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30 October 2010: I have tried to keep my relationship problems away from this site as I do not want my advice to be assosiated to my own questions. However I have now learned an important lesson that I want to share with the rest of you, in the hopes that you will ...
What I've learned from my family.
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How one person changed my life
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8 June 2010: I've been an aunt on this site now for quite a while, at first I started as an anonymous, until I finally took the step to make an account and dare to be identified somewhat. As I've gotten to know a few people on here, albeit still strangers ...
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I feel like he totally missed the boat on the whole chivarly thing.
Q. We had a big snow storm today. After work my car was frozen shut. I called my husband who drives a 4WHD truck to come pick me up. While waiting my boss poured some rubbing alcohol on the door jam and viola it opened. I called my husband but he had ...
A. 19 December 2011: Personally, if you have too little time in the morning to get your things together, you need to wake up earlier. It's not your husbands responsibility that you get yourself out the door on time. If you're running late one day it'd be nice of him to ... (read in full...)
14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?
Q. okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...
A. 14 December 2011: I am so glad you gave your mother a chance to support you, and that she has shown you that she is there for you to help you out. Good thing she took you to the doctors, and great news! Double blessing. Yes, twice as hard, but you can do it, and now ... (read in full...)
He's a great guy and he's dating trash
Q. Okay so there's this guy. I've had a crush on him for a while but then it turned into more of a brother/sister relationship. We still flirt and all but this isn't what this question is about. He just got into a relationship with absolute TRASH. She ...
A. 11 December 2011: Sounds like he is playing you to get attention to feel good about himself. If he is really interested in you he will take time to talk to you besides just flirting. So take it slow with him and make sure he isn't just using you to make himself feel ... (read in full...)
14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?
Q. okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...
A. 10 December 2011: Good for you! I think she will be a lot more happy about it when she can help you and be a part of this, rather than be pushed to the side because you think she wont support you. You need to give her a chance to show you what she will do, and so far ... (read in full...)
Can someone please explain to me how the morning after pill works?
Q. Can someone please explain to me how the morning after pill works? I keep getting different answers from different sources. It's my understanding that it's supposed to delay or even prevent ovulation (if your body has not yet already ovulated...
A. 7 December 2011: You need to ask your doctor for other options as well. There are several other options, but your doctor will ultimately be the best to explain them all to you and help you find what works best for you. ... (read in full...)
14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?
Q. okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...
A. 7 December 2011: I think your mother would like to be with you at the doctors to find out the gender of the baby. She is going to be a grandmother after all. Let her be a part of this, her her be a part of her daughters life. She will feel completely betrayed and ... (read in full...)
LDR b/f says he needs space. Does he mean stop talking about our relationship?
Q. Hi all, I hope you can help, my LD( about 2 hrs drive) bf and I have had a roller coaster relationship since we met- lots to do with my past, my dad being diagnosed with cancer, my insecurites, my constant over analysing of our relation...
A. 6 December 2011: I think, although I don't know him and this wasn't much to go on, that you should just not contact him for a while. You can contact him if you feel an urgent need to, or if there is a natural obvious reason to contact him. But yes, not talk so much ... (read in full...)
14 and pregnant, mom doesn't know yet. What do I do?
Q. okay so i'm 14 and pregnant i don't know what to do. i really want to keep my baby because it is my baby. i turn 15 the same week i become 15 weeks pregnant..my boyfriend knows and he wants to keep the baby too..i don't know what we should do, i've ...
A. 6 December 2011: How old is the boyfriend? What has his parents said? Could you stay with them by chance, in case your mother kicks you out?
Often parents will say they will kick you out just to prevent you from doing something foolish and becoming pregnant... (read in full...)
Is he being selfish? My boyfriend wants no sex before marriage, and I'm not okay with that
Q. So, 10 months ago I met a guy at a coffee shop. We hit it off quite well. I had to move away for a job, do we were forced into a long distant relationship. After couple months of virtual conversations, we both fell hard for each other. Despite the ...
A. 6 December 2011: Take some goood time to think about this. Don't mention it or talk about it. Ask him some questions you get when you have them without confrontation. Then think long and hard and let it sink in. Right now he's caught you off guard with this, which ... (read in full...)
