I don't understand why I'm always intitiating spending time with my bf...did he just get used to me doing that? Or is it something else?
Q. I always have to initiate hanging out with my boyfriend. He does it probably only 20% of the time, while I ask to hang out 80% of the time. We have been together for 2 years, and we do not live together, but we go to the same school. Like if I don't ...
A. 29 April 2011: Yes I think that sounds fine to me. At the end of the day everybody is different and expect different things in relationships. If it is really anoying you talk to him about it.... (read in full...)
I just cant move on even after I quit communicating with her. Help!
Q. Hello everyone. Please help me. I just need your 10 mins. I need love. It has been 2 months since I was dumped by my girlfriend of 3 years. I live and die everyday. I moved to USA from Pakistan 2 months ago and after 10 days she dumped me. After...
A. 27 April 2011: She didnt treat you right and even if she told you she loved you back did she show you that she loved you? Actions speak louder than words. She said these things about her now boyfriend maybe she was just saying these things as she was covering up ... (read in full...)
I had an affair. My husband forgave and now that I'm no longer cheating, I can't decide if my husband is "the one." The indecision is killing us
Q. I have been married for almost 16 years now (together since high school). I had an affair for just over a year. We broke up last summer because of it but got back together. I continued to cheat with the same man. My husband recently found out ...
A. 26 April 2011: Well I think it is kind of obvious that your husband is not the one for you because you cheated for so long I just dont see how you could cheat on him if he was the one for you and if you were entirely happy I dont think you would have cheated.
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I've seen him flirt with other girls but could he actually like me?
Q. dear everyone i would like your opinion if this guy likes me or not. okay so pretty much the first thing i founf out about him was that he was a flirt. i found this out by my friends. At a dance he danced with 6 girls. i only just met him and we...
A. 26 April 2011: If am honest with you it does sound like he might just be flirting with you like he does with a lot of other girls. If he is a bit of a womaniser well then he will know the right things to say to girls. Him suggesting that he wants to be alone with ... (read in full...)
Why did my ex tell his current girlfriend that he still likes me?
Q. I ended up going to prom with my ex b/c my real date stood me up 20 min before prom started and I didn't want to waste his prom ticket. My ex has a gf and she was fine with us going to prom together. (Nothing happened although it was kinda awkward ...
A. 26 April 2011: You need to have an honest talk with him and see what exactly it is that he wants. Maybe he does still like you but more as a friend as suppose to a girlfriend. It is clear that he still wants to maintain the friendship with you and if you both kept ... (read in full...)
I just cant move on even after I quit communicating with her. Help!
Q. Hello everyone. Please help me. I just need your 10 mins. I need love. It has been 2 months since I was dumped by my girlfriend of 3 years. I live and die everyday. I moved to USA from Pakistan 2 months ago and after 10 days she dumped me. After...
A. 26 April 2011: Most people go through heart break and it is not nice to be on the recieving end of it and think that the other person just moved on and didnt care. I am sorry that you had to get hurt but I guess you just need to give yourself time to move on now. ... (read in full...)
Am I making too much of this dream?
Q. What could it mean if I dreamed that my boyfriend gave me a promise ring. Which I wore next to my purity ring. However when I went to go show everyone, my purity ring was replaced by a engagement but it was fake. So I was wearing a "real" promise...
A. 26 April 2011: Your dream is just your subcouncious. Obviously you are worrying about your relationship and if it is real or not but you might not even realise this. If you are happy with your boyfriend and you feel that you are both on the right track well then ... (read in full...)
He talks to other women...what do I do?
Q. I found my husband has been talking to a lot of women. He has started hiding things better now that I found out he slept with one. He mashed up his cell phone because he didn't want me to see who was on it. He even went as far as changing the ...
A. 26 April 2011: I dont know if he loves her but it sounds to me like you are being a fool if you stay with this man. He is cheating on you with another woman and has no respect for you. It sounds to me like he is out to get what he wants and he will probably sleep ... (read in full...)
My sister-in-law is too clingy towards my husband. What do I do?
Q. My question might sound weird, but the situtation that Im in is making me more and more anxious. So me and my husband have been married for a little over two years now. We have two beautiful children(ages 3 and 1)Our marriage itself has been ama...
