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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Obsessing that my boyfriend may cheat
Q. I find myself obsessing over whether my boyfriend is having sex with anyone else. We've been together 5 months and I have no specific evidence at all. In fact, he tells me what he is doing whenever I ask and he picks up the phone whenever I call ...
A. 25 April 2011: Not to take his side, but it is understandable that he wants to keep his private life, well private. When it comes to guys changing their FB relationship status, they often drag their feet about it..They don't want the attention. So Facebook ... (read in full...)
He asked me about my monthly. Do you think he only wants me for sex?
Q. I have been in a long distance relationship for years and we agreed to meet this September but it worries me now that he might just see me for physical reasons and not really love me for who I am. Is it not offensive when an online bf will a...
A. 12 April 2011: Why haven't either of you met in the 5 years this "relationship" has gone on?
He contradicts himself by saying he wants to it slow, but making sure he arrives when you're period is over. Of course he only wants you for sex. I would let this "re... (read in full...)
What does he mean by saying, "I don't want to hurt you?"
Q. I met this stranger not too long ago. We exchanged numbers and texted and called each other every day for a month then finally went out on a date. Everything went really well, and we set up some more dates. At the end of our second date he t...
A. 11 April 2011: His dating track record isn't so hot and he has a history of breaking girls' hearts.
In other words, watch yourself when it comes to your feelings and being emotionally invested in him.... (read in full...)
He asked me about my monthly. Do you think he only wants me for sex?
Q. I have been in a long distance relationship for years and we agreed to meet this September but it worries me now that he might just see me for physical reasons and not really love me for who I am. Is it not offensive when an online bf will a...
A. 11 April 2011: Your question gave me a good laugh.
One, have you ever met this guy in person?? If you've never met him in person and he's already scheduling his travel date around your period, chances are he's just looking to sleep with a foreign girl.
Howe... (read in full...)
I am uncomfortable with BF's drug use. Need advise.
Q. Ive been back with my ex for 4 months were living together and im totally in love. i broke up with him 2 years ago coz of drugs and hes having a bit of trouble trying to forget how much hurt he went through but he only told me yesterday that he ...
A. 11 April 2011: Eh sort of. More like he needs to go to a rehab center for drug addicts.
Here's the thing, there's no beating it into his head that he needs to stop using drugs. He's been like this from day 1 and you know that. Your druggie boyfriend doesn't ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get back at him for all the pain he has caused me?
Q. I am going to make a long story short, so if u want more info just ask. My ex and i dated for three months and then he dumped me, he told me while we were split up that he still loved me, that he fucked up, he wants another chance, and was kissing ...
A. 11 April 2011: You date his enemy. Seriously. Guys hate for a girl they lost to be hanging on their worst enemy's arm all around school.
However, their enemy might not be that attractive so it's going to require some work which gets exhausting after a while. L... (read in full...)
Tossing BF's pregnant friend and son out isn't an option. Need advice on my relationship with BF.
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for close to 3 years. (Me-26, Him-29) The problem is his best friend, who happens to be female. Over the years, she's lived with my boyfriend off and on as she's trying to get on her feet. She has a son from a ...
A. 11 April 2011: This sounds like baby mama drama, only your boyfriend didn't father anyone of these kids.
It's not up to YOUR boyfriend to step in and assume the fatherly role. Who owns the house/apartment? Does she have a job, is she contributing anything... (read in full...)
How do I tell my husband's girlfriend's husband?
Q. How do I go about informing my husband's girlfriend's husband that she is having an affair? ...
A. 11 April 2011: I'm sorry maybe I just can't read, your husband's girlfriend??
Or husband's friend who is a girl, inform her husband that she is cheating??
The answer is you don't. It's not your marriage, and it isn't your place to tell him. Chances are he w... (read in full...)
Is he still attracted to me, or is it really nothing?
Q. It may be a tad long but i just came on here for some advice or insight please! Anything that will help make sense!? Here goes, call me stupid or naive since i know you don't know the guy or me, but if you can make out these actions.. Great!...
A. 11 April 2011: Here's the thing, we're NOT mind readers..so we can't tell you what he is thinking, or if he is indeed attracted to you. Staring/glancing isn't enough to tell if someone likes you or not.
Instead of staring back, or go another month wonderin... (read in full...)
She doesn't meet my criteria for a life partner. Should I stay or should I go?
Q. Hi, I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and I've been doing a lot of thinking. I am unsure about how much I love her because when we're away from each other I sometimes miss her, but more often than not end up think...
