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I don't want sex with my boyfriend and I don't mind if he finds it elsewhere. Normal?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been in each others lives for 1 year and maybe three months? I say this because I'm not sure exactly when we became a couple. I'm 20 and I have a relaxed philosophy to relationships and my boyfriend is 22. I moved away f...
A. 7 December 2011: This story I like.. lol.. have fun and enjoy yourself.... (read in full...)
18 in love with a man 30 years older than me
Q. basically i am in love with a man who is 30 years older than me. i am 18. we have been 'friends with benefits' exclusively for 2 years but have a stupid habit of calling each other bf or gf. i went to visit him about a week ago and we decided ...
A. 18 November 2011: Hi baby girl.. I thought I scared you, and you wouldn't come back again. You are very brave. So how much was I right about and how much did I get wrong? You got courage, I like that.. but I do not like him very much. Anyway, you two are finished ... (read in full...)
He said I "owe" him sex!!! Should I feel bad?
Q. On another note, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend last week after him controlling me for over 2 years. A week before I had began getting closer to my guy friend but I hadn't noticed it 'till I broke up with my boyfriend. It's been a week since my ...
A. 13 November 2011: Sorry male anon, but even if she made a promise, she can't keep this one. First time sex hurts a lot. If she lies down with him it will feel like rape and it will hurt a lot and make her feel dirty and ashamed. You might make such a promise to a ... (read in full...)
do women tend to get into FWB relationships with someone for whom they have at least some romantic feelings, hoping it will turn into more?
Q. This question is just out of curiosity, and it has nothing to do with my situation (I'm married, faithful, etc.) There seem to be a lot of questions on this board by women who have feelings for their FWB. Typically, the questions are if their FWB...
A. 13 November 2011: That's what they said about not letting women vote.... (read in full...)
18 in love with a man 30 years older than me
Q. basically i am in love with a man who is 30 years older than me. i am 18. we have been 'friends with benefits' exclusively for 2 years but have a stupid habit of calling each other bf or gf. i went to visit him about a week ago and we decided ...
A. 12 November 2011: Young lady... I noticed from the start that you like to hide things. You've probably been hiding all of this from your parents. Little by little you tell us more of the story, and the more you tell the worst it gets. No wonder your parents are ... (read in full...)
Missing my Ex. Is feeling Mutual?
Q. I miss my ex so much, though, I feel he doesn't of me. We have been separated for three years(haven't seen each other since) and only spoken on blue moons(very rarely). He has mentioned to me that he has a lot of pictures of me and that he thinks of ...
A. 11 November 2011: That's me done and sorted.. (smile)
Here, please read this post, I think this lady has something important to say you and me.. (laugh)
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/realisation-that-your-ex-is-a-bloody-user.html... (read in full...)
do women tend to get into FWB relationships with someone for whom they have at least some romantic feelings, hoping it will turn into more?
Q. This question is just out of curiosity, and it has nothing to do with my situation (I'm married, faithful, etc.) There seem to be a lot of questions on this board by women who have feelings for their FWB. Typically, the questions are if their FWB...
A. 11 November 2011: Yes you are right.. more women seem to have problems with FWB. I don't believe that this is due to biology, but the socialization of men and women, and the creation of gender roles. There's a big difference between saying many women fall in love ... (read in full...)
Is 'dry humping' morally wrong?
Q. We were making out and it just happened, we're both Christians and we want to wait till marriage to have sex, but is it wrong that we dry humped and we both enjoyed it? ...
A. 11 November 2011: Dry humping is fine for everyone but strict religious people.
If you are a strict christian, then anything that is lustful is wrong outside marriage, including thoughts as well as actions.
Very few Christians are so strict and if you have a wo... (read in full...)
I'm sick of him but I don't want to lose him...
Q. im.14 and so is my boyfriend he smokes and i dont like it he trys and presures me into it but i dont want to and whrn hes with his friends he does it more but when were alone hes really sweet and makes me feel special. he just sits there and talks ...
