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I fantasize about having sex with my mother

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Question - (24 October 2007) 22 Answers - (Newest, 31 August 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I have asked this question before but am still curious as what to do. I am now 17, my mum is 43. 6 years ago, i was living with my mum, i was in the need of the drink, so went into the kitchen to get one, only my mum was in the way on the worktop reaching for something on the top, i looked up to try and get the glass only to get a small glimpse of my mum upskirt wearing nothing - no lie. i then walked off disgusted, a couple of months later i went to live with my dad, and then as you do, i was trying to masturbate over some porn but nothing, so girls i knew - nothing so a whole new territory, my cousins, aunt, nothing. My mum upskirt, better, my mum completely naked and having sex with me, blowjob the whole lot, fantastic. for five years the only person ive been able to masturbate over is my own mum and now i want to do something but dont know how to? (This is no joke, I even have a song for wanking over and when ever i go round to see her, i get an erection) I know incest is forbidden but i really do want to have intercourse with her.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009):

It's normal even though most people won't admit it. I found a video of my mother dressed up in some SEXY lingerie and doing a strip show. She was dressed very classy, not trashy at all but she looked so HOT! She started out in a very elegant evening gown, nail and hair done, make up done like an egyptian queen stripped down to a teddy, stockings and garter belt, then down to just her high heels! I remember how hot she looked bent over and rubbing her fingers against herself. About 15 years late I STILL think about that video. But it's one thing to think and another one to act on it.

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A male reader, Rand0 United Kingdom +, writes (22 August 2009):

I don't know how to solve your problem for you, but I will say this. 99% of the answers on this page won't apply to you, some are retarded, but many more are misguided well meaning sentiments.

If I were in your position, I would try absolutely as hard as I could a) to not masturbate over pictures of my mother, and if that means not masturbating at all, then so be it.

b) Finding someone, (anyone) to start having regular sex sessions with, and if you can't find anyone, then definitely find a councillor.

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A male reader, Main Man United Kingdom +, writes (29 April 2009):

Main Man agony auntHi

You can fantasize about having sex with your mother. Really you should find yourself a girlfriend. If you still have the fantasy to have sex with your mother just make a pass her & tell that is a fantasy that you have you never she make it come true for you.

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A male reader, JTalbott United States +, writes (24 May 2008):

JTalbott agony auntEven though you may not see it that way, what you saw was traumatic to you. Your fantasy is a way of self-regulating that trauma.

Talking with a therapist may help you gain some perspective and keep you from developing an acting out pattern that will affect you for a lifetime.

Take care of yourself. Do it for your future.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008):

Nothing wrong with lusting after you mom, IMO. I know I got the hotties for mine, as well (but I know nothing will ever happen). =D

If you personally want something to happen, at least wait a few more years ... when you've matured a bit and you still want to act on it, well ... go ahead and try ... but beware that it __may__ totally go wrong in the worst way.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008):

there is no wrong,this is just psycology of man it is not a sin its normal

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A male reader, kingbill08 United States +, writes (30 March 2008):

bro i fantasize about having sex with my mom to my mom is so sexy she has big boobs a nice ass (even though gravivity has taken its course over the years)she is still very attractive to me i can see the most beautiful woman in the world but i still can't shake that thought in my head of my mother espacaily when she's drunk if i see my mom drunk my dick will get so hard the drunker she is the harder it gets and the thing about is i am a very attractive guy believe it or not i have no problem getting a nice looking woman but for whatever reason my mom is like my dream woman she is 58 i am 23

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008):

I fantasized over my mom for years. Then one night she walked in my room and found me masturbating over pictures of her. It was akward at first. That was 9 years ago and she and I have a great relationship. I am 28 and she is a very hot and sexy 44. Good luck with your mom.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2008):

i can feel for you,and wish you all the luck in the world.the same thing happened with me,only i did not have to wait so long.as i was putting her panties on one day when i was 15 yrs.old she came home from work early and i got caught.i was in her bedroom and i never heard her come in.i had been crosdressing since about ten yearsl old.i had an erection and mother noticed it right away.i was very embarrased and did not know what to say.of course she suspected my crossdressing she told me.i had been fantisising about sex with mom for about a year.well this was my lucky day.to make a long story short i slept with my mother that evening and she showed me the wanders of sex.not only that evening but for the next ten years we were lovers,and occasionally after that.i dont care what people think,there is no one in the world that is more loving,kind and gentle than your mother.and oh yes she dressed me as a girl whenever i wanted.do not be afraid at least talk to your mother.i am sure she will be kind and understanding even if you do get the most wonderful prize in the world.good luck...GERI.

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A male reader, june Canada +, writes (11 January 2008):

:)

hello there!

your mother's just out of panties.

just buy her some.

give her a gift. lol

Anyways, here's the real deal... You go out and love the life that you have. For sure you are a good looking guy and there are nice hottie chicks outhere.

