He treats me like a princess but sleeps with other women..should I leave him??
Q. He's much older than me with the age of my dad and treats so well like a princess. He cares about me and calls me regularly every week. BUT He has sex with other women which I can not stand at all. Should I just leave him? P.S. He really t...
A. 11 July 2010: hes not showing you any respect by saying he cares for you calls you and sleeps with you but then goes sleeping with other women thats not fair on anyone,your obviously not happy and i wouldnt be either i would just walk away ... (read in full...)
He tells me he'll kill me if I leave him
Q. Yesterday was my b-day and I went out with my girls after while we went back over to where my car was and jumped in the vam (that I gave my fiance)as I'm getting in I reach in the side pocket and pull out (5) condoms you can tell it was a(6) pack ...
A. 11 July 2010: how horrible get a restraining order if you have to looks like he wants to go cheat and do things he wants with out thinking about you... (read in full...)
Found items which may mean my husband is masturbating, he denies it, what do you think??
Q. please help me, about 3 months ago i found two socks under our bed with what looks a lot like semen stains i questioned him about it he said its not semen! and the other day i found another one screwed up in the wardrobe which again looks like dried ...
A. 9 July 2010: excuse me i asked for adice not a lecture, ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to be this ready or is it just that I'm more mature than most females my age?
Q. Hi, My boyfriend and I have been talking for about 19 months but we've only officially been dating for 14 of those months. He's 20 and I'll be 19 in September but neither of our families has a problem with us being together. We've had our ups and ...
A. 9 July 2010: its nice to think your be together for ever but sometimes that doesent happen for many reasons., if you are going to college to study i would wait for the baby part, you mat feel ready and yes you probaly are but think first,its not up to anyone to ... (read in full...)
Does it bother guys if you havent been kissed yet?
Q. im just wondering but do guys get repulsed when girls havent been kissed before??...
A. 9 July 2010: no dont think so at all i think they would be proud to of kissed you first... (read in full...)
During sex wife called out ex-boyfriends name
Q. how can I trust my wife, during sex she call me one of his ex-boy friend name. can i trust her any more ...
A. 9 July 2010: honestly i would be upset by that if my man called out his exes name id be furios weather or not he meant to, or was thinkingabout her or not that is offending but on the other hand have you got doubts ?... (read in full...)
If he's over his ex shouldn't he be able to forgive and move on?
Q. Hi there, I have been wondering lately whether my boyfriend is truly over his ex. She cheated on him several times and they had a bad break up. they were together for five years and we got together less than a year after they split up. she me...
A. 9 July 2010: honestly...some people can not forgive and forget when they have been hurt by someone they loved or cared bout, ... (read in full...)
It concerns me that deep down he wants to be with other people...
Q. Here's the deal.. my boyfriend keeps hinting about how he thinks it's fine for girls and guys to be "friends". I get that, I understand that, I know it's healthy for a relationship. But.. here's my problem ... he only has one male friend and the ...
A. 9 July 2010: i can see your concern,i so understand were you are coming from, hes got no respect for you at all, i know people have friends male and female but to say hes actually been with them ect would deffo ring the alarm bells if hes wanting to still hang ... (read in full...)
How do I react to his comments about relationships???
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half now. We've been long distance this whole time, but we talk every day. We've had some issues in our relationship. He's cheated on me before, and has told me that he has thought about ...
A. 9 July 2010: he doesent seem to be bothered about anything you say or your feelings,hes being very selfish, id say walk away have a happy life with someone that really does care about you, not just himself... (read in full...)
What is so special to women about having a baby?
Q. [OP's original title] You're all not going to like this...But I am a guy and I don't think there is anything special about having kids. I had a vasectomy years ago, and there's some lunatic woman I've met, who I'm having it off with, who wants a baby...
A. 8 July 2010: men do not have it easier than women,where are you coming from on this, women feel the need to be a mother,its natures way for a women,to feel that life growing inside to feel that ultimate loveand affection for her unborn child, its the most ... (read in full...)
How do I stop looking like a fool and get over this man?
Q. hello all, My boyfriend of 4 months has got back with his ex without even telling me. His sister had to tell me, I hadnt heard from him for a week, and now I find out he is gonna try and make it work for the sake of his children. Im gobs...
A. 8 July 2010: id say dont have contact at all,he thinks he can just walk in and out of your life thats not right,... (read in full...)
Should I have been stronger and left my cheating husband?
Q. i have been with my husband for 8 yrs... we were high school sweet hearts, i was only 14 when we got together. he said all the right things and did all the right things, so we've been together ever since. now the yrs have passed and our 5th yr ...
