I think he stole my bracelet
Q. Over a year ago, I found my favorite bracelet, a diamond cuff bracelet missing. It was hidden in the side pocket of my suitcase, which was in my bedroom. I keep my bedroom locked when I'm not there. My boyfriend moved in with me about a month ...
A. 18 November 2012: Was it expensive enough to be a big deal if you reported it?
If so, mention to your roommate, his/her girlfriend, and your boyfriend that you reported its theft to the police, regardless of whether or not you actually do, and then ask one last tim... (read in full...)
LDR equals dead end relationship?
Q. Me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship. We have been for the last two years. I'm starting to miss being with her. We're both 18 and I think I'm wasting some of the best years of my life in a deadend relationship. Is it time to end ...
A. 21 October 2012: When you come to feel like any relationship - long-distance or otherwise - is a dead end, then it is time to end it.... (read in full...)
Is he really interested in me? Or am I just another conquest? And inexperienced too
Q. i've been seeing someone who is way more experienced than me sexually and most of his past girls have been very experienced and are into casual sex. it makes me feel like i'm just another conquest and i am curious if he is interested in me just beca...
A. 23 April 2012: That's the kind of guy I dated when I lost my virginity. In my case, yes, I was just another conquest.
With this type of scenario, I don't think there's any general rule of thumb. The only way to figure out if he has romantic feelings for you is t... (read in full...)
Do I make a move yet, or just wait and invite her over as a friend?
Q. I have liked this girl for a long time. We're great friends and I would love to be with her. However, she has always had boyfriends, and when I did ask her out, she sent me a nice email saying that we would never be more than friends (that was ...
A. 12 March 2012: It doesn't sound like she's interested. Save yourself from distress by leaving her be. Besides, if you continue to "make a move" despite her disinterest, you will not only not have her as a girlfriend but also lose her as a friend.... (read in full...)
What is he really saying when a guy says he's not ready to be in a relationship?
Q. There's this guy and I know for sure he likes me but he says he's not ready to be in a serious relationship because he broke up with his girlfriend 2 months ago. He said that I'm really beautiful and he's given a lot of thought about us. What d...
A. 9 March 2012: Sadly, I have to agree with CindyCares on this one. Don't waste your time because when guys say that it usually translates to either he's not interested or he wants no strings attached.
You can do better.... (read in full...)
I don't think I'm interesting enough to be dating!
Q. One of the main issues I have with myself when it comes to the lack of bothering with dating and relationships is that I just don't find myself interesting. Outside my minimum-wage retail job, I am at home on the computer playing games, l...
A. 8 March 2012: If everyone was super interesting, no one would be super interesting. Make connections based on what you like. Believe it or not, there are tons of girls out there who are into computer/video games. You mentioned an interest in music, so why no... (read in full...)
I'm sick, did I get it from giving my new partner oral sex?
Q. On Sunday 26th February, I had protected vaginal intercourse but unprotected oral sex with my new partner for the first time. I didn't ejaculate in her mouth nor did she orgasm whilst I was pleasuring her orally. The next morning, I noticed that...
A. 8 March 2012: Probably an unlucky coincidence. A similar thing happened to me on two separate occasions after having unprotected oral sex. But when I got tested for STDs, I came out clean.
It's always good to get tested whether you think you're sick or not, and... (read in full...)
I don't feel guilty about cheating on my wife until she cries, but even then I secretly enjoy it
Q. Hi Ok,i have got myself in a bit of situation, all self inflicted and im not looking for sympathy just advice. I met my partner on line 4 years ago, i was serving in the forces and whilst i was still married, we were not together, i was seeing som...
A. 8 March 2012: I think you both are handling the situation like it's some kind of competition. The two of you should have a sit-down chat about the whole situation because, despite what she says, if your wife cries about your cheating I would think she doesn't ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a gangster! Should I marry him?
Q. Hiya, I'm 27 years old woman and I dated a 19 year old boy for 5 months last year. The very first time that we met, I doubted that we would ever got along as he's 8years younger than me, turned out, it was like love at the first sight for us both ...
A. 7 March 2012: Let me get this straight: you two dated for 5 months last year, but presently it's only been two months since the break-up and he's asked for your hand in marriage?
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt, and assume you just made a typo/got... (read in full...)
Ladies, would you go out with a guy who asked you out straight away?
Q. As the above question says, would you go out on a date with a guy who you had only met on that occasion asked you out at the end of the evening? If you perceive that as needy, if a guy fancies a girl when should he ask her out?...
