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writes:recently my freinds have been kinda of mean to me yet i have done nothing wrong to them its not all my freinds just a few.about three weeks ago my freind said the boy i like will say i am ugly. (all my other freinds said it was jelousy)2.on thursday my freind said i will never get pregnante because i will never reach puberty (wrong i have a period and all the other changes )3. i was told today a few weeks back a boy on the bus asked two of my freinds (not close ones ) what do i look like ? they apprently burst out laughing i have no idea why when one of then said i will be stunning by the end of my puberty.are my freinds lying to me or just being plain old mean ? i have done nothing to them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): Hi
I am 14 and i know exactly how you feel, i had one best friend and then this other girl came into the picture and for a while we go along, but this girl stole my best friend away without me even relising it. They used to go round to each others houses to talk about me and turned everone they could against me. Strangly instead of talking to them bout it, i just let them treat me like that and i sucked up to them in hope that they would like me more. I talked to my twin about it which was the best thing i did cos she made me see that i didnt need friends like that and i should care whether they like me or not cos there not worth it. (I hope i havnt put you to sleep by this point!) Anyway so i decided to talk to them bout it and the only reason they were doing all this horrible stuff to me was cos they were jelous because i was friends with the guys and they accused me of flirting with them all the time. The friends you have wrote about sound exactlly the same. The was they say stuff about boys seems like they are trying to knock you self confidence and the stuff about not ever getting pregnant is probebly trying to make you more self concious bout ure body. I wouldnt listen to them because soon pepople are gona find out what there like and by the sound of it you would be better off without them x
Sorry this is so long by the way!
Katie
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need +, writes (29 January 2008):
 Omg your 'friends' are awful, how do you cope with them treating you like that? Must be hard for you :(
If I were you, I wouldn't stand for that. There's nothing worse than being in the wrong crowd! Try stick up for yourself, tell them to stop being mean to you but if they continue wiv their rude comments then you should start hanging around wiv some other people, Have you got another group of friends you can latch onto? If so, I wouldn't hesitate to leave that nasty gang behind!
Don't listen to them, I bet they're just jealous because you're prettier than them. It sounds stupid, but some people really are pathetic!
All the best xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2008): Kid. Choose your friends more wisely.These people are what we call 'Leeches'. Meaning they hang around, act all nice and stuff but are actually slowly sucking the life from you. Destroying your self-esteem in the process.The only cure is to cut them off. I don't condone vengeance on a trully terrible scale, but some public humiliation might do them the world of good.So go ask they boy you like out, be prepared for if he rejects you and don't talk to said Leeches about anything, not even plans... this way they won't know who you like and cannot sabotage things.Good luck and please choose friends wisely.Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2008): Just ignore them, and I don't really think they are your friends. They sound like they don't really care about you so if I was you I'd let them go. You deserve better friends and not just buttheads who are insecure with themselves so they need to come and make fun of you.
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