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How can I last longer and not cum too quickly?

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Question - (17 March 2007) 13 Answers - (Newest, 28 August 2012)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi hopefully someone will be able to help me

I have two problems..the first of my problems is that I find that I cum too quickly. Whenever I masturbate I can do it generally within two minutes, which is fine by me when I'm in a rush however when I'm with my partner I would like to last a bit longer..is there anything I can do?

Secondly, I've been with my partner for six months now and have had several partners in the past, but in the last three months since me and my other half said we loved each other I've noticed my penis becomes wet, even when we're just cuddling. I understand this is probably pre-cum, but is there anyway to stop this as I find it quite uncomfortable and embarassing, especially as when my partner touches me or wanks me it can splash occasionally.

Be grateful if anyone could help

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A male reader, kingzila Canada +, writes (28 August 2012):

Hi hello i figured out a way to last longer during sex an its really simple all you have to due during sex is to practice this an it will help you control your sperm build up. During sex when you put your penis in her an you thrust for lest or more than 1 minute an you feel like your about to cum, stop moving right away an by doing so you are giving your self time to cool down an during that time , there is two best ways to cool down faster an its by either rubbing your balls while you have your penis in her or if the sensation is still to much you can take it out of her an rub it, two you can also make out with her, suck her fits, whatever till you feel confident to go inside her again. theThe next build up you have your know not to cum, right away just make out with her for a bit the your be cuttiLng again

in no time, your notice you

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A male reader, JonathanBrowne United States +, writes (14 September 2010):

Hey dude i've found a lot of great ways to last as long as you want in bed. A lot of the reason people cum too quickly is because of psychological reasons. Here's a bunch of a href=http://prematureejaculating.blogspot.comFree Advice on Premature Ejaculation/a

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2009):

eate more cheese... I know it sounds funny ...but it works

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2009):

jack off reguralyit helps u last longer but dont do it too much cuz u can have prematureejaculation

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009):

Hey i have this problem too. My penis does not usually get wet before, but i cum very very quickly. Also i am unsure of why my penis becomes erect when doing things such as kissing, for most of my friends they say they dont become hard until oral sex. Help?

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A male reader, Mafia Mike United States +, writes (5 November 2009):

Well, what I do is, when I start to feel that point I stop and have her to lay down I begin giving her pleasure til it goes away. I'll do this over and over but of course pleasuring her a lot and I mean a lot, then when it's time to make it happen [about 45mins later] I let it bust.

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A male reader, zeera United States +, writes (1 August 2009):

very simple put ur penis in side the vergina.then take it out quickly.repeat like 3 mintues.put it in take it out.then stop start kissing after two mintues again put it in take it out,when u will feel ur cum is coming out stop....wait 2 mintues again start when ur coming out stop...try like few day same thing then u can see ,you can control on ur cum...i have same befor i prictice same thing now i can make a sex hour.belive me

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A male reader, qabas Pakistan +, writes (13 January 2009):

Iam man my Problem is i am not working for a long time

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008):

Easy... think of something else when your about to cum and change positions a bunch. Also I find that it's easy to think of sports when your about to cum and then change positions it's very effective... hope I helped?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008):

it is easy to masturbate for long time if u know your limits. if you identify the point when u cant prevent cumming and stop masturbating just before that point, you can cum when you choose if youre careful. with this method you can last over an hour, though you may have to stop a lot.

Try same with sex, if youre about to cum, try to stop change to something else

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2007):

hi i am getting marry in march n i got same prob i cum within two three minutes and my penis goes wet when she cuddle me . is there anybody help me

thank u

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A female reader, chrissy32789 United States +, writes (18 March 2007):

chrissy32789 agony auntHey i know you think just because i am a female that i wouldnt know nothing about this kind of thing but i am gettin married in may and my soon to be husband , use to have this same problem, you are really excited with this girl you are with now, but there is help for your kind of problem.. while you are having sex with her think of something elese when you are about to cum think about something that dont excite you. and if that dont work and you are really worried and fustred with this problem go to the doctors they will give you a pill to help you last longer it really does work...hope i helped

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2007):

very simple dude, move slower when shagging, change positions and ask her to stop just before you orgasm, then start again. i dunno search google for answers lol

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