How do I give him a night to remember?
Q. Hey aunts.. Sum advice pls. My man of 6 months works away, I am going near to where he is on sum business so I'm staying the night in a hotel and he's coming to stay the night. We've only slept together a handful of times.. And it's been quite ...
A. 6 December 2011: Blind-fold him. Then he wont see you so you do not have to worry about how you look, and he will get a very enjoyable and unique experience. When he is blind-folded tell him what he needs to do or if he needs to lay still, and you get to do whatever ... (read in full...)
Do you know anyone who has many college degrees, but is working in a job far below his potential???
Q. Hello all, This is a question on career options. I know...I know...this site is mainly dedicated to relationships/love/sex questions. But I am posting a career question here as my experience with this site has been good so far and I get the most s...
A. 6 December 2011: Just keep your eyes open, you will find use of your education in time if you just keep your eyes open and jump at the opportunities. ... (read in full...)
He's a great guy and he's dating trash
Q. Okay so there's this guy. I've had a crush on him for a while but then it turned into more of a brother/sister relationship. We still flirt and all but this isn't what this question is about. He just got into a relationship with absolute TRASH. She ...
A. 6 December 2011: I don't know if this is about being selfish or not, but I do know that who he dates really isn't any of your business, and if you care for the guy then you need to support him no matter what crappy decisions he makes. You can't control his life. ... (read in full...)
A great guy, but sometimes I'm overwhelmed
Q. My boyfriend is a really great guy, kind and thoughtful but sometimes I feel as if he's taking over too much and overwhelming me. He will send me jokes and then say I must mail them to my dad/brother/sister when I feel they are inapprop...
A. 6 December 2011: Put your foot down and stand up for yourself. That's the only way, or else he'll completely take over. Some people have this habit and just aren't aware of what they are doing or how uncomfortable it makes others. Speak up! ... (read in full...)
Can someone please explain to me how the morning after pill works?
Q. Can someone please explain to me how the morning after pill works? I keep getting different answers from different sources. It's my understanding that it's supposed to delay or even prevent ovulation (if your body has not yet already ovulated...
A. 6 December 2011: It is my understanding that the pill primarily does not prevent ovulation, but prevents an egg from attaching in the womb. However if it has already been attached (meaning you got pregnant), it does nothing. The morning after pill does not ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to lose trust on my fiancée. She lived with a male roommate and when I visited her, her sofa smelt like sex!!
Q. Dear Cupid I'm becoming not to trust my bride. Tobe. She had a male roommate for about a year he recently moved from her home. Just a few blocks away I live farther distance. I. Viset her and her sofa smelled like sex.I got angrry and left after co...
A. 6 December 2011: You need a lot of more precise evidence if you want to accuse anyone of cheating. My guess is that her room-mates sits naked on the couch and masturbates when she's not home, hence the smell. ... (read in full...)
I don't have much experience but I think I get more turned on by affection and romance. Should I tell my Bf how I feel?
Q. I'm with my first boyfriend and not very experienced. To me his penis looks really small when he is lying down and not erect, but his erection is a good size. He thinks me looking at him naked (without erection) should turn me on but I just find ...
A. 6 December 2011: He can't tell you what you should and should not be turned on by. I'm sure he isn't that ignorant. People are turned on by different things, and I actually can't say I am particularly turned on by a flaccid penis either. Unless the guy is really ... (read in full...)
My LDR owes me money. He's coming to stay with me. How should we work out who'll pay for what while he's with me?
Q. My boyfriend works in another city and is coming to stay with me for 4 weeks on his holiday. He's coming to my place because he lives with his mom and I can't go there, and also I am not going to have time off until next year. He borrowed mon...
A. 6 December 2011: He pays for his part and you pay for yours. If he owes you money for a fare then why should he pay you back only 50 percent when this has not been agreed upon? If he borrowed the money from you then the fair thing to expect is that he pays the... (read in full...)
I feel like he totally missed the boat on the whole chivarly thing.
