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Today, I threw up... is this a sign of pregnancy? Could I be pregnant?!!???$!
Q. My boyfriend and i were fooling around the other day and i made him cum, a few hours later we had protected sex (used a condom) it did NOT break and everything was fine, he didnt cum inside of me. Its now 4 days later and i just got my period this ...
A. 21 February 2007: Take a test just to be sure. It's almost definitely nothing but sometimes when ur pregnant you have a light bleed at the beginning which people mistake for a period even though it's actually not.
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My ex and her new bf are always kissing in my face! What do I do??
Q. ok so, my Ex girl-friend has a new lad. They're always kissing etc. which sounds ok, but they always do it in my face. What do I do? any ideas?...
A. 21 February 2007: You really reckon she's doing it for that reason? Sounds like an awful lot of hassle just to make you feel bad. Just walk away from her if she's being a baby about things. Show you're too mature for her.
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My ex and her new bf are always kissing in my face! What do I do??
Q. ok so, my Ex girl-friend has a new lad. They're always kissing etc. which sounds ok, but they always do it in my face. What do I do? any ideas?...
A. 21 February 2007: I don't think she'd be doing this deliberately. Tell her it bothers you and maybe she'll stop.
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Today, I threw up... is this a sign of pregnancy? Could I be pregnant?!!???$!
Q. My boyfriend and i were fooling around the other day and i made him cum, a few hours later we had protected sex (used a condom) it did NOT break and everything was fine, he didnt cum inside of me. Its now 4 days later and i just got my period this ...
A. 21 February 2007: It depends whats normal to you. Some people have a brownish bleed. For other people it's bright red. If it's always brown don't worry. The main thing you need to look for in this situation is whether it was heavier or lighter than normal and check ... (read in full...)
My husband of 23 years hasn't touched me for weeks and declined my advances yet I walk in and he is "servicing" himself!! I don't know what to do any more?
Q. hi been married for 23 years, ups and downs like many, but the other night he told me that his buddie fancies me like crazy so he told him he fancied his wife too, then got angry with me because it upset me. The thing is i would have laughed it ...
A. 21 February 2007: The only way round this is to talk to him. Personally it doesn't sound like what you described is reason enough to stop having sex with you. Guys sex drives dip a lot at this stage in their lives and a bit of manual is normal in every relationship, ... (read in full...)
I left my wife and my sister in law left her husband, purely coincidental I might add! We have, through the course of time gotten together and the family think it was planned! It wasn't at all. Are we so wrong?
Q. Here is my situation. My wife's brother's wife, decided to leave him, they have a daughter. At the same time I was going to leave my wife, we have two daughters. I felt i had to wait because the rest of the family would think that she and I had an ...
A. 21 February 2007: You're very lucky that your collective daughters are so mature and are dealing with this so well. Why do you care if the family are questioning them though? If you don't have anything to hide this isn't really a big deal. This may sound harsh but, ... (read in full...)
What do you do when you are good friends with the person you have feelings for, but dont want to risk the friendship by telling them?
Q. What do you do when you are good friends with the person you have feelings for, but dont want to risk the friendship by telling them? I want something to happen, but if the feelings arent returned, i dont want things to be akward....
A. 21 February 2007: What's great about this question is your age. If a twelve year old had written this they would probably have been right when they said that the friendship would have been affected but by the time you're 18 it's not awkward anymore. If he's not into ... (read in full...)
I am feeling sick to my stomach, could I be pregnant?
Q. me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time on feb 3 2007. we had sex at least twice everyday since then. i am always on top. i am 28 i have felt nausious and sick to my stomach could i be pregnant we want a baby when can i tell if i am pregnant ...
A. 21 February 2007: I can't say you're not pregnant and unfortunately you'll have to wait until your period is a no show before you'll know for sure but to me, it sounds like you're so nervous about being pregnant that the symptoms are manifesting themselves ie- it's ... (read in full...)
I dialled a number I found on my boyfriend's phone and a woman answered... should I let this go?
Q. I saw a number in my b/f's phone that was dialed or received but was not in his contacts of the phone(he doesnt keep many--he knows numbers). I look up who it is..and its a woman. I called the number from restricted and a guy answered but he sounded ...
A. 21 February 2007: You don't know for sure that this is the same girl. He could have a woman's number in his phone quite innocently. I don't think it's something to worry about.
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Can a guy that has cheated in the past and promised before God to turn a new leaf, hold his urge to cheat again?
