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Still worried about my banana-shaped penis. Will I be able to satisfy a woman?

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Question - (26 December 2005) 78 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2012)
A male , anonymous writes:

I wrote a problem but didn't got a satisfactory answer, so I am hoping this time somebody will help me.

I just wanna know. I've got banana type of erection. While erecting it bends towards downward, like a banana, so I wanna know will this kind of dick gives satisfaction to a woman like any other straight dick? Or it will not?

I am really shy to get naked in front of women due to this reason, so I am still virgin and I am 20.

So plz anyone can help me through this?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2012):

Hi there

If its pointing downwards, that is away from your tummy then u may have a rare condition,....see this lin

http://www.channel4embarrassingillnesses.com/video/consultations/consultation-peyronie-s-disease/

As for hurting a woman..... if shes is fully turned on, lots of foreplay and her vagina is fully swollen, then all should be well,.

Position from behind will be best.

but the best advice is to concentrate on enjoying turning her on with lotd off caressing, use your fingers n mouth all over her body, dont concentrate just on penetration. This will make you gorget about your body issues n adore her! Get her to explore your body too with her hands n mouth. enjoy each other

If u are concernedthat u may have the start of pryronies, then ask gp to refer you to a urologist.

Take care

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2012):

As a woman, I've been with men with straight and curved, I much prefer curved, it hits areas that don't usually get attention with a man with a straight penis.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2011):

I wouldn't worry about this one men - my boyfriend's penis is banana shaped, and although it makes it harder to get it in at first, the angle makes it perfect for hitting everything just right! My previous lovers had never brought me to an orgasm but my banana shaped man seems to have no problem! Try doggystyle or reverse cowgirl, this way the shape of your penis will match the shape of her vagina. Coming from a woman, you shouldn't worry about satisfying your partner due to the banana penis-think of it as a blessing! personally, i would never go back to a straight penis ever again!

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A male reader, WorriedBoy United States +, writes (8 May 2011):

Hi guys. I have to admit, as a 17 year-old boy, this is the best find I've ever found on the internet. I have always been self-conscious about my down-curved penis. I only need 1 more question answered to completely settle my nerves:

My penis doesn't bend downwards SLIGHTLY, it bends down VERY SUDDENLY. There is an actually point on the penis where there is a definite transition in curvature. It isn't vertical or anything (I don't have a medical condition regarding my penis) but I was wondering how sex is like with this type of penis? Thank you to any and all who answer my question!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2011):

i just wanted to say i have the same downward curve!

it seems that there are thousands/millions of us out there. realizing this has helped me a lot! don't compare your penis to what you can see in porn movies, because it will give you false thoughts!

a big thank you to the women who contributed in this forum, you girls know how to give a man confidence :)

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A male reader, Banana1975 Australia +, writes (7 February 2011):

Hi all,

I know this thread hasn't had an update for a while but I am glad I found it for those guys in the future that come searching for it.

I'm a 35 year old guy with a 8 inch penis curving downwards similar to the shape of a rainbow or a banana.

During my early teens, I was very unsure about the shape of mine. I remember a sex education when we were all asked to draw the rough shape of an erect penis. Let's just say my picture was very different to everyone else so I flipped the page and drew a straight one. That's the first time when I new I was different.Because of this, I waited until I was 21 before I had sex with a woman, a girlfriend that I was in a serious relationship with. Unfortunately after three years when we broke up, she told me that it was uncomfortable most times. Let's just say my self esteme hit rock bottom. If it was uncomfortable for her, what was it going to be like for other women.

I ended up going to a specialist to be "examined" and the recommendation was to straighten my shaft through surgery. I would need to be circumsized, peeled back like a banana and under the skin of my shaft, they would cut eye shaped pieces out of the top of the shaft and stitch the opening together to pull the shaft into a straighter position. The potential draw backs from the surgery was a croocked shaft if the stiched areas did not heal properly, loss of feeling along the shaft due to potential nerve damage, and potential scar tissue in those areas where the stitches were located or I may never get an erection again. And recovery would be weeks with considerable discomfort should I ever get an erection during the healing process so medication would be required to prevent erection that could lead to a more permanent limpness.

