My boyfriend wants me to meet his ex
Q. my boyfriend likes to talk about his past sexual relationships, and he has also remained friends with several of his ex-girlfriends. now he wants me to meet one of them because of his friendship with her. i must admit that this really makes me feel ...
A. 13 August 2010: Those are perfectly normal feelings. I'd feel strange as well if my partner just couldn't let go of his past. that doesn't really mean you're insecure. however it's all about trust. he might actually be just friends with them so it's all about ... (read in full...)
Should I be honest and just tell him I'm really struggling with BJ's now?
Q. hey all! so ive been with my boyfriend for about 7 months and i love him very much.. sex is great. but there is one thing that recently that i havent been so big on.. and that's him coming in my mouth. i used to not mind at all.. but it makes me gag ...
A. 12 August 2010: chewing on gum could help or toothpaste. i've use toothpaste before(not for the same problem) and it made my boyfriend go crazy because of the chill.... (read in full...)
Wanting to have sex, but want it to be with someone I'll always be with
Q. When I first have sex with someone I want it to be with someone who I'm going to spend the rest of my life with, I want to have sex with my boyfriend what should I do?...
A. 12 August 2010: Well you better wait until you're married and not do it with your boyfriend.... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a female to have an orgasm the 1st time she has sex?
Q. Ok, so this is kind of an embarrassing question, but here goes. I've heard that for a female, the first few times she has sex, she won't necessarily orgasm. But what I was wondering, was if you were to have your first time with someone you were...
A. 12 August 2010: it's really not a stupid question.
I think it's possible but a very slim chance unless the female knows her body before she has sex. however I think her chances go up if her partner is experienced and knows what it takes to get her there.... (read in full...)
How can I tell if my wife has sexual experiences before me?
Q. how cani know that my wife had no any sexual relation in past,that he had not done sex before marriage,from her argument i think that she is telling lie....
A. 12 August 2010: There is no way to tell. if you didn't trust what she was saying then you shouldn't have married her.... (read in full...)
Can this relationship with my married boss work?
Q. Right so apparently this is a "common" thing. Being in love with a married man. I %100 believe he loves me too. To further complicate the situation he is my boss. I've worked day and night with this man 6days a week for 4years. Also his wife. They ...
A. 11 August 2010: he's not coming to join you. once you leave he'll just find some other sweet little girl to lie to. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend thinks my breasts are too big, is he right to ask for a reduction?
Q. I'm going out with my boyfriend 10 months and everything going well except for in the bedroom. He prefers women with smaller breasts and I've become very conscious that my 32f breasts must be a turn off to him. I used to love having my breasts ...
A. 11 August 2010: break it off. he's an a@#.... (read in full...)
Is Internet hook up with older guy safe?!
Q. [Mod Note: OP's own title] Hi, I'm 17 and from the uk. I've known a guy for a year and a half off the Internet. He is older than me (46) and I'm going to meet him soon, he's driving up to where I live and were meeting in a hotel. My friend knows an...
A. 11 August 2010: Don't do it. nothing good will come of it.... (read in full...)
Does semen volume impress the ladies?
Q. Hi aunts, All the questions about penis size and female squirters got me wondering about another "size" related topic that many men obsess over...semen volume. But I wanted a womans take on it. Men are sometimes obsessed with producing a volu...
A. 11 August 2010: if i'm going down on him i like a lot of it... but not really a topic of conversation for any female. we don't even notice it a lot of the time.... (read in full...)
Does our age difference make this wrong?
Q. I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 34. We met on the Internet, but met at the mall to go see a movie where there were alot of people. At first I thought all he wanted from me was sex, but i was wrong he treats me right, doesn't pressure me to do anything ...
A. 11 August 2010: guy please you're only 16 and he's a grown ass man. he know what it takes to "groom" you into what he wants. honeypie is right. what do you guys even have to talk about? you haven't lived your life yet.
I don't really have an issue with the actu... (read in full...)
My son listens to us have sex! Now I'm labeled a bad person.
Q. My son who is 13 is always hanging around my bedroom door when my friend and I are intimate. We close and lock the door for privacy but he stands there and listens. He then went and told my mom what he heard and now I am labeled as a bad person. He ...
A. 11 August 2010: you shouldn't be have sex with "some guy" while your son is there. send him off somewhere with his friends or family members. he's probably upset that "some guy" just came over and started knockin boots with his mother. i mean have some kind of ... (read in full...)
I want to take it to the next step, but everything clenches up!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for awhile, and I really want to take the next step with him, but I;m a virgin. Every time we start, I tighten up and i mean i know its going to hurt to try. It always ends up with him not being able to enter. I really ...
