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Should I just cut my losses and dump him?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I am 20 years old, and have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months now since we met through a workmate of mine. He’s 27 Everything was going great until he dropped a bombshell after we had been going out for almost 2 months, ...

A.   5 December 2008: cut your looses and dump him... (read in full...)

Should I just cut my losses and dump him?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I am 20 years old, and have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months now since we met through a workmate of mine. He’s 27 Everything was going great until he dropped a bombshell after we had been going out for almost 2 months, ...

A.   3 December 2008: did he tell you about being married after you found the pictures or he just said it.if he told you without you asking you may give him a chance but the fact that he is lying about not talking to his ex gets me wondering-it maybe he is still in love... (read in full...)

I feel horrible that I broke up with her, what am I supposed to do?

Q.   I've just broke up with my girlfriend after over a year of going out. I said that i wasn't ready for a serious relationship and that my feelings had changed for her. I knew it was going to be hard but i feel really bad and i know she's real...

A.   3 December 2008: if you love her get her back,tell her you are sorry for what you did and work things out things from there. if you don't and only feel pity let her go she will get over you and meet someone who loves her... (read in full...)

He doesn't pursue me in a eager way! Is he just nervous or dates me out of boredom?

Q.   I met a guy online and now have been out with him twice. He has my phone number. We have briefly talked on the phone but mostly played phone tag on each others voicemails. He keeps emailing me to ask me out not only that but each time he takes a few ...

A.   3 December 2008: it may be that he is not interested but give it time see what he is thinking.only time will tell you where he stands-don't call him;if he wants you he will call give him a week see if he will contact you if he doesn't move on... (read in full...)

How do I stop being used like this?

Q.   I'm completely in love with this guy, however he only seems to pay attention to me every now and then. He uses me, because in my twisted head that's desperate for him to love me too and will do anything for him, I'll do stuff on webcam for him. I...

A.   3 December 2008: he is using you because he knows he can put a stop to this stay away from this guy,don;t answer his calls if he calls. you deserve better than this it may hurt not to talk or see him for some time but its good for you take each day as it comes... (read in full...)

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