I decided to wait and find out what happened with the next women I had sex with. Coincidently she was a nymphomaniac and couldn't get enough of my banana. Besides a couple of occasions when partners have felt some discomfort during a particular sex session or either going too deep or not quite the right position, it has been great ever since and I still have my Banana curve. The most important thing is honest communication between you and your partner.

So bottom line is, don't "Fix" it until you have tried it out and hopefully you have an honest partner. Most women LOVE it and thank you to the women who have provided responses here. Sure you may not be able to drive like a piston like you see in porn movies (depends on the woman receiving of course) but work with what you have. Get to know the advantages you have over the common boring penis. find the positions that feel better for you and your partner. experiment with the levels of penertration you are able to perform. The advantages you have for the G-spot in so many positions. How the curve can be used for a lot of teasing and alternate stimulation. And for those of you interested in the Karma Sutra, the stary sky position works very well for a downward curve. :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010):

i am 51 and have had a downward curving penis for as long as i can remember. i was worried about it through my early sex years but with each partner i became less concerned. it seems that the curve gives them pleasure that they've never experienced before. from any position the woman gets more friction. i've been with about 10 women in my life and each has told me that what i can do for them is incredible. in fact before all the female ejaculation stuff came out i had a gf (this was in the 70's) that would squirt and squirt when i mounted her doggie style. i thought it was pretty weird until the internet showed what was going on. i will tell you this curved men, you can give a woman more pleasure than a straight dick. don't be afraid, be proud of what you have, you will rub her in ways she's never been rubbed. your curve will make you bigger than the biggest of dicks. use leverage to your advantage, when from behind, stand taller and hit her g spot like no other man can. just take a look at the g spot toys these days.... they aren't straight. have fun and be proud of your curved pecker

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010):

mate, this isnt a problem :D if anything you'll stimulate her more, good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2010):

I am married to a man with a penis that curves down. Sex is very uncomfortable for me. He has had the surgery to straighten and I have even undergone surgery to widen my vaginal opening. No luck. It is very frustrating. I wish that it was a positive thing. We just can't seem to fit together right. He also cums in under 2 minutes, so that doesn't exactly help. Very frustrated about this. We have been together for 9 years and have 2 kids. Intercourse has just never been very good for me. We have tried everything. I wouldn't wish this frustration on anyone!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2010):

My girlfriend said she had a guy with a straight penis and it was good but she likes mine n-shaped downward more because it reaches more inside of her. She said that she can cum more easier with mine because it hits her G spot. She specifically likes doggystyle and being on top with her back facing me. I was uncomfortable about not having a straight penis when i was younger but every girl that i have been with said they like it a lot and they seemed like they were being honest with me.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2010):

Hello all. I'm a 24 yr old male and i've been sexually active for a while. I have a banana cock that curves upward, it's straight and all, just curves upward, and oddly enough i have never heard of this stigma surrounding it. I have never been embarrassed at all about it, and all of the women i have slept with have either been crazy about it, or i was too drunk to remember :D I'm not trying to brag or anything, i'm just surprised to find so many guys worrying about it when i've been going around just whipping it out with no concern. A curved cock is perfectly normal and i'm sure there are just as many curved ones as straight ones if not more. All in all i've never had a girl laugh at me, or say anything derogatory really, and i've never thought about it until reading this. So to any guy who might be self conscious about it (i don't know why, who said a straight dick was normal or better?) just do your thing. If you ever come across the unusually random shallow bitch who might say something about it, just say her tits are lopsided or her vagina is the most ugly pile of flesh on the planet! Good luck, and happy fucking!!!!!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2010):

I too used to be worried about my bendy cock. I can remember how nervous I was with my first girlfriend when it was time to get naked for the first time and how embarrassed I was. Know what I remember now? How many times I used to make her come; Bringing a subsequent girlfriend to orgasm for the first time after she'd been with her previous partner for 2 years; Having a booty call for about 2 years with a girl who just wanted no strings fun..and best of all, making my current girlfriend so happy , that the first time we did it, she couldn't hardly speak, went to turn on the stereo, and dropped the remote control. Man, I wouldn't claim to be the greatest lover in the world, but I'll let you into a secret, because of your bendy friend, you won't need to be. It'll do it all for you...as long as you don't forget the foreplay, of course. Good luck, have fun and live your life.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2010):

