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Should I be worried that my boyfriend would go out with someone else for a week, with a plan to drop her after that week?

Q.   I have this boyfriend and he loves me so much and I love him also. One day he called me up and told me that this other girl was after him and he said that he would go out with her for a week then dump her. I asked him if he still likes her and he ...

A.   27 December 2005: What are you thinking or should i ask what are you thinking with. It's clear you not thinking with your head. You allowing him to cheat on you for a week. If the tables were turned, do you honestly think he would let you do the same, HELL NO! He ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend's been acting weird and abusive, then announced she's pregnant... but it's not mine!

Q.   Hi all, I am a guy who is experiencing a terrible time in my life right now. My 'girlfriend' and I have been having problems as of late. Basically here is what is going on. The girlfriend and I fell into bliss love and sex and have been...

A.   27 December 2005: She doesn't deserve, you may love her and yes it's hurting and i'm not going to tell you to move on and get over it, because it's not that simple. You need someone that respects you and loves you which she obviously doesn't otherwise it would you ... (read in full...)

There's an age gap, but should that matter? We get on together so well!

Q.   Hi..people are in the same situation as me-it is good to see. I have stumbled upon a great younger woman (a bit younger-15 years) in the restaurant/bar I go to. The best vibe/silliness goes on between us every time I go in the place and it has led ...

A.   27 December 2005: There is no problem provided she is over 16. If you have fun together and you both like each other then go for it, as the saying goes "age aint nothing but a number" and its true. But bear in mind she may not be ready for a committed relation... (read in full...)

Does he, or doesn't he? His messages are so mixed up!

Q.   A couple of months ago, I started at my dream job. There is a guy who works there who I clicked with immediately (let's call him Will), and felt an instant attraction to. (very rare for me!) A couple of weeks ago, myself, him and another male col...

A.   27 December 2005: Hi Well from what i gather, he likes you and is unsure as to what he wants and while is processing all of this he doesn't want anyone else to have you. He wants you to notice that he likes yet at the same time, play with your mind. Men like ... (read in full...)

He seems perfect and our ages aren't an issue to us. Should they be?

Q.   I am 15 and my boyfriend is 21. We started going out and we really didn't ask the whole age question. We got really close and that's when I asked him how old he was. We had sex but I told him I would rather wait because it is safer. He respects that ...

A.   27 December 2005: If you don't have a problem with the age then what other people shouldn't matter, i'm 3 years older than my boyfriend and i have never been happier. My uncle is 20 years older than his girlfriend and they make each other happy, they even have a ... (read in full...)

Still worried about my banana-shaped penis. Will I be able to satisfy a woman?

Q.   I wrote a problem but didn't got a satisfactory answer, so I am hoping this time somebody will help me. I just wanna know. I've got banana type of erection. While erecting it bends towards downward, like a banana, so I wanna know will this kind of ...

A.   27 December 2005: Coming from a girl, when the heat is there, the last thing a women is interested in is what it looks like, if the foreplay is really good then all she wants is to have you put it in. I have a complex to, I have an inverted nipple, so my solution... (read in full...)

I'm dating my best mate's ex, but he's still not over her. Do we tell him?

Q.   My best friend Chad and I are very close. We are always there for each other. Chad met Lisa and the three of us all became close friends. Chad dated Lisa a couple months back and it was short and rocky. Chad remained in love with Lisa, while sh...

A.   27 December 2005: Rather tell him, cause it would hurt him more to find out from someone else. If Lisa really means that much to you and you willing to do anything for her then explain it to your friend. He may not like it and he may not even except it, but if he r... (read in full...)

I need help to persuade my parents that my boyfriend and I won't have sex while we're alone for a week...

Q.   I'm 16 and my boyfriend's parents are going away for a week. My boyfriend is staying at mine, but I'm on a mattress downstairs and he is in my room. It was a yes to him staying in my room but now they've changed their minds. I don't want to have ...

A.   27 December 2005: My angel, i'm 21 and my parents to don't allow my BF to sleep in my room, let alone my bed. You must try and understand that they only have your best interest at heart. Sure you say you don't want to have sex with him, but he is male and unfortun... (read in full...)

She's 16, I'm 14 and we almost had sex. She wants to see me again..I love her but I dont know what to do.

Q.   Hi People, I hope you can help me my problem is as follows,; I have just had a boxing day party and this girl was there, she was 16 and i am 13 almost 14, we got chattin and found a few things in common, after a few hours we ended up just lying on...

A.   27 December 2005: John, Please don't get caught up in the fantasy of love just yet. You just met this girl, how can you love someone you just met. Yes there is the saying Love at first sight, but vision can be clouded with lust and the need to feel wanted. S... (read in full...)

My husband always leaves me unsatisfied when we have sex. What should I do?

Q.   How I'm Married ..can any one tell me why my hubby and I only have sex when he wants it and If I don't cum he says ....sorry i'm done ..you have to wait for next time...help...he never has to wait ...y do i...i'm so unsatisfied it aint funny what ...

A.   27 December 2005: As wrong as this may sound it works. When you and your husband are having sex, play out your fantasy in your head, close your eyes and picture every detail from your fantasy and when you feeel your husband is drawing to a close, make him pull out ... (read in full...)

Afraid my grandmother won't like my bf, when he comes here for the holidays.

