I want her to give me one more chance!
Q. Can anyone give me advice on how to get my ex girlfriend back? We were together for 6 months and in May she broke up with me because we would fight a lot and I would not give her space, I would make big deals when she would want to go places with ...
A. 24 December 2008: tell her how you feel and that you are prepared to give her space and time with friends. AND mean it!!!!!!... (read in full...)
Is it possible for me not to be able to let go of him because... he's my first?
Q. Hey I really haven't written a question in a while, coz I wanted to see what would've happened between me and HIM..... so I really don't know know what's up any more. my question is... is it possible for me not to be able to let go of him becaus...
A. 24 December 2008: time is all you need
even if he is your first you will get over him
do something you enjoy,hang out with friends,don't call or text him
... (read in full...)
If he likes me then why are we not back together?
Q. Hiya guys, One question about my ex bf, weve been split for about 3 months,we talk eveyday and see each other most days, but when i do see him he flirts with other girls and talks as in what he wants to do to them ( he nows these girls and so do i)...
A. 24 December 2008: he has moved on, stop listening to his friends - if he still wanted you he wouldn't be seeing someone else. Stop sleeping with him, avoid him totally.... (read in full...)
How can I ask forgiveness and make him trust me again?
Q. ive been together with my boyfriend for 8 years we have two kids together. and a year ago when i got pregnant with my second baby i cheated on him with someone else. i didnt now if the kid was his or the others so i told him 2months after the baby ...
A. 24 December 2008: you have hurt him so much and it will take time for him to forgive and trust you again.
you can try writing him a letter telling him you are very sorry for what you did and love him so much
the best might be to let him go,letting him date someone ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy to still miss my ex this much?
Q. Hi. I'm struggling with something I cant get out of my head. My ex. He wasnt the best thing for me, and the guy I'm with now is amazing, and I love him so much, but my ex is still in my mind constantly. Not in any sexual or relationshippy way ...
A. 24 December 2008: the only way you can actually move on is by meting him
that way you will be able to really move on.
don't you have someone you know who has his number or who know his whereabouts?
it also helps to think about the negatives about your ex.
your ex... (read in full...)
Should I call him back or have a friend relay the message?
Q. Ok so same guy even more confusing. ok so I was relayed a message from my future boo to call him and when I did he wasn't there and I was so nervous that I forgot to ask his mom (no cellphone) to tell him to call me be back or even tell him I ...
A. 24 December 2008: l think you should call again and this time make sure you leave a message or try calling time you are sure he will be home... (read in full...)
How can I see if he wants to try again and should I give it time?
Q. on sunday my bf dumped me saying that he doesnt love me but we only been together 6 months so love is not important at this stage in the relationship. he had a few problems before with his nan having a stroke and his brother breaking up with his ...
A. 23 December 2008: give him his space for the meantime,let him miss you
find something to do to keep you busy,don't call or text him
even when he wants to see you don't be available,... (read in full...)
She thinks of our relationship as more of a friendship, what do I do?
Q. i have been with my girlfiend for 18 months now and i love her so much. latly everything has changed and i dont know what to do. she said that she feels as though our relationship is more of a friendship. i dont know what happened. i buy her gifts ...
A. 23 December 2008: be unavailable,don't call her,stop buying her gifts,don't text her,get busy with something else
she will start missing you and realize she wants more than friendship... (read in full...)
What should I do if I still want him back?
Q. I dated a guy through all through high school and 2 years of college and he was the first guy I was ever with. We only broke up because the relationship wasn't working long distance (we went to different colleges) and I believe we would have stayed ...
A. 23 December 2008: l think he is moving on with his life since he is now seeing someone else
but
tell him how you feel and that you still want him back and see how he responds,asking about you may mean he still wants you but isn't willing to let go of his current ... (read in full...)
Is he making it clear we are just going out as friends? He calls me 'buddy'.
Q. I'm falling head over heels for this guy. I recently broke up with my ex..and he was there to offer his support. He had mentioned us going out even while I was in a relationship..I never took him seriously. But now we've gone out a few times and we ...
A. 23 December 2008: l think maybe he is just taking things slow.
take each day as it comes,don't rush.... (read in full...)