A. 7 March 2012: I would (and I have) if I felt the same intense attraction that drove him over to me.
Otherwise, no. I'm not into guys who simply lust over me. But to each her own, right? :)... (read in full...)
My boyfriend helps himself to the food in my home and I don't like it!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for six months. I see him at weekends and he stays at my house. When we go out he pays for meals. I am also generous. However, he gets up in the night or early morning and helps himself to food in my house. This really ...
A. 6 March 2012: Tell him you'd rather he not help himself to your food.... (read in full...)
does deleting his texts and not telling me anything make my husband guilty off something
Q. Hi i have been married for 21 years my husband is a lorry driver,he started going into a cafe about three years ago for his breakfast and became friendly with the owners her husband knows mine through the lorrys as hes also a lorry driver,but his ...
A. 6 March 2012: He's been texting your daughter? If you don't feel comfortable asking your hubby about his texts (as you shouldn't, considering you were snooping), why not ask your daughter what it's about instead?
Has this guy ever given you a reason to be suspi... (read in full...)
Is it ever OK to cheat on your spouse?
Q. My wife has basically lost interest in sex. We've talked about it a lot, and says she just doesn't think about it very much any more, and that she's at a stage in her life where she's just not interested. She still gets in the mood, but it's very ...
A. 6 March 2012: Cheating is never okay. The word "cheat" is pejorative for a reason.
Honestly, I don't think it's fair for you that your wife is neglecting something you so desire. You mentioned that she says she loves and wants to spend the rest of her life wit... (read in full...)
I feel guilty about this. I can't discuss this with my parents, but can I just have one 'one night stand'?
Q. Hello Everyone, I have been bought up very distant from boys and because I went to a christian primary school think that I should only have sex with another virgin and this should be who I marry if it happens before I get married. But now I am 1...
A. 6 March 2012: Your sex life is your business; your beliefs are yours to own.
That being said, don't have a one-night stand just because you want to lose your virginity. It may seem like everyone is "doing it", but I assure you everyone is not.
If this guy i... (read in full...)
I feel less attracted to my black fiance...and more attracted to Caucasian men!
Q. So its pretty simple I'm mixed black and white. My fiancée is black, lately I have been getting more and more attracted to white men, I'm not racist or anything. My preference has changed and it wouldn't be such a deal, if I didn't feel like I'm ...
A. 5 March 2012: There's nothing wrong with you in the least. Truer words were never spoken that we can't help who we are attracted to.... (read in full...)
He asked if I wanted to be FWB, I really want to but I'm scared because I'm a virgin! What should I do?
Q. So I've been pretty good friends with this guy for a year. We had an instant attraction and we both have wanted to be just more than friends but he had a girl friend at the time so nothing happened but he's now single. We've been flirting and ...
A. 5 March 2012: If you're just asking whether it's okay to enter a FWB relationship as a virgin, then the answer is simply yes. Especially since you told him that you are a virgin.
Now, if you're asking for confirmation as to whether or not it seems like a good i... (read in full...)
Went out for a drink with a male friend but didnt tell my husband the friend was a man, should I tell my husband the truth?
Q. Hi, I am in a slight dilemma over something that happened recently. I am a happily married woman with a stepson, and I have many male friends at work. They are just that, friends, and I would never think of doing anything with them that could harm ...
A. 5 March 2012: When in doubt, tell the truth. It's as simple as that.
Although it doesn't seem like you did anything wrong (I certainly don't think you did), you still have a slight feeling of guilt. Clear your conscience, and tell your hubby about your friend.... (read in full...)
Could I have lost my virginity without knowing?
Q. sex had always been an exciting thin for me as a child. as an adult now, i dislike it. i have always been a virgin i even broke up with my boyfriend because he wanted me to have sex with him. later when i was to try it, my partner was like you are ...
A. 5 March 2012: Yes, it's possible. It's even possible to lose your virginity without seeing much or any blood.
However, your hymen could still be in tact. Penetration can happen a few times before it breaks. Sex can be a bit painful or uncomfortable the first fe... (read in full...)
I want to have my ex as a friend again but don't know how to go about it
Q. Need some advice. I miss my ex boyfriend. We were together 6 months in LDR and he broke up with me because of timing and because he couldn't give me what I wanted. This was 3 months ago (ish). The last thing I said to him was that I couldn't be fr...
A. 5 March 2012: That's a toughy. I struggled with a similar situation (except my ex isn't long distance). Your best bet is to just send a simple "hey, how goes things?" Don't make it too personal in case he is opposed to the idea of getting back with you. While ... (read in full...)
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