A. 26 April 2011: If am honest with you I think that him being so close to his sister is causing you to be jelous. It sounds like you are jelous of the attention that he shows her and how he looks after her when she is in need. You are jelous of the closeness that ... (read in full...)
He says I should yell at him for not making more money
Q. The man I love has wounded me very deeply. He says that I don't yell at him for not earning more money! Money has become a big issue for him lately because he was laid off from his highest earning job. He has other, very fulfilling (I think) w...
A. 26 April 2011: His self esteem has hit rock bottom and he is on the border line of becoming depressed if he keeps going the way he is. He lost his high paying job and his life went in to turmoil. He was in a routine of having a lot of money and being able to spend ... (read in full...)
My and Ex I want to be together but I cant let her In
Q. Its been three months since my break up with my ex and alot of things have happened. Now after talking for some time we decided that we want to go out soon, but the only thing stopping me is that she recently liked this guy and spent 5 nights over ...
A. 26 April 2011: Well it is only you that can decide if you can give her a chance or not. In reality she hasnt done anything wrong therefore there is nothing here to forgive. You just need to accept reality and accept that you are not the only guy she has been with ... (read in full...)
He is not the same as when we first met, what should I do?
Q. How can i put this we met on a chat line and after two months of talking over the phone i went and seen him, i told him how i felt about him and everything because we just gotten that close to each but point of it all i sent the weekend together We ...
A. 26 April 2011: Ok so it is clear that he has trust issues. But he needs to try and work on these because he cant know what you are doing every minute of the day even if you are both living together. He still needs to be able to trust you and it is clear that at ... (read in full...)
I need to last longer! Help!
Q. How can I keep my stamina going!?!? Because everytime I have sex with my girlfriend i get off in like a minute or less....
A. 26 April 2011: Well the first best tip is when you are having sex try and think of something that is not sexual. It could be anything like thinking about football, your work, your grandmother. Just things that will take your mind of the actual sex itself could ... (read in full...)
Is this normal?
Q. ok well i need help. im a virgin like im very tight it is about the size of a dime the hole. when i finger i see like blood and it hurts with one finger and ive never came. is that normal how do i come?...
A. 26 April 2011: Yes it is normal. You are tight because you obviously feel nervous or anxious and you cannot relax. You are a virgin so obviously you are going to be tight anyway. Yes it is normal to bleed as well. Different girls come different ways. Just take ... (read in full...)
Trying to let go of an abusive situation.....
Q. Alright, SO, about 3 years ago I met a man, Luke, online and formed a very quick friendship with him. Over the next few months we became best friends and fell in love. I had never been in an internet relationship before and was a bit naive and very ...
A. 26 April 2011: Wow you really are a glutting for punishment even though he kept doing this to you, you kept going back to him. You fell in love with something fictional not real. Thats the dangers of the internet it allows people to be someone that they are not ... (read in full...)
I want to ask her out, but she likes my brother as well as liking me! What should I do?
Q. so my brother is 16, 17 in september. and this girl i love with all my heart (13) well she loves me and my bro I heard from a close friend and I don't want to ruin a really good friendship if I ask her out and she says no. what should I do. btw I'm ...
A. 26 April 2011: Ok well first off she likes you both. A girl doesnt always like a guy just because of the way that they look. So if you think you are more attractive than your brother well then that is fair enough but that doesnt mean that she likes you more than ... (read in full...)
My ex wants his wife back for a Visa, so why is he still wanting to see me?
Q. I split up with my boyfriend after 5 months as i was not happy. My intutition kept telling me something was very wrong. I eventually found out he was married, still trying to get back with his wife - he has cheated on her since their honeymoon and ...
A. 26 April 2011: Sounds to me like he is using you both. He doesnt care about her or you. You deserve better than this. This man is legally married therefore if he can do that to is wife then just think what he can do to you. You can do better than that believe me ... (read in full...)
We had a row and it has left a bad feeling between us now he is back in Germany, what can I do?
Q. Hi, It was my birthday yesterday. My boyfriend is in Germany at the moment with work. I have exams in 10 days. Before he left a few weeks ago we agreed to celebrate my birthday after my exams. He is having a horrible time in Germany and tells me...
A. 26 April 2011: Well as you said there is nothing you can do now once it has been said. He made a lot of effort to come and see you for your birthday and I guess he feels really rejected now and who would blame him. You only wanted to spend one afternoon with him ... (read in full...)
