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writes:i'm 27 years old and my boyfriend has been in prison since june 8 2007 and every single day i wait on him in every way. When i dont talk to him i feel so sick and my life feels empty.Here lately he has been thinking there is someone else in the picture and i truely have no idea why he even feels that way i try my hardest to show him it is and always has been him he always tells me hes not gonna believe it untill he gets out and can see that.i have never been the person he trys to make me out as and it hurts me so much right now i really dont know what to do only thing i can do is cry! i dont feel like i should still have to prove myself! what should i do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 August 2010):
I'm with the others. This guy is a badass, and is taking it out on you. You don't have to prove anything. He should be proving he's a worthy guy in your life. He's not. He's not worthy. You need to leave him and find a decent guy instead.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (2 August 2010):
 You shouldn't have to prove yourself, and you shouldn't be waiting for him. He's feeling like you're cheating because he knows he would be if the roles were reversed. Also, he probably hears about how you're cheating on him from the other inmates. Regardless of the fact that it isn't true, hearing it daily has likely driven him to his current thinking on the matter. Of course, this is entirely speculation on my part.
I don't know what it is about him that you love, but with recidivism being what it is, he likely won't stay out long when he is finally free. If you want to continue this relationship, get used to the heartbreak you're feeling now. You'll have years of it ahead of you.
Kicking a person when they are down is never good, but seriously consider getting out of this relationship. This guy is bad news, or he wouldn't be in prison. He'll also likely come out worse than when he went in, that is the unfortunate nature of our correctional system.
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (2 August 2010):
 now why are you letting somebody in prison control your life? this samething happened to one of my friends. her man was in jail for 5 years and she was right there by his side visiting and putting money on the books. then when he got out... he left her after a year. she had wasted 6 six years of her life for nothing
this guy isn't making you happy so why do you need to still all into this relationship?
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