Q. Can a guy that has cheated in the past and promised before God to turn a new leaf, hold his urge to cheat again? I ask because i have a very pretty gf and she comes over all the time. I know she's attractive so im sure my husband must think so too. ...
A. 21 February 2007: There are always going to be temptations in this guy's life, be it your pretty friends or girls he works with. If his faith and his will are strong he'll be able to get through this. I don't know if it matters if it's God or love or some other ... (read in full...)
This girl wants to sleep with my boyfriend!!! HELP!!!
Q. I don't know what I'm supposed to do. My boyfriend has been working at this job for about 5 or 6 months now. He has this lady boss that is obviously interested in him. She has a list of guys she wants to sleep with at this work and also said to one ...
A. 20 February 2007: I really think he's lying for a quiet life. Why not ask him straight out? If it's bothering you this much then you need a definitive answer. Incidentally I didn't mean to offend you by suggesting you're insecure, I was just trying to help you.... (read in full...)
What should I do for the best? Walk away?
Q. Hi, I fancied this boy for ages - *Luke, he has a gf and he said he loved me and he was in a sticky sittuation with his gf and couldn't dump her at the moment and said he would finish her for me soon, theres a boy in my class that really fanc...
A. 20 February 2007: Luke has no right to be mad about you having a boyfriend since he's been stringing you along for so long. Just tell him you got tired of waiting for him.
As for losing one of them... well you can't date both of them. Luke is unavailable and to b... (read in full...)
This girl wants to sleep with my boyfriend!!! HELP!!!
Q. I don't know what I'm supposed to do. My boyfriend has been working at this job for about 5 or 6 months now. He has this lady boss that is obviously interested in him. She has a list of guys she wants to sleep with at this work and also said to one ...
A. 20 February 2007: There's only one thing to consider here. Do you trust your boyfriend? Just because this woman has his name on a list and wants to sleep with him doesn't mean she'll get what she wants. If your boyfriend is truly committed to you then you have no ... (read in full...)
I think my wife is suffering from some sort of imbalance of late? Can anyone relate to this and give me some advice?
Q. Ok folks heres a doozy, I am looking for women preferably who may have suffered an imbalance after pregnancy. but the story is; My wife is acting very erraticly of late, she throws things at me and the kids and she has started hitting, we are ...
A. 20 February 2007: When was your baby born? This sounds to me (obviously a non medical opinion) that she's suffering from an extreme form of post natal depression which is surprisingly common in women. She probably feels you're not supporting her and trying to ... (read in full...)
He is threatening to embarrass me in front of everyone if I don't do as he says!
Q. im the one that posted a few day be4 bout loving my cousin. i have told my cousin (boy) that i had a crush on my cousin (girl) but did not say that i love her. to make the long story short, he is threating to embrass me to everyone in my f...
A. 20 February 2007: It's never a good idea to enter into blackmail. If you do what he wants today he'll just want twice that tomorrow and so on. Let him tell them. If you're that embarassed you can deny it and accuse him of being the freak although that effectively ... (read in full...)
He saidhe needs a 2 week break due to pressure and uni but he seems so distant with me, I don't know what to do?
Q. hello... I need help. I am so confused! a day before valentines day my bf of 2.5years put me on a 2week break with no contact totaly out of the blue as I thought our relationship was going amazingly. I know 2weeks is nothing but i feel like i've ...
A. 20 February 2007: Although it might seem impossible to someone who's not in the same situation I kind of get what your boyfriend is saying about the pressures of uni being too much. I'm in my final year and can't imagine having time for a boyfriend right now. He ... (read in full...)
Does the pill make a difference to pregancy tests???
Q. I've been on the pill for two years and starting sleeping with my fiance a few months ago. We've always had sex with condoms just because we were trying to be extra careful, but the last month we decided to have sex without condoms because it was ...
A. 20 February 2007: The way the pill works is in thickening your cervix lining so that its harder for the sperm to swim through and stopping your body from releasing the egg and you're right that you stop having periods if you're pregnant on the pill. If it was a ... (read in full...)
My husband told me he loves me but is not passionate/crazy about me. Now I'm hurt, scared and confused....
Q. I have been with my husband for 11 years, married 6. We have a 3 year old daughter and I'm currently 5 1/2 months pregnant. Just two months ago my husband told me that he is sure he loves me, but he doesn't feel he is madly/crazy in love with me ...
