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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Should I press him to talk more? Should I confront him about the other girl`s pictures? Is it worth it?
Q. Hello. I have a problem, but I`m not sure if I can explain it. I`ll try. I`ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. From the beginning, I had a feeling he`s somehow closed to me. I didn`t know anything about his life, family, friends, except ...
A. 13 November 2011: If he's trying to make an effort then you need to cut him a little slack. He's showing you that he wants to move forward with you. His actions right now say a lot.
Also keep in mind that if you want to stay with him, then you're going to have to ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and I don't know which ones the father! What do I tell them!
Q. Hey, I just found out the other day that I am pregnant but I had sex with 2 guys around the time my doctor said I got pregnant. I was having sex with my boyfriend at the time but I was with another friend and we just got carried away. I don't live ...
A. 21 February 2011: Wow, I honestly hope it works out for you. Pretty proud of you for being honest too! Best of luck to you.... (read in full...)
My best mate loves my girlfriend. What do I do?
Q. hi i have a dilemma. it is that my best mate, he loves my girlfriend and and he is pressureing her. I've tried talking to him but it just doesn't work. What do i do....
A. 16 February 2011: Sure thing! Ehhh, I wouldn't be friends with him. But if you insist then trust him about as far as you can throw him. ... (read in full...)
My best mate loves my girlfriend. What do I do?
Q. hi i have a dilemma. it is that my best mate, he loves my girlfriend and and he is pressureing her. I've tried talking to him but it just doesn't work. What do i do....
A. 16 February 2011: Sweetie, he's not even your friend if he's hitting on your girlfriend. Who cares if he gets mad? You're the one that should be pissed! ... (read in full...)
Just sent her a surprise for valentines day and I've found out she's cheating! Help!
Q. Me and my girl were supposed to be taking a break from each other but still datin.. i was only gone 2 days and on the third i decided to pop up and see what she's doing but wen i arrived, she had another dude over and he was like... they had been ...
A. 15 February 2011: @ male anon
You're not together with the person and wanting time apart. Now unless there are rules specified such as you two aren't to date anyone else and take this time to figure out what is going on. Most of the time these breaks are a nice w... (read in full...)
Are all our dates going to be as awkward as this one?
Q. Ok I had my first date a few months ago days before the date I was super excited and we went to the movie so I was kind of hoping that I would get my first kiss in the dark movie theater but I was wrong he brought his 3 cousins ,mom,sister and his ...
A. 13 February 2011: Honey, all first dates have that potential awkward factor! I feel for you, I really do. You shouldn't have a disastrous date already at your age.
Did you ask him why he brought along the whole family along? Maybe his parents are strict (since y... (read in full...)
No matter what position, I cannot achieve orgasm through penetrative sex
Q. ok this is a little embarassing... I am 25 years old and should know all about this but.... I dont. I have never had an orgasm while having intercourse. I have been intimate with several men and tried every position possible and still no big "O"...
A. 13 February 2011: I believe that it depends on the guy and your level of intimacy and passion with him. It took me till I was 25 to achieve an orgasm through penetration with my husband. Out of the rest of the guys, with only one I had an orgasm through oral sex.
... (read in full...)
What actions do I avoid so I don't get put in the friend zone?
Q. I'm going to be hanging out for the 2nd time with this girl that I've met. This is will be the 2nd date in my entire life so far, and I'm not sure how to flirt with women. I just talk to them while being nice. I don't want her to put me in the ...
A. 13 February 2011: Women often place you in the friend zone because they're not attracted to you but still think you're a nice guy. Most of the time you can't avoid being placed in it.
Just don't try to be overly friendly over where you're trying to become her frie... (read in full...)
How do I tell my job that I need time off for my wedding?
Q. Hi...... so I'm getting married in about three months I just got hired at a new job and I don't know how to tell them that I will be needing time off for my wedding because of the 90 day probation ????...
A. 13 February 2011: So you're getting married when the 90 days is up? Or are you wanting unpaid time off, say week(s) to get ready for the event?
Talk to your boss, and see if they will work around it. ... (read in full...)
Just sent her a surprise for valentines day and I've found out she's cheating! Help!