Q.   My boyfriend said that he would like to come over for the holidays and spend the night. so i talked it over with my grandmother and she said how about instead of you driving the porsh, how about i just pick you both up? but i am scared that she ...

A.   27 December 2005: Why would you think your grandmother wouldn't like him unless you think there would be a reason for her not to like him. If you have spoken to her about your BF sleeping over then that means she doesn't have a problem. Don't let problems that are... (read in full...)

If I wait to see if he gets over his ex, I might miss a chance for love with someone else, but I think he's my soulmate!

Q.   Hello About ten years ago I was in love with a classmate and I'm sure he was too, but before we had a chance to mention it we lost contact with each other. We didn't meet until last month, when we met accidentally over the net and had a meeting. I...

A.   23 December 2005: You right, don't dwell on the past. People change and i'm sure after 10 years you both have changed a lot. He may not be the man you once loved. There are so many men out there which are willing to give you their hearts and if you keep dwellin... (read in full...)

I'm confused why she wanted to spend the night with me, the night before her graduation?

Q.   I have been dating this lady for a month. I am 30 she is 28 or 29. She spent the night at my house the night before the graduation (masters degree). She asked me if she could. Nothing happened sexually. I just thought it was different. She can ...

A.   23 December 2005: Maybe she just needed to be comforted and she felt that you could do that. Spending the night with some one and not doing anything sexual means that there is a bond there that goes deeper than sex and that is a bond that is hard to find and is a ... (read in full...)

We broke up but I heard she still likes me..what should I do?

Q.   im 13 and i used to go out with this girl who is 14 for almost 2 years but we broke up and she is seeing another guy. but i hear from friends she still likes me and i think that we are soulmates and i really want to go out with her but i don't know ...

A.   23 December 2005: My angel, Of course she still likes you but it doesn't mean that she still loves you! Her dating other guys means she is moving on with her life, so i suggest u do the same. You are both so young and yes young love is hard to get over but i promis... (read in full...)

My boyfriend pays me no attention and now I'm falling for someone else!

Q.   I am with a guy who pays no attention to me and I am falling for somone else but I can't tell my boyfriend that. My friends tell me that my boyfriend isn't the one for me. Can you help me? ...

A.   23 December 2005: If he isn't paying attention to you then why you paying attention to him. If you falling for someone else then there is nothing wrong. Women need to feel loved and cared for and if there is someone willing to do that, then whats the problem?... (read in full...)

Guy I want to be "more than friends" with says he is dating someone... Who is married!

Q.   I am friends with a guy who wants to be more than friends. However, when I asked him when he moved from another city if he was dating someone else, he said yes. And she is married to someone else. Do you think that we can ever move from just ...

A.   22 December 2005: This is going to sound harsh, but why would yopu want to date someone is dating a married women, he obviously has no respect for her marriage what makes you think he would have respect for anything else. Don't get into a relationship which yo... (read in full...)

My girlfriend won't swallow. Can I talk her around to seeing it my way?

Q.   hiya, I was just wondering. I have been going out with my gilfriend for 3 years and I really want her to swallow my cum. Are there any ways in whichI can get her to do this? Thanx...

A.   22 December 2005: Look, Why men like it when a women swallows beats me, but please understand that there is nothing worses than thick slimy liquid running down the back of your throat, and if you really want her to, make sure you CLEAN, don't go to the toilet j... (read in full...)

She said her feelings have changed-but then said she still loved me...I'm confused!

Q.   Hi cupid, I hope you can help with a question i have. I have been with my girlfriend for 7months now. I am 25 and with my first love and she is 21 and graduating college. A month ago i had to go back to ireland becaues of my visa. I plan on ...

A.   22 December 2005: The best thing i can say is, Let her go if she comes back to it was meant to be if not then it never was. I'm not saying stop loving her, cause i know its easier said than done but try to move on, go out with friends, make new friends, try to take... (read in full...)

My mom is having an affair... Again. What do I do? Who can I tell?

Q.   When i was about 8 my mum and dad split up for 3 months. At the time they said they just needed a break. They got marrage counciling and got back together. In the years following i slowly learnt by slip ups and evesdropping that the reason for the ...

A.   22 December 2005: Shame sweety, i know what you going through. When i was 13 my mom did the same thing, my sister was 8 and I hated my mom for doing it. But you need to think why she did it. Yes you love your dad but maybe your dad wasn't that loving towards your... (read in full...)

I like her very much but she won't date me! What should I do?

Q.   I am 18 years old and completely fell for this girl I work with, she was 20. When I first met her she had a boyfriend but he ended up cheating on her and she broke up with him. Well after they split we started hanging out and I let her know how I ...

A.   22 December 2005: My Angel, take it from a girls Perspective. It hurts when you break up with someone that means alot to you, and the last thing she wants is to go through that again. Give her time, be there for her when she needs you when she needs a FRIEND. ... (read in full...)

We weren't that close when he was in high school, but I want him to know how strongly I feel now...

Q.   I don't know if you will be able to answer my question, but I thought I needed an outside opinion and nobody else seems to want to try to answer my question. Here's my "story"... I have Loved this Guy for almost three years now. I met him when ...

A.   20 December 2005: Hi there Let me try and set your mind at ease, there is nothing wrong with sending a letter telling your special some one just how you feel about them, infact writing a letter makes it so much easier to express your feelings. Why do you th... (read in full...)

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