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*arasvati
writes:I’d like some input. I, begrudgingly, checked my boyfriend’s phone back in October because I had the strange feeling I couldn’t trust him. I found some text messages he had sent to his second cousin, but they were so obscure that I couldn’t tell for sure whether they were sexual in nature or not. They went along these lines:“Can anyone see your phone?”“Okay good. Would you like to mess around on Sunday?”“How long have you been on it? Would you like to do it again?”I’ve confronted him, and he denies it all, of course. But his story doesn’t add up for me, and his cousin’s story didn’t match his (I asked her later and she merely said he was joking; however he did not say that). He has admitted that he was asking how long she had been on her period, but he made some poor excuse akin to “she can be a bitch on her period”. I also don't understand why he felt the need to ask if anyone could see her phone. My gut tells me that this is all wrong, but I’ve been with him so long and he keeps denying it no matter what else I bring up. I have no other evidence aside from those text messages. What do you think?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 March 2012):
 trust your gut.. you can't trust him...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2012): Hi Sarasvati -
trust your instincts and you won't go far wrong. Yes, he's cheating. Who on earth asks a person how long they've been on their period and then asks if they'd like to do it again? Are you kidding me?!
Dump him and have a happy life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2012): I think we all know what 'mess around' means. Dump him. He's cheating!
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (28 March 2012):
 Yes, he's cheating on you, no doubts about that. If anything, asking a cousin about her periods is very, very weird! Somethings not right.
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (28 March 2012):
 I agree with person 12345, why one would bother keeping track of his second cousin's menstrual cycles !, and why would he ask her if anybody can see her phone. VERY fishy.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (28 March 2012):
 Why on Earth would he need to know if she was on her period if he didn't want to have sex. This sounds VERY suspicious, as in you shouldn't trust him farther than you can throw him. It really sounds like he's cheating, I'm sorry.
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