A. 11 August 2010: have glass of wine if all else fails. not to get drunk. just to loosen you up a bit. and it really doesn't hurt all that bad. try not to pump it up too much.... (read in full...)
My husband is cheating and I'm falling in love with someone else!
Q. Dear Cupid, Please help me! I'm a married woman with 3 kids. All my married life was not as happy as i expected because my husband until now is fooling around with somebody else. I met a guy 2 years ago his kind and thoughtful to me he has a son ...
A. 11 August 2010: Get a divorce.... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant if you use a condom but not the pill?
Q. Hey peoples ! , Me and my boyfriend are going to have sex and we're both virgins. I was wondering could i get pregnant if i dont go on the pill and we just use a condom? He said he'll pull out before he ''come's'' but i just really want to b...
A. 11 August 2010: go on the pill just to be safe. condoms cut down on the chances and so does pulling out however condoms burst sometimes. so do all the birth control options you can in order to have a safe sex life.... (read in full...)
Is this a common fetish and should I be worried?
Q. I am a 23 year old wife and mother of 3 and my husband has just told me that he has a fetish for shemale's. We have been together for six years and married for 5 and since the begining of our relationship I have always known that my husband was ...
A. 11 August 2010: sound like a stap-on is in order.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my girlfriend that I had cybersex with a stranger whilst she was away?
Q. Hi, I have been with my girlfriend now for four years we have a very close bond and get on really well together and want I wish to spend the rest of my life with her. We meet over the internet and since have moved in together and are now lo...
A. 11 August 2010: nope keep it to yourself. no point in telling her really. not like you went out and got a prostitute. i mean is she really gonna ask..."hey did you have any cyber sex while i was away?"... probably not so you won't have to lie or tell the truth. ... (read in full...)
Did I do something really bad? Should I be feeling this guilty because I felt something for another man?
Q. I was 20 yrs old when I got married and have been with this man since I was 17.Really he is the only guy I've ever been involved with physically but lately I feel sometimes i desire another man another touch although I'm in a perfect marriage and ...
A. 11 August 2010: this is why getting married too young can be a bad thing. you haven't had a chance to experience the dating scene. but you having these feelings isn't bad as long as youu don't act on them. however it seems like you tried to... but the grass isn't ... (read in full...)
Is this too much to ask from a boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend and I get along excellent. We are really starting to care for each other, a lot. now, maybe I'm the one who's wrong here, but.. Every time we set a date, I always tell my friends I can't spend time with them. And I am always free to see ...
A. 11 August 2010: you are over reacting. you need a life outside of each other. you can't expect him to hang out with you all the time. you need to go hang out with your friends sometimes. you are being waaaaaay too available.
too much time with him can ruin you... (read in full...)
5 years of dating and he still won't divorce
Q. Been dating this great guy on and off for five years. He had been separated for six months when we met and I asked him if he left his ex and son pre-maturely. He was very depressed and always seemed like he was somewhere else when we were together. ...
A. 11 August 2010: He's not leaving his wife honey. I mean it's been 5 YEARS!! what is he waiting on?... nothing because even if he does he'll never really be with you exclusively. he's shown you all of his colors and you're just ignoring them.
But of course y... (read in full...)
Addicted to masturbation and it's hurting my girlfriend. What can I do?
Q. Hello fellow peers, my alias is dimario, and I am a 20 year old well to do male with a beautiful girl friend whom I have been with since I was 16. But! There is a problem, since I was a teenager ofcourse I masturbated, and that seemed quite okay at ...
A. 11 August 2010: are you sexually attracted to her... or (no offense) women in gerenal? it seems that nothing is wrong with your sex drive so there must be something else.... (read in full...)
Douching & sponge, what on earth?!
Q. [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles, I am in need of your advice and experience please!! I'm a virgin THINKING** about doing it for the first time with my boyfriend. We are both virgins and are talking about all** aspects ...
A. 11 August 2010: Use a condom anyways. you can NEVER be 100% sure about anything or anyone. make sure you do everything in your power to protect yourself. It can still be magical and protected.
and condoms are hardly "in the way". you really don't notice it if yo... (read in full...)
I don't understand why my boyfriend suddenly wants to do his own thing, is this just the end of the honeymoon period?
Q. I want to spend every possible minute of the day with my boyfriend of 18 months. We live together, but we both work part time and study. He works from 3pm until 9pm most nights and I work all weekend. I realise that I'm obsessed with him, and fo...
A. 9 August 2010: Too much time together can ruin a relationship. You ARE being a little selfish. he doesn't have to spend every waking moment with you. you both need time to "miss" each other.
you need to go out with friends or find a hobby that doesn't include ... (read in full...)
