Violent Girlfriend then gets her family to threaten me...
Q. My girlfriend is a really heavy drinker and is often violent towards me, her friends and even total strangers when she is drunk, she has promised to do something about her drinking many times but never does, its clear she never will. A few wee...
A. 15 December 2008: I hate how if a girl hits a guy, it ok and basically no one cares, but if a guy hits the girl everyone wants to drag him to jail. No one should be punching anyone. You both are wrong for fighting, but she obviously has provoked you for a long time, ... (read in full...)
I want sex with my cousin but she says no.... what to do???
Q. Hi my name is jaan, iwant to have sex with my cousine sister.whenever i tried to seduce her she refuses. i am very cofused and frustrated. please help me. Thanks...
A. 15 December 2008: I agree with boredatwork... She said no, so there's really nothing you can do.... (read in full...)
Am I pregnant?
Q. I started the pill almost 3 weeks ago and I took it correctly (on the first day of my period) so that it was more effective and I've been taking it at the right time everyday. When I'd only been on it for 3 days or something me and my boyfriend of 8 ...
A. 15 December 2008: You could probably go to your doctor, or look on the back of the box/container, etc. to see if it says anything about how long you have to take the pills before they are effective. You would think it would be right when you take it, but I've never ... (read in full...)
What makes a life better?
Q. Hello all, Ok, im 19 years old male. Still virgin and never had a gf before. Actually i dont care about virginity, lonelyness hurts alot more. Ive got the worst of everythink u can think of. First of all im pretty short, only 5ft nd 9. I know gir...
A. 15 December 2008: I'm not sure exactly what you mean by your question... Do you mean change how you look, your attitude, or just change your life in general? First I really want to address your height issue that's not really an issue at all. Some girls do like tall ... (read in full...)
I'm completely scared that I might be pregnant.
Q. i had sex with my boyfriend and we used a condom and he sayed it didnt rip but im just really scared in case it did and hes not telling me.he wasnt inside me for too long but it was for about 10 minutes. he did come though. im due my periods soon ...
A. 12 December 2008: The main reason pregnant women have to pee more is because the baby is pressing on their bladder, so it's probably all in your head as far as peeing goes. Stress can mess up when you get your period so try to calm down a bit, maybe when your period ... (read in full...)
I can't match up to his ex and that scares me!
Q. hey guys need some serious advice as i dont think i can feel any worse then i am at the moment... ok so here goes... I recently got together with a guy who got together with me after a long open relationship... after i got with him i found out ...
A. 12 December 2008: I don't think it's your fault at all, he really should have told her he had a girlfriend from the beginning, then maybe she wouldn't have text him, as much anyway. A 4 yr relationship is a long time to date someone, so she's probably just texting ... (read in full...)
What visual characteristics are guys attracted to?
Q. What are some visual characteristics that get guys attention in a good way? Such as clothing, hair, make-up etc. What are guys attracted to? more skin/ hair down-up etc. I know to be myself... just asking for opinions that can help.. that I m...
A. 12 December 2008: You might have been hoping for a guys perspective on this, so sorry, can't help you there ;) but I think every guy is different, I have this really good friend that hates it when girls wear makeup, he wants them to be natural. And trust me, he is a ... (read in full...)
Should I reveal my true identity to my crush?
Q. hello i have had a crush on a guy for a year and my mate gave me his number. he knows who i am but he doesnt know that i have his number. he has said that he thinks i am good looking in the past and i have been texting him (he doesnt know its ...
A. 12 December 2008: It doesn't sound like your good friends with him or anything, if you were he most likely would have given you his number a while ago, so there's really nothing to lose if he doesn't like you. And if he does, that's good then you guys can get ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend Wanted To Take A "Break"
Q. This is a VERY long story. And I'm not sure if I can get proper answers without starting from the top and explaining as much as I can... My boyfriend and I met in Feb 2008, and were a couple by the end of March 2008. Shortly after becoming a coupl...
