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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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What does it mean when a man gives you a drawer?
Q. I have a man I'm seeing long distance. We started this relationship in early November We are two hours apart... we email and talk on the phone a few times a week... I go to visit him since he cannot be around my dogs. I have been up to see h...
A. 18 May 2011: :( A little sad you have to give up your animals..They become part of the family after a while. Let's hope this man is well worth it. ... (read in full...)
If he makes a move on me, how do I stay faithful to my boyfriend?
Q. a year ago, me and this boy i liked kissed, but we didnt go out, and stopped talking after a while. now i have a really lovely boyfriend, but this boy has come back into my life again. he's got a reputation as a bit of a tool, and he's really ...
A. 16 March 2011: Smart girl you are OP. Alcohol is NO excuse, that goes for everyone.... (read in full...)
My gf hates when I talk to my friends! I can't take it any more! What do I do?
Q. Hey guys I'm 26 and my gf is 20. We have a two year old daughter together and had one hell of a relationship. It turned ugly a few times and had to get my parents to come help us out and referee it. We live together and we tell each other i love ...
A. 25 February 2011: Have you not read any of the advice given??? Let me sum it up for you..
A. Man up and dump her. But that's probably not going to happen because she has your balls in jar on her nightstand.
-OR-
B. Or stay with her and be miserable for the... (read in full...)
My gf hates when I talk to my friends! I can't take it any more! What do I do?
Q. Hey guys I'm 26 and my gf is 20. We have a two year old daughter together and had one hell of a relationship. It turned ugly a few times and had to get my parents to come help us out and referee it. We live together and we tell each other i love ...
A. 24 February 2011: Yes, she's going to sit there and pull the puppy dog eyes on you hoping you'll change your mind about the break. Stand you're ground, you can't budge.
You two can move out and take a break but you're still together..so you both need to take thi... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in the air force. How do I cope with the long distance?
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A. 24 February 2011:
Even when you two get married, (it is great)you will back to that whole LDR deal when he gets deployed. Don't hold me to this, but I think Air Force only get deployed for 6 months. However, they do have support groups on base for the military wive... (read in full...)
Is this a fair offer?
Q. My boyfriend moved out and to another city to be closer to his children from first marriage. Job prospects also better for him there. He told me he wants me to move too and be with him, as long as I get a job and pay my own way within a month or ...
A. 24 February 2011: I see, so in your case you need some assurance that this is going to be "to death do us part". In that case, I would be wondering where that engagement ring is, if he says he wants to marry you.
It's also noted that you sometimes helped out in p... (read in full...)
Is he going to pop the question soon???
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A. 24 February 2011: Eh from your post it sounds like he is. That doesn't mean go out and buy a wedding dress now (that's a very bad idea).
There's no surefire way to tell. You just have to be patient and find out.... (read in full...)
Is it okay that he's going swimming with other girls?
Q. Just a general question Is it okay for me to feel a bit insecure about my boyfriend going swimming with other girls? Say 5 girls, 3 boys. Im not too sure why im bothered about it seeing as i dont believe anything would happen at all. Just make...
A. 24 February 2011: As long as they're not skinny dipping at night and you trust your boyfriend then I don't see a problem.
How come you're not going? Wasn't invited? Can't swim? Have other engagements that day?... (read in full...)
Could it really happen that I might not know about a baby resulting from a one-night stand?
Q. Over a year and I half ago I had my only one night stand of my life. There was alot to drink, sex with and without a condom, although I never "finished" inside her. I woke up the next morning and felt sick to my stomach with disgust. This was ...
A. 24 February 2011: A year and a half later, you're just now worrying about this?
Do you even know her name? Perhaps you could Facebook her just to check up, or maybe you two have mutual friends?
I would like to think that if there was a chance she was pregnant... (read in full...)
My gf hates when I talk to my friends! I can't take it any more! What do I do?
Q. Hey guys I'm 26 and my gf is 20. We have a two year old daughter together and had one hell of a relationship. It turned ugly a few times and had to get my parents to come help us out and referee it. We live together and we tell each other i love ...