Q. Me and my girl were supposed to be taking a break from each other but still datin.. i was only gone 2 days and on the third i decided to pop up and see what she's doing but wen i arrived, she had another dude over and he was like... they had been ...
A. 13 February 2011: How are you on a break, but still dating? A break means you are broken up. Did you specify certain rules and stipulations during this break, such as you two weren't allowed to see anyone else? If you two were still dating then you weren't on a ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and I don't know which ones the father! What do I tell them!
Q. Hey, I just found out the other day that I am pregnant but I had sex with 2 guys around the time my doctor said I got pregnant. I was having sex with my boyfriend at the time but I was with another friend and we just got carried away. I don't live ...
A. 13 February 2011: There's no nonchalant way, or lie you can feed your boyfriend to ask for a DNA sample. I'm sure he's not an idiot and will be wondering why the hell you're asking for his blood/spit. As far as DNA testing goes your boyfriend has to go to a lab to ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get a girlfriend?
Q. Why cant I get a girlfriend? Everyone tells me to be myself and it never works. Whats wrong with me?...
A. 13 February 2011: I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 16. At 13-15, girls are more concerned about girl friends and fitting in before they add a boyfriend to the equation.
Have you asked any girls out? Girls around your age are shy and aren't going to take the... (read in full...)
Mixed messages...
Q. To cut a long story short, me and this girl we went out when we young, like 12/13. Then we went out again when we were 16 for 7 months. We've been broken up for 6 months. It was all a mess and I still like her. We didn't get on for a while but now ...
A. 13 February 2011: She also has a history with you, and I'm sure you're around her at these parties, making you the closest to throw herself on. What kind of mixed messages is she sending while drunk? Like drunk girls are totally aware that they are even sending ... (read in full...)
After having led me on with the promise of a life together, he suddenly decides to bail out. Should I tell his wife about the whole sham?
Q. Where to start. I fell in love with a married man. He told me that he was on his way out of his marriage. He gave me horror stories about his wife. 8, 9, 10 months go by and he and I are more in love than I've ever been with anyone and I'm not ...
A. 13 February 2011: More or less you would be telling his wife so he doesn't hurt any more future affairs like he hurt you? What about compassion for her getting cheated on?
Most often cheating husbands have multiple affairs. It's always the same sexual, secret e... (read in full...)
He just doesn't respect the way I feel
Q. I'm 16 and have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months, it's been great I liked him for a while before we went out so I've been seeing this relationship as a bit of a dream. But recently he's been blowing me off at dates to hang out other girls who I ...
A. 13 February 2011: What does that say about your boyfriend when he blows you off to hang out with other girls or directly flirts with them on Facebook? His actions say he could care less about this relationship. Do you really want to be with someone like that and to ... (read in full...)
In the middle between two bffs fighting over guys
Q. Okay so this week drama has been happening with my two bff's. They fight over guys. And they make me go between and pick sides. I just hate doing that. I want them to grow up a bit and become more sophisticated and just act cool. They both trash ...
A. 13 February 2011: There's really no leveling with or getting them to listen when the fight is over a silly guy. It will either break their friendship (happens quite a bit) or they will soon come to realize that their friendship is worth more than some stupid guy.
... (read in full...)
How do I handle a threatening group at school?
Q. Okay so there's this girl in my school who's like really ghetto. And she has her own "posse" but so do i and i'm the leader of mine except i'm not ghetto at all. In fact the ghetto girl calls me "blonde" but i have brown hair and i'm part african. ...
A. 13 February 2011: Lol, how can you stop getting a teenager to think they're all that? You can't!
Sorry, it was a bit funny.
Anyways, it seems as there is a bit of rivalry between you and her. If you're really more powerful than her, then there's no need to prov... (read in full...)
My best mate loves my girlfriend. What do I do?
Q. hi i have a dilemma. it is that my best mate, he loves my girlfriend and and he is pressureing her. I've tried talking to him but it just doesn't work. What do i do....
A. 13 February 2011: You dump your now ex-best mate. He doesn't respect your relationship with your girlfriend (guy code) much less your guy's friendship. ... (read in full...)
Mixed messages...
Q. To cut a long story short, me and this girl we went out when we young, like 12/13. Then we went out again when we were 16 for 7 months. We've been broken up for 6 months. It was all a mess and I still like her. We didn't get on for a while but now ...
