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Hello my name is Niki i am 21 years old and have a 1 year old son. i am recently seperated from my husband. my son and i live in the country. i like to help people, i like to listen and see what i can do to make people happier or help them out with problems. Please do not be afraid to message me! I will respond asap. (i check the site everyday , multiple times a day, most likely you will have a response the same day). Thanks again. :) |
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23 June 2009: I have been on this site for a few months and i have seen so many questions like "Am i pregnant?". I wrote this to help some of you out there feeling lost.(1)fatigue or the lack of energy.(2)light spotting if you have concieved,spotting can be ...
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I have no idea why my husband doesn't want sex anymore
Q. im 20, my husbands 25. we have been married for a year and have a 9 months year old son. he seems like he has lost interest in having sex with me. sex never use to be a problem, and all of a sudden he makes up excuses..its driving me insane. i have...
A. 4 June 2009: since i have wrote this our sex life is productive, b/c he stoped working on te farm. he literally worked over 80 hours a week and 7days so i finally have him to myself, well kinda thank u guys... (read in full...)
I have no idea why my husband doesn't want sex anymore
Q. im 20, my husbands 25. we have been married for a year and have a 9 months year old son. he seems like he has lost interest in having sex with me. sex never use to be a problem, and all of a sudden he makes up excuses..its driving me insane. i have...
A. 7 April 2009: So i figured it out, he finally cracked! I asked himn if he wouldn't have sex with me bc of me. He said no and that it was because when he has a bad day at work it sets off all of the sex drive he has had for that day. He said that he didn't want to ... (read in full...)
The engagement, the abuse and the good times... how do I get over him?
Q. Let's just say I met this guy when I was 16 (I am almost 19 now) and he was 18 (now he is 21), we had a really great relationship he was my first serious boyfriend and I lost my virginity to him. After a year he started lying to me and cheating on ...
A. 7 April 2009: first of all it is not your fault that he was a jerk. This is the kind of guy that shouldn't let you cry. I know it hurts but lets face it cry for the girl he was with. Its hard to look the other way, i know i have been there. not to that extent but ... (read in full...)
I'm too shy and I'm gonna lose my first love because of it.
Q. Hi! I'm 15 and I was hoping you help me because I got 2 problems. The first 1 is: there's a boy in my class and he's like madly in love with me but I don't love him! He keeps getting me stuff you know many presents and I couldn't refuse them ...
A. 7 April 2009: As your answer to question 1, i have been there. I truthfully loved getting the presents but didn't love him. I just told him one day that i can't be with him , but in a nicer way. I would just sit down calmly and tell him that you are not into him, ... (read in full...)
Hurt and confused
Q. Hi everyone, thanks for taking the time to read! I've been friends with this girl for about a year and lately I've been wanting to get into a proper relationship with her, and thinking maybe she wanted it too. We've been seeing a lot of each othe...
A. 7 April 2009: Sometimes it is hard to let go of the past no matter how good or bad the past actually is. She could be looking at it through rose colored glasses. I believe that she may like you but she still is attached to the "evil" ex. How long has it been ... (read in full...)
Missed period and negative test, but still worried. Advice please
Q. ok this is a birth control question,my doctor put me on the pill, loestrin 24fe and i started my second pack on the 29th when i was supposed to but i never got my period at all and i have never missed one before , my doc said not to worry and i have ...
A. 7 April 2009: If your doctor says not to worry don't. This is a new birthcontrol that you are on.You may be expiernce the no period because the changes of hormone that has been introduced into the body dude to the birth control. Dont worry im sure your ok. I ... (read in full...)
How can I get my girlfriend back? What is the best thing to do from here on?
Q. i have been dating a girl for 8 months when last night she told me she wanted to break up. The reason she gave was that she had a lot of things going on in her head and she couldn't sort everything out whilst being in a relationship. she said it w...
A. 7 April 2009: From a womens point of view, she probably has feelings for you still and doesnt want to be far from you. She may be in a "tight" spot and needs just a breather, ive been there. I think that you should be there to support her for whatever reasons she ... (read in full...)
How do I find the strength to leave this monster of a husband?
Q. I've been married for 8 years and my marriage is going down the drain I kick my husband out 2 days ago but i don't think I'm strong enough to let go. Will he's a drunk we wen to a party and he got so wasted he dragged me around all night I didn...