What should I do if I still want him back?
Q. I dated a guy through all through high school and 2 years of college and he was the first guy I was ever with. We only broke up because the relationship wasn't working long distance (we went to different colleges) and I believe we would have stayed ...
A. 23 December 2008: I think he is moving on with his life since he is now seeing someone else but tell him how you feel and that you still want him back and see how he responds, asking about you may mean he still wants you but isn't willing to let go of his current ... (read in full...)
I love my ex but he has a girlfriend.
Q. hey, I'm crazy in love with my ex, but he has a girl friend. His new girl friend is his best friend's ex and his best friend is still crazy about his ex. I love my ex and I do still want to be friends with him but I want it to be more then that. ...
A. 23 December 2008: Let them be, don't get involved. If you are meant to be you will be. Give them their time, find something to do to keep you busy - him dating someone else means he has moved on.... (read in full...)
Should I wait or is he giving me a line?
Q. Foolishly In Love?? I have been a relationship for four years. He cheated and now the other woman is pregnant. Foolishly I hung in there but we argued too much, he moved out and is now living with her (for past month). Problem is that I still ...
A. 17 December 2008: let him go you deserve better than this.
he may call you but he is still living with the mother of his baby!!!!
if he really cared he could have come to live with you
l think he is in for the sex,thats why he calls you all day long
... (read in full...)
He broke up with me, however we still live together, any advice?
Q. i been living with my boyfriend for 10 months but at the end of november he told me his plans for next year . He wantd us to live separate .He said he needed his onw space and his onw stuff. But the problem was that i went nuts ! i got very angry ...
A. 17 December 2008: let him go,if you are meant to be he will be back
let him move out and have his space,it will hurt but its for your own good
find something to do to keep busy,don't call him when he moves out
cry if you want but do not beg for his love,it will... (read in full...)
He blew me off hung up on me!
Q. help my boyfriend totally blew me off today i called him and he said he had to go and just hung up what do i do he had a friend over but i feel like he hates me but he said he loves me still...
A. 17 December 2008: he needs his space to hang out with friends give him that space and he will love you more
it doesn't mean he hates you... (read in full...)
Should I set her free?
Q. Hello, okay, I need some advice on a break up, and what I should do about it. My girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly 3 years now, we started dating when we were 18, and now we are both 21. We've always had an excellent relationship, ...
A. 11 December 2008: tell her how you feel
if she still decide to go,let her go if you are meant to be you will be
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is acting weird am I misunderstanding?
Q. okay i need help with my 8 months relationship...AGAIN haha. so sorry it's long, id appreciate it if you read - - - - - - I called my bf and asked if i can see him yesterday and he told me to come over at his home on my way from w...
A. 11 December 2008: give him time
he loves you he got jealous when he saw you were enjoying the company of his brother
you could text him telling him you went over to their place because of him,that you love him,he is your life.
see how it goes... (read in full...)
Should I invite him to my b-day party?
Q. So a quick recap. We met about 2 weeks ago. Spent the first two days together. Exchanged a few mails. (i.e. I emailed him and he always answered.) Asked him to meet up on last Sunday. He canceled at the very last minute saying that he was just too...
A. 11 December 2008: invite him, thats the only way you will know where he stands
if he doesn't come forget about him... (read in full...)
Is he seeing someone else? Should I just forget about him?
Q. hi there l need help. l don't know if my boyfriend is seeing somebody else we have been dating for 2 months sometimes he doesn't call for say 3 days and then after that he calls saying he misses me.we meet and everything is normal but yest...
A. 5 December 2008: thanx for the advices he hasn't replied my text or called and it hurts.guess he doesn't love me... (read in full...)
He broke up after he kissed another girl. Do I tell him that I'm still in love with him?
Q. Me and my ex-boyfriend had a really stable relationship, that is until he kissed another girl and decided that because of it we couldn't be together "You deserve better" is what he said. The truth is I don't want better and I don't belive one kiss ...
A. 5 December 2008: if he wanted you he was going to apologize for what he did not tell you you deserve better.he is no longer interested, save yourself from more pain and move on
l once had a guy who used to say l deserve better,the truth it turned he no longer want... (read in full...)