A. 13 February 2011:
At that age (I remember those days fondly), she's drunk and latching onto any guy who happens to be giving her attention. That being you. So these drunken mixed messages, are the alcohol talking.
If you really want to find out if she wants yo... (read in full...)
Images of my girlfriend keep popping in my head
Q. images of my ex girlfriend keep popping into my head at random times does this mean I still have feelings for her? it has been about a year since we broke up because she liked her friend more than me....
A. 13 February 2011: Sometimes we just can't control where our mind wanders at times. Or what passes through our brains.
At times, my ex fiance (who I loathe) pops into my head and I'm happily married. Just think nothing more on the matter, and busy yourself with an ... (read in full...)
Did I break the code of men? Am I a terrible friend?
Q. Back when I was in college (about 6 years ago) I had a good buddy of mine that was broken up with by his girlfriend of a few years. I got to be good friends with his girlfriend when they were together and she was someone that I truly enjoyed as a ...
A. 13 February 2011: Like the below poster said, she kissed you not the other way around. Plus, you were the one to pull away. Plus the added factor they were broken up. Now if you were to plant one on her while they were still together then that would be breaking all ... (read in full...)
Love her to bits but she says no sex before marriage and it's frustrating me!
Q. Hi I'm 28. For the first time in my life I think I am truly in love. My relationshiip with my girlfriend of 4 months is fantastic. However, she does not believe in sex before marriage because she is christian. I am not religious but repsect her...
A. 13 February 2011: 4 months in, can you see yourself possibly marrying this girl? Did she make her beliefs known before you two started dating or was it after the fact?
I can understand your pent up sexual frustration; I also give you props for dating a person w... (read in full...)
I never told him how I felt... and now he's gone!
Q. Okay, so there was this boy who i met in Year 7, when we both started new at the same school. (we were both in the same boarding house btw, so i saw him lots every day) I automatically fell for him, I just loved everything about him, he was funny, c...
A. 13 February 2011: How far away does he live from you now? Can you still SKYPE him?
What can you do really? It's not his fault he had to move. And you were a bit too shy to tell him how you feel and probably vice versa. I don't suggest a LDR at your age, it's jus... (read in full...)
Does he basically want me for sex?
Q. Hey! So basically i am 16 years old and i am your average 16 year year old i drink, i go into town (clubbing) i know quite a lot of people, im not popular or anything i just know people in my town becasue its quite small! Anyway last summer i wa...
A. 13 February 2011: If you really think about it he didn't really waste any time trying; he's faded in and out of talking/getting to know you. He's not consistent in pursuing you.
You've got it right, if he tried to take your V-card and you didn't give it up then ... (read in full...)
Giving a V-day card to a crush???
Q. There is this girl in one of my classes that I am interested in. We had a class last semester, so we know each other a little through group activities, but not much beyond that. I got the courage to ask for her phone number to study for a class. But ...
A. 13 February 2011: When was the last time you talked to this girl seeing as you had a class last semester and she gave you her number to study? Do you know if she has a boyfriend?
If it's been since last semester, it would look very random if her study partner ... (read in full...)
Stressing out here over a "date!"
Q. So I went to ask a girl out, but ended up not directly doing so, instead asking if she wanted to come for a steak she agreed but we had to change the time till today. Anyway I'm stressing out what to do, as it is or isnt a date and I don't know how ...
A. 13 February 2011: First of all you need to relax. Be yourself around her, no need to put on a show and pretend to be someone you're not.
I would consider inviting her over for steak more of like a casual date. A little more fancy, because you will be serving ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 11 years begs me for more threesomes!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years, we have awesome sex and have gotten kinky over the past 3 years! He discovered that I am into women and we have introduced a few into are bedroom with us. I normally perform with her and then he performs ...
A. 13 February 2011: Together 11 years and he's proposing more threesomes? Instead why doesn't he drop down on one knee and commit to just you? Of course, once you say "yes" to one they'll want more to follow. He's one of those males who love the fact that you're a bit ... (read in full...)
The Girl's Guide to Any Guy
Q. The girls guide to any guy So nowadays flirting isn’t as simple as batting your eyelashes and boys aren’t as predictable. I decided to make a guide for flirting and making yourself irresistible to any boy and charming to any adults. I will probably...
