I feel she takes me for granted, what can be done here?
Q. I've been dating a girl for 3 1/2 months but it seems like she would rather hang out with her friends more than hang with me. Like we won't see each other for 5 days and when we suppose to hang out it will only be for a couple hours before she has ...
A. 3 February 2009: l think you could try not being available when she wants to see you or next time you meet her pretend you have somewhere you have to rush to- don't let her be the first to say goodbye
let her feel what you feel every time when she has to hang out ... (read in full...)
Contact? Of leave him alone?
Q. hi would like some advice was seeing someone and said was too busy with work etc to see me, havent heard from him should i give him some space and leave him alone or should i contact him? would like some advice,...
A. 2 February 2009: let him be.move on with your life by contacting him you will further push him away plus it will cause you more pain. remember-a guy in love can never be busy for his girlfriend... (read in full...)
How to get on with life after a break up?
Q. Six months ago, I went through a break-up with someone I am truly in love with. We went our seperate ways, but about two months ago, he stumbled back into my life (single again, of course.) I still felt the same way about him, and after a month, I ...
A. 2 February 2009: start dating. another way to get over someone is to love someone new... (read in full...)
Am I just imagining things or is he not in love anymore?
Q. I have this problem. me and my boyfriend are only for about 5 days. i am really in love with him.. and i just want to make him happy. my problem is: he doesn't reply to my texts, calls and messages. it was wednesday, he told me he's not feeling well ...
A. 28 January 2009: its only 5 days, give it time. love takes time don't always text and call him, let him miss talking to you, that way he will love you more just chill right now don't call him, let him call first and if he does don't return his call there and ... (read in full...)
He's got all the traits that should make me run away
Q. hi. i'm in love with this guy but he has all the characteristics i should run away from but i cannot help myself...he is arrogant, rude and very uncaring but i love him still. lately he has been ignoring me and not even calling as he used to? i've ...
A. 27 January 2009: stop calling or texting . you deserve to be loved
you may love him but if he isn't treating you well its better to let go. with time the love will die away... (read in full...)
How can I win his trust in me?
Q. I met this guy 3 weeks ago at a party and we really hit it off. He calls me and texts but he let me know yesturday that he was really hurt and he doesn't trust any female, not even me. I really like him and I have been really hurt in the past to and ...
A. 22 January 2009: all you need is time, in time he will trust you and begin to open up
keep hanging out and having fun
don't give him a reason to doubt you... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to let him know that I’d like to be with him again WITHOUT scaring him away?
Q. Hi, I’ve posted some questions earlier about my ex. The fact is that I love him with all my heart and I want him back. Just to try and sum up the situation: We’ve been broken up for almost three months now, which was my doing, unfortunately, after ...
A. 20 January 2009: You have already told him how you feel in the letter, I think now you should just chill continue texting and writing. Telling him about your feelings over and over again will only push him away. He may still have feelings for you but is afraid th... (read in full...)
Am I feeling this way because I still love him or am I just being silly?
Q. I dated this guy on and off for about 3 years and we broke up 2 years ago. The problem is I can't seem to let him go. I ended things and we've remained freinds. I was the first to move on and get someone else but when he recently also moved on I was ...
A. 19 January 2009: It hurts to know that someone who once loved you is loving someone new.it could be that you still love him but l think you should concentrate on yo current relationship because you kept breaking up with your ex which means there was a problem. ... (read in full...)
I just hate single life and I want to get over my ex as soon as possible...
Q. I have a bit of a dilemma on my hands...and it has everything to do with my heart and mind. My ex and I broke up just over a month ago after a two year relationship and I still feel so angry and hurt about what he did (he cheated on me). I'm ...
A. 14 January 2009: the other way to get over an ex is to love someone new
start dating and meeting guys, but take your time don't rush into relationships... (read in full...)
Sis doesn't like my boyfriend, how do I get her off my case
Q. My sister doesn't like my boyfriend because he's three years older then me (hes 17 my sister's age and I'm 14). she says he all wants is to get in my pants and yet she's with a 23 year old. Honestly I don't think he'll ever pressure me to do ...
A. 14 January 2009: With time she will come to accept your relationship and be able to leave the two of you alone, trust comes with time and is earned. She is worried about you. Just make sure he doesn't get in your pants and your sister will come around.... (read in full...)