A. 8 July 2010: why because you was scared of being alone? rejected? not loved? or you was just so in love you thought you could get over this, obviously this is still affecting you and rightly so, he cheated and lied, trust is very hard to win back, i can honestly ... (read in full...)
Sex is leaving me in a lot of pain ..
Q. hey, im 16 and iv been withmy boyfriend for about 6 months. we do have sexual intercorse and started about 5 months ago. when we first started having sex i was fine i could do it with him all the time, but then i stopped taking the pill because i l...
A. 8 July 2010: right first off please start taking the pill or use condoms you really dont want any unwanted pregnancies, are you relaxed enough during sexual intercourse? i would say try using a lubricant you can get it in the chemist it could be about dryness ... (read in full...)
I couldn't help probe about her sexual past, but I wish she wouldn't have been so honest!!!
Q. Ok here's my problem. My gf and I have been dating for a little over a year now, at the begining of the relationship I asked the inevitable question " how many men have you slept with"?. She asked me to answer the question first, I told her 80 women ...
A. 8 July 2010: im the same my boyfriends past haunts me every day and i know this sounds silly i wish i could change it,but we cant we have to deal with it, its hard dealing with this when you love someone so much and can make you feel very insecure but as i try ... (read in full...)
I broke up with him but I miss him!
Q. Ok so after 3 years we broke up.. Its hard to let him go I sometimes miss him but deep down I no it was for the best.. I got fed up with the fact that he changed and didn't have time for me anymore I tried so hard to work us out and maybe I did few ...
A. 7 July 2010: you have obviously still got many feelings for him but hes shown you lack of respect, im sure if its the other way round he wouldnt like it at all, i would say dont consider getting back with him unless he really feels the same about you and if you ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant? I'm afraid to ask my mother!
Q. Hi. My name is Quinn and i have been experiancing some weird things. I have been to many websites and nothing has helped. Could you please help me? Okay so this is what's happeneing, I have missed my period for 1 month and 1/2... but i have NOT h...
A. 7 July 2010: no your not pregnant if you havent had sex, it sounds just all hormonal which is your age... (read in full...)
What did you do when he cheated? Was I being too dramatic?
Q. My boyfriend came home one night and told me he had something to tell me. He'd been partying with some coworkers and had kissed one of them. I stayed calm. I didn't get mad. I tried really hard to be understanding. I just asked him if he still ...
A. 7 July 2010: you are a very brave understanding woman, i admire you, i too was cheated on, im 30 now but firstly i was married had children was happy for 11 years, i left him for someone i knew from school told me he always fancied me wanted me, would take on ... (read in full...)
When is it my time to cheat?
Q. I want to know when is it my time to cheat? I've had plenty of oppertunity to sleep with some broad. My girl admitted to sleeping with someone i confided in. I wuz out of town when this happened and i'm still pissed. I feel like sleeping with her ...
A. 7 July 2010: if you go and cheat then you would be as bad as her, instead of playing games why dont you either get on with your relation ship or just walk away instead of cheating... (read in full...)
My 18 year old son is dating someone my age!!
Q. My 18 year old son has started dating a 35 year old woman, which is my age, I am having alot of different feeings, from near break down to breaking her in half. I don't want to do the wrong thing and push him closer to her. I can't imagine dating ...
A. 7 July 2010: please try and be calm about this, i know its hard for some people to cope with this but it is his choice, im 30 have 4 kids was married for 12 yrs i have now devorced and have met someone else he is only 23 the same age as my nephew when i look at ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend ignores me, should I just break up with him?
Q. My boyfriend neglects me. He ignores me on facebook and doesnt reply to my texts ALOT. He always gives stupid excuses which I find hard to believe. I still love him and I'm willing to give him a second chance. Thing is, he hasn't asked for it. ...
A. 7 July 2010: breaking up with him is really your choice! but be sure its what you want, but on the other hand if hes ignoring you he doesent seem to be very interested. and if you think hes lying to you then your probaly right ... (read in full...)
Is 8 years too big of a difference?
Q. Hello, all I want to know is if anyone thinks that 8 years is a big difference? I honestly don't think it is. But I'm 18 and I like a 26 year old who likes me back. I just wanna know if you think 8 years is too much....
A. 7 July 2010: no not at all, age is only a problem if you make it a problem , im 30 have got 4 children and have been married before for 12 yrs, since then im now with a 23 yr old, so theres 7 yrs difference there, my mum and her partner have 16 years between ... (read in full...)
My partner of 8 years just moved away.
Q. My off/on partner for the last 8 yrs has just moved far away and I am really depressed, I don't know what to do, can't stop crying. He wanted to try to stay together but I knew it wouldn't work and was only him needing security before he went. But ...
A. 6 July 2010: even though it hurts like mad you made the choice because you knew it wouldnt work which is the right choice,but right now its hurting like hell and theres not anything i can say to make that go away,but i can promise it will get easier every ... (read in full...)