A. 24 February 2011: I apologize for coming across as being harsh, but you're a 26 year old man you know what you need to do in order to be happy.... (read in full...)
My gf hates when I talk to my friends! I can't take it any more! What do I do?
Q. Hey guys I'm 26 and my gf is 20. We have a two year old daughter together and had one hell of a relationship. It turned ugly a few times and had to get my parents to come help us out and referee it. We live together and we tell each other i love ...
A. 23 February 2011: Here's your options:
Continue living in misery for the rest of your life because you can't grow a pair and stand up to her. Of course it isn't going to be easy when there is a child involved, it never is.
-OR-
1. You stand up to her and ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing in not being in the same bed as my friends who were messing around? And how do I face them tomorrow?
Q. Okay I am not a pretty girl, I am not into going out all the time or drinking, drugs, etc. but what happened tonight has made my life slope bad so here it goes: this is my story! I have liked this guy for 3 months now. He's sweet, nice, and kind t...
A. 23 February 2011: I wouldn't waste time in concocting a plan for revenge. Although you could tell your other mutual friends of what happened making her look like quite the betraying slut.
Really, you should just drop her as a friend and silently wait for karma to... (read in full...)
My gf hates when I talk to my friends! I can't take it any more! What do I do?
Q. Hey guys I'm 26 and my gf is 20. We have a two year old daughter together and had one hell of a relationship. It turned ugly a few times and had to get my parents to come help us out and referee it. We live together and we tell each other i love ...
A. 23 February 2011: Wow you're a 26 year old man allowing your 20 year old girlfriend to control you and dictate your every move.
You're guy's relationship is so bad that you had to get your parents to intervene? That's pretty awful. If you two are going to make it ... (read in full...)
My ex changed his number on me!
Q. Me and my recent ex boyfriend really really love each other and have a very intense attraction and chemistry, but we just can’t seem to get on and he gets aggressive and violent. We have been on and off for over 6 months now since we first split up ...
A. 23 February 2011: Mmm if he changed his number chances are he's not coming back this time.
Why would you want him back when he's violently aggressive with you? Sounds like a very toxic relationship that you really need to let go of.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't want to meet my parents because of our age gap?
Q. Hi there. I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months officially but it's difficult for me to see him all the time as I'm 6 years younger than him and he hasn't met my parents yet. Because of the age difference I lie to them as to where I'm ...
A. 23 February 2011: It's only 2 months in, there's no need to go introducing him to your parents right away there will be time for that later.
I'm also curious(no offense) as to what a 22-23 year old who is finished or finishing up college wants with a 16-17 ye... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to sleep in my bed?
Q. This is the problem. My boyfriend and I already decided to get married. He just informed me he would like to sleep in my bed but it isn't a must cause he has slept alone for so long. Should I be concerned?...
A. 23 February 2011:
He doesn't care whether or not you guys sleep in the same bed after you are married? This is the real question.
Have you two ever slept together?
Does he have any medical conditions? Perhaps he just likes his space in bed. my husband cons... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to sleep in my bed?
Q. This is the problem. My boyfriend and I already decided to get married. He just informed me he would like to sleep in my bed but it isn't a must cause he has slept alone for so long. Should I be concerned?...
A. 23 February 2011: What's the problem? You two are engaged(?) and he wants to sleep in your bed, sounds more than ok to me. If you two are going to get married, you're going to have to get used to sharing a bed. Unless of course you're one of those married couples who ... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as a bad kisser?
Q. is there such thing as bad kissers? i have never kissed anyone and im really scared and nervous. i have been seeing this and he always trie to kiss me but i refuse. im scared im a bad kisser, i dont want to tell him i've never kissed anyone. any ...
A. 23 February 2011: Yes! People who who shove your tongue down your throat to the point where you're choking, too much spit making it a slobbery dog kiss, or using their teeth to the point where you two knock teeth, or they accidentally bite you. I've experienced all ... (read in full...)
