I don't know if he fell for me or if it's just my impression.
Q. Im 13 and one of my best friends is 16. Ive fallen for him but he dosent know. He says he dsnt want to get attached tht way since theres an age diffrence. Yet my gut feeling tells me he is already starting to fall for me. How can i tell he did or is ...
A. 24 November 2008: see? he probably does like you, he just doesn't want to date you right now because he has ethics and you're too far apart in age right now. you can just be good friends until you're a lil older. he sounds like a good guy :)... (read in full...)
I feel resentment towards her for breaking my heart in this way.
Q. I fell in love with a girl around 6 months back. On one of the first few times I met her. We became good friends and I asked her out a few weeks ago, she said no. It was heart-breaking to say the least and I think about what I could have possi...
A. 17 November 2008: I'm going to attempt to put this in the nicest possible way so i'm sorry if i offend you. it kind of seems to me like you're REALLY over-dramatizing it. i link arms, ask how they're doing, etc. to my friends but that doesn't mean i like them as more ... (read in full...)
I don't want to look silly by telling him I like him when I don't know if he feels the same way!!!!
Q. I really like a guy I met on holiday in July. He showed me around for a few days and other days he sent his friends because he was working. we are now very good friends and speak online, less now due to exams. otherwise we would talk for hours. ...
A. 17 November 2008: maybe you could kinda flirt with him a little and see what he does. he might be in the same position you are, doesn't want to say anything in case you don't like him, and he doesn't want to mess up the friendship. how far away does he live? he might ... (read in full...)
Problems with husband's ex-girlfriend (mother of his son)
Q. Hi. I have been married to my husband for 2 years now. He has a 9-year old son with an ex-girlfriend. They broke up when their son was 3 but the ex still expects my husband to help her out with her own finances as well as to help her family. The son ...
A. 17 November 2008: i think you're right. it's not like she has the son living with her and she's trying to get child support, she has him 2 weekends a month and the help she's asking for has nothing to do with her son so why would your husband have to pay for that?
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How can I keep my teacher in my life?
Q. Ok well first off I will refer to my teacher as Mr. Chemistry because it's less confusing for me that way. Anyway, I have had this teacher for several years now and he is also my class advisor. We have grown pretty close and I spend almost eve...
A. 13 November 2008: I think it's awesome that you feel this way about your teacher. You guys could email eac other after you graduate or you could stop by the school to have lunch with him after you graduate, etc. ... (read in full...)
I'm embarrassed that when I get into a relationship, she'll think I'm a loser.
Q. Hi im 23 years old and unfortunately still a virgin ive never had a girlfriend and barely have any experience. Its especially embarrassing because on paper I mean there is no reason why I shouldn’t of had a girlfriend…I mean people say funny, ...
A. 13 November 2008: I don't think you have any reason to worry. If you are what you say you are, smart, cute, funny, etc. then someone will see that and like you for it. You sound like the kind of guy that girls wish they had. Being a virgin isn't a bad thing.... (read in full...)
Should I call or text him? I want us to be friends.
Q. ive broken up with my boyfriend of over a year for various reasons. mainly the fact that i felt more like we we friends. he also did things that were strange, like calling me from a private number, and lied to me at the start of our relationship...
A. 13 November 2008: I think one of the reasons he didn't take it well is because of the way you broke up with him. Text? Seriously you should never break up through text unless you were dating for less than a second. I would consider going to his house when you know ... (read in full...)
He says I'm being silly, but am I?
Q. I dont know my man anymore... Last night he really embarressed me infront of friends. we went to our friends and i cooked dinner. while at table my friend got up and asked if my man wanted a drink, he was talking and talkin to the guy ne...
A. 13 November 2008: I don't think something like that would be enough to end a 9 yr relationship. Sometimes when you're living with someone it gets irritating because they are all you see and you get a little snappy sometimes maybe because you're in need of a break.
H... (read in full...)
Why do guys and girls never understand each other?
Q. Why do guys and girls never understand each other? I thought I had it figured but I am dead wrong. please help......
A. 13 November 2008: No one knows lol. Have you ever heard the phrase, "Girls use sex to get love and guys use love to get sex"? I think part of it might be because we're on 2 different playing fields. I'm not saying that phrase is always accurate, but it seems to be ... (read in full...)
Should I I let the best thing that has ever happened to me disappear or should I tell him how I feel?
Q. I finished with my boyfriend in in July. We had been going out for 6 months and I loved him soo much. I was soo happy with him because he would do anything for me. He meant the world to me but then we started to argue and then my grandad died and ...