I left my husband, but now the guy I had feelings for won't see me.
Q. I'm married (now separated). While still with my husband, I met a guy online who I knew years ago. We flirted with each other off and on for months. We didn't meet up because of my marriage. We still flirted and fantasized about being together. I ...
A. 6 July 2010: seems like hes taken a cowards way out,obviously he knew the situation with your marriage and knew you wasnt happy, looks like hes wooed you to get what he wanted and when you needed him even just as a friend he doesent want to know but is trying ... (read in full...)
Found items which may mean my husband is masturbating, he denies it, what do you think??
Q. please help me, about 3 months ago i found two socks under our bed with what looks a lot like semen stains i questioned him about it he said its not semen! and the other day i found another one screwed up in the wardrobe which again looks like dried ...
A. 6 July 2010: thankyou,for understanding how i am feeling, i am glad that thats all hes doing rather than cheating, we do have an amazing sex life which is why i find this a little hard to bare ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been chatting secretly to a girl, help!!
Q. My boyfriend of 10 months is very private about his emails and facebook, which is fine.... until I went on one of his friends facebook pages this morning and saw she had written "she would like to hop in the shower with a certain person". my ...
A. 6 July 2010: well first ask yourself do you know that hes had any contact with this girl at all? has he given you any reason to doubt him over this girl? im pretty much the same as you id just to the first conclsion strait away, but think logic first please does ... (read in full...)
Found items which may mean my husband is masturbating, he denies it, what do you think??
Q. please help me, about 3 months ago i found two socks under our bed with what looks a lot like semen stains i questioned him about it he said its not semen! and the other day i found another one screwed up in the wardrobe which again looks like dried ...
A. 6 July 2010: to be honest i feel a bit offended by it i dont know why ... (read in full...)
I just found out my bf was married but separated, yet JUST signed divorce papers!
Q. Before anyone makes any assumptions, here's the background story: I've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years. The first few months he lived at home with his parents to catch up on debts. I would stay over all the time, and no one in his famil...
A. 6 July 2010: to be honest in any situation he SHOULD of told you he was married before,, question is why didnt he? thing is he obviously loves you and you have made a family for yourselves so he should of been open and honest,i would be totally hurt discusted ... (read in full...)
Love? Infatuation? Lust? Help me!
Q. Hi, I am studying in college and I have a problem. I am attracted to a teaching assistant in my college. She is 23 and very beautiful and has a great body. I know she likes me as we have talked a lot and sometimes when I have flirted with her...
A. 6 July 2010: i think your just infatuated with her maybe because sheis there for you as a good friend as well as a teaching assistant,i think your reading to much into this i think you should try and cool it a bit to be honest, ... (read in full...)
Is it right for a boyfriend to say that he should always be your top priority?
Q. I'd like your opinions about this. Is it right for a boyfriend to say that he should always be your top priority, meaning even more important than your friends and family, e.t.c ?. Personally, i think everyone should be treated equally. i dont think ...
A. 6 July 2010: no hes being very selfish, but on the other hand he could be feeling insecure, no boyfriend should think there top dog n should come first in everything, ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for males to like this stimulation?
Q. Hi! :) .. I have a really very strange question to ask.. Yesterday morning my bf and I were having sex, the first time in 2 weeks that we have had proper intercourse. Although the strangest thing happened about a year ago he bought me a vibrator, ...
A. 6 July 2010: i think its no different to him doing it to you its very pleasurable, if you feel comfortable doing it then give it a try im sure hed let you know if he doesent enjoy it,... (read in full...)
When will be the right time to get our relationship out into the open?
Q. hey, when i was 12 i met my boyfriend, he was 15 at the time, we went out secretly with only a few of our friends knowing, now i'm 16 and he is 19 and we are still secretly going out, firstly, is it wrong for me to go out with someone 3 years older? ...
A. 6 July 2010: well you really must like eachother to of been together this long,your young but head strong,if you love eachother dont keep it secret let it out and show the world your serious about going out together, you dont have to tell people its been secret ... (read in full...)
I have been waiting 17 months for him to leave his partner and move in with me!
Q. Well I'm in great need of help and advise, I'm 23 I have a good job and my own place, here's where the problem starts.. I have been seein this guy now for 17 month he's 10 years older than me but he acts the same age we get on so well when we're ...
A. 6 July 2010: hunny he wont leave her hes using you for all the things you give him, hes getting what he wants from both sides,as for him to tell you to abort your baby well thats shouting it out he didnt want any commitments because to be honest he doesent know ... (read in full...)