A. 12 December 2008: Even though your question was very long, it's really hard to tell exactly what's going on because I don't know you or this guy. But to me, it sounds like he doesn't want to date you anymore, he's probably just one of those guys that has a hard time ... (read in full...)
I really don't want hurt my best friend, and really don't want lose him.
Q. Hello everyone. Sorry that this is a rather long story, but I am desperate for some outsider opinions. This summer I learned that my best friend had feelings for me since last year, but since I had a boyfriend last year he didn't think that we ha...
A. 12 December 2008: I think it's really sweet that you are actually considering not dating someone to spare your friends feelings. But even if you turn this guy down, there will be other guys that are going to ask you out, and you can't reject all of them so your ... (read in full...)
In love with my best friend, engaged to my baby's father.
Q. Very long, sorry. I've been in a "relationship" with my boyfriend for 5 years. On and off. Whenever we would break up, it was always him telling me he didn't want to be with me. In vain, I always managed to get him to come back. But for him, it ...
A. 11 December 2008: Not getting married is not denying Aaron his father, it's doing what's best. And I'm sure you'll have joint custody, so it's not like you're trying to take your son away from his father.
You need to do what your heart tells you, are you really g... (read in full...)
I hate French Kissing but my boyfriend tries to choke me with his tongue!
Q. I don't like French (or 'tongue') kissing. I am almost 30 years old and have never liked it. I don't like wet sloppy kisses and on top of that I have a very small mouth. My boyfriend insists on ramming his tongue into my mouth every time we kiss for ...
A. 11 December 2008: Maybe you wouldn't mind as much if he didn't just "ram his toungue into your mouth" as you put it. I don't think anyone would enjoy that. Idk of any other advice to give you except, he kind of sounds like he doesn't know how to kiss you in a way ... (read in full...)
Doubts over long distance relationship....
Q. For the past month or two I have been having serious doubts about whether to proceed with my long distance relationship of 3 years. I used to feel like there was no doubt that this man was my soulmate and we'd both look forward to our future ...
A. 4 December 2008: Ok don't take offense to this, but it just sounds extremely weird and a little creepy that he would tell you he would kill himself if you guys broke up, and also that even if you wanted out he still would never stop trying to win you back. It's kind ... (read in full...)
To stay friends, or risk the friendship for something else?
Q. Hello aunts, I'm looking for advice as to a very strange situation for me. Question is at the very bottom, but I really feel that a story is needed to highlight why this warrants anonymous help. I'm 17, go to an international school in Britain....
A. 4 December 2008: I had that same problem with one of my guy friends. I flirted a little and found out he liked me too. So you never know, try flirting with her a little and see what she does, at first she might not do anything since you said it would be out of ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend isn't calling/texting...
Q. Thanks for anyone spending the time to answer my question. I'm 17 and I'm dating an 29 soon to be 30 year old guy. I'm in college , so this takes away the "still living with my parents" factor Nobody knows about our realtionship. If my parents ...
A. 1 December 2008: I think you should definitely move on and date other guys. You said it was only 2 dates, so no big deal, it's not like it'll be hard to forget about him. Kind of sounds like he's just busy, or maybe he just doesn't want to go on another date. But ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be with some one who doesn't love me or doesn't want to be with me.
Q. I've been with my girlfirend for all most 2 years now but she never has the time of day for me, whenever I try to get to see her she always "says" she working but I ask all the time every day and she still says they ask them first when one day I ...
A. 1 December 2008: Kind of sounds like maybe she wants to break up with you but she doesn't know how or she doesn't want to have to tell you she doesn't love you anymore. It's unlikely that she loves you but won't make any kind of effort to see you in a 3 week period. ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to fall for him, but he is so young - what should I do?
Q. I have problem, I starting to fall for this dude, but he is young, its a 3 years differents n age. I know for sure that he liks me as well. But Im payin hard to get, b/c his so young. What should I do? ...
A. 28 November 2008: How old are you and how old is he? I agree with the previous answer, if he's 15 and you're 18, then obviously now is not the time to have a relationship with him. But if you're 21 and he's 18 then i don't see a problem. ... (read in full...)
