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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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My boyfriend of 4 years told me he kissed a girl on New Years. Now she says she is pregnant and it was from that night! I need advice!
Q. Hi, I'm 18 years old and have been in a relationship for the past four years. Recently, my boyfriend told me that on New Year's night of this year he was really drunk and kissed another girl. I asked him if anything else happened and he said, "no ...
A. 29 November 2011: Good for you!!! ... (read in full...)
How can women be so cruel as to keep guys who like them in the "friend zone"??
Q. Reflecting on the "friend zone" on a lonely Friday night, I am deeply troubled by a question about women: There are many women out there who know guys who like them romantically but they themselves are not attracted to them. Ok, this is fine. Th...
A. 13 March 2011: From reading that post, that's one case of a guy getting out of the Friend Zone. Those stories are RARE. No it's not fair for me to say it NEVER happens, but I will tell you it's highly unlikely that a guy is going to escape from it.
... (read in full...)
I'm so conflicted, I don't want to hurt or two-time anybody!
Q. Ok guys I'm in a world of problems at the moment. There has been this girl who I have liked and has liked me for about a month now but nothing has happened yet. My best girl friend and I have always been kinda close and joke around about goi...
A. 12 March 2011: My advice is to spend time with all 3 and then that will help you figure out who you like more. If I had to pick for you now..it sounds like you like the second girl.
The first, if you liked her then you would have made something with her happ... (read in full...)
How can women be so cruel as to keep guys who like them in the "friend zone"??
Q. Reflecting on the "friend zone" on a lonely Friday night, I am deeply troubled by a question about women: There are many women out there who know guys who like them romantically but they themselves are not attracted to them. Ok, this is fine. Th...
A. 12 March 2011: A friend does take another friend's feelings into thought. However, if one friend is feeling more for that friend then it's going to complicate the friendship don't you think? Is she supposed to stay single? It really gets exhausting tiptoeing ... (read in full...)
Following my dream to be an ultrasound technician
Q. Dear Cupid, i am 16 yrs old going to 17. When im older, my dream career would be to become an ultrasound technician. I live in california, so what are the things i need to get in order to be certified as one? Is it a smart idea to go to a trade ...
A. 12 March 2011: Go to the college that you are looking to apply and have a meeting with a school counselor to discuss your career path. They have the information and knowledge to help you.... (read in full...)
How can women be so cruel as to keep guys who like them in the "friend zone"??
Q. Reflecting on the "friend zone" on a lonely Friday night, I am deeply troubled by a question about women: There are many women out there who know guys who like them romantically but they themselves are not attracted to them. Ok, this is fine. Th...
A. 12 March 2011: I sleep just fine at night, thank you.
A woman places a guy in the friend zone when she's just not at attracted to him, no chemistry, nada. These type of women like having male friends and often view him as one of the girls or an insight into the... (read in full...)
My overprotective parents keep me from spending much time with my boyfriend
Q. Ok so i need advice.. Ok well me and ny bf have been dating for almost two years and we r happy the only problem is that i have overprotective parents i bearly ever see him. I only see him on the days we have school. Am afraid he is going to leaave ...
A. 12 March 2011: "Why don't they trust me?" Overall how would you say your relationship is with your parents? Do you often follow the rules, ever lied to them etc?
I see the reason why they don't let you in the car with him, he just got his license and they're ... (read in full...)
I'm so conflicted, I don't want to hurt or two-time anybody!
Q. Ok guys I'm in a world of problems at the moment. There has been this girl who I have liked and has liked me for about a month now but nothing has happened yet. My best girl friend and I have always been kinda close and joke around about goi...
A. 12 March 2011: Ok so out of those 3 girls which one do you like the most?
Also to be fair, let's save the "I love you's" for when you're in a relationship. So no more telling that one girl you love her when you like 2 other girls too.... (read in full...)
Looking for holiday romance!
Q. Hi, this is not realy such an important question, but ive been single for abit and going on holiday soon, im hoping for a bit of a holiday romance which will be great. Anyone have any tips? Thankyou....
A. 12 March 2011: Actually holiday romances sort of just happen, or you get the holiday fling(which is more about hooking up for the time being).
Most importantly be safe. Always let someone know of your whereabouts and keep a fully charged mobile phone on you. ... (read in full...)