Could I be a couple months pregnant and not know it?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for about 7 months now, and have been sexually active. this is my first month off the pill after being on it for 3 months, and since i went on the pill, we have not been using protection. i have been really ...
A. 6 July 2010: i think the symptomsyour having could just be because of not taking the pill as it can play havoc with ur emotions make you tired ect,but to be safe id say do a test even if your period comes tomorrow especially ifits lighter than normalbecause yes ... (read in full...)
Someone please help me with my husband!
Q. [Mod note: Combined two questions as they are both about the same marriage.] i am a 22 year old mother of two i have been married to my husband for over a year now we have dated since high school for the past eight years.in 2007 he gotten inca...
A. 6 July 2010: i would say nomatter the love you may have for him hes obviously not showing anything back to you, hes got no respect for you at all, he thinks he can come n go as he pleases its not fair obviously his mates have given you a lot of doubt in your ... (read in full...)
I really don't know if I want the truth because then our relationship has been built on decite and lies.
Q. I have been married for a long time and I believe we love each other. My wife claims she only had one sexual relationship before me but it was multiple times. I had to learn this from friends before I confronted her and she admitted it to be true. I ...
A. 6 July 2010: im in the same situation were my boyfriend of 18 mths lied about who he had actually had sex with but not the amount of people even though i feel discusted about that too,,he lied to me time after time about two girls inparticular untilli found out ... (read in full...)
Help! I don't want to be a pscyho gf!
Q. Hello, I have been daatingmy boyfriend how's in the military for almost two years. About a year ago I found some stuff that I thought to be unfaithful. (in my book) 1. He was texting another female friend (that he had already revealed to me th...
A. 5 July 2010: hun i feel for you,to feelyou cant trust your boyfriend is not a nice thing to have to go through every day,especially as you love him so much and want things to work, i wanna say when i read your story ie now! it sounded much like me,im 30 and my ... (read in full...)
Help!!! How can I control my panic attacks?
Q. I need help. I suffer from panic attacks, and i don't know how to control them. I worry a lot about death, i have a big fear of it. I get really scared when i think about what happens to your body when you die, and i feel like i can't breathe. I ...
A. 5 July 2010: hun thats a horrible way to feel, i think the fact you have had people in your life especially family members that have died at a young age is your fear, which would be anyones fear, i think maybe if you went to see your dr they could help you with ... (read in full...)
Her fooling around... Do I have the right to be angry?
Q. I just found out that my girl fooled around with this guy from work. We had known each other at the time but it was before we started dating. It just repulses me to know about it. He is a truly disgusting guy. She got checked for STDs because of him ...
A. 4 July 2010: wellthe answer is easy really u dont have a right to be angry really because it was before you but on the other hand i know from exsperience how much someones past can repulse you im the same with my boyfriend i thinkof him with someone else before ... (read in full...)
He cheated because he was drunk and I cant get over it!
Q. Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months...we started going out sept.7, 2009 and its now June.30, 2010... Back in Feburary he decided to throw a small party when his mother was away and get drunk...( one girl and 4 guys) well ...
A. 4 July 2010: hunny get rid hes not worth it no cheat is if he really loved you or thought anything of you at all he would never of even thought about cheating let alone do it! you deserve much better ... (read in full...)
Semen in his boxer shorts!
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 18 mths now he has lied about his past to me ie sexual partners ect, a few months back i found a pair of boxer shorts behind the tv unit in our bedroom with small semen stains in them, but just about a week later he ...
A. 2 July 2010: thanks you im glad i got other peoples views... (read in full...)
Semen in his boxer shorts!
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 18 mths now he has lied about his past to me ie sexual partners ect, a few months back i found a pair of boxer shorts behind the tv unit in our bedroom with small semen stains in them, but just about a week later he ...
A. 2 July 2010: thanks guys, but i know what your saying if hes cheating he aint gonna be leaving no semen, lol, in his underwear, but doesn't it still seep out after? mm yes... (read in full...)
Semen in his boxer shorts!
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 18 mths now he has lied about his past to me ie sexual partners ect, a few months back i found a pair of boxer shorts behind the tv unit in our bedroom with small semen stains in them, but just about a week later he ...
A. 2 July 2010: thanks to you all, weather he jerks himself off or not why not just admit it! rather than me thinking hes been else were and leaving his left over stains in his underware... (read in full...)
He cheated because he was drunk and I cant get over it!
Q. Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months...we started going out sept.7, 2009 and its now June.30, 2010... Back in Feburary he decided to throw a small party when his mother was away and get drunk...( one girl and 4 guys) well ...
A. 1 July 2010: hun sorry but no dont trust someone that has cheated on you it will always affect your relationship, your be wondering if hes doing it again,and to be honest he will do it again, he doesent sound very sorry for what he has done and if he loved you ... (read in full...)
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