Why do girls look for robot guys?
Q. Why every girls hate emotional guys? Why they look for robot in guys? Would anyone like to guide me on this? Zahir, Pakistan...
A. 29 September 2009: Hey zahir, Im pakistani too, but born and raised in America. I might help you out with this one because I know both sides! Here's the deal: Pakistani guys think they are bollywood film stars, STOP THINKING THAT! Bollywood men are so emot... (read in full...)
I know he doesn't want a relationship so whats going on?
Q. Hey! Im sorry for the length of this but i really need some help for my own benefit. I met someone must be two years ago now and liked him for a year and a half.I've never ever wanted a bf, yea ive liked someone but never thought anymore of it ...
A. 25 September 2009: u needa move on, u dont need that in ur life!... (read in full...)
Is he shy? Not into me? Unsure?
Q. I've 'dated' guys who want to get physical too soon and most often when I say no they just disappear on me. It hurts at the time but I get over it and realize they weren't worth much in the end anyway. Right now I've been on four dates with a guy...
A. 12 September 2009: OMG he's being a gentleman, seriously be more patient. He's getting to know your soul, let him take his time with that. He can get the physical from a prostitute if he wanted it that bad, he wants something SERIOUS which is why hes not getting ... (read in full...)
Does this sound like a problem I should just get over or a sign I shouldn't be with this man?
Q. I have a tendency to want what I can't have and it's really frustrating. I can't seem to help it, even when I know it's happening. For the past 6 months I haven't been able to stop thinking about this guy I'm sort of in a long-distance relationship ...
A. 7 September 2009: That sounds like me. I love a challenge, I love having to guess whether a guy likes me or not, when he tells me he does, its over. ALl the fun is gone. I feel like Ive got a man's brain in that case. Usually guys like to do the chasing, but i ... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with me or just the situations?
Q. I am 22 years old and I have never experienced a seriously relationship...okay, I do not think there is something wrong with "ME" just the situation. I can never be with the guys I really want and I have some guys friends tell me that they are ...
A. 7 September 2009: i feel the same way :( its sad. Hang in there, they say u will find mr. right. Im a year older than you, and I feel like I enjoy challenging guys who dont like me right away and keep me guessing. You should realize that a guy who cares about u ... (read in full...)
Why am I so desperate?
Q. So I have been on two dates with this guy. We seemed to really "click". We have spent the last two evenings together and I want to spend tonight together too. I know that if we do I will probably look desperate or clingy. I also like to ...
A. 7 September 2009: you sound like me. Read the book he's just not that into you, its kinda empowering. Dont text him, if he likes u, he'll text u/call u! If a guy likes u, he'll show u. It's tough, I know :( we're just supposed to sit down and wait for the guy. I ... (read in full...)
Is she showing me she's still free? Or just trying to make me jealous?
Q. I met this girl. Amazing. I met her on tour with my group and flew her out to stay with me a month after returning home. She was sweet to me in a way that I can say she is unequivocally the best girlfriend I've ever had. And this qualification I ...
A. 25 August 2009: prob makin u jealous, playing hard to get i think. I wanna do the same thing to a guy to make him chase me more but i dont think its very nice and its uneccessary info, its also childish to do this! i still wanna do it tho lol... (read in full...)
I need socialization tips.
Q. Hey, I'm a 14 year old guy and I'm going to be a freshman in high school. I'm real smart, and I'm not gonna boast or anything but I'm hot. The only thing is that I don't know how to get my "dream girl." She's always with someone else, and when she's ...
A. 11 August 2009: Please dont be concieted around her, girls are turned off by that and if she thinks ur just some guy who thinks hes hot shit, she'll think u've got nothing else going for u except ur looks, and most girls need a guy with a great personality. Be ... (read in full...)
My criticism has hurt girlfriend over years-- I've changed, need advice!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She is 23, I am 30. She has loved me very genuinely since almost the beginning. Very sweet, good-hearted, supportive, loving woman, who has expressed that she sees herself marrying me. We are a great ...