I want to talk to a girl more but never get the chance to
Q. There's this girl I like and I'm pretty sure she quite likes me too. Nevertheless, we've only spoken a few times and I'd like to get to know her better. I have no problem talking to girls but the problem is I never see her so never get the ...
A. 12 March 2011: You can get create a Facebook, search her name, add her as a friend and get to chatting.
OR
Next time you see her ask her if she wants to meet up in the library later to study, and get her number. ... (read in full...)
My overprotective parents keep me from spending much time with my boyfriend
Q. Ok so i need advice.. Ok well me and ny bf have been dating for almost two years and we r happy the only problem is that i have overprotective parents i bearly ever see him. I only see him on the days we have school. Am afraid he is going to leaave ...
A. 12 March 2011: And where would you run away to? Where would you stay.
Running away is immature and solves absolutely nothing. Don't even try it. If you do and you end up going back home your parents will be even more strict on you than before.
I noticed tha... (read in full...)
I'm so conflicted, I don't want to hurt or two-time anybody!
Q. Ok guys I'm in a world of problems at the moment. There has been this girl who I have liked and has liked me for about a month now but nothing has happened yet. My best girl friend and I have always been kinda close and joke around about goi...
A. 12 March 2011: You're not two-timing (cheating) anyone since you don't have a girlfriend.
No wonder you're conflicted, I counted 4-5(?) girls in your post that potentially like you or you like them. One of them is off-limits, that's your best girl friend s... (read in full...)
His former girlfriends are calling me a boyfriend stealer!
Q. Im dating this guy and he just so happens to be two of my friends' ex. He only dated them for like a day and they broke up because he told them he just wants to be friends. So theyre all friends. I've always liked him and I foumd out he likes me too ...
A. 12 March 2011: What in the world?
As far as I'm concerned you've followed the girl code in asking if it would be cool if you dated him. These "friends" have absolutely no right to call you a boyfriend stealer or a slut. Apparently they lied and neither ... (read in full...)
I love him so much and can't live without him, but my momma doesn't care!
Q. so i've been dating the same guy for about 1 year and 2 monthes (i've been counting lol). but ever since day 1 my mom hasnt likde him one bit!im gunna call him 'bob'. now 'bob' and i have made some... uh... really bad choices but even so... most of ...
A. 12 March 2011: You must have just started dating. Is your momma telling you can't date Bob? Or is the issue you want your mother to accept him?
Your parents aren't always going to like the boys you choose to date. They will make it known their opinion. You can ... (read in full...)
I'm having really weird dreams involving me and my boyfriend!
Q. I'm almost a 15 year old girl and I have been having some really weird dreams about me and my boy friend. I love him more then anything in the world so some of my friends tell me just to ignore the dreams but its just so weird. I don't like just com...
A. 12 March 2011: You can't control your dreams. ... (read in full...)
He wants to keep our relationship a secret!
Q. I've been going out with a guy for a few days and we've both been happier than we can remember. I really, really like him, and he tells me I'm beautiful and does everything right. I've fallen hard. The thing is, he wants to keep our relationship ...
A. 12 March 2011: When you asked him about why he wanted to keep the relationship a secret what did he say? At least I hope you would ask him that question.
Little lecture: You're underage the age of legal consent(which goes for fooling around, oral sex, any kind... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to see my 'area'!
Q. I'm young, (not going to state my age) but I will tell you, i'm still in high school. My boyfriend, recently told me he wants to see my area. I dont really want to let him, because i think my clitoris is to large, and also my vagina lips are a ...
A. 12 March 2011: You're underage, don't show you're boyfriend your downstairs until you're of the legal age of consent which varies from 16-18 per state in the US. Tell him you won't be showing him your private area because you are too young and not ready for it. If ... (read in full...)
How should I dress to play football with guys?
Q. Hey everyone.! :) i need your help guys. Recently, me and my bf have decided to play football together with our friend circle like girls vs. Boys.! But the problem is i am really confused and nervous about it as it would be my first time with him...
A. 11 March 2011: Dear when you're playing football with boys, there's no need to look like you came off of the runway. Whatever you're wearing will get dirty so don't wear anything nice or non-fucntional for football. I suggest wearing either longer cotton shorts, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 4 years told me he kissed a girl on New Years. Now she says she is pregnant and it was from that night! I need advice!