A. 11 April 2011: If she's not what you want in a future wife, all the molding, shaping, maybe cosmetic surgery, makeover, attitude adjustment, educating, isn't going to turn her into what you want.
I'm surprised she's still with you despite all these adjustme... (read in full...)
Contraception and pregnancy. How far should one plan for the unplanned?
Q. When you have sex there is no guarantee you will not get pregnant, because even when you do use contraception you can use it the wrong way, and no contraception can claim to be 100 percent safe either. I do trust in the contraception I use, and that ...
A. 11 April 2011: I think you're confusing yourself and looking into way too much.
If we went through life always questioning ourselves in everything we do then people wouldn't live to 100..they would be lucky to make it to 50.
Now if you're trying to preven... (read in full...)
GF is a workalcoholic. We are to be married in 3 months. Please advise.
Q. I dont know who else to turn to. Its really getting to the point where I dont know what to do. sorry if its long, but yeah. My Fiancee and I are getting married in about 3 months. For the last year, she has been doing freelance work to save up ...
A. 11 April 2011: Call off the wedding for one. In fact, why are you two even getting hitched? You two sound like bipolar opposites.
It sounds like she's always been this way..if that is the case then no she will not change. She doesn't want to and you can't ma... (read in full...)
My sister is a squatter. How can my parents get her to leave?
Q. My sister got pregnant and my parents let her stay at home. now that the child is 1 year old now they want her to leave and get a house of her own. they have constantly told her to go cause all she does is causes hassle and fights with everyone. She ...
A. 11 April 2011: Your parents need to get custody of that child now..because if they don't there is a possibility she could take the child with her when she does leave. Then your parents will have that worry of the unknown whereabouts of their grandchild hanging ... (read in full...)
5 Months. Is it time to have a serious conversation?
Q. I met this guy 5 months ago, we've been dating ever since. He is older than me but that's not an issue, the time we spend together is amazing. I'm starting to have feelings for him and I'm a little scared because I really don't know if he is looking ...
A. 11 April 2011: Are you two exclusively dating as basically a relationship? Would you say you're boyfriend/girlfriend?
Serious talk as in you're in this for the long haul? If he was just in it for the sex, or to just have a girlfriend, then he wouldn't have int... (read in full...)
Why isn't this guy making any moves? Is he gay?
Q. Im a 14 year old girl and i have a crush on this guy in my class.Well i thought he liked me back so i started staring at him alot to get him to make the first move.Well He started looking at me the way i looked at him and i felt he had a crush on me ...
A. 11 April 2011: Lmao, is he gay. How about he's not into you.
You CAN'T get a guy to make a move. If you like him and are so sure that he likes you then you make the move. It doesn't always have to be the guy who makes the first move, there's nothing wrong wi... (read in full...)
He lied about his age, should I see him again?
Q. Ok I got know this guy over the phone, we talk everyday and text. recently went on a date with him and found out he lied about his age. Turns out he is 9 yrs older tha me, there were a few other little things that I didnt really like, but these ...
A. 11 April 2011:
Does the fact that you like this guy outweigh him lying about his age, and the other things you don't like about him? If so, then proceed on seeing him. Now if you answered "no" to this question, then let it go. He's a grown man, he can handle reje... (read in full...)
He is avoiding telling his mum that we are getting engaged, is he having second thoughts?
Q. Me and my boyfriend were supposed to tell his mum that we were getting engaged and then at the last minute wanted to tell her another day, this then made me wonder if he even wanted to be engaged at all?...
A. 11 April 2011: What did he say when you asked him why he didn't tell her? (At least I hope you have asked him). If not then that should be the first thing out of your mouth the next time you see him.
Why not call his mum up and schedule a lunch with her, you... (read in full...)
Why would he even ask if I want to have sex with other men?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for two years now. We have always been happy and very much in love. My boyfriend is very protective which makes me feel special enough for him to care how other boys act around me. He has always told me he would hate ...
A. 11 April 2011: Is he asking you in a way as in a test? Or is he suggesting that you sleep with other guys?
It doesn't make any sense for an overprotective to suddenly suggest you sleep with other guys. Either he's wanting a hall pass to sleep with other wo... (read in full...)
Will he try something if he comes to my house?
Q. I met him about two months ago - and I've been told by several people that he's a bit of a man slut, if you know what I mean...he talks to me when he's drunk asking for sex and calls me mean when I say no. I've told him I haven't 'done anything' and ...
A. 11 April 2011: He first offered to come to your house, but changed his mind since he knew your Dad would be there. Dad, schmad, that doesn't stop a man whore.
