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*herries Needs Help
writes:One of my ex-boyfriends called me last night and told me that he was sorry for everything that he put me through and that he is sorry for hurting me so much. He told me that he loves me and misses me. I still have feelings for him and I still love him. I want to talk to him, but my boyfriend/fiance would rather me not talk to him, because he says it would just cause problems. But I really want to talk to him about everything that happened and how he is doing now. I don't know if I should sneak and talk to him or just leave him alone. Could I get some tips from anyone as to what I should do?
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reader, zgeek +, writes (21 February 2007):
 hm a kind of sticky situation one person or the other will get emotionally hurt somewhere in here If i was in your bf position I would do exactly what he is currently doing for fear of you falling completely in love with your old boyfriend I believe that you ex still loves you and is sincerely sorry for his actions in the past.........because his doing this kind of makes him look like an ex bf who is being a wimp and cant let go.....not really the case but its what it looks like to other people.........if I where you I would attempt to talk to your ex bf but that depends if you are certain that your current bf loves you to a greater extent than ur ex and your feeling are very strong for your current bf more so than your ex. If you still love your ex more than your current bf I would try and talk to him if not....I would stick with your current bf and make not much of an effort to talk to your ex. or if you are going to talk to you ex reassure your bf that you wont leave him so he doesn't fear a ton. well hope that ramble helps.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (20 February 2007):
 Sounds like your current boyfriend is right not to want you to meet your ex seeing as you fully admit still having feelings for him. Ultimately your boyfriend can't stop you seeing your ex although it would be a trust violation but my advice would be to steer clear. If you want to be with your ex you should finish it with your current boyfriend and be with him. If you want to be with your current boyfriend you need to realise there's a reaon why your ex is an ex and break all ties.
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