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... Send *ennisstar88 a private message | | | *ennisstar88's profile:Who I am? A 28yr old Army wife. My DH serves, I serve and sacrifice as well. Went to college in my early 20s, economy caught up with me in 08 and dropped out for a bit. I however returned and am down the path to finishing a bachelor's degree. I have also beat my long, 3 year battle with infertility and am expecting a baby this December! Its been a long, pot hole filled road but I am finally where I want to be.
What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Am I stupid to feel this way?
Q. I'll keep this simple. My girlfriend of 2 and a half years likes me to send "dirty" pictures of myself to her, or take my clothes off/change in front of her in person. I don't mind doing it, I want to do anything that will make her happy. Bu...
A. 24 February 2011: If you guys haven't had sex and she doesn't reciprocate when it comes to naughty picture texts then it's probably due to some insecurities regarding her body, or she's saving herself for marriage. I'm thinking it might be my first guess. In which ... (read in full...)
So...does size really matter? Let's put it to rest.
Q. A good friend of mine let’s call him S is going through a very tough, emasculating time. A girlfriend of his made comments to her friends, stating that while she really enjoyed being with him, and that he was a great guy both emotionally and ...
A. 17 February 2011: Fine, based out of my own experience I have been with a fully erect large penis. This gentleman did indeed know how to use it. Some of the best sex I have had. Now going from a large member back down to average, the sex was still good but not as ... (read in full...)
Should I admit to snooping on my boyfriend's facebook? Or keep lying until he confesses?
Q. I have a big problem. I snooped in my bf's facebook, as i know his password e.t.c, and i saw some chat boxes come up saying the names of some girls that we have argued over before. when i clicked on the boxes, there wasnt any text there, but i'm ...
A. 16 February 2011: Wow neither of you trust each other. Well I hope that BOTH of you set aside your trust issues if you really want to make this work. If you don't like I said your relationship won't last much longer. ... (read in full...)
So...does size really matter? Let's put it to rest.
Q. A good friend of mine let’s call him S is going through a very tough, emasculating time. A girlfriend of his made comments to her friends, stating that while she really enjoyed being with him, and that he was a great guy both emotionally and ...
A. 16 February 2011: Now, now Birdman..our poster wanted honest answers that aren't sugarcoated. I gave an honest answer.
If you scroll down to my first post and actually read it, I state that I am perfectly happy with my husband's a little above average penis. I... (read in full...)
My best mate loves my girlfriend. What do I do?
Q. hi i have a dilemma. it is that my best mate, he loves my girlfriend and and he is pressureing her. I've tried talking to him but it just doesn't work. What do i do....
A. 16 February 2011: Sure thing! Ehhh, I wouldn't be friends with him. But if you insist then trust him about as far as you can throw him. ... (read in full...)
Is she a friend or is she more?
Q. hows it goin my best friend is a girl and i have known her all my life, we have gone to the same school with eachother since kindergarden and im not in college at a local community college and hang out with her. we used to hang out alot, then s...
A. 16 February 2011: Woah buddy!
If you guys get drunk and then something happens isn't a good way to start out. Now, if she wants girls this month then there's nothing you can do about it..Just wait another 3-4 months till she prefers guys. ... (read in full...)
So...does size really matter? Let's put it to rest.
Q. A good friend of mine let’s call him S is going through a very tough, emasculating time. A girlfriend of his made comments to her friends, stating that while she really enjoyed being with him, and that he was a great guy both emotionally and ...
A. 16 February 2011: Actually mine isn't vague, I precisely state that I am what you call a size queen. Size matters to me. You wanted honesty, that's being honest.
Sure, the aunts do care a bit about the poster, but we have a ton of aunts who tell the truth. I usuall... (read in full...)
So...does size really matter? Let's put it to rest.
Q. A good friend of mine let’s call him S is going through a very tough, emasculating time. A girlfriend of his made comments to her friends, stating that while she really enjoyed being with him, and that he was a great guy both emotionally and ...
A. 16 February 2011: Might I add you're never going to get a straight answer statistics wise on whether it does or doesn't matter to women. Maybe it's 50/50, 75/25, who knows? Some women will lie, others tell the truth.