A. 11 August 2009: show her this post! That might be a start, and then TELL HER what ur telling us. Telll her you'd be willing to do whatever it takes. If I heard that, I'd be all yours!... (read in full...)
Is it okay for me to text her how I feel?
Q. There is this girl that I talk to every day and I love her but I don’t know how to tell her and when I finally decide to tell her I get scared of what she might say to me so I don’t tell her. Is it ok to like text her how I feel? I get scared ...
A. 31 July 2009: dont text, talk face to face! it makes it so much more meaningful and ur gonna like it better, if u get rejected, oh well, at least u can say u were semi-expecting it so its not too bad, but its worth the try!... (read in full...)
Help its my first time today!
Q. okay..today is the day i have sex with my boyfriend and i'm scared because i don't know what to do with him and he wants me to be on top and i don't know anything about sex and he does not want to be on top of me because he is going to be tried and ...
A. 28 July 2009: you're a baby! dont hav sex... (read in full...)
Why is he still in contact with his ex when she clearly is after him!
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for a year. His ex won't stop texting him. They had an on /off relationship for 2 years where she cheated on him a lot and eventually got pregnant by somebody else. They split up nearly 8 months before we met. ...
A. 28 July 2009: i agree with satindesire, this is a big red flag. You do not deserve this. And I know you're probably like, "well these people don't understand how much I love him and can't let him go," but I went through the same thing. My ex boyfriend was ... (read in full...)
For the Ladies: What do you mean when you say, "Hey, you're cute!"
Q. Dear Ladies and Girls, Would you please enlighten me, and many other men no doubt, as to what you ACTUALLY mean when you say to a guy the following:- "Hey you're cute". Thanks. ...
A. 17 July 2009: i say that to guys im usually not interested in b/c its easier to say it to them than to guys i like. ... (read in full...)
What if teachers had crushes on their students?
Q. Hello, all! I'm looking to hear from any teachers (female/male) out there or anyone.... Anyway... I've noticed that there are countless posts on this website of students declaring their love for teachers. What about if it was the other way ro...
A. 10 July 2009: I am a graduate student in the education field and have been teaching for a year now (I am 23) but look like I could be a highschool student. Yes, we are only 5-6 yrs older than you and we can easily be attracted to guys who look almost our age ... (read in full...)
I slept with my fiance's dad!
Q. I slept with my fiance's dad. Yes, I know what I did was wrong but I was very drunk at the time. Very, very drunk. My boyfriend was away on a training course at the time. I found out I was pregnant by his dad a few weeks ago. I feel a bit g...
A. 5 July 2009: you wanna live w/the gult that this baby isnt even ur bfs, ur bf will not b interested in raising a baby that belongs to his father, thats like ur bfs step brother, GET THE ABORTION!... (read in full...)
Do you think waiting is the right approach? Will ignoring him get him back?
Q. Hi everyone Thanks in advance for your advice. I am a 26 year old woman in the process of applying to medical school, and began dating a man, who recently turned 32. Our first date was in the first week of March, and it was quite possibly...
A. 30 June 2009: i hate men! why do they do this to us???? That story really hurt me, I can totally empathize with you. My friends say the same, it's supposed to be the guys move, he should text you first, if he does, it'll show that he is still interested in you, ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid he'll reject me when he sees what I look like
Q. I love a boy since previous year, he loves me too. The problem is we have never seen each other. We are in contact through mobile, now he is visiting my city and want to see me but I am very nervous because I am not so pretty as he thinks about me. ...
A. 30 June 2009: exchange pictures beforehand! Why havent you done this already?... (read in full...)
Do I have OCD? Am I gay?
Q. I am a teenage male, and I have had homosexual thoughts for the past four years. I do masturbate to gay porn, but I also masturbate to lesbian porn too. Its all confusing for me because it takes me longer to get sexualy aroused over women than it ...
A. 24 June 2009: yes, you have homosexual obsessive compulsive disorder, you have the same symptoms i do. please message me with questions, also check out: neuroticplanet.com for more information, Marc an open gay male who had ocd (about something else) will tell ... (read in full...)
Is he really just against LDR, or is he not into me?
