I'm trying to get over a guy and looking for support
Q. Im trying to get over a guy and looking for support. Ive liked this guy for a while but he's treated me badly in the past and is currently ignoring me. He only talks to me when he wants sex. It hurts so bad to see him able to talk to everyone else...
A. 25 February 2009: it hurts, l know but walk away with time you will stop loving him and meet someone who is much more than him, someone who will treat you right. keep yourself busy, don;t lock yourself in one room, go out and have fun, cry if you feel like and do... (read in full...)
Should I tell him how I feel and maybe he admits he likes me too?
Q. Ok, so heres the thing... umm im totaly crushing on a guy, uhh the thing is i think he likes me to, but he wont admit it, i want to tell him how i feel and then maybe he'll admit it too, but i just dont know what to say or do D: HELP...
A. 25 February 2009: its always best to wait till the guy has fallen in love with you before you tell him how you feel.
do you hang out, text him? if so continue doing so till you are absolutely sure he has fallen for you coz you might scare him away... (read in full...)
He says he only wants to be friends, but I want to make our relationship work...
Q. My boyfriend and I just broke up after 4 yrs dating and 1 1/2 yrs living together. I had to move in with my parents. We had been having money problems and so our sex life suffered. He says that he doesn't want a relationship but he's ok with being ...
A. 25 February 2009: l think its best if you don't become friends, stop hanging out and talking because that way he can miss you and want a real relationship with you which involves kissing and staff
if you continue being his friend, he may never know what he is missi... (read in full...)
How do I tell if he's interested in me when he works so much?
Q. I'm really into this guy but he's difficult to read. We had an amazing connection but he's always so busy with work (12 hour days) that I'm not sure if he has the same interest in me. How do I tell? ...
A. 24 February 2009: he is interested: if he finds some time to call you to just say hello even he is at work, he hangs out with you when he is not at work (weekends); ... (read in full...)
My ex doesn't want to talk about our break up, do you think he will ever contact me?
Q. hello. It's been about 7 weeks since my ex boyfriend broke up with me. we were together for over 4 years. he broke up with me after the stresses of life (working all the time, no money, lack of sleep etc) and we kept arguing so much, he couldn'...
A. 23 February 2009: maybe with time he will contact you but your life shouldn't come to a standstill. go out there and have fun, concentrate on your studies and do the things you enjoy most. he may not want to talk about the break up coz its still too early and he... (read in full...)
I don't want to be the reason why they break up, so what should I do?
Q. The guy I like has a GF and though it bothered me at first, I eventually accepted it. I've heard people say that they didn't make a cute people and that if it was me instead, it would be very cute. I'm flattered that people thought so, but I just ...
A. 20 February 2009: l think you should back away and let them be. if he really want to be with you he will break up with his girlfriend and come to you. let it be his own doing... (read in full...)
Does he actually want to brake up with me?
Q. me and him been going out for 11month's. its going great right now, only that he has been acting a bit different, but its not because of us. (family problems he says). well last night i had a dream about him braking up with me. i was devastated, and ...
A. 19 February 2009: l think you did dream of that because of the way he is acting and in your mind you think he wants to break up. l think you should tell him about your dream, that way you will know if he wants to break up by the way he interprets the dream... (read in full...)
Will he ever change?
Q. me an my bf are on our 8 months,im 14 he's 15 we were the best couple ever we did everything together,my friends loved him,i was so happy to have him,,he was so important to me,, at the end of our 4 months wen summer ended,we started schools,he ...
A. 19 February 2009: leave him. there are a lot of guys out there. there is someone out there who will treat you right and who will always be there when you need him.
l have to agree with satindesire, the guy isn't going to change. you may love him but its not goin... (read in full...)
Was it bad of me to reply like that?
Q. So this guy I've been talking to for the past week feels like I've been putting all the effort by texting and getting him to hangout. After the last time we hungout I didn't hear from a week. I wanted to text/call him but I was waiting for him to ...
A. 18 February 2009: it wasn't bad to reply like that you shouldn't seem too eager.
don't contact him again,let him contact you first... (read in full...)
He says we should just livein the moment
Q. I am confused. I am leaving my country beginning of June. Me and my Bf have ben together for three months. he says he loves me, and that we should not think of that moment (when i leave). But if i am leaving that soon, he can't really love me can h...