I will say majority of the aunts on this sit... (read in full...)
So...does size really matter? Let's put it to rest.
Q. A good friend of mine let’s call him S is going through a very tough, emasculating time. A girlfriend of his made comments to her friends, stating that while she really enjoyed being with him, and that he was a great guy both emotionally and ...
A. 16 February 2011: I thought these questions died down...
Yes (to me at least) and I'm sure there are more women out there like that.
I will shy away from a below average penis. It's not like I carry a pocket tape measure around so I have to eyeball it. If i... (read in full...)
I caught my husband and my best friend talking behind my back for the third time! How can I stop it?
Q. My husband had a secret relationship with my now ex-bestfriend. She's been in my life since elementary school and I've been with him since high school. They both said that there was no intimacy....but they both had feelings for eachother. They just ...
A. 16 February 2011: You're aware it takes two to tango..you ended the friendship but yet you're still married to your husband that went behind your back as well. Plus, you two have already have a bad marriage, and it doesn't look like they're going to give up their ... (read in full...)
Was he at the party I made a fool of myself at? Should I bring it up?
Q. Ok, here's the situation: I'm seeing this guy (let's call him C.) with whom I'm in love and I'm starting to think that he loves me too, but he's too proud to admit it (he shows anyway). The other day we met, C. accidentally told me that in Decem...
A. 16 February 2011: So he said he was at the party and tried to get you to talk about it? How about asking some of his friends where he was the other night?
Maybe it really was him, if it was then yes he does care about you. Perhaps he was waiting on a "thank y... (read in full...)
Why wouldnt he have sex?
Q. My ex would not have sex with me telling me he was old fashioned and it has to be just the right time. He could virtually stay erect for hours, 4 or more and we did everything you can think of but intercourse but he could and would just say `lets ...
A. 16 February 2011: Your post is all over the place..Are you wanting to know why won't your ex won't have sex with you anymore?
Perhaps it's because you guys are no longer together! Why do you want to have sex with your ex? There's plenty of other men that are thro... (read in full...)
Should I admit to snooping on my boyfriend's facebook? Or keep lying until he confesses?
Q. I have a big problem. I snooped in my bf's facebook, as i know his password e.t.c, and i saw some chat boxes come up saying the names of some girls that we have argued over before. when i clicked on the boxes, there wasnt any text there, but i'm ...
A. 16 February 2011: What has your boyfriend done to make you snoop? Sure, snooping isn't right..but people do it anyway when they think their significant other is cheating or up to no good. Your trust issue with him is making the relationship rocky, you don't seem to ... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my time with this lad whose ex girlfriend still lives with him?
Q. were both 17 btw x i met a lad at boxing a few months ago, and weve always had abit of chemistry. recently last month he inboxed me giving me his number because he quit the gym. weve been texting ever since, he comes into my work at his break jus...
A. 16 February 2011: Darling, you never ever date a guy who lives with or his apparent ex girlfriend lives with him. He needs to clean house before he dates someone new. If you two were to get together how are you going to trust him with his ex under one roof? No trust= ... (read in full...)
Shes being distant but won't tell me why
Q. Hi, I asked this a few days ago but didn't get much of a response so thought I'd re-post it. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 9 months, always got on really really well. She has a son and we both decided that I would be his dad after ab...
A. 16 February 2011: Not to sound rude, but probably why you didn't get much answers is because you should be asking her what is going on. We're not mind readers, and you obviously know this girl so you would have a much better idea of what's going on than us.
All I... (read in full...)
My on/off girlfriend wants us to sleep with others. I'm not sure how to feel about this
Q. im a 33 year old male and have had a on/off relationship with my 27 year old girlfriend for 4 years,our last break up was 8 months but have been seeing each other more casually for 3 months,we do love each other but tried living together and it ...
A. 16 February 2011: It depends do you want to keep sharing your "girlfriend" well it's now turned into a FWBs, with everyone? If you wish to be with her then you don't really have a choice. But you would be settling for less than what you want. At 33 you're probably ... (read in full...)
Is she a friend or is she more?
