in full...)
Is it weird that we've never discussed our financial situation?
Q. I was talking to my mom the other day and she says to me that it's strange that although I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year I don't know much about his finances, salary etc. I've never wanted to know or asked, and he hasn't asked me ...
A. 3 August 2010: If you don't have the desire to know... don't ask. Until you guys are ready to move in together or get married. You guys are just dating so there's not need to get all complicated.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my mum I am pregnant at 13 by a 17 year old guy?
Q. Hey, I am 13 and pregnant. :| My boyfriend is 17. I want to keep the baby. But, my parents would never allow it. How do I tell my parents I am pregnant. I know automatically my mom would call me a slut. I just found out today. But, I was thin...
A. 3 August 2010: Be a woman about it... since that's what you are trying to act like... tell her and take what ever is coming to you. this is your life. now you can't be a child and "write a note". be face to face. sorry soo harch but you need a huge dose of tough ... (read in full...)
From freaky to enjoying it?
Q. Has your partner ever asked you to do something nasty or freaky, and the first time he asked you were shocked or found it weird, but eventually came to really enjoy it? What was it he asked for. I have been in a committed relationship for...
A. 3 August 2010: don't came at her with ALL the things you want to do at once. ease into it asking her how she feels about those type of things. and no you arent wierd. people do those types of things all the time... (read in full...)
What age do most people lose their virginity?
Q. Hello, I am curious as to what age most people lose their virginity. All my friends have had sex, and I was wondering what age most people began having sex....
A. 3 August 2010: most people in the US loses their's fairly young then they regret it later. so just wait til you feel the time is right. not because it's cool and all your friends are doin it.... (read in full...)
We are having problems after only being together for a month! Is he showing signs of being possessive?
Q. Me and my bf have been together for a month now.In that month we had so many arguments because sometimes i dont call him or cause i cant go out sometimes or just because i didnt call him when i went out with my mom. Is he showing signs of being a ...
A. 3 August 2010: nope your insticts aren't wrong. if you stay it'll get worse. get out while you still can!!... (read in full...)
It burns when I pee!
Q. hey , this is a very embarassing question for me and yet i can't go to the doctor, bec, i don't know if he or she will find out that i'm not a virgin , so my problem is that my thing burns like hell and i can't pee, bec, it burns even more and for ...
A. 3 August 2010: Hurry up and go because the longer an STD stays in your system the more damage it can do. some people just wait and wait and then they discover that it did so much damage that there reproductive organs are no longer functioning.... (read in full...)
What is important love or sex?
Q. [OP's own title] I love my bf so much and we have a blast together but when it comes down to sex he has a hard time satisfying me. He always ends up finishing before i do.What should i do?i dont want to leave him but like every woman i want to ...
A. 3 August 2010: only leave him if he's not willing to try and satisfy you. if he want to be coached just work with him. if not... move it along. sex is a HUGE part of a relationship so no amount of "love" can help you get over an unwilling partner.... (read in full...)
Is it my boyfriend's or the other guys baby?
Q. Could really need some help please, im pregnant 7weeks i had sex with another guy a week before my period and the rest of the time with my bf so how do i know its my bf? its on the 22 july i did it with the other guy and found out today im 7weeks ...
A. 3 August 2010: DNA test will tell you not us.... (read in full...)
I suspect my partner is having an affair but he says I am being silly! What should I do?
Q. i am a 45 year old woman. i have been with my 48 year old partner for 24 years. we are both tattooists and have our own business. last dec my partner started acting strangely ie he started going out every fri and sat night (and one night midweek) ...
A. 3 August 2010: we'll in that case don't fool yourself into thinking that a man that you're married to and haven't had sex with in 10 years isn't cheating. i mean 10 years is a really long time.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend can get too rough in the bed sometimes...I need advice!
Q. Hey everyone, i've been dating my BF for almost 3 years now and we have a good, trusting relationship. Sex is satisfying for me, but he seems to want to be violent during sex. Now don't think i mean rough, because i don't mind a bit of rough now and ...
A. 3 August 2010: you need to sit down and talk to each other about what feels good to both of you and what doesn't. even start a sex session just to coach each other through.... (read in full...)
My wife has a new sexual fetish. Is this normal?
Q. My wife likes me to lick her bum. This seems weird to me, and i am not sure i like it. I do it. This is hard to explain, but she seems to get off on dominating me. She says stuff like, "You like it when i F your face, don't you" or "lick that ...
A. 3 August 2010: yes it's normal people do it all the time. ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend just the sluttiest girl on the planet???