Should I phone him or let it go?
Q. I broke up with my bf a few months ago and we remained good friends. The problem is that I still have feeling for him and I am finding it difficult to move on. I decided that cutting off all contact with him would be the best way to get over him and ...
A. 26 November 2008: I think sometimes it's better if you kind of stop hanging out with your ex so much (at first), but you probably don't have to completely stop all contact w/ him unless you really think you'll fall for him again &/or not be able to get over him at ... (read in full...)
Daughter's boyfriend comes over late at night. Do we trust them together?
Q. My 18 yr. old daughter's boyfriend likes to come over to visit, which we do allow but he comes over late when he works. We don't allow him to be here late when we have to go to sleep because we don't think it's appropriate for them to be left alone ...
A. 24 November 2008: I wouldn't trust them for a second! They're young, unsupervised, horny teenagers. My parents weren't as strict with me as they probably should have been, hence the name samsMOMMY!
Will he leave at 2am? I agree with a previous comment, will you... (read in full...)
I need to locate an ex, any suggestions
Q. Dear cupid, Please help... 2 years ago I was basically date raped and ended up pregnant. I was 15 at the time and he was 25( I didn't know that until I told him I was pregnant and it slipped). I'm in a relationship now and I really am happy bu...
A. 24 November 2008: If you google his name, his facebook, myspace, etc. will come up and you can find him that way. You can also see when his last login date was, that could give you some clue as to whether or not he's in jail.... (read in full...)
So ladies, hairy chest or not?
Q. So ladies, hairy chest or not? Im like Steve Carrell hairy, is that too much? I would prefer answers from high school and college girls, as that is my age. Thanks....
A. 24 November 2008: Basically if your hair is coming out of the top of your shirt, it's time to get a wax/shave. The whole caveman thing is really not cute. No hair looks a lot better.... (read in full...)
I don't know if he fell for me or if it's just my impression.
Q. Im 13 and one of my best friends is 16. Ive fallen for him but he dosent know. He says he dsnt want to get attached tht way since theres an age diffrence. Yet my gut feeling tells me he is already starting to fall for me. How can i tell he did or is ...
A. 24 November 2008: see? he probably does like you, he just doesn't want to date you right now because he has ethics and you're too far apart in age right now. you can just be good friends until you're a lil older. he sounds like a good guy :)... (read in full...)
People keep calling me frigid!
Q. I went out with a boy in my year for about 3 weeks and we didnt kiss, and we only hugged about once! He dumped me yesterday because he didnt think that it was going very well. But now everybody in my year thinks that i am frigid and now none of ...
A. 22 November 2008: I think maybe you should just give it some time. If a guy likes you, he won't not ask you out just because you didn't kiss your last boyfriend. It shouldn't matter.
You'll get a boyfriend again don't worry... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my cousin, and I don't know what to do.
Q. It's simple. I'm in love with my cousin. He's 21 and I'm 18. We met when I was 13, then again when I was 16. He lived in Florida, and I lived in Illinois. As soon as I went down there when I was 16, I was immediatly attracted to him. Face it he's ...
A. 22 November 2008: Ok don't get all freaked out or anything. You asked a question and you got an answer. Get over it. It's my opinion, that's what this site is all about right? Someone asks a question and people answer it? Ok so you don't like the answer, that's not ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my cousin, and I don't know what to do.
Q. It's simple. I'm in love with my cousin. He's 21 and I'm 18. We met when I was 13, then again when I was 16. He lived in Florida, and I lived in Illinois. As soon as I went down there when I was 16, I was immediatly attracted to him. Face it he's ...
A. 20 November 2008: You can't date your cousin, as much as you would like to, I'm sorry it's just wrong.... (read in full...)
He flirted and then didn't tell them I was his girlfriend... do I leave?
Q. hi...i have a question,..i have a live in partner for 8 yrs,and were happy and inlove,,but this past 2 months till now something change,he talk to me and tell me that he's flirting with other girls and the worst thing is " the other girls are my co ...
