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writes:I’ve been in a relationship for about 2 and a half months with an amazing guy but the problem/ question I have is: if I should leave my boyfriend for this guy I like?This same guy that I texted almost every day and he said he liked me and I met him once and had a crush on him ever since I met him which was four summers ago Ever since then I always wonder what happened to him so when he texted me the first time I was over excited and stayed excited every day after that but it’s like all he wants is sex and I’m very tempted to give it to him, but I’m still a virgin and love the guy I’m with but I just don’t know HELP!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (18 February 2013):
 Remain a virgin until your wedding night like the olden days you'll be happy with yourself then.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni meant two and a half years* that we've been in a reletionship
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reader, dougbcoll +, writes (16 February 2013):
 well your with an amazing guy for two and half months . "but" he must not be that amazing if you are willing to dump him for a guy you are infatuated with. you are willing to give up the relationship for a guy that you know all he wants is sex? o.k. well go for it , it sounds like you have your mind made up.if you know all this guy wants is sex, and your willing to take a chance on being dumped after he is through with you, go for it. free your good guy boyfriend, don't keep him hanging on. let me ask you what happens after the excitement wears off with this guy. what do you think will happen if you give in to him " give your virginity to him" ??? do you think he has played this game before with other girls ?? if so they more than likely thought they would never get dumped by him. is he out for sex, you said he was " all he wants is sex", that should be warning enough for you. don't give yourself any regrets to look back on. sounds like you may have a good boyfriend already you have been with him two and half months. your a virgin,and it sounds like your boyfriend must be interested in you. i take it hes not trying to take your virginity or " just after sex". sounds like he is really into you, you said your with an "amazing guy". all i can say choose carefully. use your head, not just your emotions. emotions will die down and leave you empty with regrets. don't burn your bridge that you cant get back across again. i hope this helps.
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reader, when nothing goes right go left  +, writes (16 February 2013):
 It must be tempting if you really fancy this guy but is it really worth risking your relationship for and if he does just want sex then he will not
have sex with you whilst caring or respecting you and he is just sucking up until he gets what he wants. Also if your boyfriend is an amazing guy who loves you then isn't it worth losing your viginity to him and if you do go with this guy then you will probably feel really unhappy and guilty
afterwards so i wouldn't do it because if you do then its likely that you
will regret it.
Hope this helps.
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