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writes:Guys, would you be turned off of a girl if your first kiss with her was a bad kiss? I'm going on a date tomorrow with a guy i know from work and its the first date since we admitted our feelings for each other. Thing is, I'm worried that because ive only kissed 2 people and the last time was almost 2 years ago, im worried our first kiss will be really bad as im out of practice and am nervous, and because of this, im worried he'll find it a massive turn off and not want to go out again. Honest answers please guys!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Lia +, writes (23 March 2007):
 I'm a girl, but I can help you because I've been there! It's normal to feel out of practice or like you're gonna get the kiss all wrong. But seriously, you need to relax, enjoy the moment and just let it flow. Sometimes it also helps to let the guy lead the kiss at first, especially if you're so worried. As for forgetting how to kiss, that can't happen. Like I said, the most important part of it is to just relax and enjoy it. If you're so stressed out, you will end up missing the moment!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2007): haha i'm sure a lot of men will disagree with me but i've had three very player-type male friends who have "been around the block" tell me on different occasions that there is no such thing as a girl/woman who can't kiss. didn't quite know how to respond, but hope that will settle your fears. don't be nervous, the date will be fantastic :) if something like, say, awkward angling of the head happens (you both turn your head the same way and can't quite get a comfortable kiss) just laugh the tension away and say "let's have another go, shall we?" :)
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reader, chrissy32789  +, writes (23 March 2007):
 Dear worried_gal,
I am not a guy but i can help you out! I dont think you will foget how to kiss honestly it will come to you, you get yourself all worked up and then when it happens you will have it right to you.. plus kissing isnt going to be what he will think about it will be the way you have acted..and if you are still worried go to a mirror and practice kissing on that it may sound weird but just try it...well good luck on the date and i am sure it will all work out....
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