If he makes a move on me, how do I stay faithful to my boyfriend?
Q. a year ago, me and this boy i liked kissed, but we didnt go out, and stopped talking after a while. now i have a really lovely boyfriend, but this boy has come back into my life again. he's got a reputation as a bit of a tool, and he's really ...
A. 23 February 2011: How has he come back in your life? Are you two friends? Did he tell you he wants to get with you?
You say you don't want to get involved but you're pondering the what if..I get the image that you still like this guy now that he's resurfac... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and her slutty drinkin buddy......
Q. This is just as much a general question as it is specific to me. So here are my thoughts. I've been seeing this girl for a couple months now. It's not long enough to be something too serious, yet it's moving fast. It's safe to say we're exclus...
A. 22 February 2011: You're welcome, it's good to have DC so you can get a second perspective on it.
Sometimes, we just don't know who we're dating.... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a man gives you a drawer?
Q. I have a man I'm seeing long distance. We started this relationship in early November We are two hours apart... we email and talk on the phone a few times a week... I go to visit him since he cannot be around my dogs. I have been up to see h...
A. 22 February 2011: Even I'm old enough to know what a drawer in a man's house means!
It means he's comfortable and confident enough in this relationship for you to start leaving some of your things at his house. Such as a toothbrush, any necessary toiletri... (read in full...)
Why did my wife get upset when I saw a topless sunbather on a beach?
Q. This may be a funny question to ask but my wife got so mad on a trip we took to Mexico when we saw a woman laying out topless. Why is that? I am not the guy who makes comments about other women or takes long stares at them; I have always been very ...
A. 22 February 2011: Ah, who's going to tell the French Canadian woman to put a top on, right?
It's like a train wreck, you can't help but look..Plus, your wife was guilty of looking as well!
I would just do a bit of damage control and tell her you weren't star... (read in full...)
Why did my wife get upset when I saw a topless sunbather on a beach?
Q. This may be a funny question to ask but my wife got so mad on a trip we took to Mexico when we saw a woman laying out topless. Why is that? I am not the guy who makes comments about other women or takes long stares at them; I have always been very ...
A. 22 February 2011: Did it happen to be a topless beach you were at? If so then the topless sunbather was well within her rights and your wife has no room to complain.
Did you make a comment or even look, glance, ogle, peek at the topless woman?
You probably ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and her slutty drinkin buddy......
Q. This is just as much a general question as it is specific to me. So here are my thoughts. I've been seeing this girl for a couple months now. It's not long enough to be something too serious, yet it's moving fast. It's safe to say we're exclus...
A. 22 February 2011:
All the blame can't be place on her slutty friend. Your girlfriend obviously needs to have some self discipline when it comes to alcohol consumption. No one forced the alcohol down her throat, she did it at her own will. She didn't have to get anni... (read in full...)
How do I get over him if I don't want to get over him?
Q. So im still having the same guy problems as ive had for like a year now. I havent spoken to him in like 2months because he hasnt been answering me. I finally got hold off him the other night when i was drunk, i pretnended i was ringing for someone ...
A. 22 February 2011: There's no secret way to get over someone otherwise DC and other sites like ours wouldn't exist. It takes time and some of the activities that the below poster mentioned. The key is to keep yourself busy so your mind doesn't wander back to him.
... (read in full...)
His jealousy led to a "break" -- how long do I give it?
Q. Okay so I've been dating this guy for almost 2 years now and so far its been great. I've never met anyone like him. we were best friends before and ever since we started dating, we would act different than most couples our age (were teenagers). So ...
A. 22 February 2011: Breaks are a "temporary" break up. The one who wants the break usually specifies a time line of when you two will resume contact and discuss where you two stand. It could be weeks to a matter of months. There's no telling.
It's not a very goo... (read in full...)
Why cant I get a date and have fallen for someone who is taken?
Q. well i will soon be 21 and i cant feel worse about myself i havent even had my first kiss yet not that i havent had offers even for sex but im not into sex without being in a commited relationship and im only attracted to ceartin pple (not shallow ...
