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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Is "our bond" strong enough to last?
Q. Okay, so I guess this is my "love story" and I want opinions. Ive known this guy for many years like 5 or more and hes my brothers best friend or used to be. Him and I recently started talking and we got extremely close in a matter of days. Ive had ...
A. 7 July 2011: Hm, hopefully he's going to stay true to his word in a few years..and it's not just lip service he's giving you. Good luck with that.... (read in full...)
I am so beautiful. Are my friends all just jealous of me?
Q. I am so beautiful. I have a really nice body and i have double D's. Flirting comes naturally to me. I can honestly say that a lot of people like me and just want to be me. I'm really popular and i have a lot of experience. All my close friends are ...
A. 27 February 2011: Oh my.
Do you have sex with a lot of guys? That's why they would call you easy.
(No offense)If all your friends are telling you that you dress like a skank, then it's probably true. There's a big difference between flaunting it with taste an... (read in full...)
He's practically stalking her, but if I step in to stop it, am I crossing a line?
Q. My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me a few weeks ago. She insists she just needs time to find herself and I'll give her that. I'm not going to get my hopes up.. if we get back together it will be a new relationship.. not the same one. Anyw...
A. 27 February 2011: What does it matter? You guys are now broke up and she's free to date/see whomever she pleases, even if it's a potential stalker.
I don't see this guy as stalking your recent ex. In fact your ex is liking the attention she is receiving. That's w... (read in full...)
My family forbids me to see my boyfriend.
Q. I've liked a guy for 3 years. Three years of trying to grab his attention. Whenever he talks/talked to me I feel adrenaline pump through my veins in excitement. Recently We have been extremely close and about 3 days ago he o asked me out. I was so ...
A. 27 February 2011: How do you know this boy is 100% clean? Is he enrolled in a drug program, rehab? People who are drug users can't give up drugs at the drop of hat. It takes time and often intervention from family matters. I hope he has given up drugs.
Look ... (read in full...)
He told my uncle he wants sex with me?
Q. What are your views on men who want sex from you ?. I'd like to get different opinions on this. I met a guy tonight who my uncle knows. I was out with my uncle. He came over to say hello to my uncle , and obviously he saw me. When my uncle went to ...
A. 27 February 2011: Before I met my husband, I was into one night stands and FWBs with men. I mean a woman has to get her kicks too, sometimes it gets rather dusty done there. However, I would pick out and zone in on the men who responded to me with sexual chemistry ... (read in full...)
How do I go about getting injection birth control?
Q. Dear Cupid, im 16 yrs old. I have a bf who i've been with for half a year. I promised myself that i wouldnt have sex with a guy unless we've been together for a year or more. But lately me and my bf have been touching sexually, doing a lot of ...
A. 27 February 2011: I'm sorry to hear that, OP. Who's your legal guardian? Whoever is your caretaker, you need to ask if they can take you to the gyno so you can obtain birth control.
Otherwise, it will cost you about $15 every 3 months..which is still pretty c... (read in full...)
In love with my lesbian friend.
Q. I'm a guy and my best friend is a girl. She's gay and absolutely gorgeous and I'm completely in love with her. She's never been with anyone until recently and even the person she's with( and this is no joke) looks like a man. We fooled ...
A. 27 February 2011: So what's your question?... (read in full...)
Why is he being so rude but then sending me 'smiley faces'?
Q. Dear cupid, This is similar to my previous post but i've edited it and added more things... I havent been on many dates in my lifetime. Maybe around 3 so far. Never had a boyfriend, only casually 'gotten to know' guys but things didn't wor...
A. 27 February 2011: It doesn't sound like he likes you. He hasn't talked to you much, if he has he's been rude. Nor has he rescheduled your casual date. Then he goes on to call you clingy when you flat out tell him you like him.
I seriously wouldn't look into the... (read in full...)
He wants me to stay home and take care of the baby while he's in school
Q. I need advice someone please help me is this good I'm trying to get my g.e.d and my boyfriend he works as a porter making $13.00 an hour. I do not have a job at the moment and Im taking my g.e.d and i want to get it done i have two more...
A. 27 February 2011:
Without your GED, high school diploma you can't get into college, any other type of school, much less a job. Nowadays, in this rough economy a BA isn't even getting people jobs.
$13 a hour isn't enough to support a family much less one inc... (read in full...)
How do I go about getting injection birth control?