Q. We had a big snow storm today. After work my car was frozen shut. I called my husband who drives a 4WHD truck to come pick me up. While waiting my boss poured some rubbing alcohol on the door jam and viola it opened. I called my husband but he had ...
A. 6 December 2011: Oh joy, lets make it into a tit for tat game, that'll solve your problems. Two wrongs doesn't make a right. Who ever said the chivalry bit was to follow after a woman in a snow storm. It used to be opening doors and pulling out chairs, if you want ... (read in full...)
Can I rebuild after so many set-backs? I desperately need experienced advice on my heart ache
Q. Hi everyone. I have been a dear cupid reader for 3 years now. This is the time of my life I really really need support and advice. I feel I am really ugly and unattractuve. Please I urge you to read cause it is going to get really long but I will k...
A. 6 December 2011: You lack self respect. Why would you propose to a girl who doesn't let you kiss her until a year into the relationship? Was she a virgin when you first had sex, otherwise I think waiting 2 years for sex was a red flag. She wasn't kind to you, and it ... (read in full...)
I feel I can't say no to him. What should I do?" What advice is the best to help me in this situation?
Q. I am a 16 year old girl and my boyfriend is 18 year old . Both of us love each other very much but we are of diffrent caste and our family is highly orthodox but he had promised me to marry and now he is asking me to have a physical relationship. I ...
A. 6 December 2011: Why can you not say no to him? He promised to marry you, so if he wants sex with you he needs to marry you first, it's that simple. If he doesn't want to marry you after all, and just wants to have sex with you, is that really something you should ... (read in full...)
I feel like he totally missed the boat on the whole chivarly thing.
Q. We had a big snow storm today. After work my car was frozen shut. I called my husband who drives a 4WHD truck to come pick me up. While waiting my boss poured some rubbing alcohol on the door jam and viola it opened. I called my husband but he had ...
A. 6 December 2011: Lets do a count and see if this thing is worth fighting for, or if you should be happy with what you got and not let a minor imperfection on the "knight in shining armor" ruin the fact that he saved the princess.
-You called and he came to your ... (read in full...)
I think my FWB is a sex addict. and the relationship is getting deeper. Now what?
Q. I am 38. I recently met a woman who is 26. She is very fit and has a voracious sexual appetite unlike any woman I have ever known before. I am suspecting that she may be a sex addict. We don't have sex every day because our schedules don't allow it...
A. 6 December 2011: Enjoying sex or having a large sex drive doesn't equal addict... I actually don't think there's a clinical term called "sex addict", I think that term is made up by popular culture to just describe someone who wants a lot of sex. At your age I hope ... (read in full...)
He is not comfortable with me coz I dated his bestfriend before. I like him alot!
Q. I have recently started to really like this one guy, and he likes me back. We've been friends for a while but never hung out too much until this past weekend. We hung out both nights this weekend, and it was awesome. We started off just watching ...
A. 6 December 2011: There was nothing in that other thread about the woman keeping things a secret from her husband. That was an assumption without grounds. ... (read in full...)
How many weeks/months should you wait before having sex?
Q. I have been browsing the site for an answer to: when is it best to have sex for the first time in a new relationship? Most replies were about the date number ...(1st to 5th etc.) but what I would really like to know is a time frame: how many ...
A. 5 December 2011: I always say dating isn't good enough. A real official exclusive relationship is what it takes, and then a minimum of two weeks into such an official relationship. "Dating" just isn't commitment enough to be having sex with someone. ... (read in full...)
He is not comfortable with me coz I dated his bestfriend before. I like him alot!
Q. I have recently started to really like this one guy, and he likes me back. We've been friends for a while but never hung out too much until this past weekend. We hung out both nights this weekend, and it was awesome. We started off just watching ...
A. 5 December 2011: Cerberus, you are on here encouraging a friendship with an ex when you on the other thread says an ex is an ex and never a platonic friend... That's the reason why she needs to cut this friendship out, because the new guy will probably not be ok ... (read in full...)
My wife's ex-boyfriend contacted her after 20 years of no contact. I am not sure what to think about this.