He hasn't called in 2 weeks
Q. We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me every day..last time I saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him... saying I am not giving him ...
A. 12 January 2009: move on its clear this guy doesn't love you, don't bother calling and texting it will only hurt you more.
get busy with your life,do something you enjoy soon you will meet someone who will love you whole heartedly
he is a coward and can't come o... (read in full...)
How would I know if he is cheating or has lost interest?
Q. I have been dating this guy for a year now and it's been good for thr most part but I know we are all still human, so my question is how would I know if he is cheating or has lost interest?...
A. 9 January 2009: don't worry about cheating and lossing interest if he is not giving you any reason to,just enjoy each other
but if u must know,if a guy looses interest he will stop calling you,will not want to spend time with you and about cheating he may canc... (read in full...)
How would I know if he is cheating or has lost interest?
Q. I have been dating this guy for a year now and it's been good for thr most part but I know we are all still human, so my question is how would I know if he is cheating or has lost interest?...
A. 9 January 2009: don't worry about cheating and lossing interest if he is not giving you any reason to,just enjoy each other
but if u must know,if a guy looses interest he will stop calling you,will not want to spend time with you and about cheating he may canc... (read in full...)
I still love and need him so much... but I broke up with him.
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend today. I told two people what happened and they agree that it was the right thing to do but inside I feel like I just want to be with him.. he's such a jerk to me about this and he said either we're together or we don't ...
A. 8 January 2009: what was the reason behind the break up?
... (read in full...)
How do I get my friend to listen to me and leave her boyfriend??
Q. Hey guys! Heres my problem I have a very good friend who shall remain nameless which is 15. Every time I see her we always talk about her boyfriend which makes me mad. Because She says "Oh my boyfriend chose his friends over me" or "He lied to me h...
A. 8 January 2009: l think its time for silence now, you have said all you can say but she not listening to you.
she knows he is not good for her but maybe she is sacred of being alone.
l once dated a player,l knew he was bad for me and everyone said so but l bec... (read in full...)
It's between myself and his ex, should I wait for his decision?
Q. My friend for a while just told me that he's really feeling me. But he has a situation dealin with his ex-girlfriend. He says that he don't know if he's feeling her more or me. I was just wondering if he using me to get over his ex, because that's ...
A. 7 January 2009: he may be using you to get over his ex or wants to make sure its really is over btwn him and x
don't act like bf & gf(like making out)till he has fallen for you and is no longer talking about ex.... (read in full...)
Will it be a good idea if I do sleep with him only one time?
Q. Dear cupid, So i've been thinking people. I talk to a few guys but its this one guy I was thinking about having sex with. I'm not the type of female that sleeps with any guy and every guy. Will it be a good idea if I do sleep with him only one time...
A. 7 January 2009: its not a good idea because you may start to have feelings for this guy and he will not feel the same way-it will hurt you
guys can have sex and walk away but with us gals its different.
... (read in full...)
We broke up, but will we still be good friends?
Q. My girlfriend and I had been dating for almost 4 months and she broke up with me about 2 and a half weeks ago. The reason we broke up is because she wanted to be single, she said I didn't do anything wrong and that she still cares for me and loves ...
A. 7 January 2009: if you still have feelings for her don't be friends,it will only hurt you more.
distance yoself from her for some months,make sure you became friends only when you no longer love her
if you are hopping you will reconcile then she has to miss you... (read in full...)
Should I take the plunge or wait it out?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been hanging out with this guy for a while and my feelings are starting to grow more and more for him. We aren't going out yet but I can't wait till the day we do. Now I know that if i wanted to have sex with him that he woul...
A. 6 January 2009: its not wrong to feel that way, it was bound to happen coz you spent so much together,he may start to feel that way too
its normal to think about having sex but don't act upon those thoughts-don't sleep with a guy who hasn't fallen for you yet... (read in full...)
Is he just not that interested or did I scare him off by suggesting we meet up?
Q. Met a guy a while ago through work and recently added him on my Facebook. He didn't remember me but accepted my request and messaged me. We then exchanged a couple messages and he started asking what my weekend plans were. I told him and asked about ...
A. 6 January 2009: it may be that you sacred him away when you suggested that you meet up or he actually had plans for the weekend and was just making conversation,now is afraid if he message you ,you will ask him why he didn't call
you can message him a 'hello' and ... (read in full...)