A. 13 February 2011: 1. I semi agree with this however, I wouldn't join every club he's in, plus try out for the football team. Might make you look stalker-ish. Keep the "coincidental" appearances to a minimum.
2. Yes. Want to really nab his attention? Open your mou... (read in full...)
Should I press him to talk more? Should I confront him about the other girl`s pictures? Is it worth it?
Q. Hello. I have a problem, but I`m not sure if I can explain it. I`ll try. I`ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. From the beginning, I had a feeling he`s somehow closed to me. I didn`t know anything about his life, family, friends, except ...
A. 11 February 2011: Woah, sounds like he's not over his ex if he refuses to delete the pictures and telling you he cannot invest himself in this relationship. Then what does he want this relationship for?
I don't blame you for being insecure over his ex, he's sti... (read in full...)
I can't live without him but my emotions are telling me otherwise.
Q. Hello. Im 17 nearly 18 years of age and i have been with my boyfriend, Gunner for nearing 8 months now, i know that it isnt that long compared to others on here but i still love him. Recently i had quite bad PMS and it made me feel like i didnt love ...
A. 11 February 2011: Couldn't your mother sign or give an approval for you to get them? Here in the U.S. teens can obtain anti-depressants of course through their parents insurance. Not sure how your NHS works in the UK..I'm sure it can be worked out somehow?
Well ... (read in full...)
Marriage or master's degree, which should come first?
Q. Please advice me, I am 25 male, handsome, working as economic analyst, but want to have my master within 2 0r 3 years, but same time want to marry....should i do master first and then marry or i should marry and then go for masters.... i...
A. 5 February 2011: You know I picked marriage before finishing school (going back to shove summer school down my throat), I don't regret it one bit. In fact, I'm lucky that my husband is transferring his G.I. bill to me so that the rest of my schooling will be paid ... (read in full...)
Is my out of control pubic hair normal for women?
Q. Hey, I'm worried about my pubic hair. Its dark and curly and also feels kind of spiky. I cut it every few weeks so it doesnt stick out my underwear. Is this normal? Do most women have hair like this? Im particularly interested what white people have ...
A. 4 February 2011: Lol, not all white people have fine hair. There's plenty of white girls that have wildly, kinky, curly hair. I have fine hair, but an out of control downstairs (if not maintained). Then there's the women who I envy that have peach fuzz, which is ... (read in full...)
Ladies, would you ever change your personality for your boyfriend?
Q. Ladies, would you ever change your personality for your boyfriend? Personality as in being more assertive, more sexy or just overall more "loving" to them even though you have been doing just fine since your relationship kicked off. Just a si...
A. 4 February 2011: I'd have to give a general no. I don't feel like I should have to even tweak my personality, that's not who I am. That person got into the relationship knowing that this is who am I me, this is what you get.
I maintain a certain amount of lovin... (read in full...)
Should I be ok with my girlfriend sleeping in another guy's bed?
Q. My girlfriend went to a sleepover with her guy friend, since he supposedly dosent have a guest room, she has to sleep on the same bed as him, should I be fine with that?...
A. 3 February 2011: Also like to add I too have slept in the same bed as my male best friend, but I was single when it happened. Is it right sleeping in the same bed as another male (who may be a friend) but isn't your boyfriend/significant other? No, not really. If I ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my husband we need marriage counseling?
Q. My husband and I having been problems over the last year. It started with him accusing me of cheating on him and leaving me. We desided to work things out but I found he was still chatting with females on match.com. I canceled that account and then ...
A. 3 February 2011: I applaud you for wanting to go to marriage counseling and taking the necessary steps to fix your marriage. However, the thing with marriage counseling is both parties have to agree to go and have to be willing to fix what is broken. That is if it's ... (read in full...)
10 Things Guys really want in a woman...
Q. I received a message from a friend on my Facebook fan page and she had an idea for a post for my blog. She inquired if I could write about what men want in a woman. I thought that this might be interesting as well, so I responded to her message and ...
A. 3 February 2011: Basically what women want in men as well. However, we toss in caring and hope for a romantic bone in their body. So we're more on the same page than we think.
I like the article, unfortunately it's a novel(felt like I was reading Twilight... (read in full...)