Q. My wife's ex-boyfriend (the one prior to me) contacted her after 20 years of no contact. I have been with my wife for 19 years. My wife did not tell me about this. I discovered it when I saw a strange number on her cell phone bill. I confront...
A. 5 December 2011: Cerberus, your girl is just naive. Not all girls are like that. My ex, who is a good friend of mine as well, get chatted up by women and flirted with a lot, even girls asking him if he's single and asking for his number (which is QUITE direct) but ... (read in full...)
I get bored very quickly in relationships
Q. Hi everyone! Just a quick opinions post. I get bored in a relationship very quickly. I hate the texting part, hate facebook chat, all that. It annoys me that technology has to be used so much to keep a relationship! So, i find that i get bored and ...
A. 5 December 2011: Be in love. Really, that tends to be the solution to all of your problems. You're annoyed with them because they aren't compatible with you, yet somehow you appear to have settled with people you really don't care much for. I don't see the point in ... (read in full...)
Ladies: What sexual positions do you like that don't impact your self image?
Q. hello all. really need some advise on sex positions for women with body confidance issues. Over the time of our relation ship my fiance has put on abit of wait. Witch i dont mind. In fact she was abit to thin for my taste when we started dating. ...
A. 5 December 2011: I don't know much about positions that would help, but I do know that this sort of bad self image can spiral like an OCD. You start with one thing, and then next you need another and another and another. So it goes from sex in one position only, to ... (read in full...)
Should I change myself for him or stay the way I am?
Q. So my man is 9 years older than me, he is stuck in his ways n believes women should act n be a certain way. I'm conflicted because I'm falling in love with him and I am nothing like what he believes in. My question is should I change ways and be ...
A. 5 December 2011: If he's entitled to ask you to change his preferences you can do the same back, right? Tell him you find he's not the type of man you like, or acts like what you want men to act like, and then he should be changing too... He's not so old yet that ... (read in full...)
Help me to chose a tattoo for my best friend that has just died.
Q. Okay...well my best friend just died and I've been handling it quite strangely...but anyways I've decided that I wanted to get a tattoo for him...nothing like rip or stuff like that...I searched and searched for quotes and I couldnt find one that I ...
A. 5 December 2011: I personally am not for text as tattoo's. Texts or quotes work as life mantra's, but decoration? Try to sew it on a pillow and have it in your room instead, and if you feel it is still amazing to have on a pillow in your room after a year then put ... (read in full...)
He is not comfortable with me coz I dated his bestfriend before. I like him alot!
Q. I have recently started to really like this one guy, and he likes me back. We've been friends for a while but never hung out too much until this past weekend. We hung out both nights this weekend, and it was awesome. We started off just watching ...
A. 5 December 2011: It takes time. Next year this probably will not be a problem at all. It depends on the relationship you had with the friend, if it was casual (like you described it) it shouldn't take too long to get over, maybe a year. But if it was something more ... (read in full...)
Am I justified or being selfish by telling my bf that his sexual persistance annoyed me?
Q. Hi everyone, I am 27 and my boyfriend is 33. He's my first sexual partner and we've been together for 2.5 years. I've always felt bad that we have sex as I wanted to save it for marriage. We're going through a difficult patch at the moment. I ...
A. 5 December 2011: I think, no offense, that this action was a bit childish of you. You should have told him that you weren't on the pill, for starters. Second, you need to take responsibility for your own actions, because that's what you as an adult need to do. You ... (read in full...)
Should I sell her engagement ring?
Q. Me ard my partner were Engaged to get married next year last week she told me she does not love me and has not loved me for a long time. She doesn't want to make things work as she has feelings for someone else. Question is do I sell her engagment ...
A. 5 December 2011: You can try to sell it, but hold on to it for a bit longer until you are sure of what you should do. Rash actions are the ones we end up regretting the most, so take more than a week to think about this. I kept my engagement ring for 5 years before ... (read in full...)
What am I doing wrong? Girls always just want to be "friends" with me.
Q. Ok simple problem....what am i doing wrongly with girls? At the moment i must have about 15 girls i have flirted with in the past and they have now decided that i'm "like a brother", "best friend" or like their gay best friend. Its pretty obvi...