Q. hows it goin my best friend is a girl and i have known her all my life, we have gone to the same school with eachother since kindergarden and im not in college at a local community college and hang out with her. we used to hang out alot, then s...
A. 16 February 2011: First off you're not even sure if you like her as friends or more. You need to figure that part out.
Secondly, she's bisexual so you need to get to know her a bit better and ask her which one she prefers. Does she lean more towards the males or... (read in full...)
FWB relationship but we keep going back to each other
Q. I know this is long. I'm sorry, but there is this guy, i have been friends with benefits with for over a year now. I started to fall for him and when i told him he didn't really say anything, but we kept are thing up. He has always been there for me ...
A. 16 February 2011: You get some self control and walk away for good.
You two have nothing been but FWBs, if he liked/loved you then he would have more with you than just casual sex. Casual sex doesn't equal love. Your problem is you went against the cardinal... (read in full...)
She never gets upset after we fight... does that mean she doesn't care?
Q. Hi, I know a girl who I am close to. I have thought about her as a romantic interest but one thing makes me wonder about her feelings about me: whenever we fight I become very nervous, very upset and it lasts the whole day as I replay the whole ...
A. 16 February 2011: What do you guys fight about?
You may take things more to heart than she does. Perhaps she has a carefree attitude and just brushes off the arguments. It doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't care. ... (read in full...)
I have love for him and bills to pay. Which direction do I take? Love or the great job?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We moved in together around the 5 month mark. I recently got a job I have been wanting for a long time... its a really awesome place to work. Prior to our meeting we both had planned on moving out ...
A. 16 February 2011: Do yourself marrying this man? Have you guys even talked about engagement, marriage, etc?
Here's your options:
-You could move with him, but there's always that chance of you not finding work due to the crappy economy..Would he be ok if you we... (read in full...)
He talks about his girlfriend but then flirts with me
Q. Ok, this is just a really quick random question, but..... is it weird that my practically best guy friend basically insisted on my reading the love note his girlfriend wrote him for valentines day? He ALWAYS flirts with me, but then tells me he ...
A. 16 February 2011: Why do you think that's weird? Do you have more than platonic feelings for your best guy friend? How does this friend flirt with you? There are guys no matter if they have girlfriends are not, are just really flirty in general.
He's your best fri... (read in full...)
How do I react if my ex wishes me on my birthday?
Q. hellos. well I have been pondering over this for sometime now and may be I need clarification. My birthday is coming up and am wondering how to react when my ex (still have feelings for her) calls or sends me a text. And what if she doesn't send at ...
A. 16 February 2011: If she is seeing someone else chances are she's not going to call/text you a "Happy Birthday". Not to mention she's your EX. Don't expect anything from her.
However, in the rarity you do get well wishes from her, then take it as her being fr... (read in full...)
My best mate loves my girlfriend. What do I do?
Q. hi i have a dilemma. it is that my best mate, he loves my girlfriend and and he is pressureing her. I've tried talking to him but it just doesn't work. What do i do....
A. 16 February 2011: Sweetie, he's not even your friend if he's hitting on your girlfriend. Who cares if he gets mad? You're the one that should be pissed! ... (read in full...)
Am I stupid to feel this way?
Q. I'll keep this simple. My girlfriend of 2 and a half years likes me to send "dirty" pictures of myself to her, or take my clothes off/change in front of her in person. I don't mind doing it, I want to do anything that will make her happy. Bu...
A. 15 February 2011: Do you guys have a LDR? I mean she gets naked, undresses in front of you before sex.
It does sound very one-sided. She shouldn't ask for pictures if she isn't going to send some herself. Although, I do understand in the event of a break-up... (read in full...)
Just sent her a surprise for valentines day and I've found out she's cheating! Help!
Q. Me and my girl were supposed to be taking a break from each other but still datin.. i was only gone 2 days and on the third i decided to pop up and see what she's doing but wen i arrived, she had another dude over and he was like... they had been ...
A. 15 February 2011: @ male anon
You're not together with the person and wanting time apart. Now unless there are rules specified such as you two aren't to date anyone else and take this time to figure out what is going on. Most of the time these breaks are a nice w... (read in full...)