Q. Dear Cupid, im 16 yrs old. I have a bf who i've been with for half a year. I promised myself that i wouldnt have sex with a guy unless we've been together for a year or more. But lately me and my bf have been touching sexually, doing a lot of ...
A. 27 February 2011: It would be best if you told your mother that you want to be on birth control, that way she can make an appointment with a gyno and get you set up on the shot. This way it's covered under your parent's insurance. Or you can flip through your ... (read in full...)
We became official and now he denies that it ever happened
Q. Hi, i'm 15 and the guy i like is 16. We've been friends for some time, until he asked me out, although i didn't give him a reply until recently. Last week friday, he visited me and i accepted his proposal, and we became official. Four days late...
A. 26 February 2011: It actually sounds like he already dumped you if he took back asking you to be his girlfriend. Forget this loser.... (read in full...)
To dye? not to dye?
Q. Right.. this is a question about dying hair.. any opinion is worth it :).. I wanted to ask this question; My natural hair colour is brunette. For about.. 2 years, i've had half of my hair dyed blonde (at a salon), while the other half stays brunette...
A. 26 February 2011: Are you wanting to go all blonde? And how light are you wanting? If you're just wanting to dye the light brown/dirty blonde part then I'd say you can go ahead and buy a box of blonde dye. I'd actually buy the temporary color just to test to see if ... (read in full...)
I'm moving in with my boyfriend soon. How can I break the news to my parents? Advice needed!
Q. I've got a bit of a problem regarding moving in with my boyfriend. It's not that I'm having doubts about doing it, but that I daren't tell my parents. I'm 21 and have been with him for just over a year and he currently lives with a friend who is ...
A. 26 February 2011: I second what Fi said, it's something that needs to be said outright when everyone is sitting down to eat dinner. At 21 it's time to stop going behind your parent's back and be truthful with them. Lying gets old, and is rather immature.
I'm a... (read in full...)
Exs and rebounds
Q. Will an ex come back after a rebound if you use no contact? What are ur experiences with this?...
A. 26 February 2011: The no contact rule is used to get over an ex, not get them back.
In my experience, once no contact rule was initiated I never heard from them again. If I did they were looking for a hook-up. The ones who had jumped from me to another relation... (read in full...)
We had a great date but there was no spark
Q. Me and this girl who liked me went on a date today, I was thinking all the time should a hold out my hand so she can hold it and should I just take her by the waist and kiss her. I didn't end up doing any of this but I still don't actually think ...
A. 26 February 2011: She likes you but do you like her? If you don't have an initial interest in her then there won't be any spark/chemistry between you two. There's either something there between you two, in the air while you're talking and getting to know each other, ... (read in full...)
Marry my best friend? Is he my soul mate?
Q. I was wondering is it good to marry your best friend? I've know this guy since middle school, he is my best friend, and i love him to death. He knows everything about me an vise versa, we talk about everything, and we love spending time toge...
A. 26 February 2011: Actually this is a question you should be asking yourself.. Are you IN love with him? Not just a friendly love, or a brother/sister love, but an actual passionate, you can't live without him, would love him to be the father of your children one day, ... (read in full...)
He said I took advantage of him! What on earth happened here?
Q. I really need someone to tell me what just happened in the matter of two weeks with one of my best friends. He and I have been close for quite some time we are both 31 and should be well beyond acting like children. The sexual tension was building ...
A. 26 February 2011: He's not scared, he's not interested in you..he even made that clear. There's nothing you can do about it. Let it go.... (read in full...)
Is no sexual attraction to husband a deal breaker?
Q. Can you guys tell me what you think...Is not being sexually attracted to your husband a deal breaker in a marriage? We have been together 14 years and have children. There was a spark and chemistry between us when we first met and into the first ...
A. 26 February 2011: Has he gained weight? His overall appearance has changed dramatically in 14 years? How's your sex life? There's got to be some reason why you aren't physically attracted to him anymore. Unless you were never attracted to him to begin with.
Anoth... (read in full...)
Best friend has a boyfriend now! And we're drifting apart..what can I do?
Q. Recently my best friend got a boyfriend [her first boyfriend] and she spends a lot of time with him, which i don't mind. But it just seems that i'm being left behind, we're best friends, live really near to each other and have are really close. ...
A. 25 February 2011: Ah, I had that problem when I was your age. My now ex best friend was stuck up her boyfriend's rear, it got to the point of where I couldn't stand him and blamed him for taking her away from me. Long story short, I tried to talk to her about it and ... (read in full...)
He squints his eyes at me and not at others, what does his weird body language mean?