You (though you may not want to admit it), I, the rest of the aunts answering this question know he ... (read in full...)
Obsessing that my boyfriend may cheat
Q. I find myself obsessing over whether my boyfriend is having sex with anyone else. We've been together 5 months and I have no specific evidence at all. In fact, he tells me what he is doing whenever I ask and he picks up the phone whenever I call ...
A. 11 April 2011: Has he ever given you a reason to not trust him? Or is this stemming from previous relationships of where you were wronged?
If it's the latter, then you know going thru relationships where you don't give the guy trust will get you absolute... (read in full...)
I need money. Is gay porn the answer? I don't want to cheat on my GF.
Q. hello, i am in serious dept, i haven't got a job and have £103 every 2 weeks. with my balance being so high I cant make the next step with my girl friend. i watched a program on MTV about porn stars lives, there was a guy on there whom who was ...
A. 30 March 2011: There are definitely other ways to make $ than gay porn. Such as finishing your education, getting a college degree, perhaps getting a job on top of that. Also watching where your money goes and cutting costs where ever need be.
The next step as ... (read in full...)
Is he getting attached and wanting me more then we had agreed?
Q. I have a friend, with benefits. Its nice because we both agreed no strings. Lately though, its been... weird, for a lack of a better term. I was talking to a friend of mine(a girl) about how I had this one picture of this (different) guy, not even ...
A. 28 March 2011: Majority of women, no matter the age, often overanalyze situations. Especially when males are involved. The reason why I say you might be developing feelings because often women are the ones who break the "no strings attached rule" in FWBs. T... (read in full...)
LDR advice? She doesn't accept any of my ideas.
Q. Hello Everyone, So I met my girlfriend online and we've been together for 4-5 months now. (We've known eachother for more then a year) It started out with just talking on msn occasionally but we found out we had much more in common so we sta...
A. 20 March 2011: Why don't you discuss this with her before you start picking up your life and moving near a now ex who may not accept you back. Good luck to you though.... (read in full...)
LDR advice? She doesn't accept any of my ideas.
Q. Hello Everyone, So I met my girlfriend online and we've been together for 4-5 months now. (We've known eachother for more then a year) It started out with just talking on msn occasionally but we found out we had much more in common so we sta...
A. 18 March 2011: I'm sorry to hear that, but a break-up was on the horizon. And if you weren't going to do it, she eventually was. The signs were there.
Perhaps Capri was right and she is involved with another man. However, I seem to think the first meeting ... (read in full...)
How do you think she feels about me?
Q. So, I like someone. I was the canteen manager at a school dance, and I could have fifteen minutes of dancing after the canteen was packed up at the end of the dance. We're both on the student counsel, who showed up hours earlier to decorate and get ...
A. 17 March 2011: When a girl says she likes you as a friend she means what she says. She's not keeping you as a friend then alter promoting you to boyfriend status. It doesn't work that way.
If you don't think you can handle the friendship then as I've said mov... (read in full...)
LDR advice? She doesn't accept any of my ideas.
Q. Hello Everyone, So I met my girlfriend online and we've been together for 4-5 months now. (We've known eachother for more then a year) It started out with just talking on msn occasionally but we found out we had much more in common so we sta...
A. 17 March 2011: Explain this jealousy misunderstanding. You haven't mentioned that in your post or follow-ups.... (read in full...)
If he makes a move on me, how do I stay faithful to my boyfriend?
Q. a year ago, me and this boy i liked kissed, but we didnt go out, and stopped talking after a while. now i have a really lovely boyfriend, but this boy has come back into my life again. he's got a reputation as a bit of a tool, and he's really ...
A. 16 March 2011: Smart girl you are OP. Alcohol is NO excuse, that goes for everyone.... (read in full...)
How do you think she feels about me?
Q. So, I like someone. I was the canteen manager at a school dance, and I could have fifteen minutes of dancing after the canteen was packed up at the end of the dance. We're both on the student counsel, who showed up hours earlier to decorate and get ...
A. 14 March 2011: As I've said you can confront her in your feelings seeing if she feels the same way or ask one of her friends how she feels about you. If this chick harbors the same feelings great.
However if she doesn't, then there isn't anything you can do t... (read in full...)
Girls are flirting with my very good looking boyfriend, what should I do?
Q. my boyfriend is quite good looking and we've been together for 6 months now but on and off before, and basically quite a few of the 'slaggy' girls in my year seem to flirt with him and say he looks good looking and everything in front of me and i ...