How do I know if she's really into me?
Q. I recently started spending time with this girl that I've know for a while. I had not seen her in about 8 months when she randomly asked me to hang out one night. Its been about a month and I've developed feelings for her but I am unsure of how she ...
A. 9 August 2010: she is into you. if she wasn't then all the activities would have never started. i know i don't spent that much time with somebody that i'm not "into". have a conversation with her about how you feel about her so that you know for sure if you're on ... (read in full...)
My cheating boyfriend says he loves me and wont do it ever again, but why is he still talking to the other woman?
Q. This is a real messed up situation. Just found out my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me. I want to forgive him and want to believe him that he is doing everything in his power to be more committed to me, but the facts are not adding up. What do ...
A. 9 August 2010: You may really love him but it sounds like you're playing the fool in this relationship. his actions are telling you that he still wants to have a relationship with this other person and it really doesn't matter what you think.
clearly you are ... (read in full...)
I'm super interested in trying anal, but is it normal/okay that I mandate he wear a condom
Q. As I've always said since becoming sexually active, I'll try anything once. When I was younger I tried anal (first with a small toy) and that did not go well at all...oww... Nevertheless, it's something I've always been interested in and I'm hopin...
A. 9 August 2010: Use lost of lube... use a few condoms... and go slowly
and anal sex and vaginal sex with the same condom is a no no.
i suggest taking a shower... trying anal... jump back in the shower... then finish up if that's the route you're going.... (read in full...)
I want my husband back, not this overweight unhealthy man!
Q. i feel very lost.. my husband has always been heavy.. he is 6 ft 2 and 478. i am 5 ft 9 and 135. sometimes i think i know too much being a nurse as i watch his weight go up and our marriage go down. yes i love him. i have changed our home eating to ...
A. 9 August 2010: if he's not willing to try then there is no reason for you to really stay and be sad too. but if you're in it for the fight...
work out with him,
buy cook books to spice it up in the kitchen,
go to the doctor's with him so that you'll know exac... (read in full...)
Douching & sponge, what on earth?!
Q. [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles, I am in need of your advice and experience please!! I'm a virgin THINKING** about doing it for the first time with my boyfriend. We are both virgins and are talking about all** aspects ...
A. 9 August 2010: I'm not sure what a sponge is so I can't really answer those questions. douching and spermicide are 2 completely different things.
Spermicide is used with a condom most times and kill sperm. the condom is the main layer then spermacide is like a j... (read in full...)
If women can only orgasm from G-spot and clitoral, then what about women who orgasm from kissing?
Q. If its true that women get orgasms from clitoral and g-spot stimulation only,then how can you explain those who get orgasms just by kissing their breasts,or massaging them,or whatever?...
A. 9 August 2010: I think women's orgasms are mental. I know I have to feel a certain way in order to cum during sex be it g-spot or clitoral or "other".
I've had an orgasm off of kissing and it was mainly because of how deeply i felt for the person and how happ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend saw my better-endowed roommate naked, now I'm insecure. Should I be?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 10 months. I was until recently the only guy she had seen naked. Recently my roommate came out of the bathroom nude when we were walking into the room. I'm nervous she has been thinking about him/wanting ...
A. 9 August 2010: I wouldn't worry about it. women aren't nearly as visually as men are. mental things stimualte us. as long as you're good to her you'll be fine.... (read in full...)
Is he thinking about marriage or is he just all talk?
Q. I am just writing because I am somewhat confused by my boyfriend's behavior lately. Things seem to be going well for us - his family and friends love me and seem to think I'm a keeper, and I think he is too. We were at a mutual friend's wedding ...
A. 9 August 2010: He's just letting you know what he's thinking. don't bring it up just let him ease into it himself. But it definately sounds like he's into the idea.
some women hear their guy talk about wanting to be married and gets way too excited. then the... (read in full...)
Women desire to fondle testicles?
Q. How do girls feel about men's balls? Do women find the sexually exciting? Disgusting? Or, do they not factor at all? My last girlfriend was alwYs playing with them, and once I started shaving them ( at her request) would often take them in her ...
A. 6 August 2010: some women like it... some women don't. just start with a conversation about what you like.... (read in full...)
I'm living with a rude total stranger!
Q. Hello Everyone. I'm totally at my witts end and confused about what to do. I feel like my head is going to explode. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years odd now, we moved in together after a perfect 6-7 weeks together...Now I know ev...
A. 6 August 2010: if you're fed up with him leave. it doesn't sound like he wants to wokr it out anyways.... (read in full...)