Don't be worried guys out there. I'm sort of shaped like a banana (downward) and have had a long-term gf that never cared, as well as plenty of other partners that didn't care either...everything was just fine. I am in my mid 20's. Most of the time, she is more self conscious about the appearance of her own body, and not thinking about or critiquing yours nearly as much as you probably are. If you are confident in yourself, it won't be an issue for you, or her. As many of the girls mentioned who have commented, it can be a unique advantage. My long-term ex gf said she enjoyed it in all the positions (wasn't uncomfortable for her, except maybe a bit at first, and only the first few times), but supposedly doggie is the best for a downward curve (supposed to hit the g-spot). She really liked to be on top, rubbing back and forth, which gave her clitoral stimulation, and she could control the speed, depth, etc.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010):

Since the g-spot rubs against the upper part of the penis in the missionary position, when the woman bears down on a downward curving penis, there is more pressure because she is in effect trying to straighten it. So the downward curver is better for missionary. For doggy style, the upward curver is better because the under side of the penis bulges into the g-spot.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010):

well i've got a banana curve down.an am sure wen my first time comes my wife will b pleased.:-)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010):

I have a banana dick that goes left, do girls like that?

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A male reader, rdb17 Canada +, writes (1 August 2010):

okay question..i hear and read all good things about having a N curved penis. i have one too, but someone please answer, what positions are best to use with it? i know for a fact missionary does not work with woman..my first time, she said it hurted her and ever since then i never had sex again :( its been 5 years now and im tired of being alone and with such a low self esteem. so someone please help me.. what positions are best to use with a downwards curved penis?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010):

I'm now in my mid 40's and still feel like I'm weird with a bent banana downer. But my wife of over 23 yrs loves it and wouldn't or couldn't imagine having anything less than it. Reading what the men and women on here are saying I guess the sex is great with it and it's not just me. I still feel odd though. But I think this will help. Sex is great and during play time with the toys my wife does not like the penetration with the life-like straight toy, she says it doesn't hit the spots that I do. So love on,, and don't worry about it. Have fun with it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2010):

Mine curves up, like most men (so says my GF), and I think that is best for missionary. I would think an upward curve might be not so good for doggie, but she loves that with me too. reverse cowgirl hurts her a bit, so I would say a downward curve is better for that position. I never thought a downward or upward curve was wierd...maybe a sideways curve would be, but I'm sure any curve can make things exciting and very stimulating. I'm totally not gay, but sometimes I do wonder or envy that women can have so much variety in the organs they receive. Most pussies are the same feel, so the variety when it comes to women is mostly external wehn it comes to sex.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2010):

Hi guys, my boyfriend has a banana shaped penis and I love it. It hits all the right spots. Him on top is the best for me bc is is bent toward him. If a girl cares about you it should not be an issue. This is the first time I have had a man with this shape but I wouldn't trade him. Don't worry

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010):

Well I have to say this is probably the greatest find on the web for a guy with a banana dick. Mine bends down and it was a nightmare through high school. Friends found out and made fun of me all through high school. Killed my self esteem. It never seemed to be a problem having sex though and my partners seemed to enjoy it. I'm 35 and still self conscious about it. But these responses have really helped a lot. Thanks for all the comments. I wish I would have had access to this stuff years ago.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2010):

wow..if all what's written here is true...i guess that i'll forget the idea of getting my dick straight..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010):

I like my down cuved penis but it was a real big deal for me in the past, always worriing about if the girl will like it...

I have had some truely passionate moments with my gfs, and I know that they like it too. Took me some time but i learned to like my penis as it is, and it feels great!

And this kinds of discussions helped me out, along with some guys in movies with banana gifts too.. ;)

Ye I guess there are other more enjoyable things than worriing about it, missing all the great stuff and nice girls or boys !

cheers y'all

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010):

Well, it's a great help to accepts one's self. Thank you guys. We are rare I think but not nearly extinct.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010):

My Husband too has a curved penis and its the best sex ever. never will I go back to an ordinary penis again. I am pretty damn sure his penis is the only one i will need for the next 30 years.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010):

Thanks everyone for the awnswers. I was really self conscious about my penis but now I feel pretty good about it and hopefully when ihave sex for the first time that girl will go wild. But just one more question I wana know what postions are reAlly good for a downward curved penis. Please answer back. Thanks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010):

My husband has a downward curve to his penis. I'd never seen one like his before but I learned very quickly that I had been missing out all along! I love it! He pushes all of my buttons in all the right spots and after years of marriage I have ZERO complaints! Plus, I think his penis is special. Not just because he's my husband; but because it's not your everyday, run-of-the-mill upward pointing erection. It's rare and fabulous and veeeeery pleasurable.