I'm sick of my lazy and unromantic boyfriend..
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together since 2years. and its been more than a year we started living together. He is not at all a romantic kind of a person and little dominating. He is out for vaccation and is meeting his family for 1 month. My ...
A. 15 February 2011: If he's not the boyfriend you want him to be and he refuses to change. You can't change a guy when he doesn't want to change in the first place. Then you break up with him. If he's always been like this from day one, it's surely not going to change ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is never there for me or our son...
Q. Me and mt boyfriend have been dating for 4 1/2 years. We have a beatiful 2 year old son together. Well ever since my son was born he hasn't been there for neither him nor me. It upsets me that he doesn't even call to see how he's doing. I was just ...
A. 15 February 2011: Actions speak louder than words. If he loves you and your son that share then surely he would be around you guys, right?
If he's not ever around you guys, helping out with your son, or paying any child support then he's not worth dating anymore.... (read in full...)
Guy number 1? Guy number 2?
Q. Hi there! So here's the deal. I'm torn between these two guys. I've known the 1st one for 5 months now, and he's really sweet to me. He says so many nice things about me, he compliments me, sings to me, we can talk about anything and is incredibly ...
A. 15 February 2011: So the first one is your boyfriend even though you've never met him? How old is this guy by the way? Computer programmers are always into their work. They don't really need to be working around the clock but they love tinkering with the electronics ... (read in full...)
Did my friends actions mean anything or should I not be concerned?
Q. Last weekend I went out with my husband to Elle my work colleagues birthday drinks in the city. Elle had invited her boyfriend, work colleagues and other friends, after quite a few drinks in the first bar we left to another pub. Later that evening I ...
A. 15 February 2011: You could bring it up in a joking manner like:
"Had a ton to drink the other night, eh? I think I saw you dancing on my husband." (Laugh)
Chances are she doesn't remember, she will hide her face in embarrassment and apologize all da... (read in full...)
My stepson messaged me to ask me out to dinner?
Q. Let's just start with me saying that I am divorced. Been so for about 2 yrs. I've been married twice. I have 3 kids of my own. 2 girls and 1 boy. All from my first marriage. My second marriage, no kids, but my husband had 2 boys. One is in...
A. 15 February 2011: Ah so you have a thing for your stepson, I was going to ask but I wasn't sure. There's absolutely nothing illegal about it in America. However, are you on good terms with this boy's father? If you started seeing him it will definitely make things go ... (read in full...)
The girl I'm chasing happens to be married!
Q. So, Im in the army, and oversea's at the moment. this woman that I chased for well over a year sent me a email saying she wanted to start "dating" me all of a sudden ok, all good. yeah im down for that. Im over here doing the right thing, no...
A. 14 February 2011: Nice, she already has her divorce planned out. I doubt this cheating army wife will ever make a good, honest housewife. Steer clear.... (read in full...)
Teacher ignores me, why?
Q. There is one teacher in my school who totally ignores me. Well I don't have any classes with him, but sometimes I do have him for exra help, and then he just like talks, talks and kinda doing his own business. I don't mind, I mean he's just my ...
A. 14 February 2011: It doesn't sound like you're doing anything wrong. Why are you so concerned that one teacher (who you don't have any classes with) out of the whole school doesn't acknowledge you. He probably doesn't know you're name, or hear you talking to him ... (read in full...)
Accidentally sent my ex an online Valentine's Day card!
Q. I sent my x a sexy online v card- I had written it last year and somehow it went out this year even though I thought I had deleted all cards from there. He replied back and said he loves me and is thinking about me and endearments. I'm not sure how ...
A. 14 February 2011: Why did you two break up?... (read in full...)
My stepson messaged me to ask me out to dinner?
Q. Let's just start with me saying that I am divorced. Been so for about 2 yrs. I've been married twice. I have 3 kids of my own. 2 girls and 1 boy. All from my first marriage. My second marriage, no kids, but my husband had 2 boys. One is in...
A. 14 February 2011: What was your relationship with your stepson like? Did your ex-husand get remarried? What do these messages say?
It sounds like he's just trying to be friendly given the circumstances. You were his stepmother. Take it at face value as a boy who ... (read in full...)
