Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?
Q. How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past ...
A. 17 June 2011: no im asking, what if the group of friends know your kind of promiscous, im afraid they'll tell the guy 'oh ur with that slut' eventhough i never even had sex in college, i just made out with a couple of his acquaintances, not even good friends, ... (read in full...)
Have I hooked up with too many guys?
Q. I've hooked up with 12 guys, but have only had sex with 2 of them. hooking up might be nakedness, oral, or hand jobs....is that a lot? im 25 :(...
A. 17 June 2011: wow i like all the discussions! thanks guys :)... (read in full...)
Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?
Q. How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past ...
A. 16 June 2011: but he knew u werent a virgin? wat if a potential serious thing is amongst the group of friends who know about my past a bit?... (read in full...)
Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?
Q. How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past ...
A. 15 June 2011: but how long after did u meet ur husband, right after hooking up with someone, months later, or years later? of this 'change' that took place, i hooked up recently but wna settle down, if that makes any sense, i do wanna get sesrious... (read in full...)
Have I hooked up with too many guys?
Q. I've hooked up with 12 guys, but have only had sex with 2 of them. hooking up might be nakedness, oral, or hand jobs....is that a lot? im 25 :(...
A. 15 June 2011: what if ppl talk to him and tell him stuff about me :(... (read in full...)
Have I hooked up with too many guys?
Q. I've hooked up with 12 guys, but have only had sex with 2 of them. hooking up might be nakedness, oral, or hand jobs....is that a lot? im 25 :(...
A. 15 June 2011: ill have to disagree anonymous, the guilt comes from what society thinks is acceptable and be me going against it, it comes from family stuff and what PEOPLE might think, the guilt also comes from me getting worried that God wont want me to fall in ... (read in full...)
Have I hooked up with too many guys?
Q. I've hooked up with 12 guys, but have only had sex with 2 of them. hooking up might be nakedness, oral, or hand jobs....is that a lot? im 25 :(...
A. 15 June 2011: you give me hope annalisa! i have a good friend by tht nname :)... (read in full...)
Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?
Q. How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past ...
A. 15 June 2011: so i shouldn't feel guilty not telling him? ... (read in full...)
Multiple orgasms must be amazing - WHY don't women want to have sex all day?
Q. Ever since I was with my first "serious" girlfriend, I've envied womens' ability to have multiple orgasms. When she got going, she'd have one after another with only a few seconds (if that) in between for a couple minutes, I'd have my one "little" ...
A. 14 June 2011: i wish there was a 'like' button for vintage's comment, that was pretty good!... (read in full...)
Have I hooked up with too many guys?
Q. I've hooked up with 12 guys, but have only had sex with 2 of them. hooking up might be nakedness, oral, or hand jobs....is that a lot? im 25 :(...
A. 14 June 2011: how manyh of u agree with anonymous male? there is some truth to that, it is hard for me to feel but i can still feel things, the wayi can remember when i was innocent for guys, when its real, there is no denying that b/c love is love and when you ... (read in full...)
Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?
Q. How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past ...
A. 14 June 2011: dont u think that's wrong, your love shud know everything about u, i wud feel like im denying myself, altho my hookups dont define who i am at all...its a part of me but its not ME. idk, wud it be like our relationship isnt based on trust and all ... (read in full...)
Have I hooked up with too many guys?
Q. I've hooked up with 12 guys, but have only had sex with 2 of them. hooking up might be nakedness, oral, or hand jobs....is that a lot? im 25 :(...
A. 14 June 2011: Was it the best sex you ever got? How does it compare to the other hook ups?... (read in full...)
Have I hooked up with too many guys?
Q. I've hooked up with 12 guys, but have only had sex with 2 of them. hooking up might be nakedness, oral, or hand jobs....is that a lot? im 25 :(...
A. 14 June 2011: the funny thing is, most of these guys actually respect me and like me, b/c im sweet in bed, i do the whole romantic talk and make them feel special....then they wana actually take me out and get to know me, IM THE ONE whose like 'get away' and hate ... (read in full...)
Have I hooked up with too many guys?
