New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login75384 questions, 330103 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
   
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

How can I last longer and not cum too quickly?

Tagged as: Health, Sex<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (17 March 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 February 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Hi hopefully someone will be able to help me

I have two problems..the first of my problems is that I find that I cum too quickly. Whenever I masturbate I can do it generally within two minutes, which is fine by me when I'm in a rush however when I'm with my partner I would like to last a bit longer..is there anything I can do?

Secondly, I've been with my partner for six months now and have had several partners in the past, but in the last three months since me and my other half said we loved each other I've noticed my penis becomes wet, even when we're just cuddling. I understand this is probably pre-cum, but is there anyway to stop this as I find it quite uncomfortable and embarassing, especially as when my partner touches me or wanks me it can splash occasionally.

Be grateful if anyone could help

View related questions: last longer, my penis

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008):

Easy... think of something else when your about to cum and change positions a bunch. Also I find that it's easy to think of sports when your about to cum and then change positions it's very effective... hope I helped?

<-- Rate this answer

A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008):

it is easy to masturbate for long time if u know your limits. if you identify the point when u cant prevent cumming and stop masturbating just before that point, you can cum when you choose if youre careful. with this method you can last over an hour, though you may have to stop a lot.

Try same with sex, if youre about to cum, try to stop change to something else

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2007):

hi i am getting marry in march n i got same prob i cum within two three minutes and my penis goes wet when she cuddle me . is there anybody help me

thank u

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, chrissy32789 United States +, writes (18 March 2007):

chrissy32789 agony auntHey i know you think just because i am a female that i wouldnt know nothing about this kind of thing but i am gettin married in may and my soon to be husband , use to have this same problem, you are really excited with this girl you are with now, but there is help for your kind of problem.. while you are having sex with her think of something elese when you are about to cum think about something that dont excite you. and if that dont work and you are really worried and fustred with this problem go to the doctors they will give you a pill to help you last longer it really does work...hope i helped

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2007):

very simple dude, move slower when shagging, change positions and ask her to stop just before you orgasm, then start again. i dunno search google for answers lol

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "How can I last longer and not cum too quickly?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.1875!