I have this sense of guilt like I cheated! Have I done something wrong?
Q. Early in my relationship, my girlfriend and I just were very honest about our past sexual history. Probably for most, too honest. Through all this, I admitted to her having slept with a friend of mine, at a time when we were both single and it ...
A. 26 April 2011: No you have done nothing wrong. You and your girlfriend now hadnt even been on your first date. Therefore no you never done anything wrong. I am guessing you are feeling guilty though because you are being dishonest with her as you are not telling ... (read in full...)
He is not the same as when we first met, what should I do?
Q. How can i put this we met on a chat line and after two months of talking over the phone i went and seen him, i told him how i felt about him and everything because we just gotten that close to each but point of it all i sent the weekend together We ...
A. 26 April 2011: Ok well he has made it clear that what you both share at the moment is not a relationship. I guess you would need to spend more quality time together to get to know each other but I guess it is hard when the both of you live so far apart. Why does ... (read in full...)
He keeps on going between me and my best friend! What should I do?
Q. This past year has been tough. I've lost a lot of important people in my life. Back in September i met this guy and him and I were perfect for each other but he was 3 years older than me. We hung out everyday and had a lot in common. Then all of a ...
A. 26 April 2011: Well if this is how best friends treat each other I wouldnt want to be your enemy. Friends shouldnt share guys thats just wrong. You say that he was your best friends ex and that he went back to her after he was with you. This meaning that you ended ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why I'm always intitiating spending time with my bf...did he just get used to me doing that? Or is it something else?
Q. I always have to initiate hanging out with my boyfriend. He does it probably only 20% of the time, while I ask to hang out 80% of the time. We have been together for 2 years, and we do not live together, but we go to the same school. Like if I don't ...
A. 26 April 2011: He may have just fallen in to a routine of you being the one to get in contact with him to hang out and he might not even see it as a problem for you. If all other areas of your relationship is good and he is still treating you well then I would ... (read in full...)
Is he just being friendly or does he fancy me?
Q. Well, there's a boy at school and i've known him since i was like, 4. I never really considered him as being a really close friend until this year, and all of a sudden i realised how much i love him. The thing is we are really close and all of my ...
A. 26 April 2011: Your going to need to talk to him about this because he is the only one that knows the answer to your question. If you like him well then pluck up the courage and tell him that and see how he responds. If he is a good friend and doesnt feel the same ... (read in full...)
Is he just being friendly or does he fancy me?
Q. Well, there's a boy at school and i've known him since i was like, 4. I never really considered him as being a really close friend until this year, and all of a sudden i realised how much i love him. The thing is we are really close and all of my ...
A. 26 April 2011: Your going to need to talk to him about this because he is the only one that knows the answer to your question. If you like him well then pluck up the courage and tell him that and see how he responds. If he is a good friend and doesnt feel the same ... (read in full...)
Is he just being friendly or does he fancy me?
Q. Well, there's a boy at school and i've known him since i was like, 4. I never really considered him as being a really close friend until this year, and all of a sudden i realised how much i love him. The thing is we are really close and all of my ...
A. 26 April 2011: Your going to need to talk to him about this because he is the only one that knows the answer to your question. If you like him well then pluck up the courage and tell him that and see how he responds. If he is a good friend and doesnt feel the same ... (read in full...)
He lied to me about spending the day with another girl, what should I do?
Q. Hi i've been with my boyfriend 7 months. I've always had a problem with this girl, who's legally his auntie, but from his step-dads family. She's only 13/14 ish and my first impression of her was not good. She just sat looking at my boyfriend the ...
A. 26 April 2011: well he is in the wrong for lying to you. It was the wrong thing to do. However he is free to meet up with whoever he likes and you cant tell him not to meet up with her or be angry at him if he tells you he is meeting up with her, because you will ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to save him?
Q. Where to start. Well I'm a 27 year old female and my boyfriend of three months is 32. When my boyfriend was 16 he apparently was madly in love with another 16 year old boy, they were each others firsts and they had managed to stay together for about ...
A. 26 April 2011: I'm afraid not Sweetie. He needs to want to help himself. He needs to go to the doctor and talk about his options. It is clear that he is suffering severe depression. However he needs to want the help nobody can force him to do this. I think the ... (read in full...)
