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*naldia
writes:My phone is temporarily off and I was talking to someone who I care about but when I asked him to come over my house he didn't show up, maybe he was busy but my phone has been off and he does work. I haven't really heard from him but I wonder if I should move on or should I still try to keep in touch with him. When my phone gets turned back on how will he know because I don't want to call or text him as soon as it comes on because I don't want to be desperate. Do you think we will last? Must I just be patient?Please give your thoughts. Thanks
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reader, samsmommy +, writes (18 November 2008):
 A lot of things could have happened to stop him from coming over, he just couldn't tell you because your phone wasn't working. I would call him when it's working again, and he might tell you why he didn't come, you might not even have to ask him.
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reader, LonelyButNotAlone +, writes (18 November 2008):
 I'm assuming that when you say your "phone has been off," you mean that you ran out of minutes or were waiting for the month to roll over so you could use it again?
If your phone has been "offline," he might have had to cancel meeting up with you at the last minute but had no way of getting in touch with you to let you know.
Also, it's not "desperate" for you to send him a text or call him up when your phone is turned back on. It's simply a matter of courtesy. Just say something like "Sorry it took so long for my phone to come back online! What happened the other night?"
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