Q. i am a female and whenever i am talking to this (married) man i know, he is looking at me like sun is shining in his eyes. and if he should respond to what i am saying, he looks downwards and nodding. sometimes, he just says 'right, right, right" or ...
A. 25 February 2011: Squinting of the eyes if a sign of needing glasses. This married man sounds rather socially awkward and may be slightly intimidated by you. If this isn't about a crush then why are you so curious about this man's body language? ... (read in full...)
"x's" on texts?
Q. Ok. heres the deal... i met this girl on a dating site and she gave me her number. we've been texting since yesterday morning pretty much all day and towards the end of the day she put a "x" at the end which carried on at the end of each text this ...
A. 25 February 2011: Have you never heard of "xoxoxox" on a birthday card from your grandma?
"Xoxoxoxo" means hugs and kisses. She's just using the hugs, because she doesn't know you well enough for the kisses. There's no certain amount of hugs one should put at t... (read in full...)
My gf hates when I talk to my friends! I can't take it any more! What do I do?
Q. Hey guys I'm 26 and my gf is 20. We have a two year old daughter together and had one hell of a relationship. It turned ugly a few times and had to get my parents to come help us out and referee it. We live together and we tell each other i love ...
A. 25 February 2011: Have you not read any of the advice given??? Let me sum it up for you..
A. Man up and dump her. But that's probably not going to happen because she has your balls in jar on her nightstand.
-OR-
B. Or stay with her and be miserable for the... (read in full...)
Is flirting online a form of cheating?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years. Our arguments have always been about him flirting with women on Facebook or MySpace. Is that considered cheating if hes flirting online and he tells women he's single? ...
A. 24 February 2011: Technically it's not cheating because he hasn't been with any of those girls. Some will say it's a form of emotional cheating. But what's evident is he has clear intentions of cheating if he's telling these women he's single.
Dump him, it's rea... (read in full...)
I'm so confused as to whether he likes me or not!
Q. Me and a few mates went into town a few weeks ago and we met up with someone we knew, but he had a friend that i got on with. We exchanged numbers and we started texting. After a few weeks he asked me if i wanted to meet up, which i did. It went ...
A. 24 February 2011: There's still communication going on, plus it's only been 3 days. I'd give it another 2 days without you texting him first and see what he does.
Another male aunt on here once told me that if it's possible 3 days without talking/ texting a girl. ... (read in full...)
I have a lump under my armpit...
Q. Hello everyone I seriously need all possible advices. Lately I've noticed that I have a lump under my armpit. It's the size of a pea...some people told me it could be sweat glands because lately I felt like I was really sweating too much so maybe it...
A. 24 February 2011: I would go to your regular doctor and have him/her look at it..they can then recommend an endocrinologist for you to see. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him my secrets?
Q. My BF and I have been dating for 7 weeks today(2/24/11). And he has decided to tell me all the secrets he has been keeping from me......some of them I'm not very comfortable with but I still love him! Now that he has told me his secrets, I feel a l...
A. 24 February 2011: No don't tell him all your secrets, especially if they don't apply to him. There are some secrets that are better off left as secrets.
Besides, telling him some secrets might cause more issues in your relationship, when there is already enough t... (read in full...)
When is a platonic friendship not platonic anymore?
Q. When is a platonic friendship not platonic anymore? any signs or actions that you think is like BIG signs? ...
A. 24 February 2011: Kissing, sex, or any sexual acts.
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He said I took advantage of him! What on earth happened here?
Q. I really need someone to tell me what just happened in the matter of two weeks with one of my best friends. He and I have been close for quite some time we are both 31 and should be well beyond acting like children. The sexual tension was building ...
A. 24 February 2011: What in the world?
It's not like he said no, you can't take advantage of someone who is willing. I'm sure he was willing each time. Really, if anything you both are using each other for sex..and due to his lack of self control he's trying t... (read in full...)
Too scared to have sex through fear of pregnancy, how can I stop him from wanting to fool around with me?
Q. i am only 18 years old, my boyfriend is also 18 years old . we have been in a relationship for 4 months . when we were still in our first month, he always want to kiss me. so i learn how to kiss through him. now , i always like to be kiss by him( i ...
A. 24 February 2011: At 18-21 you should have already had Sex Ed, what's your real age?
If there is semen, precum on his hands from rubbing himself and he fingers you then yes it's a possibility to get pregnant. Now, if you're so worried about getting pregnant... (read in full...)
Do you think I should add him as a friend on Facebook?