Am I being harsh to end things without giving him a chance to explain?
Q. Aunts I need to know if im over exaggerating or not. In 3 hours im going to end things with my boyfriend who I love. This is because he knows my ex boyfriend of 8 years cheated on me with his little sister's hot best friend and now my current ...
A. 5 December 2008: tell him how you feel and about your ex if he really loves you he will ask the girl to move out. if he doesn't let him be... (read in full...)
Is he talking the truth when drunk? Any ideas?
Q. All mature people here please give me the right advice. I have a boyfriend. But our relation is strange. First i used to call him. He always asked to call me only between 4-5 on saturday. Most of the times he used to cut my calls.Out of frustration ...
A. 5 December 2008: he doesn't love you.thats the truth.
he wants you for sex
when he calls you don't be available
a guy who loves will not be rough when sober
you used to call him and when you stopped he missed those calls and texted,it was not because he loves... (read in full...)
He said he wants to forget about me but he doesn't even know me that well!
Q. The guy I like, well people have told me that I had fallen for him and apparently is obvious, he told me that there was a connection and that because he didn't know me that well he didn't want anything more, because we don't have the same interests ...
A. 5 December 2008: he knows you have fallen for him,he may be doing that because he realized he cares about you or is just playing a game with your head.
ask him why he keeps looking at you and seems to want to be near you,this may save you heartache coz you will keep... (read in full...)
Should I just cut my losses and dump him?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am 20 years old, and have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months now since we met through a workmate of mine. He’s 27 Everything was going great until he dropped a bombshell after we had been going out for almost 2 months, ...
A. 5 December 2008: cut your looses and dump him... (read in full...)
Should I just tell him I like him, or wait and see next semester?
Q. Okay so my friend (Who goes to a different college) introduced me to her guy friend who I now go to school with. And at first I thought he was kinda dorky and I wasn’t interested in him. But after that I started meeting him for breakfast with our ...
A. 5 December 2008: give him a call.see if he calls back... (read in full...)
My best friend's boyfriend likes me, should I let her know?
Q. My best friend has been dating her boyfriend for two years. A few days ago he tried to kiss me but i didn't let it happen. That day he confessed me he had been wondering for about six months why he hadn't met me before he met his girlfriend. I ...
A. 5 December 2008: tell your friend,she may get angry,be hurt but in the end she will thank you for your honesty put yourself in her shoes,what would you like your friend to do?... (read in full...)
Do I continue to wait?
Q. I'm partially afraid to ask this question because I believe I know what you all are going to say. And, I apologize in advance if this gets long. Basically, I'm absolutely in love with my friend (J) who is already in a relationship (wi...
A. 5 December 2008: tell her you are giving her time to see the relationship through,if she calls you to say she wants to meet you don't be available,avoid her totally
don't call or text,this is the only way she can really decide who she wants to be with
if she miss... (read in full...)
What are the signs a boy gives when he's interested in you?
Q. I have a problem, I don't know when a boys likes me. What are the signs a boy gives when he's interested in you?...
A. 5 December 2008: he will want to speak to you spend time with you ask about you to your friends calls or text you wants to be near you is interested in what you say tease you you may also find him looking at you sometimes... (read in full...)
We've only just started dating and now her ex wants her back
Q. I'm a bit down and need some help. Two weeks ago I started chatting to a women who I met on an online dating site, we have been talking every day and night since. I have seen her three times in total, the last time I met her was Tuesday night, w...
A. 4 December 2008: let her make the decision
tell her you love her but you will respect her decision
it will hurt if she doesn't chose you but thats life-you will meet someone else... (read in full...)
Do I have a chance?
Q. I've met this girl on the first week of our semester. Everyday, when we're at the school, she really caughts my attention. She's a simple girl, my ideal girl. As time pass by, we had a chance to talk with each other, have a lunch together and etc. ...
A. 4 December 2008: tell her how you feel
the chance is there, have dated guys whom l thought would never date coz of age, weight, etc.........l couldn't control the heart
... (read in full...)
Is he really 'into' me or is he just testing me?
