A
male
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes:I've been dating a girl for 3 1/2 months but it seems like she would rather hang out with her friends more than hang with me. Like we won't see each other for 5 days and when we suppose to hang out it will only be for a couple hours before she has to do something else. I know that she likes me but I just think she takes me for granted. I'm kind of wondering what should I do? Reply to this Question |
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reader, nokutenda  + ♥, writes (3 February 2009):
l think you could try not being available when she wants to see you or next time you meet her pretend you have somewhere you have to rush to- don't let her be the first to say goodbye
let her feel what you feel every time when she has to hang out with friends
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female
reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (3 February 2009):
 Why dont you plan something when you are with her tell her beforehand that you have and that it will take most of the day/night etc; and if she comes up with some excuse she cant be away for that length of time question her why?
If on the other hand she is just shy and wants you to keep making the first moves then talk this over with her because 5 days is a long time not to see one another especially if you are not in a LDR relationship.
Gina
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