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*caredForLove
writes:Okay this is weird since just a few hours ago I posted comment about how my boyfriend and how he isnt caring and well he just dumped me like 3 hours ago.I um well I feel really empty and depressed.. And upset because I called that mean girl that I wrote about in last post, and we kinda made up because I needed to talk. I told her what happened and she just kept saying its ok i live you legit..etc. and then she got on fb and liked his new relationship status!!! And then liked one of his douce friends comments that said AWWW YEAHH!!!!!! Now I'm extremely depressed..I know its a lot to ask but.. Help again..? And Im almost positive its her fault he dumped me... But it was his own opinion right???
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reader, ScaredForLove +, writes (3 December 2011):
ScaredForLove is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi guys, thanks for posting answers :). Nothings better...and i am extremely mad and confused and sad right now...0.o haha but I just wanted to say thanks. I wish I couldve gotten a guy opinion..but I can wait maybe one will answer :)
Thanks aunt honesty about the you can do better thing by the way :)
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reader, ScaredForLove +, writes (3 December 2011):
ScaredForLove is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUmm Vicci...i didnt say anything on facebook ...0.o
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reader, Vicci  +, writes (3 December 2011):
 I think this is your fault, I'm sorry. Why share something private abut your relationship with the whole of Facebook? How do you think that made him feel!?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 December 2011):
 Nobody forced him in to dumping you, it was his choice to make. Yes it is possible that she may have said something to him, but if he trusted you he would have asked you about it instead of just dumping you without any reason, and him doing it over the phone is ever worse. If that is the way he is prepared to treat you then it is obvious you are far better of without him. Him and your friend deserve each other, you can do better!
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reader, supermum +, writes (3 December 2011):
 It is not her fault he dumped you. If he loved you, nobody could tell him to dump you and him listen to it. It was his choice. Now we have that bit out of the way, I HATE FACEBOOK!! Ok, I love facebook, but it causes sooooo much drama, all the time!You are only young my dear, as much as you hate to hear it, and there will be others. But you can either let this break you up, or you can use it as a chance to grow emotionally.If he was silly enough to dump you, he was not the right one for you anyway. Call up your girlfriends, get them to come over with some chocolate and ice cream, watch a soppy film, cry for a bit, moan to your hearts content, and then move on. I know as someone not emotionally involved in the situation that it is really easy for me to say that. And I know right at this second you probably don't think things will ever get better, but I promise you they will.You deserve better. When you truly believe that, the right man will come along.There is not much any of us can say that is going to change things or make them better, this is something you have got to get through on your own, but I hope what I have said helps. Right now though, you need to focus on YOU. Which is what your teenage years are for anyway! If I ruled the world, I would ban dating before you are 21, so that you have those years to yourself to grow and figure out who you are. lol ;) You will be fine hun, chin up and keep smiling.
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