A. 20 February 2007: Of course you're hurt. I can't imagine why your husband thought it was appropriate to tell you that! I think he's doing something that a lot of guys do. He was passionate about you at the start when it's all about the passion but because you weren't ... (read in full...)
Why am I so angry at men? All they care about is sex sex sex!
Q. hi Why am i SO against men and how they are with women? i hate the fact that all teenage boys and men only care about sex? i just feel that women are used and it truly offends me! i have never had sexual intercourse with anyone before, im only 1...
A. 20 February 2007: You're right that some men, and probably most boys at your age are all about the sex but they do change as they get older. Sex is always important in any relationship but they learn to value different things. I'm betting that your point of view ... (read in full...)
My ex called me to say he was sorry for things in the past. I want to talk to him but my present boyfriend is against this and said it will only cause problems. Should I break it off with him?
Q. One of my ex-boyfriends called me last night and told me that he was sorry for everything that he put me through and that he is sorry for hurting me so much. He told me that he loves me and misses me. I still have feelings for him and I still love ...
A. 20 February 2007: Sounds like your current boyfriend is right not to want you to meet your ex seeing as you fully admit still having feelings for him. Ultimately your boyfriend can't stop you seeing your ex although it would be a trust violation but my advice would ... (read in full...)
Would you date a girl who told you she was forced to do oral sex even although she didn't want to?
Q. I have an open question for everyone, Would you date a girl who had told you that she was forced to do oral sex even although she didn`t want to have sex with the guy? How would you know if it was the truth she is telling or if she did it ...
A. 20 February 2007: Well.... as a girl I wouldn't date another girl but in your shoes I would totally get over her past. We all have things in our past we regret and whether she was forced into it or did it willingly she recognises that it was a mistake and recognising ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and my breasts feel a bit tender and bruised, is this normal?
Q. im 15 and I've noticed recently that my breast are feeling a bit tender almost like bruised at the sides near my arms.im not particularly big, a/b cup size. I no im definatly not pregnant or anything is this normal? ...
A. 20 February 2007: Absolutely, especially if your period is only a few days away or here already. All the same even though you're young I would start to do regular breast checks because then you'll know what's normal in the future but I don't think you have a problem ... (read in full...)
My best friend is really good looking and I get so jealous of her. How can I stop being so jealous?
Q. Recently, I've been getting jealous of my best friend. Shes gorgeous and most people look at her. It makes me feel insecure about myself, and it makes me feel ugly. I can't talk to her about it because it just sounds stupid... How can I stop being...
A. 20 February 2007: You will stop feeling jealous when someone makes you feel special. I think your problem is that you feel underappreciated next to your friend right now. Sound about right? The pretty girl is not necessarily the one who makes the better girlfriend. ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my husband is cheating! We've had trust issues recently, but am I just being silly?
Q. Hi this may sound as though i am worrying over nothing so here goes... I am worried that my husband is cheating. We have had problems with trust recently(not ref another woman)but i know he would be capable of hiding something from me. Most week...
A. 20 February 2007: I'm guessing the company he works for is a 50-50 male- female environment. It doesn't sound to me like you have anything to worry about. I'd wait for something concrete before you start distrusting him. All you have so far is evidence that he has ... (read in full...)
An electrician and a welder both proposed to me. I don't love either, so I think I may choose based on school and job qualifications.
Q. Hello i have a question I have got 2 marriage proposals from 2 guys one is electrician and he has a techical certificate. The other guy doesnt have any qualifications but he owns his own welding shop .They are all good men since i dont l...
A. 20 February 2007: No! Love matters in making a marriage succeed! Don't marry either of them. Your soulmate is out there. You just need to look a little harder.
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My friend wants me to cancel my wedding! I'm having some problems but is there light at the end of the tunnel?
Q. I just feel so down all the time. My partner and i have two kids between us, not ours as such. We both work full time. Our girls are in their teens, hate each other. We are getting married in 6 months time and i should be as happy as could be - but ...
A. 20 February 2007: I agree with your friend. You seem to be looking on the wedding as something that will magically fix all your problems but it won't. Planning a wedding is stressful. See your doctor and get an independent opinion and then maybe chat to your fiance ... (read in full...)
My ex doesn't speak to his family, but I'd like our son to meet them. What should I do?
Q. My ex husband has not spoken to his father for over 20 years because of bitterness at his parent's divorce. His Dad has tried to get in touch but my ex still feels too much hatred. His father had a new family in Canada and I would like my son to ...