Lastly, if a girl doesn't want to make love to you because of the shape of your member, then she wasn't worth making love to in the first place!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010):

my husband has a banana penis curved up. i LOVE IT it rubs my g spot. A hook penis as always been my favorite. LOVE IT LOVE IT LOVE IT

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2010):

Oh my! - curved is GREAT! Left, right, up, down...what's your number?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2010):

Ok, im nearly in tears here..... i am 20 years old and im still a virgin because my confidence and self asteem is soooo low because of my penis its unreal, my penis is about 5.9 in length and its curved upwards about 45°-50°, i thought it was always too little and too curved , i wouldnt even dare to go naked infront of a girl so what do i do ? i avoid the situation like that meaning i wouldnt have sex even if i got an offer probably. This post and answers probably saved me from being totally sexually unactive in ages :D , (40 year old virgin haha).

Thanks alot to everyone who posted, alot !

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A male reader, kooper1 Hong Kong +, writes (6 December 2009):

I have a banana penis that is upwards with no side curving...i always wonder why when i have sex, girls just cum like every 1 min or less; i thought that was normal. It was until this new person i'm having sex now that told me she never had such good sex until i came along because my penis hits the g-spot everytime...Also i got a big head that slightly curves as well...which she told me this is perfect because it acts as a "hook". Apparently she said I can do positions that normal penis can't; while when i am doing normal positions i can hit spots that normal penis can't....As a result, everytime i have sex with her, her juices flow like crazy....like she needs to wipe some of the juices off because it overflows! She said she never had so much orgasm before(like 15+ for 10 mins)! So.....Don't worry! This is a gift!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2009):

my boyfriend also has a penis that curves down when its erects. but to tell you the truth its the best sex i've ever had

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009):

very enlightening, guys and dolls. i'm like that too, but my gf has never complained about it ever, so i guess its cool. i always thot it unique...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2009):

it straightens inside their vagina. no worries.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009):

yeah i'm the same guys. I had a incidnet where some girls offered me a cam session and i said yes, not realising that it was being recorded and sent round the school and i got the piss ripped out of me for it. ive never been confident about talking about my dick but im 16 in 2 weeks and i hope it dosent affect any relationships in the future. anyway guys this has really helped me and i feel so much better knowing that there are other people in the same position as me

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009):

Hello curved guys,

Im a dude and have the same penis (banana dick facing down)

Even though most dicks are probably straight or not curved like that, it makes you feel unique. Im 19 and still a virgin but was SO worried about this, that I looked into it like crazy because im also very shy. I've watched many porn videos with guys with the EXACT same penis and the women acted like it was normal and actually was moaning much more then other videos. Trust me if you need some more advice or videos, let me know, cuz after i watched it and seen how easy it is, i got way more confident. I also asked girls and they said they actually prefer a curved penis because its shaped differently and it reaches spots straight penises dont. Dude unles your girl says she cant do it, dont even worry about it. I use to be in your position scared like that and still now a littttttle scared, but look im on the other side now answering questions :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009):

OMG...i thought i was weird cuz of my penis. I've been told i have a big penis but thought it was weird cuz of the way it curved (just from x boy friends and porn guy have mostly straight dicks) but one of my girlfriends told me a banana dick is the best dick possible..i have a banana dick but it curves upward and to the left (which i find kinda funny cuz i'm left handed, but it seem;s lots of them curve to the left) wow...this makes me feel special.. GO BANANA DICK!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009):

wow im pretty young and my cuz has made fun of me alot for my banana penis. but readin all these has let me know its all natural.:)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009):

guys and girls... thanks for your answers and suggestions...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2009):

I too have a banana shaped penis, that bends downwards. I feel much better reading this because i thought it was a problem, i felt like a bit of a freak! I heard some kids at school making jokes about it, but i guess they're just missing out!