Q. Hi, I'm 18 years old and have been in a relationship for the past four years. Recently, my boyfriend told me that on New Year's night of this year he was really drunk and kissed another girl. I asked him if anything else happened and he said, "no ...
A. 10 March 2011: Well you can't get knocked up from just lip locking.
So the girl being pregnant isn't really necessary to the story, unless he slept with her 6 weeks ago. He just now told you about how he cheated 3 months ago, are you sure he isn't hiding a... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants us to stay in different rooms for a month!
Q. my girlfriend turned round to me as i was about to get into bed last night and said she wanted us to stay in different rooms and not have sex for a month so she can work herself out and that it wont be a problem if i love her. Someone tell me how i ...
A. 10 March 2011: What's her reasoning for the sex restriction? Does she have an infection, STD, having a vaginal surgery?... (read in full...)
Need help with drug addicted boyfriend
Q. Hello. I seriously need help. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly two years. I am 26 and he is 25. At first, things were great. We got along really well and had lots of fun together. I knew he had problems in the past, and had do...
A. 10 March 2011: In short, you can't help your drug addicted boyfriend when he doesn't want to help himself. He doesn't want to change for the better, in fact he probably wouldn't even know how.
Your boyfriend is the one who needs serious help. At most, yo... (read in full...)
I think I've ruined my genitals forever and I'm not even 16 yet!
Q. Okay, this is SO embarrassing but I don't know who else to turn to and the people on this site seem fairly nice. If you're gonna' be a douche, okay, I guess. It is the Internet, but please... I've been FREAKING out about this since it happene...
A. 10 March 2011: I question if this is a real post. At 13-15 and a virgin, you fit your whole hand up your vagina? How could you not be in pain? ... (read in full...)
What did he mean by his comment?
Q. ok, maybe some of you can decipher this. what does it mean while having sex, your boyfriend grabs your thigh, squeezes it and says, this is what I want not some stick. I'm not fat, but I'm not a stick either. it totally took me out of the mood and i ...
A. 10 March 2011: Perhaps he has a meaty thigh fetish? You know instead of slapping your behind during sex and saying "That's what I'm talking about.", he's substituting your thigh. ... (read in full...)
I cant sleep with my boyfriend's snoring!
Q. Hey readers, I don't know what to do - whenever I spend the night with my bf, his snoring and loud breathing keeps me awake so I can't get to sleep til, like, 5am! I don't know what to do about it. We've been together 6 months, and he knows he ...
A. 10 March 2011: At drugstores, grocery stores, markets they have those nasal strips in the Pharmacy section. They actually work for most people, you could give those a shot. You could wear ear plugs, or fall asleep with nice spa, nature sounds on your iPod.
Has h... (read in full...)
I can't seem to get a grip on him does he like me or not?
Q. Does this guy like me? I'm usually good at telling if a guy likes me, I just can't seem to get a grip on this one. Whenever I'm with him, there's a strong sense of tension. Sexual tension? I think. It isn't helped by that bloody smirk he always h...
A. 9 March 2011: If it's hard to tell from his body language alone, then it's best to be forward and lay it out on the table. Neither you or I can read minds, so it's best to inquire. Life's about taking risks, you never know until you take a RISK and ask.... (read in full...)
I can't seem to get a grip on him does he like me or not?
Q. Does this guy like me? I'm usually good at telling if a guy likes me, I just can't seem to get a grip on this one. Whenever I'm with him, there's a strong sense of tension. Sexual tension? I think. It isn't helped by that bloody smirk he always h...
A. 8 March 2011: I don't believe that zodiac signs have anything to do with compatibility or describing him as a person.
From your post it sounds like he's flirting but the only way to know for certain is to ask him yourself. Or go out on a limb and confess ... (read in full...)
Bleeding but scared to see a gynae doctor
Q. I have this weird problem that Im a virgin 32 year old and still not been able to give in to my guy, even though I fantasize so much and so wanna have sex but even the mere thought makes me so wet that now I even bleed while Im with him and ...
A. 8 March 2011: We are not medical professionals, so we cannot properly diagnose you.
Bleeding from your vagina with no penetration, not even his fingers(?), doesn't sound normal.
You need to visit your gyno so he/she can tell you what it is wrong. Doctors a... (read in full...)
I've fallen head over heels for a woman who is 20 years younger than me!