A. 22 February 2011: The whole question of why you can't get a date, no one on here can answer. I don't personally know you as a person, so I can't tell you what you're doing wrong. Have you asked out girls? Perhaps you're a little shy? A lot of girls won't approach you ... (read in full...)
He has moved away and already seems to not care as much about me!
Q. My boyfriend of a year, moved away to the province next to me two days ago for work. I asked him if he wanted to break up but he did not want to. But already I am feeling really insecure about our relationship. When we were together we were so close ...
A. 22 February 2011: Ahhh, that explains his lack there of communication. So basically he's playing catch up with the people from his home town. Understandable, he's still getting adjusted to his changed lifestyle and new scenery. Give it a little time and let him know ... (read in full...)
He has moved away and already seems to not care as much about me!
Q. My boyfriend of a year, moved away to the province next to me two days ago for work. I asked him if he wanted to break up but he did not want to. But already I am feeling really insecure about our relationship. When we were together we were so close ...
A. 21 February 2011: Ahhh. Is there not any universities by him you can transfer to? It may be a pain but it's a possibility.
The reason why the communication on his part is a little slow is because he's probably getting settled into his new place and trying to figur... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing in not being in the same bed as my friends who were messing around? And how do I face them tomorrow?
Q. Okay I am not a pretty girl, I am not into going out all the time or drinking, drugs, etc. but what happened tonight has made my life slope bad so here it goes: this is my story! I have liked this guy for 3 months now. He's sweet, nice, and kind t...
A. 21 February 2011: I'm confused as to why are you asking if we are proud of you. What really is your question? I'll answer your question as to what would I do if I were in your shoes.
Yes, I agree you should leave the room too. They're messing around then playing ... (read in full...)
Is this a fair offer?
Q. My boyfriend moved out and to another city to be closer to his children from first marriage. Job prospects also better for him there. He told me he wants me to move too and be with him, as long as I get a job and pay my own way within a month or ...
A. 21 February 2011: Actually since you two aren't married, I think it's perfectly reasonable for you to contribute your shared amount in the household you to will be living in. It should be evenly split down the middle. He's also offering to support you financially for ... (read in full...)
Should I stay in this relationship or move on?
Q. hi im going out with this guy for 5 months but he does not tell me he loves me even if i ask him,and sometimes he does not call me on weekends,i dont understand him what kind of a person he is,when ever im with him he cooks for me ,he apreciates me ...
A. 21 February 2011: It depends are you happy with him? If not, then move on.
If he's not what you want in a relationship and these flaws are out weighing the positive traits then it's time to get out. ... (read in full...)
He has moved away and already seems to not care as much about me!
Q. My boyfriend of a year, moved away to the province next to me two days ago for work. I asked him if he wanted to break up but he did not want to. But already I am feeling really insecure about our relationship. When we were together we were so close ...
A. 21 February 2011: I agree with you he should have discussed this LDR with you, to make sure it's something you both agree upon. Then again, he has been unemployed for so long and this job was sprung on him at the last minute so you can't really hold it against him ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and I don't know which ones the father! What do I tell them!
Q. Hey, I just found out the other day that I am pregnant but I had sex with 2 guys around the time my doctor said I got pregnant. I was having sex with my boyfriend at the time but I was with another friend and we just got carried away. I don't live ...
A. 21 February 2011: Wow, I honestly hope it works out for you. Pretty proud of you for being honest too! Best of luck to you.... (read in full...)
My Bestfriend is flirting with my Boyfriend.....what do I do?
Q. My Friend BH has been flirting with my boy friend a lot lately and I don't feel very comfortable about it. I don't know if he has realized it or not but he is not stopping it and I don't wanna say anything because I don't want him to think I'...
A. 17 February 2011: You don't have to yell at her, just firmly tell her you don't appreciate her flirting with your boyfriend. Tell her to knock it off, if she was truly your friend she wouldn't be flirting with your man. Plain and simple.