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A male reader, ununpentium1 United States +, writes (9 July 2009):

I've got a banana penis, and no problems with st8 or gay sex with any partners. Never any complaints from the curve. No, it's not diseased, and works fine. Enjoy it!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009):

Man I have the banana gift too, when I was younger I was a bit worried but since then Ive had tonnes of sex with lots of lovely ladies and all I can say is Ive seen alot of ladies orgasm so hard that they go into a spasm,loose all power from the waist down and some have even ejaculated bucket loads of love juice to which they swear they have never squirted before!

How much of a bend? Mine curves so that the head of the penis gets close to pointing to my toes; probs 55 degrees from parallel to the floor.

With no bend to the side at all, it should be able to do some pretty amazing stuff :D

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009):

Man I have the banana gift too, when I was younger I was a bit worried but since then Ive had tonnes of sex with lots of lovely ladies and all I can say is Ive seen alot of ladies orgasm so hard that they go into a spasm,loose all power from the waist down and some have even ejaculated bucket loads of love juice to which they swear they have never squirted before!

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A female reader, dawnonyou United States +, writes (1 July 2009):

Dear Top Banana: CALL ME! just kidding.

Seriously - you have nothing to be shy about. I'm lying awake at night missing my boyfriend's "banana", which curves to his left. I feel it's MORE satisfying than a straight penis, much like a "Reach" toothbrush. I got curious and googled for a woman's opinion, but all I've found is questions from men.

There's a character in the movie "Clueless" complaining about curved dicks... I just wanted to reach through the screen and slap her. Vaginas are not straight like tunnels. Your curve is actually an asset; I find it even helps me be more effective at fellatio, using the right angle.

Good luck!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009):

Hey all. Sorry to revive an old thread, but I've been reading this and I also have a bent wang, downwards. I'm 17 and naturally am very self conscious, however after reading this I feel much better.

Mine is kind of like a hook also; goes up a bit then down like 55 degrees; idk just a guesstimation. However the bend is not sudden, it's a smooth bend (hopefully feel really nice for the girl?)

Anyway, the main thing is that after always feeling worried about it, I will now just treat it as being unique and natural and hopefully my first sex partner will be able to appreciate it.

If she doesn't, well then she can get stuffed lol. She obviously doesn't know how to use it :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009):

I too have a downward curved penis! Like many i was embarrassed about showing it to people because i thought i would be one of those guys people laughed at! Well i promise you to most women its a blessing, i have never been told a bad thing about it sxually and the majority of them beg for it doggy style again and again, so rock that shit man!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009):

I also have a banana shaped penis...but I keep wondering whether its a problem?I mean does it have a disease or not? After reading this I feel better but I'm still not sure whether or not its infected?

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A male reader, PD Singapore +, writes (14 June 2009):

Hmmm.... Thank to the ladies who replied on 7 April 2008 and 12 February 2008. Now I know why my wife got horny whenever I stripped and reason(s) she enjoys almost every sexual intercourse with me for the past 15 years. I too have a banana-shaped penis, but not knowing its "power" until now. Thanks again, ladies.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2009):

Hey, I understand about the weirdnest. When I first saw my friends penis, 16 years ago I was like, what the HELL! I was thinking it was going to hurt.He is also nicely hung- not too big,but just right.He has a n-shape penis that is curved downward like an umbrella hook. Not slightly but all the way curve. It took sometime to get used to because I have always had a u-shape penis in my other longterm relationship.The one thing I noticed when he pulled it out-he was not nervous or scared about it-he may have been wondering what I was thinking, but he just played the role as...Here it is now come and get/or her comes daddy. (Women love confidence-its a turn on)

Him on Top

It takes a little adjusting going in if he's on top. After it's in it felt weird at first--after a while he was hitting all type of crap while he was in me, I've never felt it like this before. It was a wonderful feeling.

You on Top(girl)

If you are going to be on top, I will take the suggestion of the lady that said turn backwards and look at his feet. I could not get this one right, me facing him. It was a downside to me, because I like for him to be inside of me while I'm on top as he caters to "the girls". Practice makes perfect.

Doggie

Awesome. He gets all in the guts_like I said it hits all sorts of things in there. It goes really deep.

