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writes:so im about 3 months preg, i tell my boyfriend and the first thing out of his mouth is ABORTION, didnt really give me much option... what should i do.. i mean i have two kids already i really dont need another one (financially) and i obviously cant count on him but abortion is something that never crossed my mind..
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reader, baby_tinney +, writes (15 June 2009):
 I am 24 I got preg and was sooooo happy cuz I want a baby so bad.A month later I lost the baby found out I had cervical cancer.Now after my surgeys to get rid of the cancer they do not know if I will ever be abole to have a baby.And it kills me.My hubby and I are thinking about adopting.I guess what I am trying to say is your baby dont have to die or be a burden on you,There are alot of ppl out there dieing to have a kid to love and raise as there own.
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reader, meg2989 +, writes (14 June 2009):
 You know there is another option. You can always give it up for adoption. There are so many people that cant have children that would love to have your baby. If you do decide on abortion, have one because you decide its the right thing to do not because he is telling you to. Ive made that mistake. Ive had an abortion and it is awful. You may not be able to have an abortion at all though, up to the first 9 weeks you can do the " pill abortion" -- which is what I had and up to 12 weeks you can do surgery, doctors dont particularly like to preform an abortion past twelve weeks unless absolutly necessary. What ever you decide on please remember to do it because you want it. I had an abortion because my ex wanted me to and a month later he dumped me anyways. While I am pro-choice, I would have rather given the baby up for adoption myself. Please do not be pressured into it. Good luck sweetie.
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reader, pebble  +, writes (13 June 2009):
 I don't understand how people can have or suggest abortions when they have already felt the love that a parent has for a child.
But, ultimately it's your body. If you don't want an abortion then make clear that it's absolutely not going to happen. And if you think it would be the best thing to do in this situation, again, it's up to you and you alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): It's truly up to you. I know abortion may seem bad but... what's going to cost you more pain and money? Having an abortion or raising and supporting a kid all the way through college? I must sound a bit bad, but I'm just telling you my opinion...
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