A. 13 November 2008: If you really do love him then for the love of God tell him! I lost someone I love from just not telling him how I felt and I regret it every day. Call him, text him, email, w/e just tell him!... (read in full...)
What do I say to him? I'm inexperienced.
Q. my online (ex) boyfriend brokeup with me 4 months ago. i now have a new online bf of ? months and he started getting a bit sexual. i wasnt sure how to reply. im not allowed to date so i dont really have much experince with guys... what do i say if ...
A. 12 November 2008: i'm not really a big fan of internet dating just because you really have no clue if you're talking to a 10 yr old girl or a 60 yr old man. for all you know he could be some pervy old man. but now that i've lectured you i can answer your question :) ... (read in full...)
I think my doctor took my virginity! Should I press charges?
Q. i think mydoctor took my virginity!i was a virgin and i went to the doctor for a pap spear and a swab exam.when I told the doctor to be gentle because i was a virgin his whole facial expression changed.he was going to fast.he didn't care if i was ...
A. 12 November 2008: I know you probably feel like he took your virginity, but that's NOT possible. Fingers can't take away your virginity. I know it probably felt like it did because you were in so much pain, but i have had 2 pap smears, one done by a lady and one by a ... (read in full...)
How can I let him know that I like him?
Q. Hey, I really really need some help. I am totally head over heels for this guy I know, he's only a couple of months younger than me, and totally gorgeous. He's got a lovely personality and a great sense of humour. He's tall, dark and handsome, with ...
A. 12 November 2008: I think you should tell him what you just told us in the last paragraph, without freaking him out. sometimes people don't realize how important they might be to someone until you tell them. I screwed up a possible relationship a little over a yr ago ... (read in full...)
Are there any laws that state about age gap dating?
Q. Are there any laws that state about age gap dating? person A is 16 person B is 37 can you help?...
A. 12 November 2008: ok from your age, 36-40, it's pretty obvious that you're the one that wants to date a 16 yr old although i REALLY hope you don't. I don't live in the UK so I don't know what the laws there are. But here in Florida you would SO be arrested for that. ... (read in full...)
What are these stomach pains every morning and how can I stop being so paranoid about them?
Q. I have a major problem. Every single morning I get up my stomach always has some kind of pain and every day I feel like I'm gonna get my period but instead it's just like a clear goo like discharge. But every day something is coming out of me ...
A. 12 November 2008: i wish i could say something that would help you but i really can't. the only thing i have for you is that you really need to go see your dr.... (read in full...)
Is this teacher behaving innappropriately? Or just being friendly?
Q. Long story cut rather short, I have the best friendship with my ex head of year. He know alot about one another, can read read me like a book! We have a very mature and brilliant relationship, some students actually envy as he is an amazing man. ...
A. 12 November 2008: ok when you said he blows you kisses it kinda made the hairs on the back of my neck stand up..... creepy. i saw your age is 16-17. even more creepy. i totally agree with one of the other comments, those guys that are older and seem awesome and... (read in full...)
Need Validation Please
Q. I've been more alone than this - but never so lonely. I have absolutely nobody to talk to about this problem. When I was 15 I was infatuated with my best friend's older brother. If you were to read my diary it still has entries of only him. I was cr...
A. 12 November 2008: wow i really hate that people are still so freakin racist it's ridiculous. a couple of people in my family are still like that and i can't stand it. and no one can know if it's love or infatuation but you. so whoever says that is lying to you, ... (read in full...)
I don't know if he fell for me or if it's just my impression.
Q. Im 13 and one of my best friends is 16. Ive fallen for him but he dosent know. He says he dsnt want to get attached tht way since theres an age diffrence. Yet my gut feeling tells me he is already starting to fall for me. How can i tell he did or is ...
A. 3 November 2008: 3 yrs is usually not a big age difference, but if you're 13 and he's 16, it kind of is. He might really like you and not want to be with you bc you're way younger. Or he could not like you at all and just see you as a little kid. It's hard to say ... (read in full...)
The fact that this guy likes me is screwing up my work!
Q. ok, well i know this senior and we have never talked or anything but he likes me , ALOT. and i now this becuase he looks at me alot, he waites for me to look at him, he would get red in front of me. basicly girl intuiton. so know his friends are ...
A. 3 November 2008: ok im 18 so i've graduated and everything but it wasn't that long ago that i was a freshman and i am so sorry to break this to you but there's like a 95% chance that if a senior shows any interest in a freshman, he's tryin to get in your pants.... (read in full...)
How can I make her more relaxed about opening up to me??
Q. Well i have been dating my girlfriend for about a month now and really our relationship is honestly going no where because i really cant get her to open up and tell me things that are bothering her any suggestions as to how i can make her more ...