Oral (downtown)

This is an situation where you have to practice. It is very awkward upfront. You have to make adjustments. I have it down pack now, but it took sometime. He liked it regardless, it was just me being used to having the confidence of my skills with a regular penis...I just had to master this one. It's Mastered!

Summary-Guys-If you feel confident about what you have-you don't have to worry about what she thinks....You already got her mentally.If you are not, she will know and will not be turned on at all.

This is my experience. I hope this helps somebody.

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A male reader, lowis Lebanon +, writes (2 October 2008):

hey dude, look i have the same problem you are facing, my dick has the banana shape downward,and i feel so shy to ask a doctor if it is possible to make it straight by a medical surgery, and still worried if my new gf will not except my dick, but after reading the answers on your question, i start feeling better toward this problem

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A male reader, jay27 United States +, writes (7 June 2008):

I agree with many of the previous responders that you have nothing to worry about. My penis also has a downward (or banana) bend and it has never been a problem. It does it job fine in any position but one position my wife and I especially like is with her on top and facing my feet.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008):

dude relax...I have a banana too which leans to the left. It is no big deal I promise. Any woman who has a problem with doesn't know what to do with it anyways. If she really likes you she will love your penis. I promise there are many bigger things to worry about. Don't worry about what people think because your nanner will do a great job I promise.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

i love that type of penis, my boyfriend isnt straight and he can hit my g-spot just fine. Don't worry about it so much.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2008):

Im telling you right now that you are very lucky to have a banana shaped penis, it feels the best and hits the g-spot everytime. I have never been so satisfied by anything else.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008):

man nothing for you to worry about,mine is just as the same,it bend down and a bit to the right.it would be a prob if haveing sex in standing position,all the other position she is going to beg for more.so dont worry.also when it curve it satisfy a woman more cause the penis rub against the internal saide of the penis when moving in and out.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007):

ya mine doesnot bend 90 deg. downwards..it's like 45 deg. down..it's not irregular..and i have big sized penis..around 7.5..i thakyou all for helping me..i think iam ready to attack..lol..thanks again..i would really appreciate if some female reader answers the que..that way i feel much better..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007):

hey i hav the same problem with my penis except myn goes slightly to right and down i thort i was weird but after reading up about it its perfectly normal i guess

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2007):

some women would kill for a banana penis. see it as a gift.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007):

Yo homie when I was younger I use to worry about the same thing but I am here to tell you that woman will be love it. It is a good thing you have nothing to worry about. I think you might know that by now.

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A male reader, Patrick gspot hitter United States +, writes (12 September 2007):

You're a lucky guy like me. I have a bent penis that bends almost 45 degrees up. This is why I have a lot of single and married woman calling me for sex. Not only am I a true 8.1 inches and exactly 6 inches around with a huge head that swells way up when i get really turned on. BUT the best part is the bend let me say that again the best part IS the bend. It touches and stimulates the gspot no average shaped penis can. MANY MANY MANY MANY times I am told by women in a serious manor "that's the nicest cock I ever had" or "wow I never had an orgasm like that" I even have women passing out after multiple orgasms. SO as long as you penis is just bent or curved up and not zig zaged or bent 90 degrees or over your fine don’t try to straighten it one night you could hurt yourself. If you are zig zaged or bent 90 degrees or over you will need to seek medical help

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007):

You're a lucky guy like me. I have a bent penis that bends almost 45 degrees up. This is why I have a lot of single and married woman calling me for sex. Not only am I a true 8.1 inches and exactly 6 inches around with a huge head that swells way up when i get really turned on. BUT the best part is the bend let me say that again the best part IS the bend. It touches and stimulates the gspot no average shaped penis can. MANY MANY MANY MANY times I am told by women in a serious manor "that's the nicest cock I ever had" or "wow I never had an orgasm like that" I even have women passing out after multiple orgasms. SO as long as you penis is just bent or curved up and not zig zaged or bent 90 degrees or over your fine don’t try to straighten it one night you could hurt yourself. If you are zig zaged or bent 90 degrees or over you will need to seek medical help

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2006):