Q. I developed a crush on this guy at school. He's a year older than me and I'm not sure if it would be alright that I add him as a friend on Facebook. The problem is, approximately a year ago, he added a few of my own friends because he thought they ...
A. 24 February 2011: I'm on the fence about this..You don't want to risk looking rather desperate, and what if he's never noticed you before? On the other hand it could jump start something with the guy.
Add him, what's the harm in it? If he accepts the friend r... (read in full...)
My gf hates when I talk to my friends! I can't take it any more! What do I do?
Q. Hey guys I'm 26 and my gf is 20. We have a two year old daughter together and had one hell of a relationship. It turned ugly a few times and had to get my parents to come help us out and referee it. We live together and we tell each other i love ...
A. 24 February 2011: Yes, she's going to sit there and pull the puppy dog eyes on you hoping you'll change your mind about the break. Stand you're ground, you can't budge.
You two can move out and take a break but you're still together..so you both need to take thi... (read in full...)
Is it normal for your nose to bleed after you have it pierced?
Q. Heyy long time no speak. Uhm i just got my nose pierced a couple of days ago.. and uhm when i got it i got it with a gun.. BUUUTTTT the earring i guess was too small? it kept sinking and d sinking.. i didnt know what to do so i took one of the...
A. 24 February 2011: I forgot to answer your question, some people say it's normal for it to bleed a little. Mine and the rest of my friends who had it done never bleed at all. If you bleed it's only a tiny bit. ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for your nose to bleed after you have it pierced?
Q. Heyy long time no speak. Uhm i just got my nose pierced a couple of days ago.. and uhm when i got it i got it with a gun.. BUUUTTTT the earring i guess was too small? it kept sinking and d sinking.. i didnt know what to do so i took one of the...
A. 24 February 2011: First off where did you get your nose pierced at? The only places that do it are tattoo/piercing parlors and you have to be 18, which you are not. I know they definitely don't use a gun, it was more like a long needle running through your nose then ... (read in full...)
Am I stupid to feel this way?
Q. I'll keep this simple. My girlfriend of 2 and a half years likes me to send "dirty" pictures of myself to her, or take my clothes off/change in front of her in person. I don't mind doing it, I want to do anything that will make her happy. Bu...
A. 24 February 2011: If you guys haven't had sex and she doesn't reciprocate when it comes to naughty picture texts then it's probably due to some insecurities regarding her body, or she's saving herself for marriage. I'm thinking it might be my first guess. In which ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in the air force. How do I cope with the long distance?
Q. My boyfriend is in the air force and lately I just don't feel happy. I feel stressed and I miss him and life just sucks here with out him. When ever we talk this last week it just seems like there is something that always goes wrong and it gets ...
A. 24 February 2011:
Even when you two get married, (it is great)you will back to that whole LDR deal when he gets deployed. Don't hold me to this, but I think Air Force only get deployed for 6 months. However, they do have support groups on base for the military wive... (read in full...)
Is this a fair offer?
Q. My boyfriend moved out and to another city to be closer to his children from first marriage. Job prospects also better for him there. He told me he wants me to move too and be with him, as long as I get a job and pay my own way within a month or ...
A. 24 February 2011: I see, so in your case you need some assurance that this is going to be "to death do us part". In that case, I would be wondering where that engagement ring is, if he says he wants to marry you.
It's also noted that you sometimes helped out in p... (read in full...)
I'm so confused as to whether he likes me or not!
Q. Me and a few mates went into town a few weeks ago and we met up with someone we knew, but he had a friend that i got on with. We exchanged numbers and we started texting. After a few weeks he asked me if i wanted to meet up, which i did. It went ...
A. 24 February 2011: So when was the last time you got a text from him? ... (read in full...)
After reading the post, do you think he likes me as a friend or more?
Q. Dear cupid, I havent been on many dates in my lifetime. Maybe around 3 so far. Never had a boyfriend, only casually 'gotten to know' guys but things didn't work out because they turned out to be people someone they weren't and i ended up getting...
A. 24 February 2011: Let's see he displayed signs of flirtation, and he was rather upset over the fact that your plans were cut short. I would say he's into you. Generally, after the first "date"(which I wouldn't consider that a first date, more of a casual prelude to a ... (read in full...)
Is "our bond" strong enough to last?
Q. Okay, so I guess this is my "love story" and I want opinions. Ive known this guy for many years like 5 or more and hes my brothers best friend or used to be. Him and I recently started talking and we got extremely close in a matter of days. Ive had ...