A. 14 March 2011: It's true there is nothing you can do about slutty girls flirting with your hot boyfriend. Your boyfriend however can walk away when they are trying to flirt with him, or tell them "No thank you, I have a girlfriend." But what good looking guy in ... (read in full...)
LDR advice? She doesn't accept any of my ideas.
Q. Hello Everyone, So I met my girlfriend online and we've been together for 4-5 months now. (We've known eachother for more then a year) It started out with just talking on msn occasionally but we found out we had much more in common so we sta...
A. 14 March 2011: It sounds like your meeting didn't go all that perfect for her.
The big issue is she's telling you she can't handle this LDR anymore..after you two met. But she doesn't want you to move there or vice versa, nor does she want you to come visit. I... (read in full...)
How and should I ask this younger girl out?
Q. I'm 15, and there's this freshman girl who likes me. I sorta like her a little, but I'm a sophomore. Also, I know her older brother pretty well who is a junior (so thats kinda awkward). Should I ask this girl out?...
A. 14 March 2011: If YOU like her enough to ask her out, then do so.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend values me at the same level as his gym!!
Q. Iv been going out with my boyfriend for about 4 months. We always go through phases where we fall out at least once a day. I know its partly my fault but I genuinely can't see how. I hate it when we fall out and so does he but it never seems to stop ...
A. 14 March 2011: Does he pick the gym over you? If not, then there's no issue here.
Now if you have a gym meat head that tells you he can't go out tonight because he needs to go pump some iron. Then I would say you come second to the gym.
If that is not how your... (read in full...)
17 years old and involved with a married man...and not sure of what I want.
Q. I'm 17 and was involved with a married man before like when I was 15 and again when I was 16 and now once again I kissed this other married guy and again started a friendship with another married guy, ya I know I'm playing with fire. He asked me ...
A. 13 March 2011: I'm sorry to hear about your father..that gives a little insight as to why you are interested in married men. However, these men aren't here to be your daddy. They're preying on you because you're young, fresh, "innocent", and naive. They will use ... (read in full...)
How can women be so cruel as to keep guys who like them in the "friend zone"??
Q. Reflecting on the "friend zone" on a lonely Friday night, I am deeply troubled by a question about women: There are many women out there who know guys who like them romantically but they themselves are not attracted to them. Ok, this is fine. Th...
A. 13 March 2011: From reading that post, that's one case of a guy getting out of the Friend Zone. Those stories are RARE. No it's not fair for me to say it NEVER happens, but I will tell you it's highly unlikely that a guy is going to escape from it.
... (read in full...)
Sex with virgins; STD risk?
Q. If I have had sex with three people and all of them were virgins, is there any chance of me having an STD?...
A. 13 March 2011: Are you 100% positive they were virgins? Unfortunately, people often lie about that, especially STDs.... (read in full...)
17 years old and involved with a married man...and not sure of what I want.
Q. I'm 17 and was involved with a married man before like when I was 15 and again when I was 16 and now once again I kissed this other married guy and again started a friendship with another married guy, ya I know I'm playing with fire. He asked me ...
A. 13 March 2011: Sad, 16-17 is too young to be a potential home wrecker.
Let me put it this way, if you were married would you want some young teenage girl trying to kiss and get physical with your husband? No. Have some respect for this married man's wife (ev... (read in full...)
Will she ever come back?
Q. My ex girlfriend said to me she wasn't used to being treated this good. She would tell me that she didn't deserve a guy like me. So i made her dinner and took her to a movie and she broke up with me. she is now dating some guy who is the total ...
A. 13 March 2011: Nope sorry, can't tell the future.
First off, I commend you for keeping up no contact. That's the first big step in getting over her.
Your ex literally felt like she didn't deserve you, so now she's probably dating the jerk she's used to be... (read in full...)
How do I tell her I like someone else now after liking her for a while without hurting her?
Q. Ok, this girl and I have liked each other for about a month and I didn't know her very well so I wanted to know her better before we went out. But yesterday me and this other girl flirted a lot and the people we were with said we should go out. I ...
A. 13 March 2011: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-so-conflicted-i-dont-want-to-hurt.html
What about the girl that you told her you loved her? You really don't know who you like.
Actually you don't have to tell the first girl you like someone else. Ju... (read in full...)
Is he getting attached and wanting me more then we had agreed?
Q. I have a friend, with benefits. Its nice because we both agreed no strings. Lately though, its been... weird, for a lack of a better term. I was talking to a friend of mine(a girl) about how I had this one picture of this (different) guy, not even ...