Q. I know this is long, but I really need your help! :) A little back story: So I recently asked my "boyfriend" whether he would consider us to be dating or not. He said not really since school ends in 2 weeks and we won't see each other for 4 months...
A. 7 June 2009: if he cant do long distance over the summer, then he probably doesn't want you for the long run..if he cared, he'd do long distance...looks like ur going to have to say peace out to him, if he asks y, b like, i want someone who cares about me enough ... (read in full...)
How important is it that a girl is pretty?
Q. i`m wondering how important it is that a girl is pretty? i`m a 17 year old girl, and i have never been in a relationship. i`m really ugly (people have called me man-face and so on) and fat, and have no selfesteam what so ever. i feel really alone, ...
A. 29 May 2009: God doesn't create ugly creatures, everything made by Him is beautiful...it is you who can make the MOST of it or the least of it...I agree with 'mytwocents.' One thing you do have control over is your body, and you can work your ass off to make it ... (read in full...)
I'm told "you're pretty"..but I've never been kissed
Q. well latley iv been thinking is it weird that i am a middle schooler 8th grade who still has not kissed a guy my 2 best friends have not, one has a boy friend id love one but im really awkward around boys when it comes to crushes and all that. i ...
A. 28 February 2009: mine was 12th grade dont u worry... (read in full...)
Are women put off by skinny men?
Q. I know everyone has different tastes and personal preferences, but in general, are women put off by skinny men? I'm 22, and while I eat like a horse, I just have never been able to put on any tangible weight, and have virtually little...
A. 27 February 2009: i like em muscular-er...but skinny isnt too bad, i fell in love with a skinny guy, i wasnt looking at his body type, i was looking at the guy he was...I think most girls would agree we really put personality and a cute face over a hot body (hot ... (read in full...)
Not sure if I've had an orgasm or not
Q. ok im not sure if ive had an orgasm or not. when me and my bf mess around it feels amazing. so i guess i get orgasm very easily like that or im going to be extremely happy when i get an orgasm. i just wish i knew if what ive experanced is an orgasm ...
A. 25 February 2009: do u feel like ur whole body vibrated? like u just wanna relax afterward, that your clit feels sensitive and you cant touch it for a good 10 minutes because it'll hurt a little, do u feel like screaming with pleasure? if so, you had an orgasm, if ... (read in full...)
I need ideas for conversation with this guy, help?
Q. I teelin to these dude n we don't have mch 2 talk bout, so theres always this slight silences. So what do we talk bout. I need ideals or subjects bad!!!!!!!!!!!! Please help me...
A. 21 February 2009: ooo me too! i usually talk about my day, bring up a question about him him him, ask for his advice on something, politics, sports, entertainment are all great topics! read up on the news, talk about it. just about ur daily/life concerns, where u ... (read in full...)
How can I sound more intelligent when I'm talking to him?
Q. I feel kinda dumb around the guy I like, he uses all these big words, I wanna open up a thesaurus and build my own vocabulary so I can sound witty and smart, is that bad? Is he right for me if he's smarter than me? It's so attractive to me and I ...
A. 19 February 2009: thanks guys, your right I shouldnt stress it, and yes i do want to build my vocab and know more about the world (im not street smart at all) for myself. I think that I should really go with the flow with it without thinking, "okay, what big word ... (read in full...)
I read about sex all the time but actually doing it terrifies me!
Q. I am a virgin at 21. Am I a freak? I read erotic fiction books, own several toys and think about sex all the time but actually doing it terrifies me!please help....
A. 19 February 2009: im like u, 22 virgin but think about sex, like watching sex but wont do it, cuz ill do it after marriage, il ike this deccision, have u had oral? or no type of sex at all? Ive done some things just not sex sex, i dont think im missing out on much, ... (read in full...)
Short girl tall guy?
Q. How do tall guys 6'3/6'4 feel about short girls? I'm 5'1 and I've been feeling really insecure about it lately b/c the guy I like is around 6'3-6'4 hes a giant..how can I kiss him? is it strange to u guys if you were with a short girl? how do u ...
