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writes: I am 14 year old. My mum and dad split up 5 years ago but recently my brother who is 13 went to live with him and left our family. He didn't speak to us and when he did, he was calling us, sending messages along with his dad's family. He has he a wife and 3 other children with her which aren't his. He went there for around 3-4 months and now he is back my mum won't hardly give me anything and she is with him constantly. He can do no wrong in her eyes now. He was the one who went to live with a man my mum cant bare to look at. Not me and she isnt acting like she did with me. Im soo annoyed I stood by her side and now he gets everything. What shud i do?
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reader, chrissy32789  +, writes (28 March 2007):
 Dear anonymous writer,
My parents spilt up 4 yrs ago and i went to live with my mom, and when i would go vist my dad once a year where my 2 brothers live, my dad would pay more attion to me, my brothers got upset but my dad told them that he hasnt seen me in a long time and he just wants to get to know everything that he missed in my life, and he would try to be really nice to me to get me to stay there! Dont worrie about it your brother just came back and your mom is trying to keep him around so he dont go back to your moms house after a while it will go back to normal....try talking to your mom how you feel. and if talking to her dont work write her a letter and explain to her how you feel about everything and tell her what you want to change sometimes written a letter is alot easier so you can find the right words to say! try it..good luck with everything!
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reader, home_land  +, writes (28 March 2007):
 helloyou know that your brother left the house for a few weeks and its kind of hard for your mother to see her son away from her and mothers are great, and now she is trying to make every thing nice for your brother for him not to go away from her again and ofcorse she loves you and love is some thing in hearts you cant tuch it with your hand .you are the good old boy try to support her and understand that no one in the world can give you so much love like your mother , so keep your head up and be good to her and to your brother and try to do something together.good luck
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reader, rossiboy confessions  +, writes (27 March 2007):
 hi your mum loves you with all your heart she missed your brother understandably and like to build up a connextion and relationship with your brother again i feel talking to your mum about your worries will help a great deal and wat is ur realtionship with your brother like? i feel doing more things as a family will make u feel more involved and welcome but talking will help you wish u all the best rossiboy!!
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