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I will not love until I am with her

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Question - (22 September 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 25 September 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hey.

I’m a 23 year old guy, and I think I’m perfectly normal.

However, I’ve been having abnormal feelings about a girl for the last 7 years.

Basically Im in love with her. All I think about is her. All i want to do is be with her.

She keeps saying no, then dating other guys. I cant get her out of my head. I will not love until i am with her.

What should I do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010):

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Hey.

Thanks for your answers guys.

I think the best course of action would just to remain friends with her and try to focus my time and energy toward something/someone else.

Your advice is greatly appreciated.

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A female reader, Mature Lady United Kingdom +, writes (22 September 2010):

Hi

I know it is not easy when you have feelings for a person and they don't feel the same way,this is probably not what you want to hear,but if she keeps turning you down and dating other boys,she obviously does not have feelings for you the way you have for her,I feel you have to get over this girl and get on with your life there will be someone for you out there,or why do you not be friends with this girl,it is amazing what friendship can develope into

sometimes.

Goodluck.

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A male reader, mrvhappy United Kingdom +, writes (22 September 2010):

Hi there,

For what ever reason shes not into you.

Try to take up new hobbies/sports/interests and move on and find someone who wants to be with you or you will end up deeply hurt

Good luck

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (22 September 2010):

You need to end contact with her. That's the only way you'll ever move on. She has made it clear on more than one occasion that what you two have will never go any further, and at this rate you'll end up with a restraining order on you.

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