How to prove that I am innocent?
Q. We know each other from 1 year. we were in physical relations, but now he thought that I cheated him, actually he got a CHAT history from my mail account, but it was not made me, but i fail to prove that, so now we are not in contact, I tried lot to ...
A. 26 April 2011: Well first of it was not his right to go snooping in to your chat history and looking at old conversations. However he has done that now and cant go back in time. It was your mail account that he saw whatever it was that has made him think that you ... (read in full...)
Do women like nice guys with confidence?
Q. Through out my life I've never scored with a women. I've had them as friends, but never anything more. In my eyes, it was because I've never tried anything, always playing it safe, but now I've become more confident with myself and I'm still a nice ...
A. 26 April 2011: Be yourself. Never try and change for someone. Also the media dont always get it right. Yes they do portray the bad boy image that make woman go weak at the knees. But not all women want this. Some may do some may not. Everyone is attracted to ... (read in full...)
Why do I always have to start the conversation?
Q. i like this girl in school and we have been talking on fb for quite sometime...and i make sure that chatting with me is fun. We enjoy chatting and all but the problem is that she never starts the convo whenever i dont and only i have to start it all ...
A. 26 April 2011: Well it could be a case that she is just shy but more realistically I would say that she is talking to you to be polite but that she doesnt actually like you the way that you like her. You are always the one contacting her and she tells you she ... (read in full...)
When will she be mine?
Q. hi... well i am very jovial guy and right now finished my deg 2nd year. in this academic year i fell in love with my junior she is very good and very talkative, and shy girl. she was friendly to me, i saw her first on July 16 2010 and i changed all ...
A. 26 April 2011: 1) I understand that you are scared that this girl might leave you. But to her you are only her friend. To you she is much more and in the long run you will end up getting hurt because I dont think that friendship is enough for you.
2) I think so... (read in full...)
Am I going off him or is it stress?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend only two months. He seems perfect, kind, thoughtful, he takes me out and actually listens. Recently I have found myself not wanting sex with him and getting angry at everything he does or says. We see each other prett...
A. 26 April 2011: You have only been together for two months therefore I think that you both have just rushed in to things to fast and things have gotten intense really quickly. I think the best thing that you can do is to give each other some space. Tell him that ... (read in full...)
Questions on masturbating.....
Q. i've recently tried masturating but find rubbing more pleasurable than fingering. have you any advice on how to finger to help me orgasm and also how do you know if your orgasaming ...
A. 26 April 2011: Most woman reach orgasm by rubbing there clitoris as suppose to fingering themselves. Everybody is different and every girl reaches orgasm differently. Only you can figure out what your body likes and doesnt like therefore just take the time to ... (read in full...)
Help! I fantasise about my boyfriend with other women when we have sex!
Q. This is going to sound very strange!!! I have always been quite a jealous person and I still very much am. On a normal day, the thought of my boyfriend even looking at another woman makes me angry and upset. However, when I am with my boyfrien...
A. 26 April 2011: Everybody is different and everybody has different fantasies there is no right or wrong one's or there is no normal guidelines for fantasies either. Therefore I dont see a problem with your fantasy. As long as it is not effecting you or your sex ... (read in full...)
I should accept that he is never going to come back to me...but I miss him.
Q. I need help getting over my ex boyfriend. Im the one who posted the question about my boyfriend getting depressed and dumping me because he's to lazy for love and relationships and doesnt want them anymore. Last night I had a little argument/...
A. 25 April 2011: Well you need to let the pain out and grieve for the end of a relationship. Its a hurtful time you are heartbroken and it is going to hurt. Get your friends to support you now more than ever you are going to need them in your life. Crying is good it ... (read in full...)
How do you french kiss?
Q. This may sound stupid but I really need help on this. My BF and I have dated 2 other times before. He has tried to fench kiss me both times and I have pulled away every time. Now we are dating again and he has tried it again. I told him not yet but ...
A. 25 April 2011: It will come naturally to you believe me. Everybody kisses differently therefore there is no right or wrong way to do it believe me. Just start by opening your mouth a little and follow his lips and if you feel comfortable you can use a bit of ... (read in full...)
He no longer sees her but talks and texts every day...