A. 16 February 2009: i think its hurting him that you will be leaving and is trying not to think about it- he just want to enjoy this time he is spending with you. just enjoy yourself... (read in full...)
I'm scared that I'll lose my daughter if I tell her about me and her ex!
Q. My daughter broke up with her fiance about eight months ago, it was just a case of them drifting apart which happens often in relationships. My daughter's ex is very attractive and clever and I was sad to see him go as he acted like a true gentleman ...
A. 13 February 2009: tell her you are seeing her ex. she will be angry and will feel betrayed but with time she will let go. it was wrong of you to do that to her. its wise to tell her before she hears it from someone else. if she has someone in her life now and is h... (read in full...)
Friday the 13th message to ex?
Q. Hi All Ok tomorrow is Friday the 13th, I want to know...should I send my ex the following SMS: Happy Friday the 13th...Wishing you all the misfortunes in the world!! Love -(my name)...
A. 12 February 2009: l don't think you should send the message. just let him be.
he will see you still care about him, if you want that go ahead. someone who has really moved on doesn't need to send that message to an ex... (read in full...)
She's rather return an unknown call then to return my call
Q. Hi, I had a girlfriend. We had problems with communications. Many times When call her, she will not answer or return my calls. However, when she needs my help she will call and I will quickly answer the call.I have called her on this. She says that ...
A. 11 February 2009: l think its best to just move on with your life, you deserve so much better. telling her how you feel will not help anything as you have already told her and hasn't changed. she does this to you because she knows she can, you are the only one who ... (read in full...)
Has he lost interest already?
Q. I kissed one of my friends room mates two nights in a row last week. He wanted to have sex and started touching my boobs, and put my hand down his pants but I stopped him and left. My friend told me that the next night, he tried to do something with ...
A. 10 February 2009: he tried it with another girl the next night!!!! l think he just wants to fool around and isn't looking for a relationship don't give in to sex.... (read in full...)
What is with these text messages that mean nothing?
Q. Me and my girlfriend broke up 40 days ago. I have not contacted her at all. I have received two text messages from her one was for my address which her mom called me and asked if I could please give that to her, to let her in , that she wanted to ...
A. 10 February 2009: i think maybe she still cares about you... (read in full...)
Is it called a break-up because it's broken?
Q. my girlfriend broke up with me because i acted differently when i was around friends and family. i told her that i would change many times before and she doesnt believe me anymore, then she told me that she needs time for her. what should i do?...
A. 10 February 2009: i think its best to tell her how you are feeling. talk to her... (read in full...)
I don't want to like him and then he ditches me!
Q. ok so ive met this guy..recently ive had some bad relationships that have ended up goin nowhere and leaving me hurt...so i wanted opinions on this one before i get too involved. ive known this new guy for a couple of years but nothing ever hap...
A. 10 February 2009: you can't help liking someone. just continue hanging out. if he ditches you then know that it was not meant to be and you have to move on. sometimes we all have to take risks. hopefully it works out.... (read in full...)
I have so many feelings for him but am afraid to open up
Q. I've been seeing this guy for 7 weeks now. We've know each other for 2 years but didn't want to ruin our good friendship. We spend every weekend together. I know how I feel for him just un sure if our feelings are mutual. He always calls or texts ...
A. 10 February 2009: i think its best to keep what you are feeling to yourself for now- telling him you want more from him too early may scare him away let things be, continue texting and hanging out, hopefully soon he will bring up the subject himself... (read in full...)
Why won't he stop making contact with his ex?
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me twice with the same girl, we broke up after the second cheating occurred.He dated her for three years. they broke up after a big fight. then we ended up getting back together. How do learn to trust him. he still make ...
A. 9 February 2009: l think its best to let him go. he still loves her that's why he keeps contacting her.he has to know its either you or her, he can't have both.
l agree with sappygirl that he loves her more than you. save yourself from more heartache and move... (read in full...)
Why do guys don't want a relationship with me after sex?
Q. Never had a boyfriend and I'm 20 I feel so alone and depressed because I'm at the end of my rope. I've been kissed I've had sex with guys they never seem to want more than that from me. I watch everyone I know go through relationships: love, loss ...