Q. In Love With a Younger Woman? I am hoping someone might give me sound advice. I have fallen head over heals in love with a woman of 39 who is younger than me by 20 years. I have been a happily married man for 35 years with 4 grown up children...
A. 8 March 2011: No offense, really. But I highly doubt that anyone's advice will change in 5 months.
You really can't go on having BOTH women in you life. It doesn't work that way. Unless your wife would agree to let you have this other woman in you life as ... (read in full...)
Ladies, if you’re with a well endowed man, what is it, exactly, that gets you most excited about sex with him from a purely physical aspect?
Q. Ladies...if you are with a man who is well endowed, what is it, exactly, that gets you most excited about sex with him from a purely physical aspect? If it is his size, what specifically about his penis is the most enticing? Seeing it and looking ...
A. 8 March 2011: LMAO, Eyes. I will say the size question is really overdone. Poster, if you utilize the search bar in the top right corner, you will find millions of questions and answers already on this matter.
However, I will think back to my experien... (read in full...)
I've been seeing this guy for 3 months, and I just found a hair clip in his bed that belongs to his ex. Should I forgive him?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months now. He contacts me every day, makes me laugh, is sweet to me and we enjoy out time together. I was really falling for him and felt an amazing connection I usually don't have with anyone. He asked me a ...
A. 8 March 2011: Ouch. Actually you don't have a right to be mad because you two aren't exclusive. You're in the muddled gray area of "seeing each other". There's no rules or restrictions. So he didn't cheat but it looks like he's keeping his options open. Not to ... (read in full...)
Now that we've broken up, should I ask her to return the expensive gift that I had given her?
Q. i gave my girlfriend a very expensive computer. after a month she broke up with me with an excuse that "she is very busy with all other stuff and she has no time for a relationship" is it ok if i tell her to give that computer back.? i gave her as a ...
A. 8 March 2011: Call me crazy, but you think she would have offered to give it back to you since you guys weren't together that long.
Now if you wanted to be spiteful..If you had the receipt for the computer, you could could get the computer back and with leg... (read in full...)
Why is he apologising now?
Q. My Exboyfriend texted me to say "I am truly sorry for all that I did to you. I hope things are well, I miss you (petname)." He cheated on me and left me for another woman 6 months ago. We were together 6 years. He has sent a couple messages like ...
A. 8 March 2011: Good for you for not caving and replying back to him! That's the hardest part.
In my experience, I have had numerous jerk off ex's send me those "Apology texts/messages/emails". Almost always their motive for these messages is that they're ... (read in full...)
Do guys say things to their girlfriends without thinking?
Q. i have been with my partner for a year and a half now, he suffers from severe anxiety so every now and then he likes to be alone as he gets frustrated being around the same person for too long. today in the car he told me, "sometimes i w...
A. 8 March 2011: Yes! In fact, every one is guilty of opening their mouth before speaking.
I question if he said that because he's afraid of losing you due to his severe anxiety.
It's just something he said, it doesn't mean start looking at wedding swatches... (read in full...)
How can you tell if he loves you?
Q. he is 5yrs elder to me.. (im 22, he is 29) .. treats me like a kid, cares for me, calls me often .. I have totally fallen for him for the way he treats me .. I know him for many years thought we were not in touch. its only recently, after ...
A. 8 March 2011: If he treats you like a kid, then he's not in love with you. He loves you like his kid sister.
You know if a guy is in love with you, by wanting to be with you, being romantic and affectionate.
You can't make someone have romantic feeling... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is mad because I did not share a secret with her. What do I do?
Q. What do i do when my girlfriend of 6 months doesn't trust me any more due to me just finding out a secret from my past? As soon as i found out the secret i told my present girlfriend and she is upset because i didn't tell her sooner but i am just ...
A. 8 March 2011: What is this secret? Does it affect her?
If this secret doesn't have anything to do with her then she has no right to be upset and is really just overreacting. However, it depends on the secret.
... (read in full...)
Can you no longer be considered a virgin if there is no penetration?
Q. How do you define virginity? How do you lose it? I know the most known reason when there is penetration by the male organ? How about plain masturbation? Can you still be considered a virgin if a man touched your p***y or did cunnilingus but no p...
A. 8 March 2011: You're 22-25 and asking this question? At that age, you should already know the answer. What's your real age?... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my motormouth future father in law?