A. 7 April 2009: You have to think about your kids in the situation. Is it better for them to be with this "monster" as you said or is it better to have the kids around him. Personally i wouldn't want my son around his dad if he was like that. I think that in this... (read in full...)
I think I am a lesbian! Am I in love or in lust, with my best friend?
Q. hello im a 17year old girl and i have a serious problem... i love my best friend who happens to be a girl. we kiss when we are drunk and recently we had sex (however girls have it) and ever since i find it impossible to forget about her. i find my...
A. 7 April 2009: Hello. I think you might have a little bit of lust and love. Maybe you like the idea of being with her but you can't get her out of your head because you are sexually attracted to her. If you still feel sexually attracted to guys then your bise... (read in full...)
I have no idea why my husband doesn't want sex anymore
Q. im 20, my husbands 25. we have been married for a year and have a 9 months year old son. he seems like he has lost interest in having sex with me. sex never use to be a problem, and all of a sudden he makes up excuses..its driving me insane. i have...
A. 7 April 2009: alright so after i wrote the article i spoke with my husband as seriously as i could and i was upset. I tried a differant approach to asking him if it was me or not. Surprisingly i got him to talk but it didn't lead to much. thank you guys so much ... (read in full...)
I have no idea why my husband doesn't want sex anymore
Q. im 20, my husbands 25. we have been married for a year and have a 9 months year old son. he seems like he has lost interest in having sex with me. sex never use to be a problem, and all of a sudden he makes up excuses..its driving me insane. i have...
A. 7 April 2009: i also wanted to add that i have tried to talk to him. hes not the talking type i guess you can say.... (read in full...)
Parents don't approve of online boyfriend....
Q. I've known a guy online for a couple years, but we've been talking intensively and fallen for each other in the past couple months. In character, he seems to be everything I ever wanted, and I've also seen and heard him online. There is an age diff...
A. 7 April 2009: i say go with your parents request if you must. keep in mind that online datong os very dangerous. that is why your parents are worried. go to public places with him and check in w/your family. that way everyone is happy... (read in full...)
Just curious about pet names :-)
Q. This isn't serious. Its a serious question but like, not something I'm worried about. Just something I'm curious about. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now. We got together the same day we met and since day one, he calls me ...
A. 7 April 2009: hey i think that beautiful or gorgeous is better then hot or sexy. beautiful or gorgeous i personally think are used when a guy cares more about you. sexy and hot arent something to be to "jumpy" about. but thats just my opinion.... (read in full...)
What should I do? I like my [married] boss
Q. i like my boss a lot and i think she likes me. i have a fear that if i make a pass at her, i may have been wrong that she likes me and from then on my days here are numbered. she is married though but i know for a fact that they hate each other and ...
A. 7 April 2009: hello. i suggest you have sit down "professional" sit down chat. just calmly ask her her feelings for you. if you know for a fact that she cant stand him and says she hates him, make sure its not a phase. my husband and i can have that phase once or ... (read in full...)
13 yo and in love with my chat friend in the US - and he is 7 years older!
Q. ok so basically i go in2 a chat room but simply to talk to my cousin who lives in US. i have recently met a guy in there with is 7yrs older than me. he is sweet and caring and i feel like i can talk 2 him bout everything. i have fallen in love with ...
A. 7 April 2009: this is a hard queation to reply to. but i think your really young and ive been through a situation simalar to yours once or twice. i think you would have a hard time w/ a guy 7 years older then you. im married to a man 5 years older and thats ... (read in full...)
Men and Mood Swings
Q. I live with my boyfriend and boy does he have bad mood swings. He's always snapping and the relationship has to follow his flow. If he wants to be alone, then ill have to go sit in the bedroom so he can have the living room to himself. And he wont...
A. 7 April 2009: its a guy thing. im married and we didnt live together when we got married. weve been married for a year now, however my husbands the same way wont talk about his problems, or anything. just try and think of it as a man period. there are times im ... (read in full...)
Are there really guys that like petite girls?
Q. I've been wondering this for the longest time - are there really guys that like petite girls??? I'm Asian (maybe that has something to do with it?), 5'3, and barely 90 pounds. I've had boyfriends (so I guess people must find something attractive) ...
A. 7 April 2009: dear, there are guys that like petite girls out there, i am 5 1 and 110 pounds. im married to a 6 2 man. guys like girls who are outgoing, not shy. just be yourself and try and open up. ... (read in full...)
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