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writes: Ok well I'm 18 and the guy im secretly seeing is 22. Yes we have sex and what not but the problem is he has a girlfriend. Oh i lost my v card to him and he's my brothers close friend. but obviously no one knows that me and him are messing around especially not his girlfriend or my brother. I know it was dumb of me to have sex with him and at first i wasnt emotionally involved with him ut now im starting to get attached. what should i do????
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2009): Stop it now. If he wanted you then he would be with only you. Its going to have to end one day and chances are you will be the one hurt. And if your brother and this guys gf find out then they will be really hurt too. Stop it now before it goes any further because the further it goes the harder it is to get out. Trust me I know!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): i was in the same situation a few months ago, except i wasnt sleeping with him, but still messing around with him. but basically its all bad news, brothers are very protective And its horrible when the find out, and it really changes your relationship, so if you want mine opinion get out of it as soon as possible, and just leave it at that, and dont tell anyone. its better for everyone , you and your brother are still friends, his mate and your brother are friends, and his mate and his girlfriend are fine. i really wish i did that.
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reader, imcurioustoo  +, writes (13 June 2009):
Hey .. Well my advice to you .. Is sit down with this guy explain how your feeling .. Losing your virginity is a HUGE deal but it doesn't make you who you are .. Don't let a first time physical act become a future heartbreak .. There's somone out there for you .. Who wants you and you only he'll find you give it time.. Everyone makes mistakes .. And I think you should also tell your brother you know how guys talk.. Itd be better hearing it from you not someone else
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reader, pebble  +, writes (13 June 2009):
 You realise that he's using you for sex and nothing, get over him and walk away.
He's getting the emotional stuff from his girlfriend and sex from you. If he wanted you and you alone, his girlfriend would no longer be around.
I know it's harsh, but it's true. You're nothing more than the bit on the side to him.
Sorry.
Time to realise your true worth.
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