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*ymistake123
writes:Hey, I've just started to have sex with my girlfriend and found that after a while i start to get a stinging feeling around my penis. I've found little cuts but they are under the skin. Making sex a bit painful from time to time. Why am i getting these pains and how can i help it?
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (5 December 2009):
It could be the condoms or spermicide. But in my vast experience (ahem), you might also be doing it without enough lubrication, ie. putting your P inside her V before she is wet enough. If she is not wet enough that means you are rushing it for her. Slow it down (give her oral/sexy massage etc) otherwise you will be remembered as her worst ever in future. Also, if you have a foreskin, it takes time to get it used to the ins and outs. Best advice: use a condom PLUS lube like KY/Astroglide etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): ummm....maybe the condom brand or texture or what they use. And if your not wearing a comdon maybe something else.If that does not work go to the doctor and talk about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): Hmm...??? This makes me wonder because my boyfriend says the same thing, but we found out he had an alergic reaction to the condoms we were using; so we switched and now sex is great for both of us? Have you been using condoms, maybe if your not your a little sensitive to something in her vagina or your having an alergic reaction to the condoms? I would say maybe try sex with whatever you dont nonormally do. For example if you dont use comdons use some...and if you do try another brand and texture or go without(which can be dangerous, so I am not saying do this unless you trust eachother and know eachother well enough,because you dont want to get her pregnant or get std's)If that does not work try goin1g to the 'male doctor' and tell them about it...Good luck
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reader, old-spinstah  +, writes (4 December 2009):
Have you been using condoms? You may have an allergy to them. Try using the latex free version
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 December 2009):
I'm not sure. But it can't be healthy, so I would suggest you talk to the doctor, since that's the only way to be sure.
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