A. 19 February 2009: hi anonymous that makes me feel better..i was dating a guy that was 6 ft. he had no problem with it, and it didnt bother me...but this guy is 6'3/6'4 thats HUGE...thats a good 3-4 inches more than wat i was dating (and he was tall enough) I dont ... (read in full...)
15 and wanting a baby!
Q. I'm 15 years old, and my boyfriend and I have been trying to have a baby for three months. My boyfriend is 18, and we both have agreed we're ready. We already live together. I don't have to worry about dropping out because I do online schoolin...
A. 18 February 2009: I personally think that when you want a child you feel a little empty and hopeless, as if you kind of dislike urself.. I remember wanting a child when I was super depressed about where my life was going, as if I had no one to love me... you need to ... (read in full...)
15 and wanting a baby!
Q. I'm 15 years old, and my boyfriend and I have been trying to have a baby for three months. My boyfriend is 18, and we both have agreed we're ready. We already live together. I don't have to worry about dropping out because I do online schoolin...
A. 18 February 2009: ok but you didnt answer my question, WHY do you want to have a baby?... (read in full...)
15 and wanting a baby!
Q. I'm 15 years old, and my boyfriend and I have been trying to have a baby for three months. My boyfriend is 18, and we both have agreed we're ready. We already live together. I don't have to worry about dropping out because I do online schoolin...
A. 18 February 2009: one question: why do you want to have a baby? ... (read in full...)
Short girl tall guy?
Q. How do tall guys 6'3/6'4 feel about short girls? I'm 5'1 and I've been feeling really insecure about it lately b/c the guy I like is around 6'3-6'4 hes a giant..how can I kiss him? is it strange to u guys if you were with a short girl? how do u ...
A. 16 February 2009: so i WILL make an odd couple:( i dont like the sound of that. im insecure about my height to begin wiht, and he jus tmakes me more insecure..hes just a great guy:(... (read in full...)
Other than asking a girl, how do you know when a girl is truly into you?
Q. Other than asking a girl, how do you know when a girl is truly into you? What are some things to look out for to know if she genuinely cares for me like I care for her?...
A. 19 January 2009: smiling, lots and lots of smiling. She gives u a hug or a kiss on the cheek as a hint. or if the guy is bold enough to touch her hhand she'd be whilling, and prob smile some more, she'd blush, look down, stare at u whenever he can.flirt w/u, laugh ... (read in full...)
Is it realistic?
Q. I live on the East coast and the guy I'm interested in lives on the West coast. I just liked his picture on facebook so I IMed him on AIM. He looked like a genuinely good person, and turned out to be a genuinely good person! I'm a picky persn and ...
A. 14 January 2009: Hi guys, thank you for your advice. My only thing is, I don't know what to say, he'll think im crazy. Why would a person like someone so far away, and we hardly ever talk, he's just on my mind, i tell myself its crazy, but i have this weacky idea ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I'm gay!
Q. i am i 15 year old boy and im having problems i don't know if im gay, people think im gay at times. i like to masturbate to gay porn then after that i have no more feelings for it, i started looking at a women and i masturbated a couple of times to ...
A. 13 January 2009: YOU ARE NOT GAY! I can say this to you a milliion times u are NOT GAY. I know exactly wat you have my dear, the early signs of HOCD...homosexual obsessive compulsive disorder...ur obsessing about this topic, ur compulsion is to tell urself ur not ... (read in full...)
What was this wet spot on his pants?
Q. While my boyfriend and I were messing around the other night; like heavy petting and stuff; he got wet down there. It was after he'd been rubbing my boobs for a while, he stopped and just grabbed his dick. All our clothes were still on, he had just ...
A. 12 January 2009: ofcourse its normal, we get wet just by kissing (girls) we dont need to touch our clit to get wet do we? same w/a guy, he doesnt have to get wet just by penis touching, it cud b other things too..it is totally 100% normal and a good thing! that he ... (read in full...)
I don't get what I want!
Q. Im feeling down about the way I am. I'm an attractive 22 yr old female, I get hit on by guys all the time, I like the attention, but I don't take any of these guys seriously. Im so picky! At the rate I'm going, I dont think I'll ever find a good ...