Should I be ok with my girlfriend sleeping in another guy's bed?
Q. My girlfriend went to a sleepover with her guy friend, since he supposedly dosent have a guest room, she has to sleep on the same bed as him, should I be fine with that?...
A. 3 February 2011: Unless this guy is completely homosexual, then no shouldn't be ok with this situation.
She doesn't HAVE to sleep in his bed, she WANTS to. Your girlfriend doesn't have to do anything she doesn't want to. What's wrong with the floor of the bedr... (read in full...)
How do I interpret these mixed signals from him?
Q. This guy I love moved away about 7 months ago and he comes home for winter break, spring break, and a month of summer break. He lives 600 miles Away and I'm still in high school so I cant visit. Well, last week when he was drunk he told me he loved ...
A. 3 February 2011: Do you really want to hold him accountable for his drunken marriage proposal? A guy proposes to you sober dropped down on one knee with a gorgeous ring; that is if he really loves you and wishes to marry you.
So what happened the first time whe... (read in full...)
My teacher is 2 different people around me! When we are alone he is great, but in front of others he makes me the butt of jokes!
Q. hey guys. so i'm in a really confusing situation, my teacher is 43 i think hes married because at the begining of last year he wore a wedding ring but now doesn't, and i'm well 16. and the problem is things are tense and i dont know why, and i c...
A. 3 February 2011: Regardless, the positive point here is that you have moved on from having a crush on teacher and found someone new to like. Hopefully, some one more your age. Kudos to you sweetie!... (read in full...)
Crazy gold digger!
Q. I live in Mexico and went out with a lady, who is almost 50 and works in the family business which is going down the old drain by the way. I have been going with her for four years. The first breakup was after 1 1/2 years, and came out of the blue. ...
A. 3 February 2011: Lol, of course she would still be with you if you bought her a convertible. However, you say she gets bored easily with her toys, so she's going to be moving on to the next high priced item she wants. This isn't a ploy to get you to pay for her ... (read in full...)
Abusive partner...
Q. I asked for advise on my partner of 12 months not long ago all the advise was great i wanted to take it but now its a whole different ball ground.... ok i dont want advise telling me to leave him because i cant.... My partner asked me when he lost ...
A. 3 February 2011: You don't want advice telling you to leave him so what advice are you looking for? Tips for self defense?
Even if you stay with him he's still going to hurt you. He's an abuser and you are his abusee. This sad excuse for a human being isn't go... (read in full...)
Crazy gold digger!
Q. I live in Mexico and went out with a lady, who is almost 50 and works in the family business which is going down the old drain by the way. I have been going with her for four years. The first breakup was after 1 1/2 years, and came out of the blue. ...
A. 3 February 2011: Your friends are absolutely right!
Are you serious? It's obvious that everyone can tell this woman is a gold digger perhaps a con artist, or a sexless escort. She's a high priced woman, who will milk you for every nickel and dime you got. You... (read in full...)
Girls have you ever experienced something like this?
Q. Just a short question about some behavior changes I've noticed with my girlfriend. We have a 3 month old son, been together for just over two years, I love her very much and she seems like she feels the same, I'm completely happy with life. Towar...
A. 3 February 2011: It's really hard to say..usually in a LDR both parties need to keep up communication as much as each person can. That's all you have, except for when it's possible to visit, but in LDRs it's not as often as you would like it to be.
I know in ... (read in full...)
I can't live without him but my emotions are telling me otherwise.
Q. Hello. Im 17 nearly 18 years of age and i have been with my boyfriend, Gunner for nearing 8 months now, i know that it isnt that long compared to others on here but i still love him. Recently i had quite bad PMS and it made me feel like i didnt love ...
A. 3 February 2011: It's quite possible you may have PMDD. Which is basically a severe, out of control case of PMS.
It can be treated by a balanced diet with increased whole grains and fruits, enough rest, taking vitamins such as B6, calcium, magnesium, and exercise... (read in full...)
Should I stay and fight or let her go?
Q. I have been in and out of a long distance relationship with a girl for over 3 years now. We have known each other for a long time as we've run in similar circles and we've been great friends even prior to our relationship. She is 10 years older ...
A. 3 February 2011: So how many times in the past 3 years have you broken up? From that part alone it seems like a vicious cycle.