How do I swallow without upchucking?
Q. Hi all, Okay, here goes, I need advice about a sexual thiing, so I will get to the point! My partner is offended that I don't swallow and says if I loved him I would (it would mean a lot to him) but I just cannot do it, it makes me want to reach...
A. 14 February 2011: Yeah and if he loved you he would accept the fact you don't like to swallow. He's lucky you give blow jobs. There's some women who don't even do that.
I've only done it once and absolutely hated it.
If you have a gag reflex, then you're not ... (read in full...)
So for Valentine's Day my boyfriend got me lube and a dildo, where's the rest of my present?
Q. My Boyfriend got me a dildo and lube for valentine's day and I'm really upset because that is not at all what I wanted. What should I do?...
A. 14 February 2011: I would tell him it's a nice gesture but you were wanting something a little more romantic. He'll most likely go back out and correct his mistake. Or maybe he still has plans to make you dinner, or go out for dinner.... (read in full...)
The girl I'm chasing happens to be married!
Q. So, Im in the army, and oversea's at the moment. this woman that I chased for well over a year sent me a email saying she wanted to start "dating" me all of a sudden ok, all good. yeah im down for that. Im over here doing the right thing, no...
A. 14 February 2011: Might I add I'm an army wife and I don't know any couples that have married for "financial benefit". I know army wives who have married high ranking men for the sheer fact that they don't have to work. Those women are gaining financial benefit.
... (read in full...)
Was a vibrator for Valentine's Day a bad idea to get my man?
Q. so for Valentine's day i couldn't figure out what to get my man. I was talking with a friend a week or so ago and she suggested i get a vibrator to spice things up a bit and give it to him with a dirty note. even though our sex life is great like it ...
A. 14 February 2011: Or you could go back to the sex shop and buy a sex swing. Pricey but it's made for the both of you.
Or maybe a stripper pole and some sexy lingerie, that's more up his alley for a Valentine's gift. ... (read in full...)
Was a vibrator for Valentine's Day a bad idea to get my man?
Q. so for Valentine's day i couldn't figure out what to get my man. I was talking with a friend a week or so ago and she suggested i get a vibrator to spice things up a bit and give it to him with a dirty note. even though our sex life is great like it ...
A. 14 February 2011: You got more of a Valentine's Day gift for you. Something for him to use on you during sex. Some guys aren't into the whole introducing toys to bed, or are rather intimidated by them. Like Cindy said they don't want to be "replaced".
What did he s... (read in full...)
The girl I'm chasing happens to be married!
Q. So, Im in the army, and oversea's at the moment. this woman that I chased for well over a year sent me a email saying she wanted to start "dating" me all of a sudden ok, all good. yeah im down for that. Im over here doing the right thing, no...
A. 14 February 2011: Happy Valentine's Day to you!
I hate women like that, they give army wives the cheating stereotype. She may have married for financial benefits at the moment, but how is this "open" marriage gonna work when they both meet someone else and find out... (read in full...)
So for Valentine's Day my boyfriend got me lube and a dildo, where's the rest of my present?
Q. My Boyfriend got me a dildo and lube for valentine's day and I'm really upset because that is not at all what I wanted. What should I do?...
A. 14 February 2011: You ask what did he REALLY get you for Valentine's Day. Or did you tell him you wanted those items and something else? It's not too late for him to run to Wal-mart, Target, to nab you a box of chocolates. Flowers and chocolate covered strawberrries ... (read in full...)
My gaming broad invited me & another lad on our 1ST date WTF?!?!
Q. Ok everybody now this is blowing me away so I need to know if this is normal or if I'm the nut job? Imma a gamin addict and Ive been gamin with a girl that I'll call A. Ok so me and A weve been gamin for a good 18 months. Nobody would ever figure we ...
A. 14 February 2011: Oooo a blind triangular date. Which one of you is the third wheel though? And who footed the bill for this expensive date?
You were so right to ditch the skanky mcskanster. ... (read in full...)
Best friend has valentine's day blues
Q. My best friend's girlfriend had broken up with him two days before valentines day.What should I do to make him feel better?...