Q. I have been spending sometime with my fiance's parents while he is away for work. They are very nice people but I noticed that my father in law is a control freak who wants things his way. Everyone in the family including my 37 year old fiance is ...
A. 8 March 2011: If you're marrying into this family there will never be an escape from your future father-in-law. You will just have to cope with it as best as you can, what better way to start now?
Before I married my husband, I was engaged to another man; his... (read in full...)
I like this girl, but her dad is my dad's boss...should I undercover date her?
Q. See, there's this girl that I like a lot. I'm only 14 so I don't think much of it. Her dad kinda sorta is my dad's boss, and I know her big brother personally. So I feel it would be awkward if we dated. I also get mixed signals from her. One day we ...
A. 8 March 2011: You don't even know if she still likes you months later..Why don't you find that out first?
It doesn't matter if she's the daughter of your dad's boss. If you two were to have a relationship, that has nothing to do with your father's job. ... (read in full...)
I ran into an old lover? What do I do?
Q. My question is a year ago I ran into this guy I was seeing 20yrs ago. I was married at the time I was young and inexperienced didn,t know anything about life. My husband was a Navy man and was sent off to sea, make along story short I meet the other ...
A. 8 March 2011: I'm assuming you're divorced? So he's separated but still legally married..and you dated him? Plus he has kids by an ex co-worker, which I'm assuming was his mistress while he cheated on his wife. Thus explaining their separation.
There... (read in full...)
Why do my friends hate the idea of me being pregnant?
Q. Why do my friends hate the idea of me being pregnant? I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years now and I feel like I am ready to have a child with him. And hopefully he does too. I know I should ask him first but as a young woman I have asked ...
A. 6 March 2011: 18-21 is the peak of your life. You're finished with high school, embarking on a new chapter, attending university, picking a career path, legally drinking, etc. That is what(should) be on your and your friend's plate. They're not concerned about ... (read in full...)
Sex toys vs the real thing. Which one is more satisfactory?
Q. Hi people I'm just curious. Sex toys (dildos) and the real thing (penis), which one is more satisfactory?...
A. 6 March 2011: I agree with walking dude when it comes to satisfaction. When I want a quick off, I opt for the battery operated. (Not saying I don't get off during sex with my husband)
But if I want the whole ten yards, then nothing beats the real mccoy. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend buying me suggestive clothing. Is it ok?
Q. My boyfriend has some different requests for me lately. He says I have a sexy little body and he would like me to show it off more. He has recently purchased some very skimpy clothes, like micro-mini skirts, tiny little shirts that show my stomach. ...
A. 6 March 2011: Goodness where did he go "clothes" shopping? Larry Flynt's Sex Shop?
I would kindly thank him for the pieces of cloth he bought you and tell him you will gladly wear it for him in private. Maybe put on the sexy clothing, do a little striptea... (read in full...)
2nd date--showing some skin ok?
Q. Is showing a bit of flesh during a date (number 2) acceptable...m just talking about a bit of my back . . .i dun wanna come across as too desperate or something...
A. 6 March 2011: I think showing off your back is absolutely classy with a little sex appeal. Men love it when you wear open back tops, or cut outs. Go for it, it's not inappropriate at all.
Showing off your back is the new cleavage! ... (read in full...)
I've fallen head over heels for a woman who is 20 years younger than me!
Q. In Love With a Younger Woman? I am hoping someone might give me sound advice. I have fallen head over heals in love with a woman of 39 who is younger than me by 20 years. I have been a happily married man for 35 years with 4 grown up children...
A. 26 November 2010: What I'm understanding is that you want advice on how to keep the both of them and live in harmony..
You love your special wife and want to keep her but you love this treasure which you are hanging onto. Although you're not 100% certain her feel... (read in full...)
I've fallen head over heels for a woman who is 20 years younger than me!
Q. In Love With a Younger Woman? I am hoping someone might give me sound advice. I have fallen head over heals in love with a woman of 39 who is younger than me by 20 years. I have been a happily married man for 35 years with 4 grown up children...
A. 23 November 2010: After 35 years of marriage what is it lacking for you to look at this younger woman?
If you don't want to hurt your wife then don't..Don't take this friendship any further, it can never go any further if you want to keep your special wife. Wh... (read in full...)
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