I think I do have a penis shaped much like you have described yours. I thought it would be a problem. One thing I have discovered is that I do not feel much sensation in missionary postion, but great sensation when I have the woman in a position her back is to me. Now, I do not know if it is because it is my sensation or my penis poking the right places, but my partners find this position sensational. I have had experiences of girls complaining I hurt them in missionary position, but never in the position I attack from the back. I reach their g-spots easily from the position.I You may want to try those positions and their variations, which include the doggy style, her sitting on top of you facing your legs, or her sitting sideways.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2006):

Well! I think this is no problem what so ever. Although I have never experienced a curved penis inside me, I have seen them and let me tell ya........My observations have concluded that the more curved the bigger the package. Way to go! I have no problem with this type of meat on a guy and neither should anyone else. I hope I have helped.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2006):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

i thank you all for answering me...i thank you all for ur precious time..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2006):

thanks to everyonr for answering

i thank u all

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A male reader, thinkbetter +, writes (21 January 2006):

Hey man this is not a major problem, it's simple don't

think much. ENJOY!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2006):

Don't think much about this Simple problem, you will definitely enjoy sex as normal person, my friend also have the same problem and he is now enjoying sex with her wife.

So do'nt be panic with your GF.

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A female reader, loni +, writes (4 January 2006):

as long as you dick functions, and your not a limp dick there should be no problem, it will fit in any woman, I'm sure, and defiently won't feel like a banana...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2006):

my friend was with her boyfriend for over 7 months, and he had a banana shaped penis. it took him 2 months befor he would get naked infront of her,and when he did and seen that she wasnt botherd, there sex life was great!and also told me that it was the best sex shes ever had. so there is light at the end of the tunnel.good luck :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2006):

I know this guy who everyone would joke around and call him captin hook his penis looked like a hook when erected he never seemed to mind neither did anyone else.Goodluck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2006):

i wouldnt worry 2 much if a girl likes u then they shouldent mind 2 much

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2006):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks for sugessition

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2005):

No worries,if a woman really love sex and she's definitely hot to you,she just want that cock to get inside...

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A female reader, Tinkz South Africa +, writes (27 December 2005):

Tinkz agony auntComing from a girl, when the heat is there, the last thing a women is interested in is what it looks like, if the foreplay is really good then all she wants is to have you put it in.

I have a complex to, I have an inverted nipple, so my solution is i do it in the dark and/or if i am really comfortable, i'll tell him, and now he sees it as a challenge to see if he can make it perk.

Truth is, everyone has problems in one way or another, some more clear than others but no matter how bad, if the person you with really likes you, she won't have a problem with it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2005):

it is true what mommyofthree rote...its how you use it not how it looks..if all else fails "Do it in the DARK'....

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A female reader, chloe +, writes (27 December 2005):

hey don't fret about it i no that it is easier said than done but seriously it should make no difference i think that you need to get comfertable in your own skin,then you will be more comfertable and at ease with your penis.

lifes too short to be worrying about these kind of things, trust me in this pne and let me no what you honstely think of my advice

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A female reader, mommyofthree +, writes (26 December 2005):

mommyofthree agony auntWhile most of the erections I have seen have been bent more upward toward the stomach I will assure you that only a rare few have been perfectly straight! I do not see why it would not satisfy a woman. Honestly it is not as much the penis as the persons skill level at working what they have that satisfies women. Most women climax during clitoral stimualtion much more commonly than vaginal. If you find that women say it feels different, try having them on top facing away from you, because of the way your penis bends this will put the head rubbing in the area of her g-spot, which is very hard for a straight penis to do! Don't worry so much, I am sure you will find that when you get someone in your room she will not be evaluating your penis angle! Good luck.

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A female reader, Faders_Girl United Kingdom +, writes (26 December 2005):

Faders_Girl agony aunthi, my boyfriend has a slight curve in his penis, and i have excellent satisfaction from it.

the womans vagina is not straight it does curve, so you will probably give a partner in the future the time of her life lol. I wouldnt worry about it too much, i know its a very worrying thing for a bloke, i aint saying that i understand as i dont have a dick but i can see why you are worried. you said it curves downwards, it maybe slightly uncomfortable for a woman in the missionary posistion as she curves the other way, my suggestion to you is, turn her over, she'll love it! i hope i have helped even if its a little. good luck honey.

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