Q. I've hooked up with 12 guys, but have only had sex with 2 of them. hooking up might be nakedness, oral, or hand jobs....is that a lot? im 25 :(...
A. 14 June 2011: those were over a period of time, like over years since 19-25 i mean it was one every 4-5 months or so... (read in full...)
Have I hooked up with too many guys?
Q. I've hooked up with 12 guys, but have only had sex with 2 of them. hooking up might be nakedness, oral, or hand jobs....is that a lot? im 25 :(...
A. 14 June 2011: I'm asking b/c i feel guilty, why do i do it? some of the times i do it for attention, or so ppl dont think im so 'innocent' b/c i give off that vibe, other times i do it b/c i need momentary pleasure, the biggest regret was when i did it just for ... (read in full...)
Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?
Q. How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past ...
A. 14 June 2011: How do you answer the qs if he does ask?... (read in full...)
In a loving relationship, until I found out about his facebook inboxes..
Q. I'm 19 yrs old and i'm in a relationship with a guy who i adore and love. We have been together for almost 2 years now and i never want to lose him. I used to be kind of a slut, i dated a tonne of guys and cheated on almost all of them. They were ...
A. 17 April 2011: First of all, your daughter is 2, she will forget about him. This is about YOU! Clearly he is bull shitting you. You should be worried becsase that sounds pretty bad. I'm sorry he's not the right guy for you, he seems really immature! move on.... (read in full...)
Am I gay? or os it just a phase in my life?
Q. Am i gay? or os it just a phase in my life? I have not had a girlfriend, But i had no interest in boys untill i had gay sex with my friend. When i see a girl naked now i dont get turned on but when i see a guy naked i get a full on erection. I have ...
A. 28 November 2010: ur gay!... (read in full...)
Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?
Q. How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past ...
A. 19 November 2010: damn cerberus, im reallly curious about ur poo now! love it thank u! ... (read in full...)
I don't have the flirting gene! How do I ask her out?
Q. There is one girl I really like who's really fun-loving and excitable; but I just don't know how to do anything other than talk to her as a friend, and in kind of an uptight way too. I really want to ask her out, but I don't know where to go, or how ...
A. 2 November 2010: u seem really sweet, id be pretty happy if a guy like u asked me out. dont worry about rejection, most girls love to be asked out, i know i do!... (read in full...)
Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?
Q. How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past ...
A. 31 October 2010: but dont u get curious? dont u wonder how experiencd they are? doesnt ur past shape who u are now? idk, it'd bother me a little not knowing but it'd bother me telling him about mine, like i needed to get it off my chest b/c i was 'hiding' something. ... (read in full...)
Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?
Q. How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past ...
A. 23 October 2010: Thanks guys, yea I do think its okay to share past relationships to get to know where u stand (if u have ever been in love or if this guy is 'the one' but i agree w/most of u in that i dont need to tell him about my sexual past, and I wont :) u guys ... (read in full...)
Stabbed in the heart by her comment...
Q. So this morning was the biggest heart break I could ever handle. I found out my girlfriend... my best friend... my everything cheated on me a month ago. She told me this intoxicated and also took an e pill saying some guy performed oral on her, but ...
A. 21 August 2010: your blinded by love right now but the truth is, theres someone else out there for u who wont bs around like this chick. Honestly, u are WAY too good for her. Be strong and let the skank GO! u can't marry her. Theres someone else out there that u ... (read in full...)
How do I ask her on a date?
Q. dear cupid i do fancy this woman that lives in the same street as me how do i approach her. it a long time since i went out with a woman. she is single like me but a bit younger than me....
A. 21 August 2010: her loss! on to the next one, u did nothing wrong...sometimes girls give out numbers or act nice b/c they dont wana hurt feelings but yes we dont answer calls or show up to dates, its a cowardly thing to do but it does happen. Just never expect ... (read in full...)
Sexuality : I think I'm confused?!And I need help breaking a habit!
Q. I sometimes feel like I might be lesbian. At one point I was almost entirely sure that I was lesbian but there are days when I feel like i'm 100% staright AND then there are days when I feel like i'm just bisexual or curious. What makes me questio...