A. 14 February 2011: Hang out on Valentine's Day together as friends, like Eyes said go rent comedies, order Chinese takeout or pizza, maybe play video games, or go over to your friends house to hang out. Valentine's Day is just another day.... (read in full...)
Did my friends actions mean anything or should I not be concerned?
Q. Last weekend I went out with my husband to Elle my work colleagues birthday drinks in the city. Elle had invited her boyfriend, work colleagues and other friends, after quite a few drinks in the first bar we left to another pub. Later that evening I ...
A. 14 February 2011: How good of friends are you with Elle? Maybe you two are competitive at work?
It also depends on how much she had to drink that night as well. Although, no matter her state of inebriation she is still held accountable for her actions. I would sa... (read in full...)
Two guys, one gal. Do I choose one? Keep all three? Or start again? Is my sex life too varied for even me?.
Q. So here's my problem: Six months ago my boyfriend and I (lets call him A) of one and a half years broke up. For some reason, I thrived to have another person with me at all times so I instantly went to my old boyfriend (lets call him B) for supp...
A. 14 February 2011: So being single isn't an option even though it's the best one because you're still not over A. The break-up is too raw. You don't have to have a boyfriend/girlfriend at all times, you just think you do. It's possible to be single and happy. Give ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to write in the valentine card!
Q. First Valentine's day with a boyfriend... we have been dating for 2 months, haven't said "I love you" or anything like that yet, and I need help with what to write in a Valentine's day card for him, so far all I have is Happy Valentine's Day, but i ...
A. 14 February 2011: "These 2 months have been amazing so far, you're the best Valentine I could ask for. Happy Valentine's Day!"
You guys have only been dating for 2 months, of course the card is going to be rather bare. ... (read in full...)
How to stop my gal from drinking?
Q. I live with my girlriend and she goes for drinks at her friends' place every night. I go work at day time and we spend time with each other. Even if I ask her not to drink everyday , she wouldn't listen .It disturbs me a lot as I feel insecure...
A. 14 February 2011: Even though it may not be good for health wise, it's still her life. When is drinking ever good? Is she staying out all hours of the night getting drunk? Or is it just casually drinking with friends? Why doesn't she ask you to come along?
You'r... (read in full...)
My friend is going with my crush to prom!
Q. Ok, so I have a bit of a dilema. My friend, who is a boy, asked me to prom and I said yes. But my best friend just told me she is going to prom wih this guy. But the guy she is going with I have a major crush on. But, my friend dosent know this. ...
A. 13 February 2011: I went with a friend of mine to the prom, when we got there I barely saw him at all. Was too busy hanging out with friends, talking, and dancing with everyone else. Just because he's your date doesn't mean you have to be attached to his hip the ... (read in full...)
Are all our dates going to be as awkward as this one?
Q. Ok I had my first date a few months ago days before the date I was super excited and we went to the movie so I was kind of hoping that I would get my first kiss in the dark movie theater but I was wrong he brought his 3 cousins ,mom,sister and his ...
A. 13 February 2011: Honey, all first dates have that potential awkward factor! I feel for you, I really do. You shouldn't have a disastrous date already at your age.
Did you ask him why he brought along the whole family along? Maybe his parents are strict (since y... (read in full...)
Just sent her a surprise for valentines day and I've found out she's cheating! Help!
Q. Me and my girl were supposed to be taking a break from each other but still datin.. i was only gone 2 days and on the third i decided to pop up and see what she's doing but wen i arrived, she had another dude over and he was like... they had been ...
A. 13 February 2011: How are you on a break, but still dating? A break means you are broken up. Did you specify certain rules and stipulations during this break, such as you two weren't allowed to see anyone else? If you two were still dating then you weren't on a ... (read in full...)
My best mate loves my girlfriend. What do I do?
Q. hi i have a dilemma. it is that my best mate, he loves my girlfriend and and he is pressureing her. I've tried talking to him but it just doesn't work. What do i do....
A. 13 February 2011: You dump your now ex-best mate. He doesn't respect your relationship with your girlfriend (guy code) much less your guy's friendship. ... (read in full...)
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