A. 24 February 2011: Well you've already rattled off stuff you know people are going to say, and that you would rather not hear so what advice are you looking for? That yes, you guys will last forever, and have a happy fairytale ending? Sorry, no one on here can predict ... (read in full...)
Too soon to kiss???
Q. I'm going to the cinema with a girl who I like and who likes me, is it too soon to kiss her or not?...
A. 24 February 2011: Oh geez, when I was your age on up to 16 all we would due on dates is make out in the back of the theater. But hey that was back in the late '99-'01, it may be different nowadays. The movie ushers patrol the aisles like Nazis so they'll probably ... (read in full...)
All I want is to be a husband, I just realistically never see it happening.
Q. Hello. Well I'm 20 and Irish, i study physics and play guitar. I've always been single, have never had any sort of a relationship, date, kiss, whatever. Granted, im by no stretch of the imagination attractive, atleast Ive never known anyone to fancy ...
A. 24 February 2011: I agree ever Irish man I have laid eyes has been mighty fine, sadly they were taken.
You could move to another country, that might be possible with the military.
Neither of us can tell the future, you're still young and have the rest of your... (read in full...)
Is he going to pop the question soon???
Q. so here latley i met some of my boyfriend's family and ive been staying with him a lot. we are expecting and we are both 18 but here's what im wanting to know. Every time he tells me he loves me i say it back but then he says he loves me more so ...
A. 24 February 2011: Eh from your post it sounds like he is. That doesn't mean go out and buy a wedding dress now (that's a very bad idea).
There's no surefire way to tell. You just have to be patient and find out.... (read in full...)
My gf hates when I talk to my friends! I can't take it any more! What do I do?
Q. Hey guys I'm 26 and my gf is 20. We have a two year old daughter together and had one hell of a relationship. It turned ugly a few times and had to get my parents to come help us out and referee it. We live together and we tell each other i love ...
A. 24 February 2011: I apologize for coming across as being harsh, but you're a 26 year old man you know what you need to do in order to be happy.... (read in full...)
My gf hates when I talk to my friends! I can't take it any more! What do I do?
Q. Hey guys I'm 26 and my gf is 20. We have a two year old daughter together and had one hell of a relationship. It turned ugly a few times and had to get my parents to come help us out and referee it. We live together and we tell each other i love ...
A. 23 February 2011: Here's your options:
Continue living in misery for the rest of your life because you can't grow a pair and stand up to her. Of course it isn't going to be easy when there is a child involved, it never is.
-OR-
1. You stand up to her and ... (read in full...)
My gf hates when I talk to my friends! I can't take it any more! What do I do?
Q. Hey guys I'm 26 and my gf is 20. We have a two year old daughter together and had one hell of a relationship. It turned ugly a few times and had to get my parents to come help us out and referee it. We live together and we tell each other i love ...
A. 23 February 2011: Wow you're a 26 year old man allowing your 20 year old girlfriend to control you and dictate your every move.
You're guy's relationship is so bad that you had to get your parents to intervene? That's pretty awful. If you two are going to make it ... (read in full...)
Is this a fair offer?
Q. My boyfriend moved out and to another city to be closer to his children from first marriage. Job prospects also better for him there. He told me he wants me to move too and be with him, as long as I get a job and pay my own way within a month or ...
A. 21 February 2011: Actually since you two aren't married, I think it's perfectly reasonable for you to contribute your shared amount in the household you to will be living in. It should be evenly split down the middle. He's also offering to support you financially for ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in the air force. How do I cope with the long distance?
Q. My boyfriend is in the air force and lately I just don't feel happy. I feel stressed and I miss him and life just sucks here with out him. When ever we talk this last week it just seems like there is something that always goes wrong and it gets ...
A. 16 February 2011: LDRs are hard in general, throw in a military relationship that's makes it even worse. Also, they're not for everyone.
There's nothing you can do about the distance. How long has he been gone now?
Of course you're going to miss him, and these fi... (read in full...)
Am I stupid to feel this way?
Q. I'll keep this simple. My girlfriend of 2 and a half years likes me to send "dirty" pictures of myself to her, or take my clothes off/change in front of her in person. I don't mind doing it, I want to do anything that will make her happy. Bu...
A. 15 February 2011: Do you guys have a LDR? I mean she gets naked, undresses in front of you before sex.
It does sound very one-sided. She shouldn't ask for pictures if she isn't going to send some herself. Although, I do understand in the event of a break-up... (read in full...)
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