A. 5 December 2011: You're approaching this from the wrong angle. You ask what you are doing wrong, as if if you were doing things right every girl you meet would fall into your lap. False assumption. When a guy does everything "right" he ends up with the right girl ... (read in full...)
Our first time, losing our virginity together
Q. I am planning to lose my virginity in a few weeks :) My boyfriend is also a virgin, therefore I want it to be a special, loving and satisfying time for both of us :) But especially him! Any tips ? Lingerie? Positions? etc :) Thank you!! ...
A. 5 December 2011: Stick to missionary, as you are both virgins. Then go with the flow, if things feel good and you want to try new things.
What you and him will like best for your first time is up to you and him. Discuss it with him instead. The fancy lingerie... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant for 5 seconds of sex, on my period??
Q. Is it possible to get pregnant whilst on your period? seriously!!? i had sex on the 4th day of my period so i was not heavy and my partner didnt even notice, however i had sex without a condom for literally 5 seconds and then i stopped it and said ...
A. 5 December 2011: I think you need to act like the adult you are. Follow standard procedure, wait until you are supposed to have your period, if it doesn't come then take the pregnancy test.
If you're pregnant you can't "wish" it away by pretending it's not ther... (read in full...)
My fiancee does not want her parents told we are engaged. How do I build a better relationship with her parents? Kind answers only please!
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for eight months and are now happily engaged. Seems simple enough, right? Well we are both 17 and out parents don't exactly approve. My father says that he is happy that I have found someone I would like to ...
A. 5 December 2011: Isn't it illegal for 17 year olds to get married without permission from the parents? Both of your parents are against you getting married this young. Her parents are so against it you haven't even told them about the engagement, and your own ... (read in full...)
My wife's ex-boyfriend contacted her after 20 years of no contact. I am not sure what to think about this.
Q. My wife's ex-boyfriend (the one prior to me) contacted her after 20 years of no contact. I have been with my wife for 19 years. My wife did not tell me about this. I discovered it when I saw a strange number on her cell phone bill. I confront...
A. 5 December 2011: I think that after 20 years why is this such a big deal? After 20 years neither she nor he is the same person they were back then. Getting in touch again means finding out how someone you knew a long time ago is doing, and I don't see why there ... (read in full...)
The big question ... What do girls think when ....
Q. What do girls think when they see a decent-looking guy with a fat, ugly girlfriend? What do they assume about him? I'm pretty sure that if a guy is seen with a hot girl, people think he must be something special. So is it the opposite if he's...
A. 5 December 2011: I don't know how shallow people judge it (if I can dare to think I am not shallow myself), but I am fairly confident that shallow people are only concerned about themselves and their own well being.
When others view people like that they end up a... (read in full...)
2 hours going at it and still no magical finish
Q. hey guys. im 16 and so yesterday i was with this girl, weve known each other for a while know, and its not the first time weve gotten sexual... so anyway she invited me over to her house since her parents were out and we could do it again, btw she ...
A. 4 December 2011: Im thinking the emotional part was missing in addition to any overstimulation you might have gotten used to. Was it your first time? If so then do not worry too much, practice makes perfect, and just because you wank it for 2 hours straight doesn't ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my ex in a nice way I don't want her keeping in touch with my parents?
Q. Should I tell her not to keep in touch with my parents. Basically i was with my ex for about two years and it developed into a long distance relationship through no fault of hers and she could only come over to mine on a weekend which ment she ...
A. 4 December 2011: If you told her you'd be there for her, and actually meant it, then why does it itch you that she didn't say it back? What, the only reason you said it was because you wanted her to say it as well? Next time speak with sincerity, and not just ... (read in full...)
What do you think about when you're masturbating and/or having sex?
Q. i have a question for guys and gals. me and my boyfriend got into a conversation about sex and masturbation. he told me that when he masturbates he fantasizes about things, and when we have sex and i close my eyes, he thinks that im fantasiz...
A. 4 December 2011: Its easy to assume that everyone thinks and feels the same as you... So I see why you are surprised. I'm equally surprised when I hear what gets you off, because thinking about "being sexy" doesn't do it for me. I think about sex when I want to get ... (read in full...)