Why should you take her... (read in full...)
My Bestfriend is flirting with my Boyfriend.....what do I do?
Q. My Friend BH has been flirting with my boy friend a lot lately and I don't feel very comfortable about it. I don't know if he has realized it or not but he is not stopping it and I don't wanna say anything because I don't want him to think I'...
A. 17 February 2011: Of course you're not comfortable with your best friend zoning in on your boyfriend, she's supposed to be your best friend!!! Best friends don't try and steal their friend's boyfriends.
BJ is right you need to have a talk with her yourself... (read in full...)
How can I find out if boyfriend is watching porn?
Q. Other than the history, how can you find out if porn is being viewed on the internet? or webcams being viewed? boyfriend vows that he hasn't been watching it anymore, but how can I be sure? He lives with me and uses my computers, I have thought ...
A. 17 February 2011: How about putting a password on your computer so that way he can't get on it, thus no watching porn?... (read in full...)
So...does size really matter? Let's put it to rest.
Q. A good friend of mine let’s call him S is going through a very tough, emasculating time. A girlfriend of his made comments to her friends, stating that while she really enjoyed being with him, and that he was a great guy both emotionally and ...
A. 17 February 2011: Fine, based out of my own experience I have been with a fully erect large penis. This gentleman did indeed know how to use it. Some of the best sex I have had. Now going from a large member back down to average, the sex was still good but not as ... (read in full...)
Should I admit to snooping on my boyfriend's facebook? Or keep lying until he confesses?
Q. I have a big problem. I snooped in my bf's facebook, as i know his password e.t.c, and i saw some chat boxes come up saying the names of some girls that we have argued over before. when i clicked on the boxes, there wasnt any text there, but i'm ...
A. 16 February 2011: Wow neither of you trust each other. Well I hope that BOTH of you set aside your trust issues if you really want to make this work. If you don't like I said your relationship won't last much longer. ... (read in full...)
So...does size really matter? Let's put it to rest.
Q. A good friend of mine let’s call him S is going through a very tough, emasculating time. A girlfriend of his made comments to her friends, stating that while she really enjoyed being with him, and that he was a great guy both emotionally and ...
A. 16 February 2011: Now, now Birdman..our poster wanted honest answers that aren't sugarcoated. I gave an honest answer.
If you scroll down to my first post and actually read it, I state that I am perfectly happy with my husband's a little above average penis. I... (read in full...)
My best mate loves my girlfriend. What do I do?
Q. hi i have a dilemma. it is that my best mate, he loves my girlfriend and and he is pressureing her. I've tried talking to him but it just doesn't work. What do i do....
A. 16 February 2011: Sure thing! Ehhh, I wouldn't be friends with him. But if you insist then trust him about as far as you can throw him. ... (read in full...)
Is she a friend or is she more?
Q. hows it goin my best friend is a girl and i have known her all my life, we have gone to the same school with eachother since kindergarden and im not in college at a local community college and hang out with her. we used to hang out alot, then s...
A. 16 February 2011: Woah buddy!
If you guys get drunk and then something happens isn't a good way to start out. Now, if she wants girls this month then there's nothing you can do about it..Just wait another 3-4 months till she prefers guys. ... (read in full...)
So...does size really matter? Let's put it to rest.
Q. A good friend of mine let’s call him S is going through a very tough, emasculating time. A girlfriend of his made comments to her friends, stating that while she really enjoyed being with him, and that he was a great guy both emotionally and ...
A. 16 February 2011: Actually mine isn't vague, I precisely state that I am what you call a size queen. Size matters to me. You wanted honesty, that's being honest.
Sure, the aunts do care a bit about the poster, but we have a ton of aunts who tell the truth. I usuall... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in the air force. How do I cope with the long distance?
Q. My boyfriend is in the air force and lately I just don't feel happy. I feel stressed and I miss him and life just sucks here with out him. When ever we talk this last week it just seems like there is something that always goes wrong and it gets ...