A. 20 November 2008: Flirting with girls is one thing, asking you to introduce him as your 'good friend'. No. No. No. Somethings going on there. You need to talk to him about it and tell him you're NOT going to introduce yourself as his friend, because you're not just ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my first date will be awkward!
Q. I am 14 and i recently started going out with a guy from school. i'm going to see a movie with my new boyfriend on the weekend, and im nervous! i guess its normal cause its like my first date with a guy, just the two of us, but im afriad its gonna ...
A. 20 November 2008: Going to the movies is just about the least awkward date you can have, don't worry! You don't have to think of funny things to say, and you don't have to keep the conversation going, all you have to worry about is watching the movie. It might be a ... (read in full...)
He's confused and now hes got me confused!! What am I to believe and do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend had been going out for four months and the relationship was perfect. Saw each other often (although not every single day), did things together so we weren't always stuck in and we both said we loved each other alot. Last frid...
A. 20 November 2008: I think he probably really does love you, but is afraid of commitment, maybe he's never been in a serious relationship before? I would give him the week, but I would tell him you guys have to meet in person to discuss it. As far as wondering if ... (read in full...)
Why did my cousin call me and turn on me the way she did?
Q. One day out of the blue my own cousin text my cell phone saying negative things to me. She said things that didn't make any sense, she was trying to argue with me over a boy I don't even like and if I did like him he stays right across the street ...
A. 20 November 2008: She's probably jealous that he always hangs out with you and never her. She's probably liked him for a while and seeing him hanging out with you all the time probably gets to her. But still, she really over reacted.... (read in full...)
I'm scared of what's going to happen when I go into labour!
Q. I'm about 8 months pregnant and I'm starting to get scared of whats going to happen when I go into labour. I'm only 15 and this is my first baby, I'm not sure if I will make a good parent and I'm kinda on my own. I live with my parents and my dad ...
A. 19 November 2008: I was in a VERY similar position a while back, except i was 17 when i had my baby(he is now 8 1/2 mo :) ). I felt the same way you do, i was all excited for a while, then at about 8 months i realized i'm actually going to have a child lol.
Have ... (read in full...)
How do I make sure the pregnancy test is accurate?
Q. Questions. Do I really have to wait until my period is due and missed before taking a pregnancy test. I think I may be pregnant and my cycle has just finished so do I really have to wait a whole month before testing or can I just wait a wee...
A. 19 November 2008: I'm not exactly sure what brand it is, but i know i've seen commercials that say their product will tell you if you're pregnant like a week before you're missed period. And I think some can tell you within like 1-2 wks.... (read in full...)
Why did my cousin call me and turn on me the way she did?
Q. One day out of the blue my own cousin text my cell phone saying negative things to me. She said things that didn't make any sense, she was trying to argue with me over a boy I don't even like and if I did like him he stays right across the street ...
A. 19 November 2008: That's really weird that she would just randomly call you and start yelling at you. Maybe she heard you did something with this guy and she likes him so she got mad? She might regret it later, but probably not if she still thinks you did something ... (read in full...)
I'm almost 17 and want to have a baby, but I'm worried what my Mom will say.
Q. Hi. Im 16, nearly 17 years old and i want a baby. Im in a very stable relationship with my boyfriend who i have been with for almost two years, and i just feel i am ready. at the moment i am living with my boyfriend and his parents as me and my mum ...
A. 18 November 2008: First off if you don't have a house/apartment and you don't have a job, DON'T have a kid.
And secondly, do you WANT to wake up in the middle of the night every 2 hrs to feed a SCREAMING infant? do you really WANT to be spit up on, never have a s... (read in full...)
Ladies and gentlemen, my sister is naive and making excuses.
Q. This one pertains to my sister more than me. just as a concerned brother. My sister is 20. She is a waitress just making ends meet and working her way through a community college pre-med program. about 10 months back she met this guy. The 30 year ...