Do you know anyone who has many college degrees, but is working in a job far below his potential???
Q. Hello all, This is a question on career options. I know...I know...this site is mainly dedicated to relationships/love/sex questions. But I am posting a career question here as my experience with this site has been good so far and I get the most s...
A. 4 December 2011: Oh sheez, YES. Every recently graduated person ends up like you. Except those who are lucky enough to be needed in that precise moment they graduate, which change from year to year. One year they want engineers, the other teachers, or chemists etc. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my husband that I was raped when I was 16 years old or bury the secret?
Q. I need someone's advice. I'm 26 yo and just recently I got married, me and my husband have together 10 years he's the only guy in my life and love him more anything and I never lie to him no matter what. but during this time I had a secret that I n...
A. 4 December 2011: Why do you wish to tell him now? I thought you said you and your boyfriend, now husband, have had sex many times before the marriage? So the fright of giving him a blowjob and the issues you have with sexual relations, didn't they appear prior to ... (read in full...)
What should I do with my girlfriend who is into muscles
Q. This would sound a bit silly, but i've become to realize my gal is a MUSCLE fan. She even mentions it in a very inconsiderate way, like if we'd be talking, and i mentioned a guy's name, she's say "yeh the guy with the muscles" literately. No ...
A. 4 December 2011: Yeah, you're missing the point OP. The point is not that she isn't attracted to you, the point is that she isn't attracted to herself. She thinks she's too big. It's got nothing to do with attraction towards you, it's got to do with her not feeling ... (read in full...)
My period was missed, should I worry?
Q. This question may well sound abit dumb, but i am young and have no idea about female anatomany, not to mention i worry far to much so if you could tell me if this is normal or not it would be great. I have bas...
A. 4 December 2011: Periods might fluctuate. They follow the cycle of the moon really, not the date of the calendar. They are also influenced by the women you surround yourself with, believe it or not. When women are very close, or live together, they will start to get ... (read in full...)
What should I do with my girlfriend who is into muscles
Q. This would sound a bit silly, but i've become to realize my gal is a MUSCLE fan. She even mentions it in a very inconsiderate way, like if we'd be talking, and i mentioned a guy's name, she's say "yeh the guy with the muscles" literately. No ...
A. 3 December 2011: She's overweight so would feel more comfortable with a guy who matches her in size. Women want to be the "petite" and "fragile" one, she probably currently think she looks like she could beat you in battle of any sort, which makes her feel too ... (read in full...)
What should I do with my girlfriend who is into muscles
Q. This would sound a bit silly, but i've become to realize my gal is a MUSCLE fan. She even mentions it in a very inconsiderate way, like if we'd be talking, and i mentioned a guy's name, she's say "yeh the guy with the muscles" literately. No ...
A. 3 December 2011: Ah, well the matter changes of course if she's been expressing she wants you to change. That's rude. And in that case you are right to worry how long this relationship will last if she is eager for you to change. Just make sure you haven't ... (read in full...)
What should I do with my girlfriend who is into muscles
Q. This would sound a bit silly, but i've become to realize my gal is a MUSCLE fan. She even mentions it in a very inconsiderate way, like if we'd be talking, and i mentioned a guy's name, she's say "yeh the guy with the muscles" literately. No ...
A. 3 December 2011: Oh yeah and your girlfriends comment wasn't either inconsiderate nor a sign that she prefers bigger muscles than you have. It was just a comment and you are being way too sensitive about it, suspecting the worst. The girl just commented, and if the ... (read in full...)
What should I do with my girlfriend who is into muscles
Q. This would sound a bit silly, but i've become to realize my gal is a MUSCLE fan. She even mentions it in a very inconsiderate way, like if we'd be talking, and i mentioned a guy's name, she's say "yeh the guy with the muscles" literately. No ...
A. 2 December 2011: So Very Confused, and OP, people can like one thing to look at, but want to be with someone else. Looking at something only comes down to looks. When you are with a person who they are matters most, and affects how they look. When you are with ... (read in full...)
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