My boyfriend is cheating, pressuring me to have sex. I'm afraid he'll leave me if I don't give in
Q. I am 19 and even tho i know all my friends are having sex, i know it doesn't mean i have to but i'm getting a lot of pressure from my boyfriend to do it right now. The pressure seems to be more and more as the days go on. And I will be honest, i ...
A. 1 August 2017: "And after finding out that his other girlfriend is 3 to 4 months prego--i get that it could have been me. " -- No, it would have been two prego girls and one father, so one of you, or both, would have had a child without a father.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is cheating, pressuring me to have sex. I'm afraid he'll leave me if I don't give in
Q. I am 19 and even tho i know all my friends are having sex, i know it doesn't mean i have to but i'm getting a lot of pressure from my boyfriend to do it right now. The pressure seems to be more and more as the days go on. And I will be honest, i ...
A. 31 July 2017: I think you should let him go, not because he wants to have sex with you, but because he is cheating you. If he already cheated you 2 times, it's just the tip of the iceberg.
If you ideology is very important to you, he should respect that.
Don't... (read in full...)
I stayed through fear, now worried my life is over and his is just beginning again
Q. Ok I need some help to deal with something that I know is really silly so I need some support here please . I've been with my husband and father of my children for twenty years . Over the course of our marriage he has had a problem with pirn and ...
A. 29 July 2017: Please, go to a psychologist and get the help you need to handle this by a professional.
If you really want out, please, get out.
If you feel that your husband does not loves you anymore, then it's time to move on.
If he does not haves sex wi... (read in full...)
I like him but he doesn't stimulate me. Should I try again?
Q. Hi, I am under a lot of pressure by parents to get married, culturally, I'm old, 30. And my parents really care about whay others think. Anyways, I met a guy online. Sweet, untrustworthy guy, which is hard to find in a world full of untrustw...
A. 29 July 2017: GET AWAY FROM HIM, NOW. YOU ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO HIM I've known guys that try TOOOOOO HARD to "MATCH" and find compatibility with a girl. But you know what? Girls are smart, and they know right a way when a man is trying too hard, and is doing... (read in full...)
Sex isn't going well with her, any advice?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for the last few weeks. We have had sex twice, and both times there were problems. I have had a problem maintaining an erection during sex. When I do have one and enter her; She is so tight it hurts ...
A. 29 July 2017: My brother had the same problem with one of her partners. They ended braking up because she was so petite, and we have fat D genes, so I can understand the frustration he had. Intercourse resulted in tears every time. What happens to you is sexua... (read in full...)
Was I being used, by her ?
Q. I was dating a girl for 5 weeks – I felt there was something special there and every time we met there was always at least one point where we both laughed so hard we were crying. We even had cute pet names for each other (I called her peach). ...
A. 29 July 2017: LET HER GO MAN When a girl walks away so soon, it's likely that it found a flaw in you that it's a deal breaker. You see, many girls, whether they admit it or not, have a checklist of their so called Mr Right, so if you happen not to match one of ... (read in full...)
Feeling low in my life and I have no friends to share my problems or to spend time with..
Q. Everyone always says it hard to keep in touch with friends from school. And they are right.. I left school with a group of 6-10 friends... and now I hardly talk to any of them. We all parted different ways to live our own lives in the direction we...
A. 29 July 2017: IT'S 100% NORMAL As a rule of thumb, your college/school friends won't last too long after you graduate. Everybody grow up, and take different paths and ways, so you should move on and find yours. I'm 32, and I have only 1 o 2 meaningful frien... (read in full...)
I'm ok with my sexless relationship but my friends think it's weird
Q. Hi there , I have been with my partner a year and a half yet in all that time we have only had sex 10 times we cuddle kiss hold hands but nothing more he was honest from the start and said he wasn't very sexual, this is ok with me however my friends ...
A. 29 July 2017: If you are happy with the way things are, and your partner is fine with that, then there is no problem to be solved at all. I've been with my GF for 10 years, and we started both very horny all the time, then some dry patches like the one you were... (read in full...)
He wants us to get married but to keep it secret!
Q. Ok here is my story. My boyfriend of 7 months is asking me to marry him secretly in summer and not telling anyone because he wants to give his 14 years old child enough time to feel more comfortable. we want to buy a house as I don't want to move ...
A. 29 July 2017: Do you happen to earn more than him? If so, that could be a red flag. If you earn more than him, and if before you guys marry he "looses" his job and never works during the marriage, he is entitled to alimony if you ever get a divorce. If y... (read in full...)
I'm very happy in my relationship but why do I suddenly want to contact my abusive ex to tell him how awful he was to me?
Q. When I was 16-18 I dated an emotionally and physically abusive man who was a little older than me. My first time was with him and it wasn't something I wanted, but we were somehow together for a couple years. When it ended, it didn't properly end. . ...
A. 29 July 2017: DON'T DO IT. You are just going to open a can of worms, or worst, Pandora's Box.
You also need to look for a therapist that can help you deal with that issue you are having right now. You see, when people have been abused for a long time, and then... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a fetish for my work clothes, is that weird?
Q. My boyfriend has a fetish for my work clothes, is that weird? I work in an office and wear skirts and blouses on a daily basis. When I first started dating him he said he loved what I was wearing but recently it seems to have got even more intens...
A. 29 July 2017: 100% Normal.
Most men (and women) have some or several kinds of fetish.