A. 20 August 2010: your not lesbian, we all stare at cleavage, its a beautiful thing! its who u love and wana get serious with that matters at the end of the day who do u wana sleep next to, man or woman? staring and BEING w/someone are completely different things and ... (read in full...)
How do I ask her on a date?
Q. dear cupid i do fancy this woman that lives in the same street as me how do i approach her. it a long time since i went out with a woman. she is single like me but a bit younger than me....
A. 18 August 2010: how much younger? I'm 24 and a 35 year old asked me out, I didn't know his age but when we hung out he told me and i kinda freaked. but everyone's different. Do you run into her? Just start talking to her about random, everyday things (like a ... (read in full...)
My Plan to get back with my girl (please critique)
Q. I need help with this situation, as I'm slightly confused. 5 days ago, I saw my girlfriend for the first time in 3 weeks, as she is off working at a camp over the summer. We have been dating for 4 months and we haven't seen each other on a consiste...
A. 18 August 2010: If she's anything like me she probably did feel like she needed her independance and space. We like the chase too you know, you don't wana make it easy and too available for her. You need to love yourself dude before you get too crazy about a ... (read in full...)
I fantastize about ugly old dirty fat men! What is wrong with me?
Q. Hello, I feel as if I am abnormal...I am a 23 year old girl and in a good relationship yet the only thing that really turns me on is if i fantasize about much older, ugly, fat dirty men. I dont know why this is and it makes me feel like a freak. I ...
A. 12 August 2010: Fantasies are just fantasies, they're usually very strange and don't make much sense! Don't worry about it, I fantasize about a lot of weird f'd up s***** and I'm your age....Theres really no explanation to it, the dirtier adn weirder the BETTER
... (read in full...)
I've never followed 'the rules' of 'womanly' behaviour is this wrong?
Q. The rules book stated that a girl should be reserved, not too chatty, not trying at all to entertain actually but thats a personality trait of mine, i LOVE TO ENTERTAIN, i make ppl laugh, im extremely bubbly and sometimes too hyper. I enjoy being ...
A. 27 June 2010: I also have a problem with saying too much like: "you're old" (it just comes out) its def a problem, how do i fix this? lol... (read in full...)
I've never followed 'the rules' of 'womanly' behaviour is this wrong?
Q. The rules book stated that a girl should be reserved, not too chatty, not trying at all to entertain actually but thats a personality trait of mine, i LOVE TO ENTERTAIN, i make ppl laugh, im extremely bubbly and sometimes too hyper. I enjoy being ...
A. 27 June 2010: Thanks guys, I have been feeling very insecure after reading this book, I'm constantly in this state of "should I do this? should I say that?" I agree, being TOO in someones face is not cool, sometimes I do need to calm myself down (go to the ... (read in full...)
How do I introduce a vibrator into sex?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 months and we are madly in love, We have amazing passionate sex which feels great! BUT he just doesnt really care about me orgasming, he does want to try though. but hes impatient and cant keep a hard on and use h...
A. 8 June 2010: listen, he should understand that if hes not giving u wat u want and isnt patient with u, then u DESERVE to cum, ask him how it makes him feel when hes cumming all the time and u arent...is that fair? sex is a two way street, i lost my virginity to ... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity to someone I barely know and I don't know why I did it!
Q. I lost my virginity to someone I barely know, I'm 23 and I dont know why I did it. i was always a good girl with muslim values, good parents. I always wanted to wait for my husband to do it. But I had done everything else including oral, with ...
A. 7 May 2010: Thank you :)... (read in full...)
I'm having very strong urges to have an affair..would like to hear from others who have been there..done that
Q. I am a 44 year old male. Married for 15 years. I'll get right to the point: my marriage is having big problems right now and I am at a crossroads. I have never cheated before. But I have never felt the way I do now. I am visiting depths of emotio...
A. 7 May 2010: man, dont do it, ull seriously regret it afterward....i have an urge too, but i kno i needa stop myself.... (read in full...)
Am I gross? OR was the guy just not nice?
Q. Hi, I recently hooked up with a guy and whilst we were in bed fooling around he took off my pants, then he stopped and was like ew, so I asked what's the problem and he told me "your vagina is gross". I've had my confidence knocked by it my...