Q. Do girls ever like "having a train pulled on them?". My girlfriend has had a very lurid sexual past, as have all her close friends. She unveiled all this to me soon after we had said, "I love you.". I have been dealing with some jealousy/maybe a ...
A. 3 August 2010: I think girls are allowed to have slutty moments.... trains are a little extreme but hey what ever floats your boat. i've known women who have this fantasy but most would never actually do it.
i don't think she's a slut she may just like sex. not... (read in full...)
How to handle her insecurities?
Q. I am dating a woman who had intercourse with a man for 8 years, who she continues to represent as one of her best friends. They sometimes went to live sex clubs together. She tells me that she just did it for the sex, until he decided to date a ...
A. 3 August 2010: sounds like she has something to work out within herself. so she may have to talk to a professional about her issues because there is no reason for you to pay for others' mistakes. If things don't get better she'll only push you farther away and ... (read in full...)
I might actually act soon on my crush... but it's my best friend's boyfriend!!! Help!
Q. Hey people! I feel ashamed, its ridiculous but yes, i have a crush on my girl's bf! The worst thing is that he knows it and he always turns me on deliberately. He says that he loves his girlfriend and thats true but he also tells me that he wants to ...
A. 3 August 2010: DO NOT act on this at all. he knows what he's doing. he's not gonna BE with you.
and why would you have a crush an such a disrespectful person. he's saying to your face that "Hey I love my girl but i wanna get wit you". tell your friend what he'... (read in full...)
Date for the first time - what to do
Q. Hey guys, just a quick question. I'm meeting this guy for the first time tomorrow and I have NO idea what to do. I don't know what to talk about - we've been texting a lot already so I know we do have quite a lot in common already but still - and I ...
A. 3 August 2010: cerberus is 100% right. just be yourself. go out and get a new outfit and get your nails done or something to calm your nerves. too much pressure can ruin the first date.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says she wants a break
Q. Ok so I've been going out with my girlfriend for 3 months + and today she told me she is losing feeling for me and she wants a break. She says she doesn't want to lose me and that she still loves me. She says she needs a break because we talk every ...
A. 3 August 2010: that means he wants to break up with you and she probably won't be calling back. "I wanna take a break" just means "I really wanna break up but I don't wanna hurt your feelings" move on....... (read in full...)
My cousin proposed to me, I want to say yes, but what will my family say?
Q. When i was 17 my cousin came down to Texas from Georgia for a family reunion and when she got there she came up to me asked me to go for a walk down one of the trails that led to the river. Somehow she knew exactly where she was going and we stopped ...
A. 2 August 2010: what is with all these people having sex with cousins.... no no no don't do it. first of all your family may never want to talk to u 2 again. secondly she's your family. i mean all these millions of people and you pick someone you're related to? ... (read in full...)
Think I caught an STI during a threesome
Q. I'll be very upfront, I had a threesome with a couple and we used various dildos.. I had sex with the man unprotected also, since then, I've been having a powdery looking substance come from my vagina, i can take a shower and it'll still smell after ...
A. 2 August 2010: Could be a UTI of a yeast infection... we aren't doctors so go get checked out because it might be something more serious.. and quick before it does any damage. ... (read in full...)
He enjoys anal... but I hate it!
Q. Right okay so im 18 seeing a guy for 6 months who's 27. We've recently began getting serious and he said he loves me the other day which felt nice and natural so i replied. That isnt the problem.. theres certain things within our relationship that ...
A. 2 August 2010: Quit this relationship. some people can have open relationships but both partners have to be willing about feel good about the situation... you obviously don't feel good about it.
Plus in order for a really strong relationship i believe the coup... (read in full...)
Need a little clarification & help with giving my girl an orgasm??
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for 9 months and I still haven't made her orgasm. Fortunately it's not an indictment on me as she has never orgasmed before, although prior to the relationship I had not given a girl and orgasm so I'm not really sure ...
A. 2 August 2010: person12345 is absolutely on point. try stimulating her clit (which is that little bud on the outside) with a vibrator or even your mouth.... (read in full...)
Why do I get so mad when he wants to hang with the guys instead of me?
Q. My boyfriend and I spend tine together all the time and we always have fun. We know that we cant be around each other 24/7 because we tend to get annoyed with each other and argue. Last week we spend time Sunday- Thursday after work going out to ...
A. 2 August 2010: It's healthy to have time apart in a relationship. you need to find a really good hobby. You can't be with him every second of the day so get over it or you'll drive him away.
Besides a man CAN NOT be your whole life. he has to complime... (read in full...)
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