I get turned on by looking at my GF in her swimsuits or yoga pants. We men are specially visual beings, and visual stimuli drives our engine.... (read in full...)
I need to tell him I only want casual sex, not a relationship!
Q. I met this guy on a dating app and we have been on two dates so far. I don't think he and I are compatible but he's very nice and good-looking. I cannot see a long-term relationship forming from this AT ALL, but would like to turn it into FWB if it ...
A. 28 July 2017: Answers for your questions:
Are you okay with girls initiating?
I'M 1000% OK with that. It's very sweet when a woman takes initiative, and gets the ball rolling. For us men, it's very hard to know the right timing and to read girls, speciall... (read in full...)
How do I leave this abusive relationship? He always finds me when I do leave.
Q. How do I even begin to leave an abusive realationship?? My partner has became very abusive in the last 9 months ( I know what your going to think .. why am I still with him after that amount of time) the answer is I'm sacred!!) what can I do?! ...
A. 28 July 2017: PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE RUN AWAY!!!!! DON'T TELL ANYONE WHERE YOU ARE GOING, JUST LEAVE, ESCAPE AS FAR AS YOU CAN. If you can't go anywhere else, go with your sisters, and tell her not to let him in. Call the cops if necessary. Place a rest... (read in full...)
I found a phone he'd been using to text a woman for 4 years!
Q. Hi I found a phone my husband had a few months ago he had been texting a woman for 4 years !! It was someone he had known 35 years ago and been out with a few times before he met me . He states that he thought they had slept together 35 years ago ...
A. 28 July 2017: Sounds to me that he does not loves you and emotionally cheated you.
If he treats you badly for no reason, it could mean it's time for you to move on. ... (read in full...)
Why did my husband marry me, (I'm slim), if he prefers more curvy woman when he watches porn?
Q. I am a slim enough (not too slim but not curvy chubby), my husbands porn preference is ALWAYS BBW or chubby women. Why?? I know it's his preference because we've talked about his sexual attraction to BBW women! And we sometimes watch porn together...
A. 28 July 2017: He married you because you are marriage material, and he probably is in love with the other qualities you have beyond your physical appearance.
He likes watching chubby girls on porn because that's his fetish, the same as the guys who love see... (read in full...)
I cant seem to crack the code to being happier, I am always miserable.
Q. I wanted to ask if someone else has struggled to be happy- I am a miserable person and as much as I try in therapy I just can't be satisfied. I worry a lot about what others perceive me and I please People. Sadly the only joy I have gotten is ...
A. 28 July 2017: Do you do exercise? If you don't, you have to start doing it NOW. I was a couch potato for most of my life, and for the past 3 months I have been working out and swimming, and although there are no visible results at all, I can assure you that I f... (read in full...)
He has ED, should I stay with him?
Q. I am planning to settle down with this guy as I really want kids (I've wanted them for years) and I'd like someone to help bring them up. I've been dating for a few months and found out that he has erectile dysfunction. I am not in love with him...
A. 28 July 2017: "I am not in love with him"
I think you just answered your question.
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Is a man without a big wallet a deal breaker for you?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have recently met a great man. We've been dating for a few months but we have met each other's parents because we are serious about each other. Recently though, my worries have been our financial status. He is a hard working chef a...
A. 28 July 2017: Hello, a male here. I started my relationship with my GF being poor and earning peanuts. Now I'm earning 50 times what I was initially earning when we started. My currently not much for US standards, but for Mexico's standards, it's a lot. My... (read in full...)
I'm taking care of an ill family member. I don't know how to stay calm, parents won't help
Q. I am caring for a family member who is here alone - she has fallen ill and I am the sole provider. I count the pennies because everything goes to paying for her to get better- my parents own to homes and in this moment of need they could help but I ...
A. 28 July 2017: Hello girl, Listen, I'm in that very same position you are. My parents are just exactly the same as yours, they are rich, but they are greedy and materialistic, zero empathy for others. On the other hand, it's me, and I take care of my girlfrie... (read in full...)
He wants to record us having oral sex and then send it to a friend?
Q. Been seeing a guy right, everything was great.. Until he asked me a few days ago to let him record himself giving me "oral" in the not so usual place..to send to his guy friend! Is this relationship between them normal? Do guys do this with their ...
A. 28 July 2017: Say NO, unless you want to end up on a porn site and it ruins your career and job prospects.
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He seemed to ask a lot of questions about my income!
Q. Dear Cupid; I'm in my 50's and unfortunately back in the dating world after my husband passed away years ago. I recently went on a meet and greet and the man asked me what year my car was, if I owned or rented, how big was my house. H...
A. 28 July 2017: THOSE ARE BIG FAT RED FLAGS, period.
IMHO, that guy is just another materialistic dude, that's only looking for an extra cash bag to boost his spending.
I would generally stay away from materialistic persons, and I would recommend you to stay ... (read in full...)
He's fun but I'm feeling used
Q. Hi everyone. This divorced - with - 2 - kids guy I met described himself as financially comfortable but I am always paying and he says he 'would pay if he could/ will pay next time/when a big deal comes through? When I asked whether he would...
A. 28 July 2017: RUN FOR THE HILLS
No self-respected man will allow a girl pick the tab every time. The most equal thing would be 50-50 , on my case, I take the tab 100% of the times which I really don't mind.
A guy that let's the woman pay for everythi... (read in full...)
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