A. 5 May 2010: what an asshole! embrace ur vagina, other men will love it... (read in full...)
One night stand after only 6 months of marriage
Q. Please help me. I only got married 6 months ago and we have been going out for 9 years and have never once cheated on him. I done something really stupid last night and already I am torturing myself with guilt and fear of him finding out. I was ...
A. 5 May 2010: is he worth it? who do u love more?... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity to someone I barely know and I don't know why I did it!
Q. I lost my virginity to someone I barely know, I'm 23 and I dont know why I did it. i was always a good girl with muslim values, good parents. I always wanted to wait for my husband to do it. But I had done everything else including oral, with ...
A. 4 May 2010: Thank you, I still think Muslim culture is a little more strict, i hope hes as open minded as u are, i only want an open minded person. I'm so upset!... (read in full...)
What's this 'squirting' business?
Q. hey all, i did post this question before but i cant seem to find it anywhere so have not had it answered as far as i know! sorry if its just me being stupid, thought id ask again anyway! :) my boyfriend and i have a very good sex life and always w...
A. 3 May 2010: theres squirters and theres non squirters, most girls cant squirt.... (read in full...)
Can't climax during sex. Could it be the porn and masturbation?
Q. Does too much masturbation effect your performance when having sex? I can't seem to climax during sex- I think it's because I masturbate too much to porn....
A. 30 April 2010: porn is so visual and kinky, the fact that its not u in the act makes it so much more kinky and orgasmic, its weird, the kinkier the better to orgasm to....i have the same problem and im a woman. I stopped watching porn b/c i was addicted to it, ... (read in full...)
Why is he only showing interest after I gave up and settled for friendship?
Q. 6 months ago I gave up all hope of nabbing Mr.Married to his job/too busy for a relationship but recently it seems he has taken up more of a personal interest in my life. Who am I seeing? Any one catching my interest? Stating that I shouldn't date ...
A. 30 April 2010: b/c guys love the chase, and now ur makin him chase u...let him keep chasing u, dont make any first moves girl! ;) stay in the mindset ur in, and dont get ur hopes uop with this one, just let it be....if hes showing interst then go with the flow, ... (read in full...)
Saw mom watching a movie with a naked women
Q. I'm in a really akward situation, I live at home with my mum, dad and older sister (when she's home from uni) My parents have been together since they were 16 and 17, and have two children together, me and my sister. The other night I was downstairs ...
A. 17 April 2010: honey, i love watching hot chicks on camera but it doesnt mean i wana go sleep with em...same thing with ur mom. She LOVES ur dad, she wants to b with him and she enjoys the sex too (just like i enjoy men) but its perfectly normal for other women ... (read in full...)
We were doing great, until I said I liked him
Q. We never met, we talked for hours, he was clearly intersted until i told him i liked him, and now he doesnt wanna talk to me, he told me he got freaked out and scared, that hes not ready for that (that hes not as mature as me) and that hes not as ...
A. 3 December 2009: yes, but HOW do i make thiings bettter, i havent had such chemistry EVER in my life. I cant get over this, and you're right all i said was that i was into him, and he got all scared, and i did not mean at all that iw anted to commit to him. i dont ... (read in full...)
How do I kill my masterbation habit?
Q. I am 22 addicted to masturbation for about 10 years or so.I masturbate more than once in day.I want to leave this habit. What should i do for the restlessness i feel when not masturbating?Especially if i get bored ..and have nothing to do I ...
A. 26 October 2009: make short term goals, dont stop completely, if u do it like 5 x a day, try doing it 2 x a day, then make it 1 x a day, then the next week try doing it every other day, then it will eventually be once a week, and then hopefully once a month. You ... (read in full...)
Why do girls look for robot guys?
Q. Why every girls hate emotional guys? Why they look for robot in guys? Would anyone like to guide me on this? Zahir, Pakistan...
A. 29 September 2009: Hey zahir, Im pakistani too, but born and raised in America. I might help you out with this one because I know both sides! Here's the deal: Pakistani guys think they are bollywood film stars, STOP THINKING THAT! Bollywood men are so emot... (read in full...)
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