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A male reader, ukguy United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2007):

It is normal to have sexual fantasies about your Mother, I have done it myself, but keep it to yourself and don't act on it as that would wrong. Hope that helps.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007):

Well.. heres the thing.. It's not normal, but it's not insanity.. it's all about your general way of growing up.. It can also be raging hormones... The rage can become so strong that you fantasize about her, ESPECIALLY if shes the only female around and shes attractive that can increase the chances of the fantasy.. I agree with what that one girl said about "doing something so socially unacceptable" but.. I REALLY know where you're coming from, many things attach themselves to the fantasy.. the hormones and the thoughts are so strong, your morals fly out the window.. The fact that she is older and more experienced is a turn on, and the whole idea that she would do it is a turn "as in" "socially unacceptable", but in your case.. yeah don't act on this.. chances are she will not give you the results you are looking for and if SHE DID.. it would make you feel weird around her for the rest of the life and would more than likely become a habit.. My Mother told me it wasnt VERY normal but it is normal.. If you realize something.. once you have ejaculated.. the fantasy of your mom becomes disgusting.. WHY? because your hormones are released.. its no longer appealing, but if you seen Scartlett Johannsson naked you'd freak out.. BUT if you do EJACULATE or CLIMAX.. and still have strong feelings at that time for your Mom, it sounds as thought it was went overboard.. which means as far as THAT SEXUAL FANTASY... you are not mentally stable.. you should seek assistance.. because eventually they will be too strong and you will try to act on it and it may cause WICKID Family Disaster.. and ruined relationships.. Anyways, that's all.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007):

I understand where you're coming from. While not normal/common, more men than you would expect share this desire. This is probably the most taboo act that a man can do, thus the idea is powerfully erotic. However, the actual act would be sure to fall far from your expectations. Don't even try, because the mere suggestion could do irreparable harm to your relationship with your mom. She will feel that you are disrespecting her and trating her like an object instead of a person.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007):

You talk as if it was a real possibility. Why on Earth would your mother want or need that kind of interaction with his son? Obviously she'll freak out and maybe kick you out of the house. Anyway you don't live there. Why would you think someone here is going to support you on this rotten fantasy of yours? Us agony aunts are not that perverted. Anything you do for 21 days will become a habit. It's only your job to detangle form this mental mess you got yourself into.

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A female reader, drunkskunk United States +, writes (24 October 2007):

Why wasn't she wearing draws? Get yourself a little nookie from someone and fast and you will continue to search for your next high and forget abouy where it all started.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007):

i remember this question i didn't answer it though as i really didn't know what to say. All i can say is try and find a gf if you don't already have one or try and find something that you hate(in the sexual way) about your mum, like just imagine she was 20 yrs olds n all wrinkly n stuff(no offense to old people)Either that or go and see a specialist but do not tell her you don't wanna make your mum not wanna see you again do you. I honestly think your disgusting for thinking about this for all this time but at the same time i can understand it might be hard to stop, as i'm not a man i don't know how a man's mind works if they have such a thing but if it's taking over try my two suggestion or whatever other people say that you think is best.

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A male reader, Asexy United States +, writes (24 October 2007):

Asexy agony auntTry to focus on girls your own age. You should be able to redirect your fantasies that way. Maybe once you see another girl "in the flesh" you'll be able to redirect what excites you.

If not, I recommend talking to a trained therapist. This fascination isn't healthy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007):

Forget about it!!! It is just a stage you are going through! It is one thing to think about it, but never ever do it, you will regret it for the rest of your life. Whenever you go around, get that silly tune out of your head and stop looking at her in that way. Grow up! If these thoughts dont go away then see your doctor about therapy!

take care

xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007):

Okay, firstly I think these feelings you have for your mum may be displaced emotions, maybe because you've not had a close relationship with a female, you're mistaking the closeness you get with her for sexual feelings. Secondly, the thought of a taboo excites most people, so it's not your mum you fancy, just the thought of doing something so socially unacceptable excites you. I think you need to talk to somebody professional about these feelings, I'm sure they will quickly be absolved. Best of luck

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A female reader, Love_is_all_youu_need United Kingdom +, writes (24 October 2007):

Love_is_all_youu_need agony auntForbidden Love, We've all been there. I thought being attracted to a sibling was weird enough...But your OWN mother!!! It's beyond me how you feel this way about her... Usually i'd say just not to act on your feelings. But as the previous aunt wrote, you need therapy lad! It's just not normal.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (24 October 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntGood lord you are one sick little puppy. Three words therapy, therapy and therapy.

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A female reader, lilgirly Lebanon +, writes (24 October 2007):

lilgirly agony auntdamn!!! u have got to see profetional help!don't have intercource with ur mum cz that might ruin ur life cz u will be the weirdo of the year!!! plz u need help

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