A. 20 February 2007: I think your best chance here is to appeal to your husband. Tell him you want your son to have the best possible upbringing and want him to know his family. Tell him you're willing to take total responsibility for their relationship and that he ... (read in full...)
Do teenagers in love lose their appetite and get unhappy when their partner isn't around?
Q. hi how do teenagers act when they are in love? just wondering. do they lose their appitite and things? when they are not with the person they are in love with do they act happy or unhappy because they are not with their love? thanx for ur an...
A. 20 February 2007: Some teenagers lose their appetite when theyre in love. Some eat more because they feel happy. Some feel their current shape isn't good enough and go on a crash diet to lose weight. There are a million answers to this question and since every teen ... (read in full...)
I appreciate that she was honest about who she's kissed before, but now I feel jealous! What can I do?
Q. i just wanted to know,i've just got my first gf. i've been with her for nearly 3 months now. i'm her longest relationship so far and we're both virgins. one night me and her went out for a meal and she started telling me about a few other guys she ...
A. 20 February 2007: Okay, I think you need someone to tell you the truth here, even though this may not be what you want to hear. She's kissed two guys before you! You're at the very least 18 if you didn't lie about your age in the profile. You're not going to find ... (read in full...)
We had a big row and he left, I haven't heard from him since. How is it possible that he has 'switched off' his feelings for me?!
Q. My boyfriend and I were very happy together, we lived together and spent almost every day together, we were inseparable and had the same tastes and got on so well. We started bickering over little things and then eventually we had a big row, I told ...
A. 20 February 2007: If this has really totally changed his feelings for you then they weren't that strong to start with, but I'm with you, this sounds a little unrealistic. My guess is that he wants you to hurt as much as he's hurting and this is the quickest and ... (read in full...)
My HOT girlfriend is more sexually experienced than me and I'm nervous about taking the next step with her! Help!!!
Q. I need help. I have a girlfriend who is hot. I'm not trying to sound arrogant but even girls have complimented her saying that she is. Although some guys think its weird that a shy person like me is in a relationship with her. Anyway she's had a bi...
A. 20 February 2007: Of course it's normal to be nervous. You might want to tell her. Girls are much more mature about sex than guys and she won't laugh at you, she'll even probably be willing to take the lead. It's honestly not a big deal. Taking care of the practical ... (read in full...)
He hit me and threatened to do it again! But I love him so much and I can't live without him. Help!
Q. hi, im 17 and my boyfriend is 20, i love him so much. Yesterday he hit me and threatened to do alot more for no big reason. It wasn't hard but he still did it. He hurt me so much but i still have the power to forgive him. I sent him a message to ...
A. 20 February 2007: I'm absolutely certain you believe that you can't live without him. Can I ask you something? Do you feel like he might have emotionally manipulated you previously in your relationship? Physical violence is never acceptable but your post makes you ... (read in full...)
We broke up but it's not official and I'm kinda mad about that! Are we finished for good?
Q. Hello In my last situation, I talked about how my boyfriend was using me, well he called me on febuary 9th and asked me to come over as usual. I gave him a very sarcastic answer and was like "Sure I will come I will be there in a few minutes" now ...
A. 20 February 2007: I must admit I don't remember your last situation but it sounds to me like even before allt his stuff happened you weren't treating each other very well. It seems to me that him not speaking to you on Valentines Day and you not speaking to him on ... (read in full...)
Should I take the safe option or follow my heart??
Q. I have been with my bf for over 4 years and although it hasn't been easy, i love him dearly. My best friend, who introduced us, has recently told me that my bf is going to propose soon. The thing is, I think my best friend, my soulmate, and I have ...
A. 20 February 2007: If you get married my guess is you're always going to wonder what if and if you ever get the opportunity to give it a go with your friend you won't think twice about cheating on your husband to do so. You need to have a serious cards on the table ... (read in full...)
Is he still nervous about underperforming??
Q. I'd really appreciate anyone's feedback on this... my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. It's been great, but I've lost a tremendous amount of self-confidence as a result of his 'performance', if you know what i mean.... I know...
A. 20 February 2007: He might be being selfish or maybe he's running scared. Basically it's not fair if you have to do everything in the bedroom and he has to overcome those fears. Talk to him. Ask him if the reason he doesn't pleasure you is because he doesn't want to ... (read in full...)
He's too tall for me to kiss him! What should I do?
Q. hi i really wanna kiss my bf! but how? he is about a head taller than me so i cant just go for it cos he is too tall. even if i reach up on tip toes i wouldnt be able to reach to kiss him. we havent kissed yet. how do i make the move and kiss hi...