A. 5 February 2009: don't give in to sex easily, let the man fall in love first... (read in full...)
How do I get my cold sex buddy to open up?
Q. Hey , so iv been seeing this guy. He's been my friend since 4 years but we started makingout a year back. The problem is that hes just so cold all the time. I dont want him to commit or be my bf , but at least a real friend.. He never tells me ...
A. 5 February 2009: don't be available when he wants to see you, pretend to be busy- he is taking you for granted. and stop having sex with him... (read in full...)
Does it mean something? Or should I ignore?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together 6 months now. we love each other and i believe as a couple we are very strong. however i came across a comment on a networking site that he'd made 5months ago to a girl he was seeing about 10 months back (not...
A. 5 February 2009: l think you should just let it go, it happened when you had been dating for only 1 month. plus isn't it he doesn't talk to his ex now.
besides this message, doesn't he treat you right?... (read in full...)
I feel she takes me for granted, what can be done here?
Q. I've been dating a girl for 3 1/2 months but it seems like she would rather hang out with her friends more than hang with me. Like we won't see each other for 5 days and when we suppose to hang out it will only be for a couple hours before she has ...
A. 3 February 2009: l think you could try not being available when she wants to see you or next time you meet her pretend you have somewhere you have to rush to- don't let her be the first to say goodbye
let her feel what you feel every time when she has to hang out ... (read in full...)
Contact? Of leave him alone?
Q. hi would like some advice was seeing someone and said was too busy with work etc to see me, havent heard from him should i give him some space and leave him alone or should i contact him? would like some advice,...
A. 2 February 2009: let him be.move on with your life by contacting him you will further push him away plus it will cause you more pain. remember-a guy in love can never be busy for his girlfriend... (read in full...)
How to get on with life after a break up?
Q. Six months ago, I went through a break-up with someone I am truly in love with. We went our seperate ways, but about two months ago, he stumbled back into my life (single again, of course.) I still felt the same way about him, and after a month, I ...
A. 2 February 2009: start dating. another way to get over someone is to love someone new... (read in full...)
Am I just imagining things or is he not in love anymore?
Q. I have this problem. me and my boyfriend are only for about 5 days. i am really in love with him.. and i just want to make him happy. my problem is: he doesn't reply to my texts, calls and messages. it was wednesday, he told me he's not feeling well ...
A. 28 January 2009: its only 5 days, give it time. love takes time don't always text and call him, let him miss talking to you, that way he will love you more just chill right now don't call him, let him call first and if he does don't return his call there and ... (read in full...)
He's got all the traits that should make me run away
Q. hi. i'm in love with this guy but he has all the characteristics i should run away from but i cannot help myself...he is arrogant, rude and very uncaring but i love him still. lately he has been ignoring me and not even calling as he used to? i've ...
A. 27 January 2009: stop calling or texting . you deserve to be loved
you may love him but if he isn't treating you well its better to let go. with time the love will die away... (read in full...)
How can I win his trust in me?
Q. I met this guy 3 weeks ago at a party and we really hit it off. He calls me and texts but he let me know yesturday that he was really hurt and he doesn't trust any female, not even me. I really like him and I have been really hurt in the past to and ...
A. 22 January 2009: all you need is time, in time he will trust you and begin to open up
keep hanging out and having fun
don't give him a reason to doubt you... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to let him know that I’d like to be with him again WITHOUT scaring him away?
Q. Hi, I’ve posted some questions earlier about my ex. The fact is that I love him with all my heart and I want him back. Just to try and sum up the situation: We’ve been broken up for almost three months now, which was my doing, unfortunately, after ...
A. 20 January 2009: You have already told him how you feel in the letter, I think now you should just chill continue texting and writing. Telling him about your feelings over and over again will only push him away. He may still have feelings for you but is afraid th... (read in full...)
Am I feeling this way because I still love him or am I just being silly?
Q. I dated this guy on and off for about 3 years and we broke up 2 years ago. The problem is I can't seem to let him go. I ended things and we've remained freinds. I was the first to move on and get someone else but when he recently also moved on I was ...
A. 19 January 2009: It hurts to know that someone who once loved you is loving someone new.it could be that you still love him but l think you should concentrate on yo current relationship because you kept breaking up with your ex which means there was a problem. ... (read in full...)