A. 11 November 2011: Anyone who tries to pressure you is no good. In the end you will get in trouble if you stay with this boy.
Any boy who calls you names is no good.
Don't stay with this boy, he will make you cry and get you in trouble.... (read in full...)
I feel as if I'm just his bit on the side...
Q. hey, im a bit fed up tbh, i admit i do get boys attention but its always for one thing. there have been 3 boys, where we met up and everything and later found out they had a gf. and then the others text met up get want they want and then ony cal...
A. 11 November 2011: There is a book called "The Rules", you need a copy of that. It shows you how to act in the old ways, and get a guy to respect you even though your not having sex.
There is nothing wrong with a little bit of sex. But if you want to have a commit... (read in full...)
No sex in 5 years, does it matter to guys?
Q. To the Men on Dearcupid, What would you think if you started a relationship with a woman who hadn't had sex in 5 years? Would it freak you out? Or does it simply not matter? Thanks I was just wondering!...
A. 11 November 2011: Be a bit careful about the guy you choose. Many men will assume your hungry or desperate for sex after such a long time. Don't mention it until you are sure the guy is respectful and kind and you are already in the bedroom.
A woman who hasn't h... (read in full...)
He said I "owe" him sex!!! Should I feel bad?
Q. On another note, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend last week after him controlling me for over 2 years. A week before I had began getting closer to my guy friend but I hadn't noticed it 'till I broke up with my boyfriend. It's been a week since my ...
A. 11 November 2011: Don't feel bad.. this guy is scum.
In five years time you will feel dirty for ever spending a second of your time talking to him.
He's using emotional blackmail and talking rubbish. Tell him to go to hell, and find a bottle to keep him happy. ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my boyfriend I'm ready to have sex with him?
Q. Im a 16 year old girl who is a proud virgin, and my ex boyfriend who i like has asked for sex in the beginning and I told him no. He now after 6 months still likes me and never even hints the idea. But now all of a sudden im craving sex! What do I ...
A. 11 November 2011: Please wait baby.. Ex-boyfriends are not the people for first time sex. The right guy will come soon. Remember you have all your life to have sex. But ex-boyfriends can hurt you.... (read in full...)
My lover looks after his sick twin sister, but could include me more but is not. Do I end it?
Q. Dear all, Your opinions please. I have been dating a man for around 8 months now. He is seperated has his teenage duaghter living with him and his twin sister who has Downs Syndrome for who he is her full time carer. He is 45 years old. I know he ...
A. 11 November 2011: The bottom line, as you have said "The fun has gone out of it". Your in your 40's and want to settle down, this guy isn't the right one.
Your a grown woman in her 40's, your not a teenager. His emotions, his sister, his issues are not your pro... (read in full...)
do women tend to get into FWB relationships with someone for whom they have at least some romantic feelings, hoping it will turn into more?
Q. This question is just out of curiosity, and it has nothing to do with my situation (I'm married, faithful, etc.) There seem to be a lot of questions on this board by women who have feelings for their FWB. Typically, the questions are if their FWB...
A. 11 November 2011: Women offer sex in the belief that it is part of a loving relationship. Men will feign a relationship in hopes that it will result in their getting sex.....
.. and THAT's the truth.. (Sageoldguy1465)
For some women, but not the women I know. The... (read in full...)
I don't want sex with my boyfriend and I don't mind if he finds it elsewhere. Normal?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been in each others lives for 1 year and maybe three months? I say this because I'm not sure exactly when we became a couple. I'm 20 and I have a relaxed philosophy to relationships and my boyfriend is 22. I moved away f...
A. 10 November 2011: Ok, so he's not a bad lover.. then you are not romantically involved with him. He's your friend, not your lover or soulmate. Please don't be upset with us, we are just trying to help based on the little that you have told us. Why would you w... (read in full...)
