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writes:Well I kind of like one of my teachers. He is a good bit older than me but I really like him but he is married. I never want to get him into trouble or anything but I want him to know but I guess he already does because of ny friends blurting it out in front of him. I will leave ths school in two years so should I tell him then?? If so how should I tell him and what should I say?? What could his reactions be??
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need  +, writes (12 March 2008):
 Yeah, ano how it feels wanting a teacher to know how you feel about them! And I think you shud tell him, but by letter - otherwise, saying it to his face will make it really awkward for both of you. But make sure you do it just before you leave, and not until! Because I wrote a letter to mine telling him how I felt, and I don't even leave school til May. So I had to face the consequences of what i'd done - He reported me then I had to attend a meeting with my parents to discuss it, it was so embarrassing. However, I don't regret what I did but I regret WHEN I did it. I should have just waited! Best of luck xxx
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reader, Ask oldersister  +, writes (3 March 2008):
 If you truly want him to know but don't want any trouble to come of it, try this:
Dr. Mr. so and so,
I want you to know how wonderful and special you are. I have a huge crush on you but now I have to go away forever. Hope this made your day!
Anonymous
P.S. I won't be contacting you in the future
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reader, O Connor +, writes (2 March 2008):
 what do you think is going to happen if you do tell him? - that he'll say he loves you back, you'll run off into the distance and live happily ever after? no offence or anything but it just doesnt happen like that in real life. the truth is he is married, older and is your teacher. no good can come of you telling him that you like him. teenage girls develop crushes on male teachers all the time - and it is completely normal, but in most cases nothing happens, they grow up and move on. i would suggest leaving it - he is happy and in love with someone, why would you want to come between that? move on, and try and meet guys that are you own age and not tied down. sorry to sound so harsh hun but i think you need to hear it to know the truth of the matter, good luck if you want any more help just email me xxx
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reader, MissKate +, writes (2 March 2008):
 This is a hard one!You may like him, but think seriously about this!Is it just a crush? Is it just a fantasy?You don't want to regret things later on.If he is allot older than you and married then i am sure he will be very understanding if you do tell him.He probably wont take it too seriously and at least that way you will always know that he knew.But seriously, this is up to you!:DGood Luck.Kate
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reader, xSpacexDementiax +, writes (2 March 2008):
 Tell him when you leave, yeah.Ive debated it long and hard, and I can't see any harm in telling him how you feel if you're leaving. At least then you'll have some closure on the situation.Depending on your relationship now with him, he'll probably either be quite shocked or flattered. How friendly are you with him?Maybe try and befriend him, find out what kind of person he is, your feelings may change then, or they could intensify as they did in my case.I wouldn't tell him before you leave though, because there's a chance he'll report you, and then you'll most likely be devastated.Good luck anywayx
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