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Not sure if I've had an orgasm or not

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Question - (25 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 February 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *manda18 writes:

ok im not sure if ive had an orgasm or not. when me and my bf mess around it feels amazing. so i guess i get orgasm very easily like that or im going to be extremely happy when i get an orgasm. i just wish i knew if what ive experanced is an orgasm or not.

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A female reader, jessica04 United States +, writes (25 February 2009):

jessica04 agony auntYou can have two different types of orgasms, clitoral and internal (what I call them).

With clitoral, your clit will be very sensitive. This is usually the easiest to achieve and you can have many of these during sex. It feels like a mini peak of nerve stimulation, and for a bit after wards you might now enjoy direct touching to the clit.

Internal climax comes when your G-spot is stimulated enough. For me, these are earthshaking, headboard breaking, back scratchingly awesome! You whole body tenses and you have this amazing release of energy all throughout, and it may take a minute or two before you can even let him move around some more and continue.

If this sounds familiar, congratulations, you've just had and orgasm! If not, then make him work harder ;)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009):

It's totally true - if you have one you'll know. If you're unsure you're probably just turned on. You should masturbate a bit more to really get to know yourself. It's a shame to be sharing sex with someone else when you don't even know how your body works!

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A female reader, princessjasmine United States +, writes (25 February 2009):

do u feel like ur whole body vibrated? like u just wanna relax afterward, that your clit feels sensitive and you cant touch it for a good 10 minutes because it'll hurt a little, do u feel like screaming with pleasure? if so, you had an orgasm, if not, just wait...IT IS MORE AMAZING THAN U THINK!!

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