18 in love with a man 30 years older than me
Q. basically i am in love with a man who is 30 years older than me. i am 18. we have been 'friends with benefits' exclusively for 2 years but have a stupid habit of calling each other bf or gf. i went to visit him about a week ago and we decided ...
A. 10 November 2011: OK, it's the age thing. I wouldn't like my young daughter dating a man so old. But if you love each other and he treats you right, your parents will eventually understand.
If it's love, he needs to prove to your parents that you are his world. ... (read in full...)
Missing my Ex. Is feeling Mutual?
Q. I miss my ex so much, though, I feel he doesn't of me. We have been separated for three years(haven't seen each other since) and only spoken on blue moons(very rarely). He has mentioned to me that he has a lot of pictures of me and that he thinks of ...
A. 10 November 2011: Be strong babes.. I got my stupid ex visiting tomorrow and I know exactly how you feel.. I am telling you just what I tell myself. No man is worth heart ache and pain, there are billions of them in the world.
If they want you, then they shouldn'... (read in full...)
Threesome concerns
Q. IS it ok for my boyfriend to want to be bestfriends with my babys daddy and perhaps thinking about having a threesome with him and also trying to get me jealous over him?? Is this normal because i'm having serious issiues with it, help!! sexyginger...
A. 10 November 2011: Bestfriends is fine, it's best for the children. But the sex thing sounds very, very strange. Many men have fantasies about threesomes, but I've never heard anything like this. It makes no sense.
Either he is trying to test you to see if you w... (read in full...)
Should I let my ex in to my life?
Q. Hi, recently my ex boyfriend has returned for the 3rd time trying to get close to me. I always end up getting hurt but this time seems diffrent in a way. He isnt ready to commit until after high school, but he says he really likes me and he has not ...
A. 10 November 2011: It's never 3rd time lucky. This guy is young, and although he likes you, he is not ready to settle down and make a commitment to you. Tell him you don't trust him, and you want a proper boyfriend who is man enough to know what he wants. If he ... (read in full...)
Have I been downgraded to FWB??
Q. Your thoughts will be appreciated. Thank you, I need to write and for somebody to listen :) So just a summary, because I've written many ... My boyfriend of 9 months cheated on me with a LDR in another country thru this computer and skype. I do...
A. 10 November 2011: I'm sorry, I really don't understand your post. Your boyfriend of 9months has been on skype with someone living far away. Has he met her, do they have phone/video sex.
Then he wants to be your FWB? But aren't you already his woman, aren't y... (read in full...)
Missing my Ex. Is feeling Mutual?
Q. I miss my ex so much, though, I feel he doesn't of me. We have been separated for three years(haven't seen each other since) and only spoken on blue moons(very rarely). He has mentioned to me that he has a lot of pictures of me and that he thinks of ...
A. 10 November 2011: Maybe.. but he has a girlfriend, so it means nothing. I know how you feel, but do not hope that he will come back to you. You will only be upset and build up your hopes for nothing.
If he wants you back he will say something, until then, he... (read in full...)
Boyfriend admitted to one-night stand!
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years confessed yesterday that few weeks back he had an one night stand, he was heavely drunk and didn't realise what he was getting into. I really dont understand how he could he say since he was drunk he didnt know what ...
A. 10 November 2011: Do you love him? Can you ever forgive him? Do you trust him? Do you believe him when he says this will never happen again. Do you believe he loves you more than any other woman in this world?
It's your decision. Can't tell to go, can't te... (read in full...)
How do I let go of my ex, especially in the aftermath of my assault?
Q. I was recently sexually assaulted. After the incident, I was in hysterics, and for some reason, I called my ex boyfriend crying for help. He picked me and my best friend up and took me home. My best friend told him what happened. All he said to me ...
A. 10 November 2011: Time will heal all. Two months isn't very long. It will be hard if this man is still in your life. He's isn't yours any longer, he will soon find another girlfriend to love. Sorry, but this is the reality that you will have to deal with.
Searc... (read in full...)