How do I earn trust back so we can get our relationship back to how it was?
Q. i recently cheated on my boyfriend of 3 months and he broke up with me 3 times in 1 day because he was so mad,but thats not my problem because we got back together.my problem happens to be that now that we are back together i still feel that he is ...
A. 5 January 2009: it will take time for him to trust you again
make sure he knows where you are everytime and with whom,always answer your phone so he doesn't have to wonder why you are not answering.
if you have guy friends make sure he knows you are just friends ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for the girl I call my best friend!
Q. I've been bestfriend with this girl for a while now and I really have fallen for her! I told her how I felt and she said she felt the same way but if anything went wrong in a relationship she didnt want to lose me. I saw what she meant. Its been 3 ...
A. 2 January 2009: why don't you try being scarce so she can miss you and realize how important you are to her... (read in full...)
He dumped me for another girl and lives next door!
Q. I have just been dumped after a relationship of 17 months. I met him just as he hit on a very difficult time in his life financially and was very reticent to get involved at first. But i did. i stuck with him through the hard times and fell head ...
A. 2 January 2009: it hurts l know but be glad you get to know him before it was too late.
move on with your life,go out with friends and have fun.
if you feel like crying,cry.
the pain will go away in time
if you have another place to go-do so-it will ease th... (read in full...)
Why don't women appreciate a good guy?
Q. my gf hasnt been giving me respect as her man, lover. we became a couple in may, but she dumped me in july n we got back together same month.i found out in that time she had sex with another man. i also found out by going through her emails that i ...
A. 2 January 2009: break up with her,you deserve so much better.......
she knows you love her,thats why she walks over you.put an end to this.
not all of us girls don't appreciate good guys
l know you love her but you will only keep hurting.find something t... (read in full...)
Says he loves me but won't break up with his girlfriend
Q. Im 16 and he is 21. That isn't the problem though. He has a girlfriend. I have spoken to him about it and the only thing he says is you know how i feel about the situation. He claims to love me but then he doesnt want to break up with his girlfriend ...
A. 2 January 2009: let him go;you don't deserve to be the other girl
he will never leave his girlfriend because he doesn't have to,he can have you both.he isn't leaving his gf coz he loves her.
tell him its either you or the girl and mean it,if he continue to b... (read in full...)
We agreed that the only way to stay together is to have a baby... should we do it??
Q. ok ummm im 13 and my gf is 17 weve been together for nearly a year and i love her with all my heart ........do you think that its a big age diffrence for us? also her parents hate me so much! i cant talk to her anymore kuz they caught us having ...
A. 2 January 2009: NO!!!
don't do it,you will only regret it later in life
you are still young and have a whole life ahead of you-if are meant to be with this girl you will be-baby or no baby... (read in full...)
What should I do about her not talking to me?
Q. My girlfriend is to allergic nuts. One day randomly bumped into her. She lean in to kiss me but I couldn't let her because I had nuts that day and not being aure what her reaction would be. She got upset and before I could explain, she got out of my ...
A. 2 January 2009: call,text or emailing her telling her the reason you didn't want to kiss that day... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a friend that doesn't feel that way about me!
Q. So theres this girl that I have been friends with for atleast 3 years and we r best friends. All my other friends know I like her and they are always messin' with me about it. So one day, word got around our little group of friends and she found ...
A. 2 January 2009: tell her you lied that you don't like her
tell her how you actually feel ... (read in full...)
How do I let the Ex know I'm doing well?
Q. I always hear that "The best revenge ever on the Ex that dumped you is simply, LIVING WELL". Do you agree ? Any comments on this ? How can I let my ex know that I'm doing well without him if we're thousand miles apart ? How would he feels i...
A. 2 January 2009: don't contact him-being silent is the best revenge... (read in full...)
Why can't he say "I love you" after 4 years of crazy sex?!
Q. Can a man who shows every signs of loving a woman not be able to say "I love you" even after 4 years of crazy sex? I always thought that I could recognize love. I know that many women mistake lust for love...but is it possible that a man may love ...
A. 2 January 2009: stop having sex,and see what will happen... (read in full...)
Should I tell him my feelings or am I wasting my time?