I just hate single life and I want to get over my ex as soon as possible...
Q. I have a bit of a dilemma on my hands...and it has everything to do with my heart and mind. My ex and I broke up just over a month ago after a two year relationship and I still feel so angry and hurt about what he did (he cheated on me). I'm ...
A. 14 January 2009: the other way to get over an ex is to love someone new
start dating and meeting guys, but take your time don't rush into relationships... (read in full...)
Sis doesn't like my boyfriend, how do I get her off my case
Q. My sister doesn't like my boyfriend because he's three years older then me (hes 17 my sister's age and I'm 14). she says he all wants is to get in my pants and yet she's with a 23 year old. Honestly I don't think he'll ever pressure me to do ...
A. 14 January 2009: With time she will come to accept your relationship and be able to leave the two of you alone, trust comes with time and is earned. She is worried about you. Just make sure he doesn't get in your pants and your sister will come around.... (read in full...)
He hasn't called in 2 weeks
Q. We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me every day..last time I saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him... saying I am not giving him ...
A. 12 January 2009: move on its clear this guy doesn't love you, don't bother calling and texting it will only hurt you more.
get busy with your life,do something you enjoy soon you will meet someone who will love you whole heartedly
he is a coward and can't come o... (read in full...)
How would I know if he is cheating or has lost interest?
Q. I have been dating this guy for a year now and it's been good for thr most part but I know we are all still human, so my question is how would I know if he is cheating or has lost interest?...
A. 9 January 2009: don't worry about cheating and lossing interest if he is not giving you any reason to,just enjoy each other
but if u must know,if a guy looses interest he will stop calling you,will not want to spend time with you and about cheating he may canc... (read in full...)
How would I know if he is cheating or has lost interest?
Q. I have been dating this guy for a year now and it's been good for thr most part but I know we are all still human, so my question is how would I know if he is cheating or has lost interest?...
A. 9 January 2009: don't worry about cheating and lossing interest if he is not giving you any reason to,just enjoy each other
but if u must know,if a guy looses interest he will stop calling you,will not want to spend time with you and about cheating he may canc... (read in full...)
I still love and need him so much... but I broke up with him.
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend today. I told two people what happened and they agree that it was the right thing to do but inside I feel like I just want to be with him.. he's such a jerk to me about this and he said either we're together or we don't ...
A. 8 January 2009: what was the reason behind the break up?
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How do I get my friend to listen to me and leave her boyfriend??
Q. Hey guys! Heres my problem I have a very good friend who shall remain nameless which is 15. Every time I see her we always talk about her boyfriend which makes me mad. Because She says "Oh my boyfriend chose his friends over me" or "He lied to me h...
A. 8 January 2009: l think its time for silence now, you have said all you can say but she not listening to you.
she knows he is not good for her but maybe she is sacred of being alone.
l once dated a player,l knew he was bad for me and everyone said so but l bec... (read in full...)
It's between myself and his ex, should I wait for his decision?
Q. My friend for a while just told me that he's really feeling me. But he has a situation dealin with his ex-girlfriend. He says that he don't know if he's feeling her more or me. I was just wondering if he using me to get over his ex, because that's ...
A. 7 January 2009: he may be using you to get over his ex or wants to make sure its really is over btwn him and x
don't act like bf & gf(like making out)till he has fallen for you and is no longer talking about ex.... (read in full...)
Will it be a good idea if I do sleep with him only one time?
Q. Dear cupid, So i've been thinking people. I talk to a few guys but its this one guy I was thinking about having sex with. I'm not the type of female that sleeps with any guy and every guy. Will it be a good idea if I do sleep with him only one time...
A. 7 January 2009: its not a good idea because you may start to have feelings for this guy and he will not feel the same way-it will hurt you
guys can have sex and walk away but with us gals its different.
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We broke up, but will we still be good friends?
Q. My girlfriend and I had been dating for almost 4 months and she broke up with me about 2 and a half weeks ago. The reason we broke up is because she wanted to be single, she said I didn't do anything wrong and that she still cares for me and loves ...
A. 7 January 2009: if you still have feelings for her don't be friends,it will only hurt you more.
distance yoself from her for some months,make sure you became friends only when you no longer love her
if you are hopping you will reconcile then she has to miss you... (read in full...)
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