A. 18 November 2008: Wow that's crazy and I'm not even sure where to start. You could go to the guy's house when you know he's at work and hopefully his pregnant wife will be home and you could tell her what's going on, she probably knows he's a jerk, but she might not ... (read in full...)
I'm really confused by the behavior of a girl I am interested in.
Q. I'm really confused by the behavior of a girl I am interested in. We have hung out a few times during the week but the last few weekends I've called her she never answered or called back. Last week she asked if I wanted to hang out with her but she ...
A. 18 November 2008: She was probably just really busy, she might mean to call you back but she forgets or is too busy. It sounds like that's the case if she called you and wanted to hang out then wanted to go out for coffee today, and you've already made plans to hang ... (read in full...)
Must I just be patient?
Q. My phone is temporarily off and I was talking to someone who I care about but when I asked him to come over my house he didn't show up, maybe he was busy but my phone has been off and he does work. I haven't really heard from him but I wonder if I ...
A. 18 November 2008: A lot of things could have happened to stop him from coming over, he just couldn't tell you because your phone wasn't working. I would call him when it's working again, and he might tell you why he didn't come, you might not even have to ask him.... (read in full...)
We broke up as I moved away, should I tell him I still like him and how?
Q. I went out with this guy for about 3months and I had to break up with him cause I moved to another state but I still like him I keep in touch with him what should I do?and how should I tell him that I still like him...
A. 18 November 2008: how long ago did you move? he probably knows you still like him if he knows you only broke up with him because you had to move.... (read in full...)
Why doesn't she just butt out?
Q. Okay I am a part of this youth choir and it's a lot of fun besides the politics which is like everywhere n all. There is this guy I really like and he's like 3 years older than me and this girl who is like 2 years younger than me so 5 years younger ...
A. 18 November 2008: when choir practice is over you could casually mention you guys should hang out sometime and he'll probably say yeah and you could exchange #'s that way when you're talking/texting, that girl won't be able to butt in because she won't be there :) I ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if a guy likes you from reading body language?
Q. Hello everyone I've heard that you can tell if a guy likes you from body language... but I don't know the signs.... so if anyone out there could tell me anything about this subject I'd really apppeciate it :) thanks ...
A. 18 November 2008: basically self explanatory, i.e. if he hugs you, puts his arm around you, always wants to talk to you, stares at you, you can just tell he likes you. or if he never talks to you, doesn't ever look at you, not interested etc. he obviously doesn't ... (read in full...)
She says he won't get to see his child if he ever leaves him.
Q. I'm in love with a guy who has a bbaby mama. She threatens him with not being able to see his baby if he leave her. He's not happy at all but he's scared to leave... I love him so much I have his name tatooed on my body and I want to become his ...
A. 17 November 2008: Ok well first of all the baby mama does not make the decision whether or not he sees his baby, the courts do. So just the fact that she even threatened that is ridiculous. He needs to just leave her and take her to court, and he DEFINITELY needs to ... (read in full...)
I feel resentment towards her for breaking my heart in this way.
Q. I fell in love with a girl around 6 months back. On one of the first few times I met her. We became good friends and I asked her out a few weeks ago, she said no. It was heart-breaking to say the least and I think about what I could have possi...
A. 17 November 2008: I'm going to attempt to put this in the nicest possible way so i'm sorry if i offend you. it kind of seems to me like you're REALLY over-dramatizing it. i link arms, ask how they're doing, etc. to my friends but that doesn't mean i like them as more ... (read in full...)
I don't know if he fell for me or if it's just my impression.
Q. Im 13 and one of my best friends is 16. Ive fallen for him but he dosent know. He says he dsnt want to get attached tht way since theres an age diffrence. Yet my gut feeling tells me he is already starting to fall for me. How can i tell he did or is ...
A. 3 November 2008: 3 yrs is usually not a big age difference, but if you're 13 and he's 16, it kind of is. He might really like you and not want to be with you bc you're way younger. Or he could not like you at all and just see you as a little kid. It's hard to say ... (read in full...)
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