Cheating with a married man but I feel jealous of his family
Q. i have affair with a married man we love each other alot from 2 yr we are in love. he cant leave his wife wat sud i do, We are in sexual relationship I am 24 and he is 31. he is married for 7 years and have 2 childrens . I love him very much. He ...
A. 6 August 2010: he's never gonna leave his wife. you'll always be the one on the side. you can't upgrade yourself. he already told you that he can take care of both of you... and that's what going to happen.
and there's no such thing as "true love" with a marrie... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hurts me, but I enjoy it? oh gosh..
Q. [Moderator's Note: Original Poster's own title] My boyfriend and I were having intense, crazy sex the other night. and It hurt, but kinda felt good. I was moaning and screaming, louder then ever. and he had to stick his hand in my mouth and everythi...
A. 6 August 2010: You should never have vaginal sex with a tampon in. Your vagina is only but so deep. don't listen to some boy about that how that. hell does he know?
this is one great example about how young girls should really wait til they're grown to have ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend can't stay hard anymore!
Q. My boyfriend and I have a lot of sex. Every night if we could. We were both eachothers firsts, so of course we're gonna have a ton of sex. For the past 2 or 3 months, he's been having a hard time getting and maintaining an erection, or eve...
A. 5 August 2010: some men can't get an erection if they are too stressed out. if he's just sitting at hame and not making money then that could be stressful and cause him to go limp.... (read in full...)
Is there a way to not sound insecure?
Q. [OP original title] I'm in a long-distance "relationship" where my friend doesn't always like sharing her personal feelings with anyone, it makes her uncomfortable sometimes (which I understand, I'm kinda the same). I last saw her in early june when...
A. 5 August 2010: It may just be the distance. out of sight out of mind is really true in long distance realtionship. that's why they're 9 time out of 10 not a great idea. It' probably not anything you did... she might be really busy. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hurts me, but I enjoy it? oh gosh..
Q. [Moderator's Note: Original Poster's own title] My boyfriend and I were having intense, crazy sex the other night. and It hurt, but kinda felt good. I was moaning and screaming, louder then ever. and he had to stick his hand in my mouth and everythi...
A. 5 August 2010: well did you forget to take out your tampon? i'm really still confused. use your common sense. if that's the case then of course it hurt.... (read in full...)
Was she really a virgin?
Q. Hey, i have been with my girlfriend for a little over 2 years now and when we started dating she was a virgin and i wasnt and eventually we ended up having sex and obviously i was the one to take her virginity. My question is and something that has ...
A. 5 August 2010: maybe she wants a baby... wrap it up honey it has nothing to do with virginity.... (read in full...)
I don't like living with my boyfriend and his worker under the same roof. Any ideas?
Q. I've just moved in with my BF, who runs his own business out of our house. I was under the impression that when I moved in my BF would tell his worker to go live at his house. The worker lives in our house in the guest room m-f and goes home on the ...
A. 5 August 2010: I think you guys should have talked about that waaaaay before you moved in. it sounds like a really odd situation to be in. I don't see why your BF can't just find someone who doesn't have to live with him to work for him.
But you guys really n... (read in full...)
No longer in love with him
Q. "OP Own Title" I thought I loved him but I don't. I enjoy his friendship and company...even the sex but how do I go from saying "I love you" to not saying it at all without crushing him. He's very sensitive?...
A. 5 August 2010: Just tell him the truth. no need in wastin his time telling him you love him when you really don't.... (read in full...)
Should I cut off all contact with my boyfriend?
Q. "OP Own Title" I have had this bf for almost 2 years and we recently broke up because he has a very bad temper and likes to verbally abuse me when we argue. I am sweet and tend to be too forgiving but I tried giving him another chance and he came ...
A. 5 August 2010: cut him off completely... no question about it.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hurts me, but I enjoy it? oh gosh..
Q. [Moderator's Note: Original Poster's own title] My boyfriend and I were having intense, crazy sex the other night. and It hurt, but kinda felt good. I was moaning and screaming, louder then ever. and he had to stick his hand in my mouth and everythi...
A. 5 August 2010: well you need to have a talk with him and tell him the things that you don't like. it's very simple. there's no reason for you to not enjoy having sex when the other person is.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hurts me, but I enjoy it? oh gosh..
Q. [Moderator's Note: Original Poster's own title] My boyfriend and I were having intense, crazy sex the other night. and It hurt, but kinda felt good. I was moaning and screaming, louder then ever. and he had to stick his hand in my mouth and everythi...
A. 4 August 2010: sounds like you don't know your body. how can you say "it hurt, but kinda felt good" then say.... "I didn't feel any pleasure at all" i'm confused... did you or didn't you like it?... (read in full...)
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