A. 20 February 2007: When I was 17 I was going out with a guy who was 6"4. I'm only 5"0. We managed to do A LOT of kissing. Why not kiss while you're both sitting down? Or find something to stand on, you'll look cute and vulnerable that way.
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How do I give my experienced guy one he will never forget??
Q. Ok here's the deal I'm 18 and goin out with a guy that's a bit older than me. Thing is he has had loadsa experience with gals but I ain't had that much experience with guys. He gave me manual the other night and I climaxed but when I rubbed him he ...
A. 20 February 2007: Girls are actually really turned on by inexperienced girls that they can "train". Ask him to show you how to give him a blow job he'll never forget. It's hard to give you advice via the internet cos all guys like different things. Your best bet is ... (read in full...)
Is my friend trying to ruin my happiness again??
Q. Just over a month ago now I started dating this guy who my friend set me up with. The guy is from her work. Anyway we we went out a fair few times. And then not last week, the week before we had planned to go out to dinner but he cancelled that day ...
A. 20 February 2007: Your story is so sad because it mirrors the reason my last relationship fell apart. My friend was responsible for that. She told my guy lies about me and generally acted like a cow when the three of us found ourselves in the same place. I told her I ... (read in full...)
My arm feels like it's gonna fall off when I give him a hand-job...
Q. my boyfriend and i are always fooling around. but i can never seem to get him to cum when i am just giving him a handjob. if i am not doing anything he will grab my hand and go faster and he'll tell me to go faster but then my arm just gets tired. ...
A. 20 February 2007: Hm you're quite young so I'm guessing you haven't given amny handjobs or perhaps you just haven't given one for a while before meeting your new guy. You could try swapping hands, slowing down (apparently to tease him but giving yourself a handy rest ... (read in full...)
I don't know if this guy is into me or not? I'm getting mixed signals. What do you think?
Q. I don’t want to confuse things, so maybe you can help find out if this guy is into me or not. He’s giving me mixed signals and I can’t read him. Sometimes all his attention is on me and he laughs and makes sexy comments and won’t stop looking at me ...
A. 20 February 2007: Just because someone disagrees with you doesn't mean they don't like you. Would you put up with someone saying racist or sexist things just because you liked them? NO!! because you have a free mind to think and do what you want.
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Does he mean he likes me and WILL go out with me after my case goes through court?
Q. i will refrase my question, i am a wittness to a serious crime and have to appear in court, becouse of this i met a lovely policeman who is also involved in the same case as mine, i asked him out for a drink and he has said he is really flattered ...
A. 20 February 2007: It sounds like he is into you since he said he's sure you'll go out for a drink after. Definitely wait though. His job would be compromised by seeing you socially in the meantime. If it's making you anxious give him your number and tell him to give ... (read in full...)
He said he loves me loads but doesn't want to get back with me. How can I make him change his mind?
Q. hey i am 18 broke up with my boyfriend in december and i am still in love with him. i want to be his girl again so i asked him how he felt and he said he still loves me loads but dosnt want to go out with me how do i get him back into my life as ...
A. 20 February 2007: This is a hard question to answer without knowing a few things. Who broke up with who? If you broke up with him it comes down to trust issues. He's probably not willing to let you back in his life in case you hurt him again. If he broke up with you ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is working abroad at the moment and I kind of resent it. Am I being selfish here?
Q. I'm a 20 year old student and I've been in a relationship for over a year and a half. I've been living with my girlfriend for 9 months. She has recently gone away for 5 months to work. I didn't want her to go. I understand why she wanted to work ...
A. 20 February 2007: In a word... yes. Sorry. This is your girlfriend's dream. Her decision to go abroad was formed in her head before she even met you. I'm sure it's hard for you and I'm sure you miss her. I had to study abroad last year for my degree (obligatory ... (read in full...)
Today, I threw up... is this a sign of pregnancy? Could I be pregnant?!!???$!
Q. My boyfriend and i were fooling around the other day and i made him cum, a few hours later we had protected sex (used a condom) it did NOT break and everything was fine, he didnt cum inside of me. Its now 4 days later and i just got my period this ...
A. 20 February 2007: Some people do get nausea and vomiting with their periods but that tends to be girls a lot younger than you who have just started their periods and whose bodies are adjusting to the fluctuating hormone levels. The truth is that if you've had a ... (read in full...)
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