A. 16 February 2011: LDRs are hard in general, throw in a military relationship that's makes it even worse. Also, they're not for everyone.
There's nothing you can do about the distance. How long has he been gone now?
Of course you're going to miss him, and these fi... (read in full...)
Why won't he even hug me? Let alone touch me?
Q. hi. um, i've been with this guy for like three or four months now. something that's kinda bugging me is that he's one of those guys that hug people alot, yet he barely ever touches me. i'm not saying i want sex[i really dont. i'm too young anyway] i ...
A. 16 February 2011: Well Harmony (cute name btw),
Do you notice him hugging girls too? Or does he just do the bro hug (you know that awkward from guy to guy hug) with other guys? He may reserve the hugs for people he knows, his friends.
If he doesn't know you... (read in full...)
So...does size really matter? Let's put it to rest.
Q. A good friend of mine let’s call him S is going through a very tough, emasculating time. A girlfriend of his made comments to her friends, stating that while she really enjoyed being with him, and that he was a great guy both emotionally and ...
A. 16 February 2011: Might I add you're never going to get a straight answer statistics wise on whether it does or doesn't matter to women. Maybe it's 50/50, 75/25, who knows? Some women will lie, others tell the truth.
I will say majority of the aunts on this sit... (read in full...)
So...does size really matter? Let's put it to rest.
Q. A good friend of mine let’s call him S is going through a very tough, emasculating time. A girlfriend of his made comments to her friends, stating that while she really enjoyed being with him, and that he was a great guy both emotionally and ...
A. 16 February 2011: I thought these questions died down...
Yes (to me at least) and I'm sure there are more women out there like that.
I will shy away from a below average penis. It's not like I carry a pocket tape measure around so I have to eyeball it. If i... (read in full...)
Should I admit to snooping on my boyfriend's facebook? Or keep lying until he confesses?
Q. I have a big problem. I snooped in my bf's facebook, as i know his password e.t.c, and i saw some chat boxes come up saying the names of some girls that we have argued over before. when i clicked on the boxes, there wasnt any text there, but i'm ...
A. 16 February 2011: What has your boyfriend done to make you snoop? Sure, snooping isn't right..but people do it anyway when they think their significant other is cheating or up to no good. Your trust issue with him is making the relationship rocky, you don't seem to ... (read in full...)
Is she a friend or is she more?
Q. hows it goin my best friend is a girl and i have known her all my life, we have gone to the same school with eachother since kindergarden and im not in college at a local community college and hang out with her. we used to hang out alot, then s...
A. 16 February 2011: First off you're not even sure if you like her as friends or more. You need to figure that part out.
Secondly, she's bisexual so you need to get to know her a bit better and ask her which one she prefers. Does she lean more towards the males or... (read in full...)
My best mate loves my girlfriend. What do I do?
Q. hi i have a dilemma. it is that my best mate, he loves my girlfriend and and he is pressureing her. I've tried talking to him but it just doesn't work. What do i do....
A. 16 February 2011: Sweetie, he's not even your friend if he's hitting on your girlfriend. Who cares if he gets mad? You're the one that should be pissed! ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and I don't know which ones the father! What do I tell them!
Q. Hey, I just found out the other day that I am pregnant but I had sex with 2 guys around the time my doctor said I got pregnant. I was having sex with my boyfriend at the time but I was with another friend and we just got carried away. I don't live ...
A. 13 February 2011: There's no nonchalant way, or lie you can feed your boyfriend to ask for a DNA sample. I'm sure he's not an idiot and will be wondering why the hell you're asking for his blood/spit. As far as DNA testing goes your boyfriend has to go to a lab to ... (read in full...)
My best mate loves my girlfriend. What do I do?
Q. hi i have a dilemma. it is that my best mate, he loves my girlfriend and and he is pressureing her. I've tried talking to him but it just doesn't work. What do i do....
A. 13 February 2011: You dump your now ex-best mate. He doesn't respect your relationship with your girlfriend (guy code) much less your guy's friendship. ... (read in full...)
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