Can a leopard really change its spots?
Q. My girlfriend and I have a very honest relationship. She is several years younger than I, she is 38. She was married for 10 years, cheated on her hubby and they divorced. She carried on with her lover for 7 years until his divorce was final, t...
A. 27 July 2010: wow it just seems like you got a freak on your hands. i am a strong believer that you really shouln't tell everything in your past for this very reason. too much information will make you crazy. if you can put her past out of your mind then I say ... (read in full...)
Should I marry someone who betrayed me like this?
Q. I recently found out that my boyfriend cheated on me 1 time. We've been dating for nearly 5 years, and we recently got engaged. I found out that a year ago he slept with this girl, after major flirting went on between them for a few months (i.e., ...
A. 27 July 2010: well you have 2 options... #1 to just forget about him and move on and find someone who won't cheat on you...
or #2 forgive him and move forward in your realtionship. however if you choose to do that you have be prepared to never bring it up ag... (read in full...)
He's excited but I don't feel ready for this...
Q. im 17 n my boyfriend really wants to have a baby he says he wil be there for me and everything so we started having unprotected sex and ive missed my period and have been feeling sick so im reaaal scared now and dont know what to do. i told him and ...
A. 27 July 2010: oh no girl. there is no way that you're ready to be a mom. first of all you're way too young and plus you said it yourself. you haven't really learned anything about life yet. and once you have a child you CAN NOT give it back.
and just FYI most... (read in full...)
How can I stop checking up on my ex?
Q. How do I simply stop caring about what my ex does and how he lives his life now? I can't help but sometimes check out his facebook and see who he's talking too and what he's up to, which I am trying to stop. How do I stop caring about everything so ...
A. 27 July 2010: Just pick up a hobby or start meeting other people. Sooner or later you'll find that you'll become less interested.... (read in full...)
Is it best I walk away from this relationship?
Q. I really need some good advice. I've recently split with my boyfriend of 14months because his friend told me he cheated on me when we were first together. My boyfriend admitted it but says he wants to move on. Furthermore, his friend told me more ...
A. 27 July 2010: No way it can work. Just forget about him. He only wants you now that you don't want him.... (read in full...)
I'm falling for a guy who has a girlfriend
Q. I am single and have been for a long time (apart from a couple of very short and unsatisfying relationships). I hadn't fallen in love for three years until I met this guy recently at a party. As soon as we saw each other it was basically like love ...
A. 26 July 2010: don't go after him. if he has a woman then there is nothing you can do righ this second. if you find yourself wanting to "take" him for yourself then just know that karma is real. wait a while until you're sure that he's single then try your luck. ... (read in full...)
Ready to throw in the towel!!
Q. I have known my girlfriend for 15yrs, we have been in a relationship for 6yrs. this month I asked the big question and bought her an engagement ring. My co worker family owns a jewelry store so i bought a second hand ring that has been appraised for ...
A. 26 July 2010: there is nothing like a complaining woman. sounds like if you marry her, your whole world will be of nothing but nagging and who wants that... (read in full...)
He said we can't be together because we argue too much
Q. My boyfriend and I been together for almost 3 years .But lately we have been arguing. For me the argument wasn't a big deal because it was a little argument.When he called me he told me that we can't be together because we argue alot but he told ...
A. 26 July 2010: Sounds like there is something else going on with him just because of that weak excuse. maybe he just want to see other people and just didnt want to upset you. try to talk to him just to see where his mind really is... (read in full...)
How do I get guys to look at me as more than just a one night stand?
Q. Okay so I'm a 18 years old girl, I consider myself as a okay looking girl but I do have a serious problem that just makes my self-esteem really low. I never had a boyfriend. Guys just aren't interested in me (except as a sexual object or something ...
A. 26 July 2010: First of all I think it's great that you're still 18 and a virgin. Being a teenager you just aren't mentally ready to have sex with men. I wish I would have taken that advice when I was younger.
but on another note if you want to be in a relation... (read in full...)
I feel like my photos are TOO good, and end up feeling self-conscious when attractive guys talk to me on my online dating profile. Help!
Q. Four months after leaving my ex for cheating on me, I decided I'd go ahead and sign up with eHarmony, or try the online dating thing. There are several guys whom I've hit it off with, in addition to 3-5 requests for communication each week, many of ...
A. 26 July 2010: I actually met my current boyfriend on a dating website an I know where you're coming from. and maybe you dont look a bad as you think you do. remember... women are way more critical then they should be most of the time.
everybody who does onl... (read in full...)
I'm emotionally stressed thinking about her and I can't handle it anymore!
Q. a couple of months ago i realised that the girl i was absolutly stone cold crazy about, was never going to feel the same way about me as i did about her. even though i had found out that it was never meant to happen between us, i still couldnt stop ...
A. 23 July 2010: Yep it happened to me too. just go out and meet new people. After a while you'll be over it.... (read in full...)
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