What did you do in those 6 months for her not to trust you? Basically you dumped her..but for what reason? So you could party? If I wer... (read in full...)
My best friend stole the girl I love!
Q. So I really like this girl and my friend seems to like her too. I've thought this for awhile and I don't knownwhat to do. My friend claims to have a gf but I've never seen her so Idk if he's lying. The girl I like is really pretty smart and funny. ...
A. 3 February 2011: Yayyy! Go get her!!!
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My best friend stole the girl I love!
Q. So I really like this girl and my friend seems to like her too. I've thought this for awhile and I don't knownwhat to do. My friend claims to have a gf but I've never seen her so Idk if he's lying. The girl I like is really pretty smart and funny. ...
A. 3 February 2011: If you like her, you ask her out. Regardless if your close friends or not. In fact, you don't want to be close friends with her because she'll place you in the friend zone. That makes you two too good of friends to be able to date.
Don't sit ther... (read in full...)
Should I stay and fight or let her go?
Q. I have been in and out of a long distance relationship with a girl for over 3 years now. We have known each other for a long time as we've run in similar circles and we've been great friends even prior to our relationship. She is 10 years older ...
A. 2 February 2011: I obviously can't tell the future and neither can you or her. Who knows if you two will be together again? At the moment it's a no, because she has another guy she's casually seeing. How old is this other guy? Just curious.
I see why she broke up... (read in full...)
My best friend stole the girl I love!
Q. So I really like this girl and my friend seems to like her too. I've thought this for awhile and I don't knownwhat to do. My friend claims to have a gf but I've never seen her so Idk if he's lying. The girl I like is really pretty smart and funny. ...
A. 2 February 2011: So now that you're not even competing against him, talk to her!... (read in full...)
My best friend stole the girl I love!
Q. So I really like this girl and my friend seems to like her too. I've thought this for awhile and I don't knownwhat to do. My friend claims to have a gf but I've never seen her so Idk if he's lying. The girl I like is really pretty smart and funny. ...
A. 1 February 2011: That question varies per girl, even at 13. When I was 13-15, girls liked guys who were cute, funny (class clown), into sports, and popular. But I'm 26 now and times have probably changed.
Really it depends on what this girl likes. You assume s... (read in full...)
Should I press him to talk more? Should I confront him about the other girl`s pictures? Is it worth it?
Q. Hello. I have a problem, but I`m not sure if I can explain it. I`ll try. I`ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. From the beginning, I had a feeling he`s somehow closed to me. I didn`t know anything about his life, family, friends, except ...
A. 7 January 2011: It really takes a long time for a guy to learn how to open up. Some guys tend to have poor communication, that usually is because of a lack of dating experience of being a bachelor for so long. You just have to let him know that you're in it for the ... (read in full...)
Should I press him to talk more? Should I confront him about the other girl`s pictures? Is it worth it?
Q. Hello. I have a problem, but I`m not sure if I can explain it. I`ll try. I`ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. From the beginning, I had a feeling he`s somehow closed to me. I didn`t know anything about his life, family, friends, except ...
A. 7 January 2011: Ah that explains things he's always been reserved and doesn't know how to open up. If he's not communicating with you then the relationship will always have these issues.... (read in full...)
Should I press him to talk more? Should I confront him about the other girl`s pictures? Is it worth it?
Q. Hello. I have a problem, but I`m not sure if I can explain it. I`ll try. I`ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. From the beginning, I had a feeling he`s somehow closed to me. I didn`t know anything about his life, family, friends, except ...
A. 7 January 2011: How recent is this evident chat? There should be a date somewhere on the paper. If it's recent then I would confront him over it, seeing as you snooped and it would continue to bother you if you tried to keep that information to yourself. Now if ... (read in full...)
My teacher is 2 different people around me! When we are alone he is great, but in front of others he makes me the butt of jokes!
Q. hey guys. so i'm in a really confusing situation, my teacher is 43 i think hes married because at the begining of last year he wore a wedding ring but now doesn't, and i'm well 16. and the problem is things are tense and i dont know why, and i c...
A. 5 December 2010: Splits the school year in half..You have the fall half from Aug-Dec, then you have the Spring half Jan-May. We call it semesters in America. ... (read in full...)
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