How can I enjoy sex with my partner who has a small penis? And is masturbation ok even though I'm in a relationship?
Q. how can i make myself to enjoy while having sex even though my partner have a small penis? And is mastubation good for someone who is in a relationship?...
A. 10 November 2011: It's not the size, it's how he uses his penis. Try other positions, ask him to vary his thrusts. Small penis can move in more exciting ways than a large one can. Experiment and have fun. Use oral sex, touching and masturbation if you find you ... (read in full...)
Holiday Flirt in Town and Exchanging Numbers with my Man!
Q. Recently my boyfriend and I were on vacation. In the resort there was another man (we're gay) who was obviously gay too, and he always smiled at my boyfriend and sometimes they stole glances at each other. I don't mind that kind of harmless ...
A. 10 November 2011: Little flirtation and then unexpectedly they meet again. You are right, there is nothing wrong about that.
But, I don't like them sending each other text messages and extended contact. Flirt yes, meet a stranger and say hello again. I would be... (read in full...)
I don't want sex with my boyfriend and I don't mind if he finds it elsewhere. Normal?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been in each others lives for 1 year and maybe three months? I say this because I'm not sure exactly when we became a couple. I'm 20 and I have a relaxed philosophy to relationships and my boyfriend is 22. I moved away f...
A. 10 November 2011: 18-21 and you don't want to have sex with him and you don't feel jealous if he has sex somewhere else. This doesn't sound much like romantic love. He is bad in bed and he hurts you. This can be fixed. mmmm... when I was your age, I did the s... (read in full...)
Does a Player Make Girls their Girlfriends?
Q. Why did he go cold? I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for 18 months. Right towards the end i met this guy who seemed great and he msg'd me and talked to me all day everyday he was so keen. When my relationship finally fell thru with the ...
A. 10 November 2011: Doesn't sound like a player. Sounds like a man who liked you a lot. You assume that you did something wrong, or that he's not attracted to you, but you don't KNOW for sure what is in his mind.
Maybe he got hit with jealousy over you. Maybe he... (read in full...)
do women tend to get into FWB relationships with someone for whom they have at least some romantic feelings, hoping it will turn into more?
Q. This question is just out of curiosity, and it has nothing to do with my situation (I'm married, faithful, etc.) There seem to be a lot of questions on this board by women who have feelings for their FWB. Typically, the questions are if their FWB...
A. 10 November 2011: If a woman has romantic feelings for a man, she should date him in an exclusive relationship.
In our modern days, sometimes a woman (or man) doesn't want or doesn't have time to marry/commit to one person and that's when a Friend who is sexually... (read in full...)
Gagging and deep throating
Q. Ok imma keep this plain and straight to the point. My man likes oral sex just like any other man. I like givin to him. My only problem is that I really can't get it own my throat just yet. I can suck it really good but deep throating is very scary ...
A. 10 November 2011: Your 16-17.... The legal age of consent in the USA is usually 18.
Why are you trying to deep throat this guy. Why isn't it enough that you are giving him oral sex. Giving a guy deep throat won't make him love you anymore. In fact it usually ... (read in full...)
Is it bad to fake an orgasm?
Q. If you fake an orgasm while your partner is trying to please you, is it rude? Me and my bf (of about a year) were having some fun a few days ago, and he was trying to get me to orgasm with his fingers, and it felt good, but after a while I realiz...
A. 10 November 2011: Very, very silly... Never, ever fake an orgasm... there is no need to and you are building up your relationship on lies and where there is lies there is no trust.
If you lie to your man, how can he love the real you. He loves you, however ... (read in full...)
My wife is lazy
Q. I have been married for a couple of years now and most things are fine but I find my wife is lazy. This laziness does not extend to her work, as she works very hard and for long hours (we both do), its every other aspect of our lives she is lazy. I ...
A. 10 November 2011: Sigh...
There are morning people and there are night people... when they get married they often fight. I'm messy.. VERY MESSY... and I'm never on time. That's my personality. Not great for the guy I'm with, but then again I have other qualitie... (read in full...)