A. 3 November 2008: she's probably not telling you things because you've only been dating for a month and she might not feel comfortable telling you important things yet.... (read in full...)
My husband has had sexual thoughts about my little sister...
Q. hi i have been married now for five years and been with my partner for seven years. we have two lovely children. i myself made some mistakes at the very beginning of our relationship which we overcame. everything was wonderful and we were happy ...
A. 3 November 2008: That is extremely disgusting. The only almost ok thing here is that he told you. But still, that's you're little sister and you need to protect her, especially since she has no idea that he was thinking like that. I have an older sister and I'd like ... (read in full...)
Why would he do that if we're having a baby in 4 weeks?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years and I am 8 months pregnant. The day before yesterday he got a text message from his ex that said "why would you send me a text that says arm" I asked him what she was talking about he said he didn't ...
A. 27 October 2008: first i wanna say congrats! having a baby is the most exciting thing you'll ever go through.
as far as your question....
wow i think i'm just as confused as you are.
how long were him and his ex dating and who broke up with who? that could make ... (read in full...)
Please help, I cant figure it out... am I being weird?
Q. I'm pregnant, I have been with my boyfriend for a year, he wants me to get rid of it, but I'm against abortion, and have even protested against it, it will go against everything I've stood for, but I am only 17. Should I give up what I stand for ...
A. 27 October 2008: I understand how you're feeling, i was pregnant at 17 also. from my screen name you can probably guess that I kept the baby and named him samuel :)
first of all why would your boyfriend want you to kill your baby? maybe i'm wrong but it sounds like... (read in full...)
We're 15, we consider ourselves married but our parents don't wants us to be together and I hate them for this! I'm thinking about running away!
Q. Okay, let me start by saying I hate my parents! Now I'll explain why. I'm 15 and so is she. About 2 months ago I asked my girlfriend to marry me. We've never actually had sex but it has gone up to me giving her oral, she's never given it to me ...
A. 13 October 2008: How long have you guys been dating? That could be one of the many reasons your parents are against it. A lot of people (adults as well) will date for 2 seconds then decide they love each other and want to get married. Your parents are probably just ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is going too fast and won't listen to me when I tell him to stop!
Q. I'm 14 years old and my boyfrined is the same age. I had never really had a boyfriend before, and I am still a virgin. I'm really innocent and have never done anything bad, I never even kissed a guy. Then about 3 weeks ago we started going ou...
A. 13 October 2008:
One of the reasons he might have kept doing it after your brother left is he might have thought your brother is the one that didn't like it, not you.
So you need to be very clear and make sure he knows that you have a problem with it.... (read in full...)
Age difference - I need your advice please!
Q. I'm 13, And I'm in love with a 21 year old guy. I know it sounds really stupid, but please hold off the lecture until what I'm writing is comepletely read. I KNOW the guy, He's been my best friend (We're gamer geeks) For two years, and just ...
A. 13 October 2008: I think that you should choose a time when you KNOW he will hear you and listen and tell him you're 13 and see what he does. If he says it's ok or he doesn't care, he's a freak. Any grown man that is even halfway interested in dating a 13 yr old g... (read in full...)
I want a baby badly...but I'm too young. Do other girls experience this?
Q. Ok well im 16 and have been getting some really weird feelings recently. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I have started getting real serious urges for a baby. Its not just a fad thing I have always wanted one to devote my life to. My ...
A. 13 October 2008: I had a baby when i was not quite 18 and i was still living w/ my parents (boyfriend is out of the picture) and it was very stressful. I share a room with my son, and although it's a big room, it's still very cramped. I lost my job in July and ... (read in full...)
Should I fight to stay with the father of my unborn child? I feel depressed as he doesn't want me or his child.
Q. Should I fight to stay with the father of my unborn child? I love him so much and want this baby. He insists that he doesnt want to be with me and has been going out with his mates every night since he split up with me. I feel absolutely cr...
A. 2 October 2008: you shouldn't fight to stay with him if he says he doesn't want to be with you. just let him do what he wants to do as hard as it may be to do that. being single with a baby (which is my situation) is so much nicer than being with the father of your ... (read in full...)
I want a baby but my mum would kill me!
Q. I want a baby but im only 15. I'm not sure if my bf wants one but i think he does but i no if i get pergent my mum would kill me so what should i do???...
A. 2 October 2008: i had a baby when i was 17 and it is so not as glamorous as hollywood makes it look.
when i had my son and the nurses brought him to me in my hospital room they left him with me and all they said was if you get tired or want to take a shower j... (read in full...)
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