A. 13 March 2011: Actually from this post you sound like the one who is wanting more. You're looking into his words, body language way more than you sounds. FWBs, no string attached, fuck buddies is an extremely casual, laid back affair. Your main concern is sex, ... (read in full...)
How do you think she feels about me?
Q. So, I like someone. I was the canteen manager at a school dance, and I could have fifteen minutes of dancing after the canteen was packed up at the end of the dance. We're both on the student counsel, who showed up hours earlier to decorate and get ...
A. 13 March 2011: From your post, it sounds like she views you as a friend. If she liked you then it would be just the two of you dancing, instead of one big group.
I could be wrong though, why don't you ask one of her friends who she likes these days?... (read in full...)
I don't know what to make of these mixed signals
Q. This guy I'm dating is sending me mixed signals. Everytime we do more than kiss (fooling around but not too much) he runs and doesn't talk to me for a few days. And he always thinks we are moving too fast-even though he always initiates it. and when ...
A. 13 March 2011: Think about it, every time you two see each other it gets physical. You're not his girlfriend, never met his family, you two hook up on and off. Sounds like a FWBs, no strings attached deal to me.
I'm willing to bet he has a girlfriend or he ha... (read in full...)
Do I keep waiting for a guy whose parents will never let him marry me?
Q. I love a guy madly over the past 3 years and I really can't live without him but he is not ready for marriage. He says that his parents will not agrree to that. What do I do?? ...
A. 13 March 2011: Correct me if I'm wrong but arranged marriages are popular in your country..Seeing as his parents are probably grooming him to take another woman's hand in marriage, means you will be waiting till eternity.
If he truly loved you he would convince... (read in full...)
I'm so conflicted, I don't want to hurt or two-time anybody!
Q. Ok guys I'm in a world of problems at the moment. There has been this girl who I have liked and has liked me for about a month now but nothing has happened yet. My best girl friend and I have always been kinda close and joke around about goi...
A. 12 March 2011: My advice is to spend time with all 3 and then that will help you figure out who you like more. If I had to pick for you now..it sounds like you like the second girl.
The first, if you liked her then you would have made something with her happ... (read in full...)
How can women be so cruel as to keep guys who like them in the "friend zone"??
Q. Reflecting on the "friend zone" on a lonely Friday night, I am deeply troubled by a question about women: There are many women out there who know guys who like them romantically but they themselves are not attracted to them. Ok, this is fine. Th...
A. 12 March 2011: A friend does take another friend's feelings into thought. However, if one friend is feeling more for that friend then it's going to complicate the friendship don't you think? Is she supposed to stay single? It really gets exhausting tiptoeing ... (read in full...)
How can women be so cruel as to keep guys who like them in the "friend zone"??
Q. Reflecting on the "friend zone" on a lonely Friday night, I am deeply troubled by a question about women: There are many women out there who know guys who like them romantically but they themselves are not attracted to them. Ok, this is fine. Th...
A. 12 March 2011: I sleep just fine at night, thank you.
A woman places a guy in the friend zone when she's just not at attracted to him, no chemistry, nada. These type of women like having male friends and often view him as one of the girls or an insight into the... (read in full...)
I'm so conflicted, I don't want to hurt or two-time anybody!
Q. Ok guys I'm in a world of problems at the moment. There has been this girl who I have liked and has liked me for about a month now but nothing has happened yet. My best girl friend and I have always been kinda close and joke around about goi...
A. 12 March 2011: Ok so out of those 3 girls which one do you like the most?
Also to be fair, let's save the "I love you's" for when you're in a relationship. So no more telling that one girl you love her when you like 2 other girls too.... (read in full...)
I'm so conflicted, I don't want to hurt or two-time anybody!
Q. Ok guys I'm in a world of problems at the moment. There has been this girl who I have liked and has liked me for about a month now but nothing has happened yet. My best girl friend and I have always been kinda close and joke around about goi...
A. 12 March 2011: You're not two-timing (cheating) anyone since you don't have a girlfriend.
No wonder you're conflicted, I counted 4-5(?) girls in your post that potentially like you or you like them. One of them is off-limits, that's your best girl friend s... (read in full...)
If he makes a move on me, how do I stay faithful to my boyfriend?
Q. a year ago, me and this boy i liked kissed, but we didnt go out, and stopped talking after a while. now i have a really lovely boyfriend, but this boy has come back into my life again. he's got a reputation as a bit of a tool, and he's really ...
A. 23 February 2011: How has he come back in your life? Are you two friends? Did he tell you he wants to get with you?
You say you don't want to get involved but you're pondering the what if..I get the image that you still like this guy now that he's resurfac... (read in full...)
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