Are these normal reactions to sex or am I lesbian?
Q. I often ask myself,am i BIOLOGICALLY lesbian?it doesn't really matter because i am EMOTIONALLY straight and have a boyfriend and love him more than my life ! but: 1)my first experience was with a girl when i was really too young ,10 or 11,and s...
A. 10 November 2011: NO GLOVE, NO LOVE... if he doesn't have condoms then don't allow him to touch you. He will learn to get some if he wants to have sex. SEX CAN KILL, embarrassment can't. Tell him to get condoms from a shop far away from his home and then he won't ... (read in full...)
18 in love with a man 30 years older than me
Q. basically i am in love with a man who is 30 years older than me. i am 18. we have been 'friends with benefits' exclusively for 2 years but have a stupid habit of calling each other bf or gf. i went to visit him about a week ago and we decided ...
A. 9 November 2011: I really don't understand. So he's older, so what... there is nothing illegal in your relationship. Your not married, and you didn't mention any wife for him. Why can't you be his proper girlfriend? So what if he has a sick mum. Ther... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I like him staying with his 'mates' who has a sister!
Q. Hi i have been with my bf 3 months now and i reeeeeli like him were quite close and passionate wen we see eachother! he's the type of guy thats almost too good to be true! he is really busy with uni work so we hardly see eachother maybe 1ce a week ...
A. 9 November 2011: Babes, if we supported you in your paranoia then we wouldn't be helping you or giving good advice. We are not here to tell you what you want to hear. You have jealousy issues and that is your problem. You will be jealous of him, and jealous of o... (read in full...)
My wife shared a hotel room with a male colleague!
Q. Is it ever OK for a married woman to spend the night in a hotel room with another man? My wife has been working at this new job for 2 years. The company scheduled an out of town trip for seminars which will help her get a promotion that s...
A. 9 November 2011: No, doesn't seem right for her to share a room with a male colleague.... BUT!!!!!! However, look at the circumstances.. she was locked out of her room.. she called you and told you everything...she hid nothing. Why didn't you tell her to get... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 15 August 2011: Here's my problem..... porn and prostitution are legal in many countries.... people who buy porn are not criminals, people who act in porn are not sent to jail. War, rape, murder, torture, abuse, slavery, cancer, pain and suffering.... so... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 1 August 2011: "They are right, people shouldn't have to sell themselves in this day and age!"
Tell that to the many pornstars who are not stupid and not victims but refuse to work long hours for minimum wage. Most people don't do porn because they like it ... (read in full...)
Should I continue to connect with my estranged daughter, or stop trying?
Q. Dear Cupid I have a daughter who does not want to know me. She was just the most rebellious daughter you could ever imagine from 12 onwards. I tried counseling. But it never worked, she would not attend. I was a very young parent and she is my on...
A. 13 May 2011: Yes, I thought you might be upset, and that wasn't my intention. My head was thinking about what your daughter may have been thinking and feeling and the reason why she walked away. It's hard for us to look in the mirror and look at ourselves ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 13 May 2011: Wow.. we've gone from "is pornography cheating" to "pornography will cause you to cheat".... all this scientific evidence, yet pornography addiction is still not in the diagnosis manual for psychiatrist and is still not illegal in many parts of the ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 13 May 2011: One last thing.. pornography and anal sex.. I'm disturbed about the fashion for anal sex in pornography, however it is nothing new. Anal sex is very common in religious societies as it preserve vaginal. Research based on the abstinence programme ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 13 May 2011: You must also avoid TV and Movies because many actors and actresses are addicted to illegal drugs. Same goes for the music business. Why is it only drug use in pornography that worries you when people in all types of industries take drugs?
About... (read in full...)
I like a player. What can I do to get him to like me?
Q. Hey ! (: Whenever I used to go out with my group of friends I used to notice a very pretty guy there... so when we all went out he would look at me and smile , at first we didn't speak very much... UNTIL the last Friday. We were at a friends b...