A. 30 December 2008: Thanks egrl, yes, I don't want to end up hating a guy. Some might say that I am never sattisfied. it is true, i am never satisfied with what i have, my ex bf had baggage he never really loved me, and we were not at the same level, I just dont see ... (read in full...)
I'm aware being on the pill is meant to 'trick' your body into thinking it's pregnant, but....
Q. Hi, Just a quick question here. Might sound silly but I just wanted to know. I'm aware being on the pill is meant to 'trick' your body into thinking its pregnant as such. Does this mean any emotions you experience whilst on the pill, you will be ...
A. 16 September 2008: yes like you'll gain an appetite, and perhaps gain weight, keep a close eye on what/how much ur eating! Also breasts get bigger.... (read in full...)
I'm scared of being intimate with a man
Q. Help me! I have such a fear of being intimate with a man. I am a 28 year old female and when i first meet a guy that i am into i get all excited about seeing him but the minute i realize that he is into me as well i start becoming really anxious ...
A. 13 September 2008: i feel the same way and would like some more advice on this question!... (read in full...)
I'm only 13, pregnant with twins, afflicted with herpes, and I don't know who the father is. How do I tell my parents?
Q. I just turned thirteen and I found out I am pregnant with triplets I don't know who the father is I have been sexually active with over ten men the last year. I have lied about my age because I am very developed and I don't know what to do. I also ...
A. 11 September 2008: It's funny how you ask for help AFTER u've made not only ONE mistake, but several mistakes, from having sex with more than one man in the past year down to not being checked up early enough from the dr. I feel sorry for you, for your young, naive ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if my teacher is seriously interested in me or just being very nice.
Q. Really..to get up to speed..I graduated this past May..but At the beginning of the year, everything was normal between me and one of my teachers, but as the year went on, I realized that he started doing strange things, like telling other kids(as a ...
A. 6 September 2008: living with what ifs SUCKS....going with it is way better, be gutsy!!! Yea, some ppl are dishonest and wrong, theres always good trustworthy ppl, and bad liars but how will u know whos who without ever giving people a chance? It seems to me like ... (read in full...)
If he said that I was ugly, then why does he keep on staring at me?
Q. There is this guy in my class. He keeps on looking at me. Last week I heard him call me ugly to his friends. I was right there and heard him. When they look at me in class, I saw that they laughed and smile at each other. I don't even know or ...
A. 6 September 2008: hes bullsh***g, and probably likes you but maybe wants to not be peer pressured by society and rolling with the crowd and being a whimp. Hes too afraid to share his own opinion, are u seen as the loser girl in skool? ur probably gorgeous but b/c ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if my teacher is seriously interested in me or just being very nice.
Q. Really..to get up to speed..I graduated this past May..but At the beginning of the year, everything was normal between me and one of my teachers, but as the year went on, I realized that he started doing strange things, like telling other kids(as a ...
A. 6 September 2008: It seems to me like you have trust issues, not just with him, but I think u'd over complicate the whole trust thing with just about any guy (teacher or not) You sound kinda like me, over complicating things that are really quite simple, yes because ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if my teacher is seriously interested in me or just being very nice.
Q. Really..to get up to speed..I graduated this past May..but At the beginning of the year, everything was normal between me and one of my teachers, but as the year went on, I realized that he started doing strange things, like telling other kids(as a ...
A. 5 September 2008: Just ask him, and go on a date. Get to know eachother in a romantic atmosphere..and ur not his student anymore correct? then just go for it!!! And let me know what happens next, this is so interesting haha... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if my teacher is seriously interested in me or just being very nice.
Q. Really..to get up to speed..I graduated this past May..but At the beginning of the year, everything was normal between me and one of my teachers, but as the year went on, I realized that he started doing strange things, like telling other kids(as a ...
A. 5 September 2008: did he say he loved u in class as a joke or in private? cuz thats a huge sign, plus the fact that he already told u he liked you. I guess now that you've graduated its ok, i don't know about anything legal, but it seems to be fine. I am a young ... (read in full...)
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