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Someone told me my boyfriend is gay, they have a recording of him admitting to it!

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Question - (19 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok, well,this is a long story.

i met this boy wen i was about 14. from then i liked him, even tho he was goig out with my best m8s, m8.

afta 2 years of being with her they split up becoz there was a rumor he was gay.

well i met up with him and he told me none of it was true and not to listen to anything anyone says.

i am now going out with this boy, and i have heard he rung his ex and told her that he was gay and was cheating on her for 2 years with a man. she sez she has recorded it and wants me to listen to it.

she doesnt know i go out with him.....

wat shud i do, listen to the recording to see if he is lying to me, or ignore it and hope that we can have a long relationship 2geva.

when he's with me it feels right, but what if he is gay????

plz plz plz elp me sum 1.......

x

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A female reader, chrissy32789 United States +, writes (23 March 2007):

chrissy32789 agony auntDear anonymous writer,

If he was gay then i dont think he would date you specially if he was telling this girl that he was cheating on her with a guy for the time he was with her, do you think he would really leave her and be with another female? I dont think he would. and you can always get a recorder and have a guy say that he is gay she may know that you two are together and she is trying to break you too up. so dont always belive what friends and people tell you half of the time things get twisted, so just trust him and see what happens if you dont trust or belive him dont bother being with him cause it will never work!

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A female reader, endlesssong United States +, writes (20 March 2007):

endlesssong agony auntIf he's realy gay, why would he be with you? Even if the recording is real, it could be false. Why are you talking to his ex about this anyways? Did she come to you about this not knowing you two were dating? Or did you go to her? Either way, you need to tell your guy whats up and confront him yourself about it. Tell him what his ex has been saying and about the recording and everything.

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