Q. I know this guy from Facebook. At first we just chat via emailing. But later, we exchange phone number. We are having a good conversation. We flirt at each other through phone messaging. He the one always hurried to meet each other. But I always ...
A. 4 December 2008: he may be playing the game or he may have lost interest.
call him to find out... (read in full...)
Why does she still keep in contact with him?
Q. My girlfriend cheated on me and I forgave her, but she still keeps in contact with him. What should I do?...
A. 4 December 2008: its because he is still hung up on him.she has to choose either to continue talking to her ex or seeing you.
you deserve better than this... (read in full...)
Is he really 'into' me or is he just testing me?
Q. I know this guy from Facebook. At first we just chat via emailing. But later, we exchange phone number. We are having a good conversation. We flirt at each other through phone messaging. He the one always hurried to meet each other. But I always ...
A. 4 December 2008: l think you should call him thats the only way you can be sure about his feelings.
don't be too forwarding just say you called to see how he has been doing since it had been long
his response will tell you the way forward... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he close his eyes?
Q. my boyfriend doesn't close his eyes when kissing what does it mean?...
A. 4 December 2008: thanx thought maybe he wasn't enjoying himself... (read in full...)
Is it okay to be friends? She wants us to be friends!
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me 3 days ago. She says she doesn't want the responsibilty of a girlfriend. She says she doesn't want to see me and she is too busy and needs to concentrate on school. She says we can be friends. Do you think we can be ...
A. 4 December 2008: its not a good idea to be friends with an ex because you will never get over her.
how can you be friends when she doesn't want to see you,is busy and wants to concentrate on her studies.she is being selfish
let her be don't agree to the friendsh... (read in full...)
My BFF likes him too, should I just forget about him?
Q. So the guy i like is amazing you could even call him a rare package (yes i know i'll probably meet more who i think the same of, but this is the one right now). I think that he likes me too because he's always trying to show affection to me by ...
A. 4 December 2008: tell your friend you also like the guy but you are going to step aside to give them a chance if she truly love him.
... (read in full...)
I want her back. Is there anything I can do other than wait?
Q. Okay. I am 18 years old. I just a girlfriend 1 and 1/2 months ago and it's already done for. For the first month we absolutly were obsessed with each we said we loved each other every night ECt. We went on dates a lot. We have never kissed. But she ...
A. 4 December 2008: you can try talking to her.
tell her how you feel about her,it may be what she is waiting to hear.by saying how you feel she will open up and say what she is really feeling.
she may be testing the extent of your love.
talk to her... (read in full...)
Should I keep what I feel about him to myself until the time is right?
Q. Hello everyone : ), I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years but I've known him forever. I'm so madly in love with him. I wanna have his baby, so bad I know we'd both be great parents. I know that I'm not ready financially though. I just c...
A. 4 December 2008: l think you should say it in passing,don't make it the topic.
while talking u can just say something like... 'hey u know l love you l would like to marry you and have your baby one day' and leave it like that.don't put pressure and don't expect a an... (read in full...)
Is two months a short time to fall in love?
Q. does he love me? l have been dating this guy for 2 months,he doesn't call sometimes-its been two days now we recently got back together after l had ended things because he had come 3 hours late for an appointment.l said some horrible things ...
A. 3 December 2008: will l not push him away by asking his feelings?... (read in full...)
Is he just not into me?
Q. I met a guy last spring in the mall, he is definitely attracted to me. i had a crush and we flirted a few times. then he stopped flirting with me and i decided to stop going to the mall to see him but decided to leave a "window open" by seeing ...
A. 3 December 2008: give it time.you could go to his workplace-see how it goes from there, he will ask for a date if he is interested but l think he likes you... (read in full...)
Should I just cut my losses and dump him?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am 20 years old, and have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months now since we met through a workmate of mine. He’s 27 Everything was going great until he dropped a bombshell after we had been going out for almost 2 months, ...
A. 3 December 2008: did he tell you about being married after you found the pictures or he just said it.if he told you without you asking you may give him a chance
but the fact that he is lying about not talking to his ex gets me wondering-it maybe he is still in love... (read in full...)
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