A. 12 May 2011: He'll probably like you for a day or two if you fuck him. Just tell him your available for sex anytime he wants it. Afterwards will say horrible things about you and he and his friends will start laughing. Probably some of his friends will want ... (read in full...)
I want to be there for both friends, but they are making it hard. Any advice is welcome.
Q. I'm worried about what to do about my two friends. The background info is that last time my friend who I will refer to a 'Beth' had a boyfriend my other friend who I will call 'Cyndi' started sleeping with him at the same time. They both fell o...
A. 12 May 2011: Not your problem. If anyone tries to blackmail you into friendship, then walk away, they are not worth it. Continue talking to both of them. If Beth wants to pretend to be deaf and torture herself then all you can do is watch as she walks away to ... (read in full...)
Everything has to be perfect for my wife to have sex!
Q. My wife is only open to having sex once between day 5 and 8 of her cycle. Everything has to be perfect. The house has to be empty. We have three teenagers that are in and out of our house constantly so that doesn’t happen very often. It can’t be ...
A. 12 May 2011: Yes she needs counselling to find out why she has to be so controlling about sex. What you could try in the meantime is to negotiate for some time to have sex in the way that suits you best. Many women find they can't relax unless everythin... (read in full...)
I just hate him, but I love him. His behavior is driving me away. What should I do?
Q. So... I've been with my boyfriend for about two years. We have a lot of unresolved issues but we really do love each other at the core of our relationship. ANYWHO! My dilemma is this. He aggravates me like no other! He is like my annoying so...
A. 12 May 2011: You've tried to get out already, as Chigirl says, tell him love isn't enough and the relationship can never work out.
Maybe have a break first for a couple of months and walk away that way.... (read in full...)
I need some relationship advice. I don't like the way she behaves after an argument.
Q. why does my girlfriend always have knee jerk reactions and go overboard, over trivial matters? I am a not happy that every time we argue she adds men to her social network site, she has deleted them before but now says there is nothing wrong in...
A. 11 May 2011: It's the way she argues, it's not good, but it's nothing to do with the amount of love she has for you. Be clear on that fact, do not take the arguments as proof of anything to do with love.
Ok.. She's a passive aggressive, she doesn't do confr... (read in full...)
I just hate him, but I love him. His behavior is driving me away. What should I do?
Q. So... I've been with my boyfriend for about two years. We have a lot of unresolved issues but we really do love each other at the core of our relationship. ANYWHO! My dilemma is this. He aggravates me like no other! He is like my annoying so...
A. 11 May 2011: "I Just Hate Him".... Girl, it's staring you right in the face but you just can't see it. You don't love this guy at all. "He is like my annoying son who won't leave me alone"... You feel for him like you feel for an irritating family me... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 5 May 2011: Sorry, making pornography a special case and suggesting it has effects greater than cocaine or intercourse does damage to the argument. Most people are aware that the extreme feelings gained in a drugged state, or the sights, sounds and bodily ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 5 May 2011: Discussions of this nature are problematic and quickly get out of control. This article started by suggesting pornography is cheating (moral issue) and breaks a contractual relationship (legal). It has moved the goal posts by suggesting ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 5 May 2011: Quick question?
If pornography produces the same chemicals as sexual intercourse and taking cocaine?
What are the effects of masturbating with pornography, masturbating using a fantasy in your imagination or taking crack cocaine or some ... (read in full...)
Should I continue to connect with my estranged daughter, or stop trying?
Q. Dear Cupid I have a daughter who does not want to know me. She was just the most rebellious daughter you could ever imagine from 12 onwards. I tried counseling. But it never worked, she would not attend. I was a very young parent and she is my on...
A. 23 April 2011: Certain things you say rub me up raw, and i can see why you have a problem with your daughter. Most kids get funny when they are 12, it's the hormones, they really can't help it. You must have had similar experiences of rebellion because you talk... (read in full...)
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