Q. I started a relationship in a horrible way. Although I am now separated, I was married and he was in a relationship with a 19 year old (he is 40). He has feelings for her, but knows it would never go anywhere. So after realizing he would lose me if ...
A. 25 April 2011: Its going to take a long time and commitment in order for your relationship with this man to work. Sometimes love is just not enough to keep a relationship going. You both still have feelings for other people and unfinished business. Going through a ... (read in full...)
I've had to cancel seeing her a few times, she has family problems, what can I do to make her feel better??
Q. I really am so down. I need help , well advice me and my girlfriend have an amazing relationship. Really. We love each other Now the problem is she has an over emosional big sister and a really agrivated brother. So when she does somet...
A. 25 April 2011: Your very welcome.... (read in full...)
My friends have made me anxious to have sex. But how? Is this a good idea?
Q. hi, i'm almost 18 and a virgin :) i have been in a relationship since i was 15. my boyfriend is a nice guy and i trust him a lot but still i never let him have any kind of sexual intercourse with me. but now i am thinking to move into a phys...
A. 24 April 2011: Well if either of you cant do this in each others home well then it kind of makes it a bit impossible. Unless you have somewhere safe and private to go then I dont think it is a good idea having sex as you need to feel comfortable. Especially as it ... (read in full...)
I'm gay and a virgin. how do I answer their intrusive questions on lesbian sex.
Q. For a long time now I've known I am a lesbian and I came out about it a couple of years ago. Ever since coming out I've had some of my friends asking me what I've done with a girl, but I haven't done anything with anyone. And that doesn't bother me, ...
A. 24 April 2011: Ok well first of every girls body is different. There is no set way to look and there is nothing abnormal. Everyone is different thats what makes us unique.
As for people asking these questions well they are being immature and nosey. It is none ... (read in full...)
Haven't had sex with my husband in 13 years but want to have sex with another man.
Q. Hello Cupids. This is one crazy situation you are about to hear and I could really use your help. I have been married to my husband for 13 years and in that time we have never had sexual intercourse. We have had oral sex and have done just abou...
A. 24 April 2011: Ok for the moment take the other man out of the equation and lets just talk about your marriage. You say you are unhappy therefore if things are that bad well then you need to leave your husband and get used to being single again. You give me the ... (read in full...)
I need to get over him to move on, but I just cant!
Q. Me and my ex split up in august 2010 and we was together for 16 months. We split up as I found out he cheated on me. I'm always hanging out with my girl friends to try and take my mind off him, and everything that happened but it doesnt work. I t...
A. 24 April 2011: Have you deleted all of his contact details? Ignore him completely? Have you threw out everything that reminds you of him? Look at the end of the day he wanted another girl over you, therefore he didnt care about you or how it would make you feel. ... (read in full...)
Small hard spots inside of me. What are they?
Q. Hi,I've got small hard spots in my vaginal walls under the skin. They are not sore or anything, I'm just worried they are something serious. I dont think they are because I've had them for a while now but I'm too scared to tell my mum or go to the ...
A. 24 April 2011: You shouldnt be scared about going to your doctor. At the end of the day thats what doctors are there for and it is totally confident. Its there job and it is not as embarressing as you think. You need to get a check out if you get bodily changes it ... (read in full...)
I've had to cancel seeing her a few times, she has family problems, what can I do to make her feel better??
Q. I really am so down. I need help , well advice me and my girlfriend have an amazing relationship. Really. We love each other Now the problem is she has an over emosional big sister and a really agrivated brother. So when she does somet...
A. 23 April 2011: Talk to her brother, but do not do it infront of his mum. You are an adult and I am assuming he is aswell. So talk to him privately and ask him why he has made this story up. Be reasonable with him and tell him that you are trying your hardest to ... (read in full...)
I've had to cancel seeing her a few times, she has family problems, what can I do to make her feel better??
Q. I really am so down. I need help , well advice me and my girlfriend have an amazing relationship. Really. We love each other Now the problem is she has an over emosional big sister and a really agrivated brother. So when she does somet...
A. 23 April 2011: I am really sorry that I dont have a better answer for you but am afraid that you cant fix her. Most of her problems are coming from her over protective family who seem to run her life for her. She needs to take control of her life and stick up to ... (read in full...)
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