Q. I really like this guy, we met up in the city recently and hung out, had a good time went to the movie and madeout. Its sort of been a little awkward ever since, but i could be looking into it. Then he tells me he hooked up with his Ex over new ...
A. 2 January 2009: l think you should continue talking to him and hanging out
don't tell him about your feelings as yet... (read in full...)
He didn't text me for 4 hours! Am I wrong to be hurt by this?
Q. I've been having a long distance relationship with a guy for just over a year and I felt as if I liked him more than he liked me.... So I asked him and he said that could be true, that was about a week ago and everything's been fine recently. By ...
A. 31 December 2008: it was wrong of him not to tell you but don't stress him over it
don't reply his texts next time he text, let him wonder why
pretend to be been busy ,see what happens... (read in full...)
Should I stay with him and work things out?
Q. ok well were do i start me and my ex was 2gther for seven months. we were also engaged for 5 of those months we have being having a few problems latley and all we seem to do is argue. then on christmas day he broke up with me. he said he didnt love ...
A. 31 December 2008: this guy only tells you he loves when you are having sex????????
what does that tell you?he only wants you for sex
believe him when he says he no longer loves you
let him go.u deserve better... (read in full...)
Can someone tell me how to get over him?
Q. i have a crush i hate him but i like everybody in my class thats a girl but ones a gossip and befor everybody ones how can i get over him he's nice but he "thinks" i'm evil but i just tease him and he terases me and he likes a girl i the class ...
A. 31 December 2008: avoid him
hang out with friends
do something you enjoy
write things you hate about him and read it every time you agonize over him
... (read in full...)
Leave him alone for good?
Q. I recently had a fight on christmas day with my boyfriend after we've been together for a year and I slapped him, he got mad and left. I called him we argued and he said "you what we should just be friends for a while because I'm tired of fighting", ...
A. 30 December 2008: give him time to cool off
tell him you are sorry for slapping him and then let him be
if he doesn't contact you for say 2 weeks leave him for good... (read in full...)
What do I have to do so he realizes that she is not meant for him?
Q. So the first day of class this semester, i got my eye on this one really cute guy. I guess he noticed, because that weekend he started texting me. He got my number from one of his friends that i was good friends with. We texted that whole weekend, ...
A. 30 December 2008: l agree with kakatonik-a guy who cheats on his girlfriend with you will do the same to you
let him go... (read in full...)
My friend likes my girlfriend and she likes him...
Q. I'm with this girl there for the past 6 weeks and for the past 2 days things haven't been going that good!! she likes my friend and my friend likes her too! They were supposed to meet each other before we got with each other but it never hapened! ...
A. 30 December 2008: at times its best to let go of someone,if she loves you she will come back
tell her you love her very much but you can't keep hurting-you are giving her and yo buddy space
and make sure you do give them space... (read in full...)
How can I move on when I'm hurting so much?
Q. Oh why did I have to go and fall in love with him, i'm so stupid I promised myself I would never let myself fall so deep for another again, I promised myself that I wouldn't open my heart to him not until I was one hundred percent sure that he was ...
A. 29 December 2008: just let go,with time the pain will go away
avoid seeing him,don't call or text him.
do something you enjoy,don't lock yourself in one room-go out and have fun.cry if you have to
all you need is time... (read in full...)
Did he lose service or something? He hasn't texted me all day!
Q. My boyfriend hasn't texted me for a day. It's really annoying I only texted him twice yesterday and then I was like w/e but, it's really annoying. I'm away in Colordao and I know he likes me alot he tells people and we've been going out for 3 weeks ...
A. 29 December 2008: give it time
it could be there is no service
just chill,don't text him... (read in full...)
I want him back but how?
Q. Okay so my problem is I am still in love with my ex boyfriend even though our breakup was almost 2 years ago, and I really want him back! He's the only guy I ever had real feelings for. In elementary school we used to be BEST FRIENDS but I always h...
A. 29 December 2008: tell him how you feel thats the only way you will know if he still want you... (read in full...)
I want her to give me one more chance!
Q. Can anyone give me advice on how to get my ex girlfriend back? We were together for 6 months and in May she broke up with me because we would fight a lot and I would not give her space, I would make big deals when she would want to go places with ...
A. 24 December 2008: tell her how you feel and that you are prepared to give her space and time with friends. AND mean it!!!!!!... (read in full...)
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